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Are you open to more than your profile suggests?
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Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?
I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.
So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops.
Blimey. That's a throwback to my 80s wardrobe. "
Keep talking. |
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"Also, if a man above my age range took my fancy I wouldn't hesitate.
My preferences aren't set in stone, but they reduce the amount of messages I receive. "
Likewise. I'm flexible about that, it's a ball park figure to reduce mail bulk. |
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My profile is a good reflection of my expectations and what I can offer. My age limits are set in stone especially my lower limit but my listed interests are just the prologue.
As my profile says I am very open to exploring mutual desires and fantasies regardless of what kink that may involve but only with people who understand the meaning of mutual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops.
Blimey. That's a throwback to my 80s wardrobe. "
Or my current one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, if a man above my age range took my fancy I wouldn't hesitate.
My preferences aren't set in stone, but they reduce the amount of messages I receive. "
Agree. Im open to other things but saves timewasters and unwanted bitch strops by not stateing everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really. I go with the flow. Can’t even remember what mine says at the moment. "
Says you don’t like cock and are strictly here for the quim/ flange. Just read it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really. I go with the flow. Can’t even remember what mine says at the moment. "
It says,
Profile not available.
This member has hidden their profile. |
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"Not really. I go with the flow. Can’t even remember what mine says at the moment.
Says you don’t like cock and are strictly here for the quim/ flange. Just read it. "
Haha. I know it doesn’t say that. I love the cock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could be open to single men if there was a decent supply of sensible ones who get that I'm only interested in their pretty cock, not their entire masculine self.
Still not taking messages from them though. |
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"Not really. I go with the flow. Can’t even remember what mine says at the moment.
It says,
Profile not available.
This member has hidden their profile."
Oh! See I didn’t even know that  . Forgot I’d hidden it the other day! Thought my messages hadn’t gone up much lately! |
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"Interests are blank to stop unwarranted ‘I want to that with you’ or worst opening messages. If I’m talking to someone they find out what I like, as I do they. "
Oh yeah I’ve never put interests. Didn’t even know what half of them meant when I first joined ! |
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"Interests are blank to stop unwarranted ‘I want to that with you’ or worst opening messages. If I’m talking to someone they find out what I like, as I do they.
Oh yeah I’ve never put interests. Didn’t even know what half of them meant when I first joined ! "
I’ll believe you little Miss Innocent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?
I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.
So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes? "
Well for me Im open to try new things unless it really isnt for me.
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By *ooty999Couple
over a year ago
Swindon |
I think mine (in a couple) have expanded since joining as started out looking for a F to join our MF, I'm bi he is straight, but he said he's happy to do MMF as long as the other M is straight. I was apprehensive at first but after reading some more experienced fab members verifications and profiles and chatting to a lovely experienced guy on here it has been heightened somewhat   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't list any interest, I'm listed as straight, and say I can't accommodate nor travel all work nicely to help control messages but might not necessarily be true
Age filters are flexible so not usually on but the longer I'm on here and the more people I talk to ... the more I realise that it's so unlikely to happen with anyone outside of my preferred ages and actually they should be narrowed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is exactly as it says. I try to keep it as 'focussed' as I can so it hones in on what I am looking for as I just use Fab for a very specific niche thing.
But I have been on here as a couple too so we had a broader scope and I, also being a straight female, totally understand what you are saying you have to do with yours. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
I d say I am but it would attract the wrong kind of people - not that there is anything wrong with them per se but they would be looking for some things that I am not happy to go along with - and if this makes any sense to anybody it will be a miracle |
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My profile says im straight but im bi. I dont want to meet males 121 id find them if i did.
A whole other arguement could be had but i dont care what people think I also reserve the right to be choosy as a single male!
Done me good so far! |
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Of course not - this is all about people and you respond differently to different people - as such given the right people in the right circumstances and you can try new things.
