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When I look at some single people’s pics with other people in them. A lot of the time the pics look like they are taken from above quite far away. Makes me think is there a camera in there they don’t know about? Do they know they are on websites (often faces too)? So my question is if you meet for NSA/one offs would you go to someone’s house trusting they don’t have hidden cameras set up? |
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over a year ago
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Call me paranoid but when someone insists to meet at their place only, my mind immediately goes to hidden camera set up. That's why I'll always meet at a hotel on mutual ground. |
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"Never thought about it.
Until now  "
It had crossed my mind before but I saw a few like this this morning on updates (including faces) looked like it was taken from the corner of the room. Just made me think x |
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"Call me paranoid but when someone insists to meet at their place only, my mind immediately goes to hidden camera set up. That's why I'll always meet at a hotel on mutual ground."
Yes me too. It has crossed my mind before x |
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If people are doing that it's terrible! The only picture I have featuring another person is a long term partner, uploaded with his consent and the picture is very clearly taken by him.
I can't say I've ever worried about hidden cameras but I'd probably be too much hard work for someone wanting to just film it then ditch me  . |
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"If people are doing that it's terrible! The only picture I have featuring another person is a long term partner, uploaded with his consent and the picture is very clearly taken by him.
I can't say I've ever worried about hidden cameras but I'd probably be too much hard work for someone wanting to just film it then ditch me . "
I probably overthink too much. I guess it is possible though x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've never really thought about hidden cameras too much, rather naive? Possibly. Sometimes I'm not sure if photos are posted with consent - a slightly blurred face doesn't really hide who someone is. |
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"I've never really thought about hidden cameras too much, rather naive? Possibly. Sometimes I'm not sure if photos are posted with consent - a slightly blurred face doesn't really hide who someone is. "
True. I wonder should other people be allowed in pics on single profiles? |
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"Even in a hotel or AirBnB cameras can be hidden before you get to the room.
That phone over their propped up on the side or in a coat pocket - is it on?
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Oh yeah definitely. I’ve thought of that too . |
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over a year ago
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I'd never do it but it's madness that this is something which has to be considered 
For me, it would be more enjoyable to have the other person's consent and have them into it as well but of course not everyone thinks like that |
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"I'd never do it but it's madness that this is something which has to be considered
For me, it would be more enjoyable to have the other person's consent and have them into it as well but of course not everyone thinks like that "
Well yes of course. I’ve done pics and videos will people I really trust. That’s different x |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I've never really thought about hidden cameras too much, rather naive? Possibly. Sometimes I'm not sure if photos are posted with consent - a slightly blurred face doesn't really hide who someone is.
True. I wonder should other people be allowed in pics on single profiles?"
No, no they shouldn’t. Not unless you can confirm consent, which doesn’t happen |
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"I've never really thought about hidden cameras too much, rather naive? Possibly. Sometimes I'm not sure if photos are posted with consent - a slightly blurred face doesn't really hide who someone is.
True. I wonder should other people be allowed in pics on single profiles?
No, no they shouldn’t. Not unless you can confirm consent, which doesn’t happen"
I don’t like to see them anyway, it totally puts me off but yes I agree because of the consent issue x |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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It could happen anywhere, in hotel rooms, wherever. Cameras are small enough now that if someone wanted to, they could set one up.
The key point is probably, don’t meet any one that you don’t trust or know well enough to not do that. |
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I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.
Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage. |
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"It could happen anywhere, in hotel rooms, wherever. Cameras are small enough now that if someone wanted to, they could set one up.
The key point is probably, don’t meet any one that you don’t trust or know well enough to not do that. "
Yes exactly this. I don’t but I know a lot do on here. Scary stuff really! |
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"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.
Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage. "
I agree. It’s no extra work really as all pics have to be approved anyway x |
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The only pics we’ve taken with others we have been given permission. We’ve even included their name on the pic so we’ve got nothing to hide… 
I was lucky enough to be the cameraman…it was a tough job 
K |
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"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.
Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage. "
Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway . |
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"The only pics we’ve taken with others we have been given permission. We’ve even included their name on the pic so we’ve got nothing to hide…
I was lucky enough to be the cameraman…it was a tough job
K"
Haha well yes that’s fun doing it that way!! |
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"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.
Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.
Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway . "
. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x |
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"Oh god I hope everyone isn’t cancelling their meets today . My intention wasn’t to kill fab! "
I think if people worried too much about this sort of thing they would never have sex again. Someone you pull in a bar could do it. A partner could do it even. |
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"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.
Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.
Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway .
. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x"
Yeah I know what you mean. I reported some family portraits once where he just crossed out the kids faces . |
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"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.
Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.
Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway .
. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x
Yeah I know what you mean. I reported some family portraits once where he just crossed out the kids faces . "
Oh god yeah I’ve seen some of those. Kids pic in the background!  |
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"Oh god I hope everyone isn’t cancelling their meets today . My intention wasn’t to kill fab!
I think if people worried too much about this sort of thing they would never have sex again. Someone you pull in a bar could do it. A partner could do it even. "
True. I once had a bit of fun in a field. As we were walking back down the track a man was walking towards us. He said “you do know that’s private property and we have CCTV in the office”. I didn’t sleep for a week! Thought I was gonna end up on line somewhere! Maybe I did I don’t know! |
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"The only pics we’ve taken with others we have been given permission. We’ve even included their name on the pic so we’ve got nothing to hide…
I was lucky enough to be the cameraman…it was a tough job
K"
my heart bleeds!  |
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"Oh god I hope everyone isn’t cancelling their meets today . My intention wasn’t to kill fab!
I think if people worried too much about this sort of thing they would never have sex again. Someone you pull in a bar could do it. A partner could do it even.
True. I once had a bit of fun in a field. As we were walking back down the track a man was walking towards us. He said “you do know that’s private property and we have CCTV in the office”. I didn’t sleep for a week! Thought I was gonna end up on line somewhere! Maybe I did I don’t know! "
Oh Nora ! |
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"If I found out anyone has recorded me without my permission then I'd have them in court....simple."
Well of course anyone would but it’s not that simple. My thinking was more do these people know? Some people don’t watch porn etc, they may not be on the sites where the pics are posted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.
Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.
Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway .
. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x
Yeah I know what you mean. I reported some family portraits once where he just crossed out the kids faces .
Oh god yeah I’ve seen some of those. Kids pic in the background! "
I remember one of my pics had been number 1 on page 1 had thousands of fabs then was rejected by admin for having a minor in the photo. It was a cherub angel on this big jewellery box I had on my dresser |
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"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.
Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.
Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway .
. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x
Yeah I know what you mean. I reported some family portraits once where he just crossed out the kids faces .
Oh god yeah I’ve seen some of those. Kids pic in the background!
I remember one of my pics had been number 1 on page 1 had thousands of fabs then was rejected by admin for having a minor in the photo. It was a cherub angel on this big jewellery box I had on my dresser "
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"If I found out anyone has recorded me without my permission then I'd have them in court....simple.
Well of course anyone would but it’s not that simple. My thinking was more do these people know? Some people don’t watch porn etc, they may not be on the sites where the pics are posted. "
It shouldn't be but I guess it's just one of the risks you take by jumping into a strangers bed. Hence why neutral territory is always good especially for one offs. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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There was an issue with someone finding videos of them on a porn site. It does happen.
I’ve always felt that it could be a concern and I’ve been careful, only had pictures with people that I trust and don’t use pictures of others on my profile.
I’ve long felt that consent is a problem on here, which is why I don’t use any unless it’s of myself, even if consent would be clear |
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"If I found out anyone has recorded me without my permission then I'd have them in court....simple.
Well of course anyone would but it’s not that simple. My thinking was more do these people know? Some people don’t watch porn etc, they may not be on the sites where the pics are posted.
It shouldn't be but I guess it's just one of the risks you take by jumping into a strangers bed. Hence why neutral territory is always good especially for one offs."
Definitely. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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" It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x"
If the faces of others (that aren't the profile owner(s)) are clearly visible and distinguishable then I report the pic as it's against site rules  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It will be my very first time going to someone else's house for a shag this week.
