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over a year ago
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I met mine. He was everything. He swept me off my feet. I fell madly in love with him and it felt completely like we were meant to be. Sadly it transpired he was a fucked up narcissistic liar who was married to someone else.
So yes I believe they exist but that doesn't mean it always works out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I was a little short on my opening , I believe in people having someone who is perfectly suited for them , but at the same time , whether they ever find them or not is a completely different story |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe in soulmates, you can connect with many people throughout your lifetime. We connect with people through attraction, interests, morals and life goals.. the rest is up to you to put the work in to a relationship  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do indeed.
What will be will be, We will meet certain people who will significantly impact on us good and bad.
As for soulmates yes… does this mean you’re destined to be together perhaps not. Right time right place and circumstances  |
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"So who believes you have like a soul mate or whatever out there ?? "
Be nice to just find someone compactible and available who adores me
... it's like the million pound wish... like the lottery, I never win it  |
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I have loved and I have lost… but I have never as yet found a soul mate.
Is that good thing or a bad thing ?
When I think on it further… I’m happy with that and have yet to find out what life throws at me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Soul mates are forged! It takes years - in the fires of passion x the stresses of life x
Don’t kid yourself - if it’s instantly done it’s instantly undone |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Yes, I definitely believe it. I think there is someone for everyone. It's just about being lucky enough to find them. "
But if it's fate, it's not luck. It was meant to be. And if it was mean to be, that means you had zero choice and nothing you did would ever change the outcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe in fate or destiny. I don't believe in soul mates or 'the one'. We will all be compatible with a number of people. Whether or not we find them is another matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I definitely believe it. I think there is someone for everyone. It's just about being lucky enough to find them.
But if it's fate, it's not luck. It was meant to be. And if it was mean to be, that means you had zero choice and nothing you did would ever change the outcome. "
I understand what you are saying but in my head I am making sense!! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, not really, that would require believ
ing in a soul.
Tim Minchin says it best in his song If I didn't have you (someone else would do).
The full lyrics are worth a read.
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"So who believes you have like a soul mate or whatever out there ??
Be nice to just find someone compactible and available who adores me
... it's like the million pound wish... like the lottery, I never win it "
I’d happily fold myself into your cleavage pocket  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
I don’t think I I do really. I don’t “believe” in much. I’m not one for fate/karma and all that stuff. Things just happen. No reason. They just do. "
I agree |
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"So who believes you have like a soul mate or whatever out there ?? "
Not so much soul mates.
But energies do attract to each other.
Some are more compatible than others. But an energy comes into your life for a reason.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met mine. He was everything. He swept me off my feet. I fell madly in love with him and it felt completely like we were meant to be. Sadly it transpired he was a fucked up narcissistic liar who was married to someone else.
So yes I believe they exist but that doesn't mean it always works out. "
Same! |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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They say Odin and Freya were destined to be together since the dawn of time and nothing could change that. My own experiences when my OH I met it was like an electric charge. It was like suddenly the whole world made sense, the missing piece of my personal jigsaw of life was found and the whole picture now made sense. Fate, destiny, forces of nature, there is definitely something in it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a lovely idea
There are a lot of people in the world - maybe there are a few people who could be soul mates out there for all of us?
Sometimes its about being in the right place- physically and in your life - at the right time.
Not everyone gets to meet that special person at the right time.
I still like the idea and the romance of finding that special person |
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"I met mine. He was everything. He swept me off my feet. I fell madly in love with him and it felt completely like we were meant to be. Sadly it transpired he was a fucked up narcissistic liar who was married to someone else.
So yes I believe they exist but that doesn't mean it always works out. "
So true .happened 2 me orther way around x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We can have more than one soulmate. They come for you to learn your lessons, and then they stay or move on, depending what you need.
I like this "
It’s what I believe |
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