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over a year ago
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Am I doing something completely wrong?
I enjoy forums and often join in on many threads however my comments/posts go unnoticed the majority of times, apart from one or two forumites, so what am I doing wrong?
Am I on some sort of “ignore this man at all costs whether in forums or if he messages” 
Rant over but gradually getting frustrating now, and not just sexually haha 
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Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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Doubt you’re doing anything wrong. It’s just how the forum seems to work. I also feel invisible much of the time but there is little to be gained from calling for attention.
Just post away and say what you want to say. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho."
Awwwww thanks PP  appreciated mwah  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're not doing anything wrong. Most of my posts go 'unnoticed' (by which I mean don't get replied to apart from a few people) but I do know that posts don't go unnoticed just because they are not replied to.
If you enjoy the forums and commenting keep doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doubt you’re doing anything wrong. It’s just how the forum seems to work. I also feel invisible much of the time but there is little to be gained from calling for attention.
Just post away and say what you want to say. "
I want attention in the form of advice haha but thanks dued  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're not doing anything wrong. Most of my posts go 'unnoticed' (by which I mean don't get replied to apart from a few people) but I do know that posts don't go unnoticed just because they are not replied to.
If you enjoy the forums and commenting keep doing it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho."
You always speak sense PP |
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"Doubt you’re doing anything wrong. It’s just how the forum seems to work. I also feel invisible much of the time but there is little to be gained from calling for attention.
Just post away and say what you want to say. "
Yeah agree completely there is lots of posts and comments you aren’t gonna please everyone, just comment and your thoughts and move on. I’m new to this so I feel where you are coming from |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happens to us all and its usually for many other innocent reasons and not anything regarding you/me/them/us as individuals. Many threads move at pace with posters submitting simultaneous posts.
Please don't feel shunned and not welcome because you are just as much as everyone else 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That was my attempt at a joke, didn't really work in text did it?
Dont worry dude! Just carry on as you are! Do what I do and talk shite. Then you can blame it on that when folk overlook it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That was my attempt at a joke, didn't really work in text did it?
Dont worry dude! Just carry on as you are! Do what I do and talk shite. Then you can blame it on that when folk overlook it "
I got the joke just didn’t bite I’ll give it a go |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It happens to us all and its usually for many other innocent reasons and not anything regarding you/me/them/us as individuals. Many threads move at pace with posters submitting simultaneous posts.
Please don't feel shunned and not welcome because you are just as much as everyone else
NBVN x "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is that why you participate in forum to get noticed?
Posts go fast and people move on… don’t count for a pat on your back mate. Just keep posting "
No I post/comment just to join in, no need for a pat on back just seeking advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That was my attempt at a joke, didn't really work in text did it?
Dont worry dude! Just carry on as you are! Do what I do and talk shite. Then you can blame it on that when folk overlook it
I got the joke just didn’t bite I’ll give it a go "
Jolly good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That was my attempt at a joke, didn't really work in text did it?
Dont worry dude! Just carry on as you are! Do what I do and talk shite. Then you can blame it on that when folk overlook it
I got the joke just didn’t bite I’ll give it a go "
I laughed too.
See people do read and appreciate even if they don't do a |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That was my attempt at a joke, didn't really work in text did it?
Dont worry dude! Just carry on as you are! Do what I do and talk shite. Then you can blame it on that when folk overlook it
I got the joke just didn’t bite I’ll give it a go
I laughed too.
See people do read and appreciate even if they don't do a "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something completely wrong?
I enjoy forums and often join in on many threads however my comments/posts go unnoticed the majority of times, apart from one or two forumites, so what am I doing wrong?
Am I on some sort of “ignore this man at all costs whether in forums or if he messages”
Rant over but gradually getting frustrating now, and not just sexually haha
Peace and love y’all "
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"Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho.
Awwwww thanks PP appreciated mwah "
You're welcome. I know it can feel like you're invisible at times but I had to pull myself up on it before now when I've thought there'd been some kind of conspiracy against me on the sly or something coz I had a few days where none of my contributions at all got commented on. That was really strange for me and threw me a little. Then I thought about it. Sometimes there's nothing more to add or expand on. Other times the grenades I can throw leave people on edge and they think "i aint fucking going there".
