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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The lazy ones: hi how are you
The crazy ones: just block
The ones who pretend to have read my profile but clearly haven't: short and/or with a beard
The ones from people who don't have pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what sort of first Messages instantly turn you off and reach for the delete button?
Wanting instant meets?
Straight to sex talk?
Being nosey "
Generally anything I send is an instant turn off and block ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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The usual stuff. Meet now, I'm going to do etc etc stuff. People who obviously cant or wont read a profile.
That or zero effort stuff like "hi".
Um yes? How can I help?
Just talk to us like people. Not to.much to.ask is it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*NOTE* To all the whiney demanding morons who expect more than they get from this site and bitch about it on here; This is a damn good thread to make notes from!
Good work Sapph, not that it'll make a difference sadly! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"*NOTE* To all the whiney demanding morons who expect more than they get from this site and bitch about it on here; This is a damn good thread to make notes from!
Good work Sapph, not that it'll make a difference sadly!"
You saw my intentions!! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
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I never block but I delete for a number reasons:
- Polite lines without substance to "make conversation", e.g. How's your day?
- A message with no personal link to my profile and what I'm looking for, especially one which could be copied and pasted to any other woman and probably has been
- If it makes me think they are the opposite of what I'm looking for, for example, if they are self-deprecating or need to ask me if they can ask me a question
- Exaggerated compliments because they come across as insincere and give me imposter syndrome
- A one line statement - I guess they just wanted to let me know?
- Anything trying to impress me with things women stereotypically are into: love oral, can go all night, will make you cum again and again
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even after all this time on Fab it still amazes me when we get a message from someone who has clearly not bothered to read a single word of our profile.
Occasionally I’ll reply just to try and understand why. I’ve yet to find out.
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