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over a year ago
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
5'9" is short? With respect mate, your problem is not your height, you're taller than a lot of women (if this is important), it's your idea of yourself. |
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You most likely judge women on 100 different physical traits
And they judge on a few themselves.
Short guy here too, it sucks, but it’s life
If anything I feel sorry for the girls that need a 6’2 guy. Not much choice for them out there |
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
Maybe some women equate height with cock size. A guy who I went out with in my early twenties was only about 5ft 3 inches, very slim and had to buy teenagers clothes and took a size 7 shoe. He had a ginormous cock though - one of the biggest I have ever encountered.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?
Maybe some women equate height with cock size. A guy who I went out with in my early twenties was only about 5ft 3 inches, very slim and had to buy teenagers clothes and took a size 7 shoe. He had a ginormous cock though - one of the biggest I have ever encountered. "
Well OP doesn't appear to be lacking in endowment. I'm not sure what the problem is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
You're not really short at 5ft 9 to be fair but the laying down sex gets kinda boring, so just get a step to stand on if you meet taller people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wished myself to 6 foot, that was my ambition as a kid and I’m exactly that height, I think it was will power that got me here. "
Or lots of weetabix/porridge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 5’6”. Certainly under national average. Has its advantages, has its disadvantages. Not an issue for me except when trying to reach for something on a high shelf. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m 5’6”. Certainly under national average. Has its advantages, has its disadvantages. Not an issue for me except when trying to reach for something on a high shelf. "
I'd give you a leg up don't worry , you can still have the dirty magazine from the top shelf!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like my men to be precisely 6ft 4 with a tuft of grey hair over the left ear  "
I’ve turned down several guys of 6ft 4 as too tall for me (I’m 5ft 5) and they don’t understand why I feel that way. |
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"I like my men to be precisely 6ft 4 with a tuft of grey hair over the left ear
I’ve turned down several guys of 6ft 4 as too tall for me (I’m 5ft 5) and they don’t understand why I feel that way."
Being serious for a minute (yes, it's hard!), I couldn't really give a monkeys about height.. I'm sat down most of the time. My first boyfriend was 6ft 7. My son's dad is 5ft 5. Mr KC is 6ft 4. I don't think height is something I'm fixated on.
But I fully understand people who do want someone taller/shorter for practical reasons! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually no, doing 69 with a guy who's shorter than you is tricky as hell unless he wants to be snapped in half! "
To that I'd add, try being convincingly male-dominant doing doggy with a taller woman. It all gets a bit "can you scooch down a bit so I can get in properly love? Why are your fucking legs so long and tall? |
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?
You're not really short at 5ft 9 to be fair but the laying down sex gets kinda boring, so just get a step to stand on if you meet taller people "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m 5’6”. Certainly under national average. Has its advantages, has its disadvantages. Not an issue for me except when trying to reach for something on a high shelf.
I'd give you a leg up don't worry , you can still have the dirty magazine from the top shelf! "
Tell you what, sit on my shoulders facing me and you can take your time doing whatever you want with the top shelf whilst I tend to what’s in front of my face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 5ft 9 and I do prefer taller men just because I'm not keen on feeling like a giant when I have heels on. Having said that I did marry a man shorter than me.
It's a preference not a deal breaker for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
If i was to nitpick, id say not true. As a paraplegic dude when im wheeling around and not bagging all the best and free parking im about 4' tall, then in bed laying down im 5'10". Wonder how many guys can genuinely say they are over 2' bigger in bed than out of it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
I have to say I love the size of a 6’2” and up guy. The taller the better as it Makes me feel tiny compared and I like that x |
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?
If i was to nitpick, id say not true. As a paraplegic dude when im wheeling around and not bagging all the best and free parking im about 4' tall, then in bed laying down im 5'10". Wonder how many guys can genuinely say they are over 2' bigger in bed than out of it. "
Ain't the parking the best?! Yeah, I'm at crotch height in my chair, so honestly, height doesn't really matter to me. |
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?
How much of sex is only lying down? "
Quite a bit when you struggle to or can't stand |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My daughters father is 6’3 and I used to make him walk on the road whilst I walked on the pavement! Was nothing to do with me feeling short next to him, was just hoping someone would run the cunt over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like my men to be precisely 6ft 4 with a tuft of grey hair over the left ear
I’ve turned down several guys of 6ft 4 as too tall for me (I’m 5ft 5) and they don’t understand why I feel that way."
I’m 5ft 5 and love tall men. The taller the better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My daughters father is 6’3 and I used to make him walk on the road whilst I walked on the pavement! Was nothing to do with me feeling short next to him, was just hoping someone would run the cunt over. "
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
My hubby is 6’6 and I’m tall too... being tall isn’t all it cracks up to be ... when I’m lying on a swing it’s better to have a smaller guy as it doesn’t break their knees like it breaks my hubby’s haha    |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"My daughters father is 6’3 and I used to make him walk on the road whilst I walked on the pavement! Was nothing to do with me feeling short next to him, was just hoping someone would run the cunt over. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?
