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When does a compliment irritate
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I am feeling low about myself. It's hard to believe one then. Even though intentions are good. 
Understood - is it like what agenda do they have?"
Kind of. Depends how genuine it seems. It's more of a need not to convince me that I'm wrong to feel yuck. Just be the space keeper. Until I sort myself out. I think that's what I meant. I didnt think it through!  |
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By *ohnsnowmanMan
over a year ago
Don't Go Back to Sexville |
On a pay cam site I get "You are the hottest man on the whole site". I mean get a grip. There are absolute chisel jawed adonises with 10" dicks on there. I'm an out of shape 40 something. I know they just want my attention but really! |
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There is a guy I work with. I saw him for the first time in 14 months this week. He clearly had lost weight. He looked great. He’d also got good shiny skin going on. Moisturiser ? Looked like a different guy.
So after thinking about what to say I went in with “you are looking well”. I dare not say “you’ve lost some weight”. It’s always awkward. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Commenting on weight loss tends to rub me up the wrong way a bit. "
I can relate to that - I am thinking that it should be totally irrelevant to that person whether I have or not, I just want them stop focussing on what I look like as if it defined me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"‘You’re looking well!’
‘What, was I looking sick before ?!’
Agree - I hate being told that but for a different reason. I always think they mean "fat" "
oh i would always take looking well as polite way of saying you lost weight without actually mentioning your weight |
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When it's purely to get in yer undercrackers
When it's part of manipulation for whatever purpose
When you know they don't mean it, and are doing the kill them with kindness bollocks
When it's backhanded |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When it's purely to get in yer undercrackers
When it's part of manipulation for whatever purpose
When you know they don't mean it, and are doing the kill them with kindness bollocks
When it's backhanded"
Backhanded.
That's the word I was looking for thanks |
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