Occasionally I take things too a whole new realm of grimness that leaves people speechless.
And of course, the times when people just can't be arsed or what I've said doesn't interest them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something completely wrong?
I enjoy forums and often join in on many threads however my comments/posts go unnoticed the majority of times, apart from one or two forumites, so what am I doing wrong?
Am I on some sort of “ignore this man at all costs whether in forums or if he messages”
Rant over but gradually getting frustrating now, and not just sexually haha
Peace and love y’all
Watch _rincess peaches vids "
Doing that now, brilliant |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Post in threads where you're going to get a reply - the nocturnal, the early morning one from pp.
Keep posting on different threads, people might not reply to you for all sorts of reasons but once they are familiar with you they are more likely to respond. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I’m hilariously awesome but many of my posts go uncommented upon.
That doesn’t mean everyone isn’t rolling around laughing at my incredible wit though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho.
Awwwww thanks PP appreciated mwah
You're welcome. I know it can feel like you're invisible at times but I had to pull myself up on it before now when I've thought there'd been some kind of conspiracy against me on the sly or something coz I had a few days where none of my contributions at all got commented on. That was really strange for me and threw me a little. Then I thought about it. Sometimes there's nothing more to add or expand on. Other times the grenades I can throw leave people on edge and they think "i aint fucking going there".
Occasionally I take things too a whole new realm of grimness that leaves people speechless.
And of course, the times when people just can't be arsed or what I've said doesn't interest them "
You’re right and I understand and over it now however I’ve just realised I can’t delete this thread
Just get on with it eh thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I’m hilariously awesome but many of my posts go uncommented upon.
That doesn’t mean everyone isn’t rolling around laughing at my incredible wit though "
point taken |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Post in threads where you're going to get a reply - the nocturnal, the early morning one from pp.
Keep posting on different threads, people might not reply to you for all sorts of reasons but once they are familiar with you they are more likely to respond. "
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You can’t really give advice on this! But everyone has had a response to a thread ignored.. there will be many people see this and ignore but so what its not really a big deal is it?
You don’t go talk to everyone one by one in a pub do you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I’m hilariously awesome but many of my posts go uncommented upon.
That doesn’t mean everyone isn’t rolling around laughing at my incredible wit though
point taken "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something completely wrong?
I enjoy forums and often join in on many threads however my comments/posts go unnoticed the majority of times, apart from one or two forumites, so what am I doing wrong?
Who the fuck said that ?!
Am I on some sort of “ignore this man at all costs whether in forums or if he messages”
Rant over but gradually getting frustrating now, and not just sexually haha
Peace and love y’all "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always remember womens posts will always get plenty of attention.
Don't compete just relax and enjoy"
Glad I scrolled down as I was intending to reply much the same thing. |
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"Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can’t really give advice on this! But everyone has had a response to a thread ignored.. there will be many people see this and ignore but so what its not really a big deal is it?
You don’t go talk to everyone one by one in a pub do you? "
Well the advice that’s come through so far is good and appreciated tbf. |
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The familiar point from Meli is a really good one. I can be extremely marmite like in my posting and very blunt indeed. Not hb pencil blunt, lumphammer blunt. I'm aware of this so I do like to give people time to understand me and my posting style, as well as myself time to gauge them and whether they can take it or whether I need to be a little gentler. I xam call loads of people here a cunt and they know I'm doing it with a smile on my face and virtual dead arm, but others won't realise that or be able to tell when I really am calling them a cunt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho."
Exactly this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was here for 2 years before I got my first reply and quote, my threads would disappear off page one within minutes, but then I googled some big words and then shoe horned them into thread’s, then I’d get the sapiosexual women message me impressed with my prowess with the English language, it was all very embourgeoisement. |
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Not all statements provoke disagreement or response, especially if they are well rounded positions. Some people intentionally try provoke responses, we all use the forum differently - some flirt too.