Unless he lives in a mansion there's no way he could get the camera far enough away to get my entire body in the shot so I'm probably ok.
Hotels always otherwise for this reason... amongst others.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If she has a look of ecstasy on her face, I would have no objections to having been secretly captured in a photo. "
Come on then! I'm sat in my car eating an egg Mcmuffin. It'll be gone in a sec.  |
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"It will be my very first time going to someone else's house for a shag this week.
Unless he lives in a mansion there's no way he could get the camera far enough away to get my entire body in the shot so I'm probably ok.
Hotels always otherwise for this reason... amongst others...."
Is it the pigeon eating the kebab’s nest you’re going to? |
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"If she has a look of ecstasy on her face, I would have no objections to having been secretly captured in a photo.
Come on then! I'm sat in my car eating an egg Mcmuffin. It'll be gone in a sec. "
On my way. Don’t tell the pigeon. |
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"If she has a look of ecstasy on her face, I would have no objections to having been secretly captured in a photo.
Come on then! I'm sat in my car eating an egg Mcmuffin. It'll be gone in a sec.
On my way. Don’t tell the pigeon."
Too late.  |
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"If she has a look of ecstasy on her face, I would have no objections to having been secretly captured in a photo.
Come on then! I'm sat in my car eating an egg Mcmuffin. It'll be gone in a sec.
On my way. Don’t tell the pigeon.
Too late. "
That’s why I’m being bombed with pigeon shit!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This happened to someone I know, slyly videoing it with out asking. I only do hotel meets unless I truly trusted them and played quite a few times first. |
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"When I look at some single people’s pics with other people in them. A lot of the time the pics look like they are taken from above quite far away. Makes me think is there a camera in there they don’t know about? Do they know they are on websites (often faces too)? So my question is if you meet for NSA/one offs would you go to someone’s house trusting they don’t have hidden cameras set up?"
I know for a fact this happens, I went to a couples house once and was doing the deed when I noticed a fairly blatant camera propped up but hidden away and pointing in our position. After we was done I asked if the camera was on they said no and I personally was not very fussed I'm pretty sure it would have been on. |
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" It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x
If the faces of others (that aren't the profile owner(s)) are clearly visible and distinguishable then I report the pic as it's against site rules "
Ah I didn’t realise that! x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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" It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x
If the faces of others (that aren't the profile owner(s)) are clearly visible and distinguishable then I report the pic as it's against site rules
Ah I didn’t realise that! x"
They normally get rejected if other faces aren't removed/pixelated. |
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"When I look at some single people’s pics with other people in them. A lot of the time the pics look like they are taken from above quite far away. Makes me think is there a camera in there they don’t know about? Do they know they are on websites (often faces too)? So my question is if you meet for NSA/one offs would you go to someone’s house trusting they don’t have hidden cameras set up?
I know for a fact this happens, I went to a couples house once and was doing the deed when I noticed a fairly blatant camera propped up but hidden away and pointing in our position. After we was done I asked if the camera was on they said no and I personally was not very fussed I'm pretty sure it would have been on."
Yes someone messaged me. He didn’t want people to know his job etc so didn’t post here but he said the amount of cameras he gets asked to put up in peoples bedrooms etc is a lot! Obviously could be for totally legal purposes but I’m betting some aren’t x |
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It is something I think about but then I'm an overthinker so I am always thinking worse case scenarios before a meet
We do meet a people's homes on occasion and ultimately there is no way of being sure. I've always got to know them a bit and done a social first but you never know what people are capable of. If I worried too much about everything though I'd never do anything in life.
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Just another one of many thoughts that crosses my mind and impacting my mojo and desire to meet anyone.
It could easily be secret a kink that someone gets off on.
How many people like risk? Fucking loads, and risk comes in many forms. |
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"Just another one of many thoughts that crosses my mind and impacting my mojo and desire to meet anyone.
It could easily be secret a kink that someone gets off on.
How many people like risk? Fucking loads, and risk comes in many forms."
It certainly does x |
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