Also the age thing is odd - have you seen the latest photos of Liz Hurley ... and on here her age would excluse het from most profiles..... |
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Our profile shows our relaxed attitude and what we are about and the type of people we seek.
In addition there are extra scenarios on our to-do list which we don’t list - we select people ourselves for these as some of them need specific types of people…
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Yes definitely. I like all sorts and and an attracted to different body types but my profile used to read like any hole is a goal, so I focused on my preference instead but don't discount or discriminate against anyone. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Also, if a man above my age range took my fancy I wouldn't hesitate.
My preferences aren't set in stone, but they reduce the amount of messages I receive.
Likewise. I'm flexible about that, it's a ball park figure to reduce mail bulk."
I change mine now and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?
I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.
So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes? "
I’m a little confused - why would you be interested in meeting couples if you are straight?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, we're definitely open to more than our profile suggests.
On our profile, We currently only have specific scenarios we would like to experience but we are open to many other scenarios. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes. I've deliberately kept my profile minimal because I'd rather look for what interests me and explore it without people trying to be what they think I want. I'm not even sure what I want but I know what I don't. |
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"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?
I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.
So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes?
I’m a little confused - why would you be interested in meeting couples if you are straight? "
Men from couples can meet too not all seek bi females only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops. "
Does a dungaree dress count if it’s paired with a horizontal striped crop top lol.
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"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?
I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.
So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes?
I’m a little confused - why would you be interested in meeting couples if you are straight? "
Do you ask why straight males join MF couples? Why is it that when a woman joins a MF couple, there is some expectation for "girl on girl" play? There's zero expectation for men to get it on when joining an MF couple, unless both men are openly bi/curious. Why is it different for women? |
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It really depends. There are things on our profile that are absoultely non negotiable and that we are not open to.
There are however other things we are open to or curious about that isnt even mentioned on our profile. Just depends really.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never know how to word it or what to put. It’s a shit profile and in answer to the question I’m open to any and all suggestions I’m feeling I want to go with the flow see where I end up. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Mine are generally flexible, mainly because I know that if I meet a person at a social or club and we connected, then my preferences wouldn’t really matter.
It only seems to be on line that people adhere so slavishly to their likes, in person they matter far less |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
I'm open to more in that I welcome suggestions or ideas of more. However that's not to say I'm open to just doing more. I don't think I'm fully shut off from pushing boundaries but that's not to say I won't decline it either.
I'm open to discussion about doing more than the profile suggest I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really get all the filters and such. It seems so trivial how someone can fancy you at 39 but the next day is your birthday and you've now failed someone's age filter. I'm open minded to anyone and anything. Surprise me. |
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"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?
I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.
So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes? "
Our profile is exactly as what we are looking for except for possibly age limits. |
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"I don't really get all the filters and such. It seems so trivial how someone can fancy you at 39 but the next day is your birthday and you've now failed someone's age filter. I'm open minded to anyone and anything. Surprise me."
As a man, you're unlikely to receive anywhere near the amount of messages that women do. Most of the messages I receive are from men widely off the mark of what I'm looking for - which they would know if they'd bothered to read my profile. So for some of us, it's an attempt at "quality control" to make things more manageable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reckon I am. There are certain limits I definitely have but nothing wrong with being strung up by the thumbs, blindfolded, gagged, and spanked red raw... Once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes my age range is flexible...depending on the person & attraction"
Totally agree it’s just a number. There’s many an older person that can excite and pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?
I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.
So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes? "
There's lots on my profile I negate to mention. Like my sub side for example because in my experience the sheer mention seems to be some sort of green light for the worst kind of Doms.
I would absolutely love to see splayed pussy over the million unimaginative dick and saggy balls pics on here. I'm open to MF couples so I've no idea where I'm going wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happy for people to make suggestions as long as they're not ridiculous."
I think my profile gives a flavour of where I am and what I would like. I also like to think Im broadminded and would enjoy trying something new but there are limits |
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