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What do you think of me; debrief
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Now that the thread has been running for a little while, I think that it’s time to review and take stock a little.
For those of you that have taken part, how do you think that it has gone?
Was it overwhelmingly positive? Did you get any surprises? If there were negatives, will you take them on board? Will it change how you post or how you approach fab?
This is a large part of the process folks so please, don’t hold back and be honest...
As an additional part of this, can I also ask that people post how many people they sent and received from please? That way it helps to understand the level of response |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I sent 13, got ten
To those who did respond thank you
Overall very positive, you got me spot on.
Very little in the way of negative comments, but the few that did pick up somethings, I am doing my best to be more positive, I've sort of found my mojo again, and feeling a lot happier in myself as a result.
I still have a way to go, but I will get there, |
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I sent 3 or 4 out and I've actually hopefully made a couple of new friends, lovely ladies .
A great laid back guy who's cool and a frank but honest conversation with a certain someone and that was cool too .
A success in my eyes  |
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"what did i miss? i dont get many messages anyway"
There's a thread called "what do you think of me' if you post that you're in on it people can message you and tell you what they think of you. The idea is that you do the same for others |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I had some lovely messages  . It’s interesting sometimes, that certain aspects of me show when I didn’t think they did. "
That’s part of the point with these threads; people see more than you expect them to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve sent a few and received a few lovely ones in return. And some from people I’ve not chatted to previously, which was nice, all fair comments and nice…
I like today’s thread OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had some lovely messages . It’s interesting sometimes, that certain aspects of me show when I didn’t think they did.
That’s part of the point with these threads; people see more than you expect them to"
Yes, it’s interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my head is gone..can someone explain to me
I did up thread if you check back 
aaah...i get it now...i have my moments
 don't we all "
ive messaged one person...doubt ill get any |
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"my head is gone..can someone explain to me
I did up thread if you check back
aaah...i get it now...i have my moments
don't we all
ive messaged one person...doubt ill get any"
Did you go on the original thread and say you're in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my head is gone..can someone explain to me
I did up thread if you check back
aaah...i get it now...i have my moments
don't we all
ive messaged one person...doubt ill get any
Did you go on the original thread and say you're in? "
nope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sent some. I got some back and one unexpected.. positive, which I'm very grateful for.
One surprised me - I am "quite mysterious", but also made me tearful a little in the other part- the one how I care very much. Thank you |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"my head is gone..can someone explain to me
I did up thread if you check back
aaah...i get it now...i have my moments
don't we all
ive messaged one person...doubt ill get any
Did you go on the original thread and say you're in?
nope"
If you post in the original thread then you can see who’s taking part and who to message. It also explains everything in the original post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a relative newbie, it's been a great post OP; decided to get involved and messaged a few.
Only one not replied (as yet unread), but everone else returned in kind. Thank you.
And one sent of the bat without my starting, an extra thank you! |
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"Are there any more from this?
I know that more of you took part in the first thread, care to share your experiences? "
I had a nice little private chat with a delectable Welsh lady. Seems I need a photographer. |
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