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I’ve always wanted to do it but never dared. Like the guy standing in a bus that I admire for 20 minutes. Would guys find it weird? How would I do it for best effect? I’m too shy to flirt or catch eyes so it would probably come as a surprise and then be too weird?
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Ok....what to do is write your name and number on a small piece of paper.....walk up to him with a slight cheeky smile on your face......say "hi"...hand him the note but when your walking away.....throw a seductive yet subtle look back over your shoulder type thing.....
That will do the trick!!
Let us know how it goes hahaha xxx |
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over a year ago
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I would if I was really interested in someone. Life is too short and balls in there court then. I got handed a number in Morrison’s I was really flattered |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I’ve always wanted to do it but never dared. Like the guy standing in a bus that I admire for 20 minutes. Would guys find it weird? How would I do it for best effect? I’m too shy to flirt or catch eyes so it would probably come as a surprise and then be too weird?
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Speaking for myself I would find it both exciting and tinged with a little trepidation, half expecting the number to be a pizza firm.
If you are at a bus stop for 20 minutes, handing your number and walking away would be odd, so follow him onto the bus and hand it to him as you get off the bus. |
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"I would if I was really interested in someone. Life is too short and balls in there court then. I got handed a number in Morrison’s I was really flattered "
Morrison's must be the place! It's only ever happened to me once that someone has given me her phone number, and that was on Morrison's forecourt, as we were on opposite pumps getting petrol. She did actually start the conversation by commenting on the leather seats of my Jag XK convertible which had the roof down, and although I did meet up with her, and we had great fun, I couldn't help but wonder though if I would have had the same effect on her if I'd been driving a beaten up old Skoda. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
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"I would if I was really interested in someone. Life is too short and balls in there court then. I got handed a number in Morrison’s I was really flattered
Morrison's must be the place! It's only ever happened to me once that someone has given me her phone number, and that was on Morrison's forecourt, as we were on opposite pumps getting petrol. She did actually start the conversation by commenting on the leather seats of my Jag XK convertible which had the roof down, and although I did meet up with her, and we had great fun, I couldn't help but wonder though if I would have had the same effect on her if I'd been driving a beaten up old Skoda. "
Your profile name is _ilverjag so it can't bother you too much people being influenced by the car you drive... |
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"I’ve always wanted to do it but never dared. Like the guy standing in a bus that I admire for 20 minutes. Would guys find it weird? How would I do it for best effect? I’m too shy to flirt or catch eyes so it would probably come as a surprise and then be too weird?
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I’d love it ! It would be very sexy if she walked over said hi can I give you something ... hand me a slip that had her name number   it’s a movie scene though not reality I don’t think it would happen   |
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"I’ve always wanted to do it but never dared. Like the guy standing in a bus that I admire for 20 minutes. Would guys find it weird? How would I do it for best effect? I’m too shy to flirt or catch eyes so it would probably come as a surprise and then be too weird?
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I was on a works trip returning from Scandinavia and the air hostess passed me a hand written note from a group of ladies further down the plane with a mobile number and short message on it |
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"I’ve always wanted to do it but never dared. Like the guy standing in a bus that I admire for 20 minutes. Would guys find it weird? How would I do it for best effect? I’m too shy to flirt or catch eyes so it would probably come as a surprise and then be too weird?
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I’d be extremely flattered if a woman approached me like that. I’d be attracted to her courage, drive and directness.
But the first thing I’d do after they’ve given me their hand-written note, is ask that person if they lived within 5 Miles. I’d not want to accept a number from anyone who wasn’t within a 75 sq/Mile area. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"I would if I was really interested in someone. Life is too short and balls in there court then. I got handed a number in Morrison’s I was really flattered
Morrison's must be the place! It's only ever happened to me once that someone has given me her phone number, and that was on Morrison's forecourt, as we were on opposite pumps getting petrol. She did actually start the conversation by commenting on the leather seats of my Jag XK convertible which had the roof down, and although I did meet up with her, and we had great fun, I couldn't help but wonder though if I would have had the same effect on her if I'd been driving a beaten up old Skoda. "
Knowing my luck she would have been a Vegan and given me a rolliking for have leather seats.
By the way I do drive a Skoda and that has leather seats.  |
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"I’ve always wanted to do it but never dared. Like the guy standing in a bus that I admire for 20 minutes. Would guys find it weird? How would I do it for best effect? I’m too shy to flirt or catch eyes so it would probably come as a surprise and then be too weird?
I was on a works trip returning from Scandinavia and the air hostess passed me a hand written note from a group of ladies further down the plane with a mobile number and short message on it "
And then what?
I was handed a little letter one day on the bus on my way to work. The thing is he did it so fast and discreetly I didnt know what he looked like so I didnt phone him. |
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"I would if I was really interested in someone. Life is too short and balls in there court then. I got handed a number in Morrison’s I was really flattered
Morrison's must be the place! It's only ever happened to me once that someone has given me her phone number, and that was on Morrison's forecourt, as we were on opposite pumps getting petrol. She did actually start the conversation by commenting on the leather seats of my Jag XK convertible which had the roof down, and although I did meet up with her, and we had great fun, I couldn't help but wonder though if I would have had the same effect on her if I'd been driving a beaten up old Skoda.
Knowing my luck she would have been a Vegan and given me a rolliking for have leather seats.
