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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Fuck up in a situation do you hold your hands up ,say sorry and learn from it, or do you deny it was you and shift the blame?

I do tend to hold my hands up and apologise for my errors. So to anyone out there where I have fducked up sorry.

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

It depends whether I think I *can* shift the blame. Normally, I just 'fess up...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone won't admit to fucking up, would they admit to not admitting it when they fuck up?

I predict everyone will say they hold their hands up and admit it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always hold my hands up if Im to blame

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I used to try and shift the blame, especially at work. Probably because my mother had some pretty bad punishments when we were kids and the fear of owning up has carried on into my adult life. Now I always fess up because I feel bad about making it someone elses problem.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I fess up and always apologize when im wrong, but as you can imagine thats not often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I try and hold my hands up as its just too much hassle trying to shift the blame..but if i know i wasnt responsible then i fight my corner all the way lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Sometimes silence is golden

However, it's generally the easiest thing for you as well as others to just say what's happened, and apologise. I certainly apologise to myself, so others deserve the same.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

I normally plant either mental or physical evidence pointing to someone else then blame them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I try and hold my hands up as its just too much hassle trying to shift the blame..but if i know i wasnt responsible then i fight my corner all the way lol

Same here...easier to hold your hands up and sort the issue out than try to shift the blame onto someone else usually anyway. Although to be fair in my old job I tended to fix most of my fuck ups before they were noticed because I knew how to play most of the systems!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im stubborn so would probably fester on it then eventually own up and say i'm sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If i did something wrong new it was true i would own up and say sorry .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always fess up if I'm in the wrong. However, if someone 'shifts' the blame to me, God help them as I can usually back myself up

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"If i did something wrong new it was true i would own up and say sorry ."
Me too - it is just I never do anything wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am very quick to put my hand up as soon as I know I have made a mistake.

One of my better qualities.

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