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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am an verified single guy on here and it seems like its very hard to convince people that you are genuine just because you are a single guy.
I have been on here for 2 weeks now and has not had much luck. I have arranged 2 meets, one last week one tonight. Both with verified couples and both of them didnt turn up..
So why is it that single guys get such a hard time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am an verified single guy on here and it seems like its very hard to convince people that you are genuine just because you are a single guy.
I have been on here for 2 weeks now and has not had much luck. I have arranged 2 meets, one last week one tonight. Both with verified couples and both of them didnt turn up..
So why is it that single guys get such a hard time"
Because we're ten a penny, don't take things to heart! Keep posting in the forums and making friends, they're lots of lovely and friendly people here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont mean to moan, its just that single unverified guys are meant to be the ones who let people down but through my tiny experience its the opposite.
i guess thats just the way it goes |
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Yeah, mate... try not to get hung up on it.
Stick around the forums, maybe use the chat room if you can type a million words a minute, and try and get to a Social. All things that help you get recognised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am an verified single guy on here and it seems like its very hard to convince people that you are genuine just because you are a single guy.
I have been on here for 2 weeks now and has not had much luck. I have arranged 2 meets, one last week one tonight. Both with verified couples and both of them didnt turn up..
So why is it that single guys get such a hard time"
nothing to do with being a single guy....its cause your a brummie  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I am an verified single guy on here and it seems like its very hard to convince people that you are genuine just because you are a single guy.
I have been on here for 2 weeks now and has not had much luck. I have arranged 2 meets, one last week one tonight. Both with verified couples and both of them didnt turn up..
So why is it that single guys get such a hard time"
I'll give you my standard "2 week" response....
2 weeks!!!  what kind of instant shag-a-thon were you expecting???
Time,patience,and common sense... hand on heart is 2 weeks "giving it time" or "showing patience"... |
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"I am an verified single guy on here"
You're not verified.... You're photo verified.
And you've arranged 2 meets and been let down both times.... Perhaps you need to look at your selection criteria.
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Fabio.... Quit trying to steal my "insta-shag" word by changing it a bit
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oi... i think you'll find "I" came up with "insta-shag".... its my gift to the world now...I've moved on!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont mean to moan, its just that single unverified guys are meant to be the ones who let people down but through my tiny experience its the opposite.
i guess thats just the way it goes"
There are plenty of single guys posing as couples on here.... not saying the ones you arranged meets with were, but it's a possibility...  sadly...
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Jacqs will cheer anyone's spirits up, so bottoms up to her and you - for better things to happen.
Over time, you get a better feel for who's most reliable etc. Also, with couples, there's potentially more to complicate things - 2 people's jobs, commitments, kids etc. We all have other lives, and sometimes they get in the damn way of our fabulous sex lives!
My advice is to only meet those where you're 100% sure that all is sound and reliable, tho there's no guarantee ever. Don't pressure yourself, or be pressured into something, just to achieve your a real meet either. Speak on the phone, to prospective partners, make a connection and ensure it's as right as it should be for you.
Otherwise, meet up with some of us, socially, so that you gain a good level of trust in the Fab good guys, and don't focus on past negatives.
Good luck! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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Sort ya pics out, half a hairdo of a lady aint great..leads people to think stuff.....mention on your profile that you are chivalrous and mention more of your good points.....why should we meet you?
Get your arse to a social...great way to meet people socially and make aquaintances.
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