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Why do men on here always want couples
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now |
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They're probably just looking for new experiences and if they enjoyed their time with you they're wanting to share those new experiences with you. If it's not something you're interested in then just say so and any decent guy will respect that. |
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First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.
BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait. |
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"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.
BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait."
Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either. |
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"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.
BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.
Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either. "
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"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.
BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.
Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either. "
Only scousers will get that! |
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"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.
BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.
Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.
Only scousers will get that!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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reading bween the lines
Couple = I see a couple on here or talked to a couple but they don’t meet single guys but are happy to meet other couples for swap I really want to bang his wife will you help me do so you get to bang her husband
Other females = well most guys fantasy a three some with 2 woman thats why hard to come by hence the unicorn stats for woman who play with couples
Other man = my mate wants a bang at you as I been telling him going to pretend I found him on fab
Or someone noticed you verified me and you turned him down he’s asked me to set up the meet ie tell her you want see her with you and another guy and I come along she keeps turning me down |
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"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "
I’d like a lady never mind a couple
All the single ladies please stand up   |
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"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now
I’d like a lady never mind a couple
All the single ladies please stand up "
All the single ladies. It you wan it then ya gotta put a ring on it |
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"There’s one guy that wants to do stuff with the guy aswell so why can’t he just go on his own as they are both bisexual "
I know a few bisexual men who are only interested in mmf to be fair and not interested in one to one meets with other men. |
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"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.
BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.
Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.
Only scousers will get that!
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"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.
BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.
Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.
Only scousers will get that!
And Wools "
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I think people on here have a wide range of interests - they are more open to exploration - more liberal thinking - so it kinda follows what most of the other posters have said - there could be any number of reasons for them wanting to involve you - it’s really about if it suits you and if it doesn’t then they should respect that. If they don’t then move on as there are 20 guys to every woman on here - not an official stat - just a guess and there will be tons that are happy to meet you and meet you again xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to place this on the other foot
Women I've met have often spoken about wanting to meet other women but are nervous.they ask me if I would be there or be available to make sure they are ok so if it isn't going well they can be removed from the situation.
My reaction is always raised eyebrows and have you thought about this? And who are you thinking of? It's lots to consider, not all choices are easy ones.
I don't dismiss a women for asking me questions or get the hump by thinking she now just wants women I'm out!
People are inquisitive and nervous about first steps into the unknown.
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I actually want singles more than couples.
I'd like to try being with a couple one day, but I'm not actively seeking that.
Perhaps they are wanting the one on one with you, but now feel comfortable enough with you to express their other desires? Unless they stated they didn't want to see you without meeting a couple, I wouldn't worry about it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Yes a man has said that I’ve asked will it just be us two he said yeah and I’ll find a couple then I said again I just want us two he said yes but with someone else |
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"There’s one guy that wants to do stuff with the guy aswell so why can’t he just go on his own as they are both bisexual "
Quite a few men feel better about bisexual experiences if there's a woman present, some just like the idea of a threesome and some will just be wanting to try new stuff. The only way you'll get s proper answer though is by asking the men you're meeting |
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"Yes a man has said that I’ve asked will it just be us two he said yeah and I’ll find a couple then I said again I just want us two he said yes but with someone else "
He's just a muppet then.
Get rid of him, there are better on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes a man has said that I’ve asked will it just be us two he said yeah and I’ll find a couple then I said again I just want us two he said yes but with someone else "
Op - use reply + quote.
If he’s not listening to you now, and not hearing your no, it doesn’t bode well for a meet. |
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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago
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"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "
Weather it's always been there or not I don't know but I've started to notice increasingly the use of the Honey trapping technique. |
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"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "
Ask the question and set your rules from day 1, tell the men you won't meet other couples.
To not set ground rules and be caught 5 times with the same problem isn't great
Change nothing, nothing changes
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In this scene, a man with a woman has more options than a man on his own. My guess is he sees the possibility of other doors opening when he and you are together in a way that they are don't when he's on his own. Luke |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"reading bween the lines
Couple = I see a couple on here or talked to a couple but they don’t meet single guys but are happy to meet other couples for swap I really want to bang his wife will you help me do so you get to bang her husband
Other females = well most guys fantasy a three some with 2 woman thats why hard to come by hence the unicorn stats for woman who play with couples
Other man = my mate wants a bang at you as I been telling him going to pretend I found him on fab
Or someone noticed you verified me and you turned him down he’s asked me to set up the meet ie tell her you want see her with you and another guy and I come along she keeps turning me down "
Very insightful! |
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"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now
I’d like a lady never mind a couple
All the single ladies please stand up
All the single ladies. It you wan it then ya gotta put a ring on it "
Bit too much commitment for me  
All this talk oooft rings and fingers bend over please   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.
Hey, Dingle is beautiful, and has the best chippies in the world.
Dunno about the guys though.
I guess if you like terraced houses. "
Cross purposes I think. I meant Dingle in Co. Kerry, Ireland |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "
Just to meet would be a fine thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.
BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.
Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.
Only scousers will get that!"
dingle is a town in kerry, southern Ireland. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "
The same that others have said there are many different reasons but I’m the same as you I would like that honesty from the beginning. It’s not too difficult to ask do you or are you interested in couples? This then leaves the door open to later suggestions if you say yes.
When I meet single women it’s because that’s who I want to spend time with. In the rare occasion I met couples then I need to know they are a couple and not just 2 people who meet together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Stand your ground OP...I am straight so the couples thing is a definitive no and some do see it as a challenge (ooh would love to see you pop your bi cherry) gets deleted and blocked.
Respect me, Respect my wishes |
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"Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.
Hey, Dingle is beautiful, and has the best chippies in the world.
Dunno about the guys though.
I guess if you like terraced houses.
Cross purposes I think. I meant Dingle in Co. Kerry, Ireland "
We're talking about a part of Liverpool called Dingle . |
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"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.
BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.
Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.
Only scousers will get that!dingle is a town in kerry, southern Ireland. "
It's also a part of Liverpool |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my experience most of the time in the next breath after meeting it's can we get another female involved "
Looking at your profile, I'd be happy with just yourself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my experience most of the time in the next breath after meeting it's can we get another female involved "
I can honestly say id be more than satisfied with just you and wouldn't have any need to involve anyone else |
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