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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE 
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank 
Claire xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx"
Only comeback is “And your point is”?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx"
Swinging..... When the sex with your partner is so adventurous that you both decide to share those adventures with one another and invite every fantasy possible into the bedroom! |
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I can see how close minded people who don’t understand swinging would think like that to be fair. I was that person once, probably still am a little bit but more because I don’t understand it or can’t understand it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Difference is we have full knowledge of what's going on, your Dave is shagging a girl called Sheila at the back of Tescos on his lunch break.
Rain it in Karen 
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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx"
We thought it was when Sex with ur other half was so good??!!! |
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx"
How about “Monogamy - the inability to think for yourself and rely on a book written by men over 70 that weren’t allowed to have sex” |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Difference is we have full knowledge of what's going on, your Dave is shagging a girl called Sheila at the back of Tescos on his lunch break.
Rain it in Karen
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Offtttt I like ya style  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx
Swinging..... When the sex with your partner is so adventurous that you both decide to share those adventures with one another and invite every fantasy possible into the bedroom! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO WONDROUS AND BOUNTIFUL THAT YOU BOTH CAN’T CONTAIN IT WITHIN YOURSELVES AND NEED TO SHARE THE JOY.
Corny but what I would imagine it to be. |
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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago
quite close to you |
"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Seeing as I’ve been a ‘Bull’ too many couples; the author might have a point.
But it’s not worth responding to - just scroll past.
Claire xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx"
It's true though you not satisfied with your partners so your spicing your relationship up |
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx
It's true though you not satisfied with your partners so your spicing your relationship up "
It’s a difficult one because we all think differently. Whenever I’ve been in happy relationships I’ve never even thought of bringing someone else into it or seeing other people. I’ve always been quite happy and satisfied with that person. Like I’ve said before it’s something I struggle to get my head around but different strokes for different folks x |
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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago
Near Bath / Bristol |
"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx"
If you need to ask for your come back then the sex was definitely shit. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx
It's true though you not satisfied with your partners so your spicing your relationship up
It’s a difficult one because we all think differently. Whenever I’ve been in happy relationships I’ve never even thought of bringing someone else into it or seeing other people. I’ve always been quite happy and satisfied with that person. Like I’ve said before it’s something I struggle to get my head around but different strokes for different folks x"
That’s because you’re monogamous at heart and not a swinger, that’s not an insult, just how it is.
Swinging is a different mindset, it’s not that you’re not satisfied with your partner, it’s about sharing and enjoying other experiences. The thrill that you get from meeting people? That’s multiplied with a swinging partner |
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Not all swingers do it for the same reasons and not all swingers do it the same way.
For us (and this may offend some) swinging is the same as sex toys, it's like a fun extension to our sex lives, that we can use when we feel like it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not something I understand so can’t offer any kind of retort.
To me it’s like yeah I love my boyfriend soooo much that I want to watch him have sex with another woman  That’s not a sentence you’d ever hear me say, then on the flip side, if my boyfriend said he wanted to watch me get fucked by another guy I’d think that he couldn’t like me that much. So yeah, not something I can get my head round. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx
It's true though you not satisfied with your partners so your spicing your relationship up
It’s a difficult one because we all think differently. Whenever I’ve been in happy relationships I’ve never even thought of bringing someone else into it or seeing other people. I’ve always been quite happy and satisfied with that person. Like I’ve said before it’s something I struggle to get my head around but different strokes for different folks x
That’s because you’re monogamous at heart and not a swinger, that’s not an insult, just how it is.
Swinging is a different mindset, it’s not that you’re not satisfied with your partner, it’s about sharing and enjoying other experiences. The thrill that you get from meeting people? That’s multiplied with a swinging partner"
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s not something I understand so can’t offer any kind of retort.
To me it’s like yeah I love my boyfriend soooo much that I want to watch him have sex with another woman That’s not a sentence you’d ever hear me say, then on the flip side, if my boyfriend said he wanted to watch me get fucked by another guy I’d think that he couldn’t like me that much. So yeah, not something I can get my head round. "
Love doesn't come Into it in the mindset of a true swinging couple. It's a sexual excitement thrill, we separate love between ourselves and sex with others, it's not the same thing |
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx
It's true though you not satisfied with your partners so your spicing your relationship up
It’s a difficult one because we all think differently. Whenever I’ve been in happy relationships I’ve never even thought of bringing someone else into it or seeing other people. I’ve always been quite happy and satisfied with that person. Like I’ve said before it’s something I struggle to get my head around but different strokes for different folks x
That’s because you’re monogamous at heart and not a swinger, that’s not an insult, just how it is.
