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It's the psychological aspect of it for women that do like it. It's not something that gives them a hardcore physical or emotional sensation. It's in part the role reversal, in part the enjoyment of giving such intense pleasure.
I'm not generalising. I'm sharing feedback from me as a peggee and a partner who's been a willing deliverer. |
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"But is it the dominance over the man? What is she getting out of it that turns her on so much? X"
I am not dominant... I like pegging men that don't want to submit but want me to fuck their arse... There is no bigger turn on than turning someone else on, so... |
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Ariel just to be clear I am not knocking it , nor anyone that partakes , I have a woman friend who has been trying to persuade me etc and I’m curious is all , it’s a side that’s quite new to me and I would of hoped this was a comfortable place to discuss |
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"But is it the dominance over the man? What is she getting out of it that turns her on so much? X"
You could equally ask yourself why would a man go down on a woman for ages, or any other act . Because she likes it and it makes her cum?
There's no need to overanalyse things people do together. |
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"Ariel just to be clear I am not knocking it , nor anyone that partakes , I have a woman friend who has been trying to persuade me etc and I’m curious is all , it’s a side that’s quite new to me and I would of hoped this was a comfortable place to discuss "
If you have a woman friend who's into it, go with it mate. Enjoy it and ride it and don't get hung up on the whys and wherefores. You're getting something offered freely that most men have to pay for if they want it. |
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"Ariel just to be clear I am not knocking it , nor anyone that partakes , I have a woman friend who has been trying to persuade me etc and I’m curious is all , it’s a side that’s quite new to me and I would of hoped this was a comfortable place to discuss "
It is.. But if you don't get it and it's not for you, that's fine... I have done this with a few men because they enjoyed it or were curious about it... I would never try and convince someone to do it the same as I would never expect someone else to try and convince me to do anything... We all come to find our own way, in our own time time... If it's not something you want that would be the end of it for me, unless you did change your mind, then it's your pace... And it's not for everyone  |
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But if you can tell yourself honestly you don't want it, say so. To her. Nobody should have to do anything they don't want.
If you're curious, just try it. You might get hooked, you might hate it, but unless you've done it you're never gonna know. |
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"Ariel just to be clear I am not knocking it , nor anyone that partakes , I have a woman friend who has been trying to persuade me etc and I’m curious is all , it’s a side that’s quite new to me and I would of hoped this was a comfortable place to discuss
It is.. But if you don't get it and it's not for you, that's fine... I have done this with a few men because they enjoyed it or were curious about it... I would never try and convince someone to do it the same as I would never expect someone else to try and convince me to do anything... We all come to find our own way, in our own time time... If it's not something you want that would be the end of it for me, unless you did change your mind, then it's your pace... And it's not for everyone "
 I’m on the fence hahah the woman in question seems more interested in my ass than anything else at the minute and she looks really turned on by it , I’m just trying to wrap my head around her thought process x |
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"Ariel just to be clear I am not knocking it , nor anyone that partakes , I have a woman friend who has been trying to persuade me etc and I’m curious is all , it’s a side that’s quite new to me and I would of hoped this was a comfortable place to discuss
It is.. But if you don't get it and it's not for you, that's fine... I have done this with a few men because they enjoyed it or were curious about it... I would never try and convince someone to do it the same as I would never expect someone else to try and convince me to do anything... We all come to find our own way, in our own time time... If it's not something you want that would be the end of it for me, unless you did change your mind, then it's your pace... And it's not for everyone
I’m on the fence hahah the woman in question seems more interested in my ass than anything else at the minute and she looks really turned on by it , I’m just trying to wrap my head around her thought process x"
I love a nice bum... My fwb has my favourite and I am obsessed with it... But he doesn't want anything up it so it never crosses my mind.. Tbh I find that thought process a little off... But ya know |
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I really enjoy it. It feels a bit forbidden, and I like the role reversal aspect. Having said that, it's something I'd do with a partner, not to them. I need to know they're enjoying it. |
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