By the way I do drive a Skoda and that has leather seats. "
my skoda is coming with vegan seats, so I'll be ok  |
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"I’ve always wanted to do it but never dared. Like the guy standing in a bus that I admire for 20 minutes. Would guys find it weird? How would I do it for best effect? I’m too shy to flirt or catch eyes so it would probably come as a surprise and then be too weird?
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It's an erotic thought.
Have you caught eye contact with him before? The note could be a very erotic second step.
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve always wanted to do it but never dared. Like the guy standing in a bus that I admire for 20 minutes. Would guys find it weird? How would I do it for best effect? I’m too shy to flirt or catch eyes so it would probably come as a surprise and then be too weird?
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Sounds hot. I want to do it now.......
Brazen and VERY sexy. Empowering. I love the idea.
Pleaaaaaase tell us if you give him your number and how it works out. |
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"I've often wanted to but don't have an ounce of confidence in myself to do it 
Forum challenge for the ladies. 
Give a hot man your phone number. "
Could you possibly make it any man you like not just hot
Asking for a friend |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I've often wanted to but don't have an ounce of confidence in myself to do it
Forum challenge for the ladies.
Give a hot man your phone number.
Could you possibly make it any man you like not just hot
Asking for a friend "
If I like him, he's hot. |
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I think I would start a conversation rather than just handing him my number, what if he's really weird when you get chatting? Or married? Easier to have a conversation and then at the end of it if you still fancy him say "this is my stop but if you fancy continuing this over a drink, here's my number". |
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I done it once with a girl who got my train to work. We’d glance at each other often throughout the trip…I thought it was a given, otherwise I wouldn’t do it.
Anyway, long story short, I passed her my number one day.
She never rang
We’d still stare at each other on the platform/train.
A few months past and we bumped into each other on a different platform when I was going to the coast…we got chatting.
Turns out she was engaged. We spent the 2 hour journey chatting…when I left she handed me her number - we became friends.
So I tell myself that the one and only time I’ve done it worked…. 
Obviously I don’t need to do it now but surely what recent life has taught us is that it’s short and could change at any time, so seize the moment |
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My biggest worry about it, and always has been is that just coz he ain't wearing a ring doesn't mean he's not in a relationship, and there are people out there who would jump at the opportunity, especially if there's no chase as such involved where they could potentially have it backfire quickly. There it is, handed on a piece of paper. |
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I'd say you're better starting a little conversation first than just handing over your number and finding out if they're with anyone first by saying something like "your partner must feel really lucky if you have one because I think you look amazing" the reply should give you the green or red light hopefully |
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"I've often wanted to but don't have an ounce of confidence in myself to do it
Forum challenge for the ladies.
Give a hot man your phone number. "
Omg let’s do it! Set a do it by end of June challenge! Lol. I would love to hear the stories that come out of that! |
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"My biggest worry about it, and always has been is that just coz he ain't wearing a ring doesn't mean he's not in a relationship, and there are people out there who would jump at the opportunity, especially if there's no chase as such involved where they could potentially have it backfire quickly. There it is, handed on a piece of paper."
Very good point. I hadn’t thought through the ethics of him already being taken |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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"My biggest worry about it, and always has been is that just coz he ain't wearing a ring doesn't mean he's not in a relationship, and there are people out there who would jump at the opportunity, especially if there's no chase as such involved where they could potentially have it backfire quickly. There it is, handed on a piece of paper.
Very good point. I hadn’t thought through the ethics of him already being taken "
I actually did something very similar. I'd been working in the same place for a while when I noticed an attractive woman who was in the next door property. She was there the same time as I, so one week I left a note on her windscreen, with my number and asked her if she'd care to go for a drink? A few hours later, her husband phoned and told me in no uncertain terms she was happily married!
Two things from this experience... 1 there is always the chance you may receive an irate phone call from a partner!
2. It made me think what I would have done in her situation? Felt flattered and thrown the paper away. Not sure I would have told a partner as it was inconsequential. |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I've often wanted to but don't have an ounce of confidence in myself to do it
Forum challenge for the ladies.
Give a hot man your phone number.
Omg let’s do it! Set a do it by end of June challenge! Lol. I would love to hear the stories that come out of that!"
I'm in!!!!
But....... I'll be VERY careful about picking my victim.
PP raises a very good point. Some men are horndogs. |
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"My biggest worry about it, and always has been is that just coz he ain't wearing a ring doesn't mean he's not in a relationship, and there are people out there who would jump at the opportunity, especially if there's no chase as such involved where they could potentially have it backfire quickly. There it is, handed on a piece of paper.
Very good point. I hadn’t thought through the ethics of him already being taken
I actually did something very similar. I'd been working in the same place for a while when I noticed an attractive woman who was in the next door property. She was there the same time as I, so one week I left a note on her windscreen, with my number and asked her if she'd care to go for a drink? A few hours later, her husband phoned and told me in no uncertain terms she was happily married!
Two things from this experience... 1 there is always the chance you may receive an irate phone call from a partner!
2. It made me think what I would have done in her situation? Felt flattered and thrown the paper away. Not sure I would have told a partner as it was inconsequential."
The phone call from the hubby was a risk worth taking, you didn't know she was married |
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"I’ve always wanted to do it but never dared. Like the guy standing in a bus that I admire for 20 minutes. Would guys find it weird? How would I do it for best effect? I’m too shy to flirt or catch eyes so it would probably come as a surprise and then be too weird?
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nothing weird about it OP
Most guys would see it as a compliment, a nice touch,
Happy out in themselves for the day,
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