Swinging is a different mindset, it’s not that you’re not satisfied with your partner, it’s about sharing and enjoying other experiences. The thrill that you get from meeting people? That’s multiplied with a swinging partner"
Oh I know. And yes I am. I get it’s a different mindset and I get why people do it. It’s my mind that can’t understand it. I’d never be able to do it. I’m talking about someone I love here though. I can do ffm etc with a fwb no problem. With a husband/someone I loved then no I can’t x |
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx"
I just laugh when anyone says something like this. You either get it or you don't. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx
It's true though you not satisfied with your partners so your spicing your relationship up
It’s a difficult one because we all think differently. Whenever I’ve been in happy relationships I’ve never even thought of bringing someone else into it or seeing other people. I’ve always been quite happy and satisfied with that person. Like I’ve said before it’s something I struggle to get my head around but different strokes for different folks x
That’s because you’re monogamous at heart and not a swinger, that’s not an insult, just how it is.
Swinging is a different mindset, it’s not that you’re not satisfied with your partner, it’s about sharing and enjoying other experiences. The thrill that you get from meeting people? That’s multiplied with a swinging partner
Oh I know. And yes I am. I get it’s a different mindset and I get why people do it. It’s my mind that can’t understand it. I’d never be able to do it. I’m talking about someone I love here though. I can do ffm etc with a fwb no problem. With a husband/someone I loved then no I can’t x"
I understand you. I thought you meant that you didn’t understand not that you didn’t compute.
It’s a line between sex and love. You have sex with the person that you love but you don’t love everyone that you have sex with. It’s the physical act of pleasure with others but that enhances the relationship with your partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is true for some, not true for others. Just like everything in life. There's no one answer. The only comeback is to know yourself and your reasons, walk away and leave them to their opinions. Thinking about this is taking up time you could be using to wank over the amazing swinging sex you have had |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx
I just laugh when anyone says something like this. You either get it or you don't."
Agree, I'll show some compassion for their vanilla marriage while they are mocking my fab marriage |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s also pointless trying to put the other camp down cos then you’re just as bad as the person doing the mocking.
Neither set up is the correct one and neither set up is the wrong one. If it works for that particular couple then it works.
Swingers can’t use the argument that their sex life is better cos they swing and have sex with multiple people, and monogamous people can’t say that their sex life is better because they are satisfied with only sleeping with each other. It’s whatever set up works for those particular individuals.
Now where the fuck is the real AnnieWilkes. This seems like an imposter. |
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx
I just laugh when anyone says something like this. You either get it or you don't.
Agree, I'll show some compassion for their vanilla marriage while they are mocking my fab marriage "
I'm happy to just live and let live really |
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I figure this statment comes for either
A: someone who doesn't understand it.
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B: they do understand and are gutted their can't endeavour on the same adventure with the one person that is supposed to be their soul mate who they share everything with including the deepest parts of their sexual desires.
Feel sorry for both camps (especially B). At the end of the day we love what we do on here and (most of us) are proud of it. It's probably best not going round and round in circles arguing the toss we people too ignorant to understand or people too bitter acknowledge their wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s also pointless trying to put the other camp down cos then you’re just as bad as the person doing the mocking.
Neither set up is the correct one and neither set up is the wrong one. If it works for that particular couple then it works.
Swingers can’t use the argument that their sex life is better cos they swing and have sex with multiple people, and monogamous people can’t say that their sex life is better because they are satisfied with only sleeping with each other. It’s whatever set up works for those particular individuals.
Now where the fuck is the real AnnieWilkes. This seems like an imposter. "
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx"
Shit talking swingers
When your idea of kink is leaving your socks on |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It’s also pointless trying to put the other camp down cos then you’re just as bad as the person doing the mocking.
Neither set up is the correct one and neither set up is the wrong one. If it works for that particular couple then it works.
Swingers can’t use the argument that their sex life is better cos they swing and have sex with multiple people, and monogamous people can’t say that their sex life is better because they are satisfied with only sleeping with each other. It’s whatever set up works for those particular individuals.
Now where the fuck is the real AnnieWilkes. This seems like an imposter. "
I had to double check this was you. Brilliantly put. |
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All relationships are unique and what works for one won't neccersarily work for another. People's reasons for doing it are all different too. I always feel lucky that I am in a relationship where I can be honest enough to say that what we have is great but actually I'd like to have some different experiences with different people and share them together. Most people arn't so lucky.
I do get sick of the mocking though. It seems swinging is about the only thing where it is still sociably acceptable to judge and joke about.
Kx |
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"Just read on another social media site.....
SWINGING, WHEN SEX WITH YOUR OTHER HALF IS SO SHIT YOU BOTH HAVE TO GET IT ELSEWHERE
Can I have some comebacks please my mind has gone to a whole never level of blank
Claire xx"
That's not swinging, that's adultery.
Not an obvious distinction to the unenlightened. |
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