If i was to nitpick, id say not true. As a paraplegic dude when im wheeling around and not bagging all the best and free parking im about 4' tall, then in bed laying down im 5'10". Wonder how many guys can genuinely say they are over 2' bigger in bed than out of it.
Ain't the parking the best?! Yeah, I'm at crotch height in my chair, so honestly, height doesn't really matter to me. "
And im usually at breast height ... its terrible trying to wheel and concentrate on where im going. Top tip, bag a titanium framed chair they can take the weight of 2  just check the backrest, had one snap on me once oooopps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My daughters father is 6’3 and I used to make him walk on the road whilst I walked on the pavement! Was nothing to do with me feeling short next to him, was just hoping someone would run the cunt over. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Is what it is nowt you can do to change it....a lot of women love tall guys some do some don't, I don't like tall women I prefer short women because I'm not tall myself but even if I was tall I prefer short women everyone has a preference
One of my mates is 6ft3 but I'd rather be short and have my face than be his height and his face |
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?
If i was to nitpick, id say not true. As a paraplegic dude when im wheeling around and not bagging all the best and free parking im about 4' tall, then in bed laying down im 5'10". Wonder how many guys can genuinely say they are over 2' bigger in bed than out of it.
Ain't the parking the best?! Yeah, I'm at crotch height in my chair, so honestly, height doesn't really matter to me. And im usually at breast height ... its terrible trying to wheel and concentrate on where im going. Top tip, bag a titanium framed chair they can take the weight of 2 just check the backrest, had one snap on me once oooopps "
I'm on titanium with a carbon fibre footplate (Küschall K4 )
I've had a guy sat astride me on the chair and my backrest is intact so far Thanks for the hint! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See that’s whare heels come in I can make my self any highite up till 9 inches taller
9 inches sounds more like stilts than shoes.  "
Thay can be ha ha not tryed walking in any higher there is a couple off 12 inch pleaser heels out there though but never pulled the trigger on them highest I have is 9 inches in heels |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
Mate you are 5'9 ...anything between 5'7 and 5'9 is considered average height. Anything over 6' is considered tall. Only 16% (allegedly) of men are over 6' and only 3% (again allegedly) of men are over 6'3...so tall men are kinda rare, that's why they are preferred by most women. I'm only 5'7 ...I've experience most if not all female rejections based on my height...it sucks (especially because I can't change that). But that's exactly the point, I can't change that, so no reason to keep thinking about it...I'm focusing on the things that I can change (improve) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Haha he's a tripod...fuck me pal don't think you need worry about your height with that weapon...at least you've got 1 of the most requested assets on here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My daughters father is 6’3 and I used to make him walk on the road whilst I walked on the pavement! Was nothing to do with me feeling short next to him, was just hoping someone would run the cunt over. "
I take your plan hasn’t worked and you haven’t lucked out haha jokessss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You most likely judge women on 100 different physical traits
And they judge on a few themselves.
Short guy here too, it sucks, but it’s life
If anything I feel sorry for the girls that need a 6’2 guy. Not much choice for them out there "
Some of us are grateful for that lack of choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like my men to be precisely 6ft 4 with a tuft of grey hair over the left ear
I’ve turned down several guys of 6ft 4 as too tall for me (I’m 5ft 5) and they don’t understand why I feel that way.
I’m 5ft 5 and love tall men. The taller the better "
I’m ok with 6ft but taller can give me neck and back ache. |
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I'm not exactly a delicate, sylphlike creature, and I like a man to make me feel small and feminine, so height is important to me. Plus I like to be able to wear heels and still reach up for a kiss...my boobs cause enough back and neck ache, I don't need that added to by bending down to kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like my men to be precisely 6ft 4 with a tuft of grey hair over the left ear
I’ve turned down several guys of 6ft 4 as too tall for me (I’m 5ft 5) and they don’t understand why I feel that way.
I’m 5ft 5 and love tall men. The taller the better
I’m ok with 6ft but taller can give me neck and back ache. "
And works the other way leaning downwards for neck and back ache. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
You're not short! 5ft9 is the average height for a man in the UK
And we're not the same size lying down ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mills and Boon books I read growing up .. the man was always tall. (Yes I am that old)
Novels, movies, tv series … the hot men always tend to be portrayed as tall and handsome
I absolutely definitely couldn’t date anyone under 5’10 … that’s my issue not theirs
I’m not everyone’s cup to tea - most men are size-ist and don’t want someone who is tubby, their loss not mine.
Just go with people who don’t give a toss how tall you are.
Theres 66 million people in the uk - we won’t all be heightist
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually no, doing 69 with a guy who's shorter than you is tricky as hell unless he wants to be snapped in half! "
Equally the 6ft 3 and 5ft 3 dynamic causes a whole heap of issues |
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You're not short. And the lying down solution is never ever going to work. Heard it 100s of times and i just wonder - just for a split second - why anyone would think I'd go into a horizontal position straight away. Then I'll just block them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that the women who tend to want taller men are tall themselves. Try going for shorter women.. Plenty of us.
