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over a year ago
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This isn’t meant to sound flippant, but maybe your Doctor? If its sudden and severe and come from nowhere that sounds like something to get checked.
Good luck my friend  |
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It's 21:45 at night. I suspect his Dr might not be available! Perhaps he's looking for supportive chat with people who have experienced it while waiting for an appointment? Lots of people with different medical conditions do the same.
OP, obviously as a woman I can't provide any real life exoerive or advice other that to understand it must be worrying for you,especially when on a site like this and wanting to enjoy all it offers. |
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Downside of being in your 40s possibly? I have a medical condition that started a few years ago that can randomly flair up and kill my erection instantly then 5 mins later, I'm back to normal. Nothing inherently serious and it just came with age but as a swinger, you can see the problem it can cause.
I have no idea if or when it will hit and can go for weeks without a flair up but regular meets know about it and understand. I'll.just swap to doing something else whilst my body recovers. If we go to a club I'll cheat and pop a viagra.Nothing to be ashamed of. I'm just not as young as I once was.
Do go speak to your doctor though. Always get a medical opinion when theres a big noticable change to your body |
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If you are in any pain then I would call 111 immediately.
As others have suggested an urgent trip to the doctor is highly advised.
I cant offer any other advice but I very hope you get the support and advice you need. X |
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I feel your angst here op but hopefully it will turn out to be nothing serious and could be something simple like stress related but as mentioned the doctor is your best bet.
I personally struggled for six months when I stopped spunking thinking it must be cancer but it just turned out to be a muscle had packed up and I was jizzing into my bladder when I orgasmed.
Best of luck
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"Really struggling mentally and want to discuss this with someone"
There’s far more to sex than being able to get an erection.
I’ve been in relationships with a couple of men who couldn’t … but what we did do was amazing.
Focus not on the lack of erection but on what you can do to satisfy your partner in and out of the bedroom … you may well find it’s not longer an issue for you when you’re focusing on something other than your todger |
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