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over a year ago
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I’ve seen many profiles with Can or Cannot accom or can or cannot travel but what’s the point of both travel and accom are a cannot?
I get some fabbers are discreet so can’t accom and some may not be able to travel but cumon meet a chap half way 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve seen many profiles with Can or Cannot accom or can or cannot travel but what’s the point of both travel and accom are a cannot?
I get some fabbers are discreet so can’t accom and some may not be able to travel but cumon meet a chap half way
Thoughts "
That usually means they only meet in clubs. |
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over a year ago
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Local hotels.
Cannot travel - they may not drive so its taxi’s, they wont travel more than X hours away, they accommodate so dont need to travel
Cannot accommodate - clubs meets, hotels, shared accommodation, kids at home, spouse at home, safety reasons
Mix and match from any of those options or ask the person why they dont accomm or travel |
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over a year ago
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Say you can travel, people will assume you will travel as far as suits them.
Say you can accommodate, people will assume you will at their convenience.
Say you can do neither then people are forced to discuss with you what actually works for you rather than what works for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you believe everything you read on profiles...........
Not everything no haha but why put it, quite off putting to make initial contact "
If it says can accom, some people think that means any time of day or night and invite themselves over.
If it says can travel, some people think that means a Londoner will travel to Scotland.
I've travelled 7 hour round trips and also had people in my house. |
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over a year ago
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I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me  |
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"Clubs?
Locally?
Understood but do said persons just get cabs, PT or walk?
I’m just inquisitive  "
Does it matter how they get there? When i attend clubs i put a meet up.. its up to that person to get to the club.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Say you can travel, people will assume you will travel as far as suits them.
Say you can accommodate, people will assume you will at their convenience.
Say you can do neither then people are forced to discuss with you what actually works for you rather than what works for them. "
Talking like people, not sex meat tick boxes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine says cannot accom as otherwise every horndog random thinks you run an open house.
Same with cannot travel. I'm not here to service the unwashed at 3am."
Makes sense |
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"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me "
If swingers clubs and hotels are on your doorstep why would you need to accommodate or travel?  |
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"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me
If swingers clubs and hotels are on your doorstep why would you need to accommodate or travel? "
What a perfik situation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Problem is those questions only give you black and white options.
Travel,yes means you've got a car. No,means you're house bound. Accommodation,yes,means an open house. No,means piss off. There so many options in between. Talk about it. You're welcome |
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"Problem is those questions only give you black and white options.
Travel,yes means you've got a car. No,means you're house bound. Accommodation,yes,means an open house. No,means piss off. There so many options in between. Talk about it. You're welcome "
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"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me "
It’s to keep the ‘let’s meet right now’ chancers away from your inbox |
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"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me
It’s to keep the ‘let’s meet right now’ chancers away from your inbox "
If only it worked  |
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"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me
It’s to keep the ‘let’s meet right now’ chancers away from your inbox
If only it worked "
Just delete, or block if necessary, they soon get bored |
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For me it's looking for a local that can accom! As wouldn't travel miles as dont drive! It has worked for me! Have had a few long term fwb over last couple years! But as of next month I shd b able to accom again on occasion x |
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