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THIS!!! If I was short I wouldn’t care but at nearly 6ft I need someone 6ft+ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
Not when you arectrying to have ax69 they arent! Body parts don't align! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As I said yesterday below
Is what it is nowt you can do to change it....a lot of women love tall guys some do some don't, I don't like tall women I prefer short women because I'm not tall myself but even if I was tall I prefer short women everyone has a preference
One of my mates is 6ft3 but I'd rather be short and have my face than be his height and his face |
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"I like my men to be precisely 6ft 4 with a tuft of grey hair over the left ear
I’ve turned down several guys of 6ft 4 as too tall for me (I’m 5ft 5) and they don’t understand why I feel that way."
Not even a foot difference?
My ex was 13.5” shorter than me! :D |
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To be fair OP I’m 6 foot 5, after reading the comments I had to look and true to their word I think your body focused it’s growth on that third fucking leg! I’ll trade you 2 or 3 inches of my height for the same off that hammer! ?? on a serious note, don’t let it bother you too much... doggystyles an absolute nightmare of a workout on the old legs from up here |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
That same height lying down thing really bugs me.....
I sometimes like to kiss a bloke as we fuck and it is hard if they aren't tall enough, same as a 69 is a chore when you gotta bend fuck outta your neck to do it, takes the pleasure right outta it  |
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
I mean that expression at the end, whilst overused, is just not true. If I'm on top of a woman then her face is likely to be at my throat, if a short make done the same then they may be face to face or even their face to the guys forehead |
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"My daughters father is 6’3 and I used to make him walk on the road whilst I walked on the pavement! Was nothing to do with me feeling short next to him, was just hoping someone would run the cunt over. "
Plot twist ending |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
Being a tall woman ain’t much fun either love… |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I never thought that height mattered and as I am 5'2" I rarely came across anyone shorter .I did meet someone though a good while ago who claimed to be 5'7" but when I was wearing 2 inch heels I was as taller than him and it was the first time I've had to bend down to kiss a man and I have to admit I didn't enjoy it as it felt strange so yes I guess now height does matter to me now. |
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"Being a short guy is such a shit ..why is height so important to people
When the funniest thing is ain't we all the same size laying down?"
I know what you mean, being 6ft5 short is such a hardship… |
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We're not all here for the same reasons and whatever they may be, those reasons are equally valid. It's a mistake to assume that everyone here just wants sex. They don't. What some want is just a little something extra which is what is absent in their real lives. Amongst many other possible descriptives, that might mean younger, taller , bigger or smaller and many other possibilities. Why would that be? Well maybe it would be because in every other respect they are happy and content with what they have. Maybe they don't just want sex but someone who fulfils a fantasy maybe. Someone who ticks a number of other boxes and also satisfies what we might say are more basic desires.
When we fancy a curry we fancy a curry. That's not to say that Chinese food is rubbish is it? It's not to say we never fancy fish and chips or pizza is it?
People come here for very different reasons and those who get the best out of this site understand that fact and don't take offence at 'rejection'. They understand we all have different opinions and read profiles so they can concentrate their efforts on those who are a good match NOT just people they fancy having viewed a few pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I fall in the shortarse category.
I met women I could throw over my shoulder.
I met women who could throw me over their shoulder.
In either case we had a great time: there was no physical challenge we couldn’t overcome because of our height difference. When you’re attracted to somebody and fancy a bit of a squeeze you’ll have fun no matter what.
And on a side note, I read a couple of comments linking height to dominance. I can understand the visual aspect but there is a lot more to dominance than physical stature. Quite a lot more.
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I’m 6ft and a big girl. I’m just made big. I like a tall, broad man because otherwise I feel a bit beastly and I don’t like it. However big, broad men who I find attractive who find me attractive are few and far between. I’m a bit niche.
I’d much rather be a 5’9” man than a 6ft, large woman. If I was 6ft and thin and willowy then fine, but I’m not. So I need a big man. |
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"We're not all here for the same reasons and whatever they may be, those reasons are equally valid. It's a mistake to assume that everyone here just wants sex. They don't. What some want is just a little something extra which is what is absent in their real lives. Amongst many other possible descriptives, that might mean younger, taller , bigger or smaller and many other possibilities. Why would that be? Well maybe it would be because in every other respect they are happy and content with what they have. Maybe they don't just want sex but someone who fulfils a fantasy maybe. Someone who ticks a number of other boxes and also satisfies what we might say are more basic desires.
When we fancy a curry we fancy a curry. That's not to say that Chinese food is rubbish is it? It's not to say we never fancy fish and chips or pizza is it?
People come here for very different reasons and those who get the best out of this site understand that fact and don't take offence at 'rejection'. They understand we all have different opinions and read profiles so they can concentrate their efforts on those who are a good match NOT just people they fancy having viewed a few pics."
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