Everybody adds something different to here and, as long as rules are followed, all do and are welcome.
If you make statements, more than open ended questions, you’ll potentially get the respect you deserve for your contribution, unless things aren't well understood, for example.
Overall, it's better to enjoy posting and seek to get all of your satisfaction from that, rather than any spin-off attention or benefit that may accrue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho."
Peachy's quite right mr invisible |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho.
Peachy's quite right mr invisible "
Haha |
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"You can’t really give advice on this! But everyone has had a response to a thread ignored.. there will be many people see this and ignore but so what its not really a big deal is it?
You don’t go talk to everyone one by one in a pub do you?
Well the advice that’s come through so far is good and appreciated tbf. "
I never said it wasn’t.. lets hope you put it to good use |
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"Ahhhh, you *think* they go unnoticed. You can't see people nodding along at home when they read something they agree with.
You can't see the lurkers giving you a virtual high 5.
People notice. They don't always comment tho.
Peachy's quite right mr invisible
Haha "
Peachy's always fucking right
Except when she's wrong but that's rare and generally spectacularly awful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was here for 2 years before I got my first reply and quote, my threads would disappear off page one within minutes, but then I googled some big words and then shoe horned them into thread’s, then I’d get the sapiosexual women message me impressed with my prowess with the English language, it was all very embourgeoisement. "
Fancy a quick fuck?
My knickers just went damp |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what I do op post your thoughts on the subject and movie on the next check back ever ones and a while if not on to the next thread
Threads movie fast with a lot off people sometimes post can get lost in the sea off things
Don’t take it to hart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something completely wrong?
I enjoy forums and often join in on many threads however my comments/posts go unnoticed the majority of times, apart from one or two forumites, so what am I doing wrong?
Am I on some sort of “ignore this man at all costs whether in forums or if he messages”
Rant over but gradually getting frustrating now, and not just sexually haha
Peace and love y’all
Watch _rincess peaches vids
Doing that now, brilliant "
There are videos??? |
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over a year ago
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"I was here for 2 years before I got my first reply and quote, my threads would disappear off page one within minutes, but then I googled some big words and then shoe horned them into thread’s, then I’d get the sapiosexual women message me impressed with my prowess with the English language, it was all very embourgeoisement.
Fancy a quick fuck?
My knickers just went damp "
Oh my |
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"I was here for 2 years before I got my first reply and quote, my threads would disappear off page one within minutes, but then I googled some big words and then shoe horned them into thread’s, then I’d get the sapiosexual women message me impressed with my prowess with the English language, it was all very embourgeoisement.
Fancy a quick fuck?
My knickers just went damp
Oh my"
I love a big word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes think we could do with a little like emoji button for comments instead of a reply and quote. Lots of people might click on that where they don't want to spam a thread with a |
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"I sometimes think we could do with a little like emoji button for comments instead of a reply and quote. Lots of people might click on that where they don't want to spam a thread with a "
I agree.
Unfortunately people argue this isn’t fb though. |
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"I sometimes think we could do with a little like emoji button for comments instead of a reply and quote. Lots of people might click on that where they don't want to spam a thread with a "
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"I sometimes think we could do with a little like emoji button for comments instead of a reply and quote. Lots of people might click on that where they don't want to spam a thread with a "
I agree too that is the best idea |
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"I was here for 2 years before I got my first reply and quote, my threads would disappear off page one within minutes, but then I googled some big words and then shoe horned them into thread’s, then I’d get the sapiosexual women message me impressed with my prowess with the English language, it was all very embourgeoisement.
Fancy a quick fuck?
My knickers just went damp
Oh my
I love a big word "
That is a great word well done you, I’m giving you an enormous round of applause |
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"Am I doing something completely wrong?
I enjoy forums and often join in on many threads however my comments/posts go unnoticed the majority of times, apart from one or two forumites, so what am I doing wrong?
Am I on some sort of “ignore this man at all costs whether in forums or if he messages”
Rant over but gradually getting frustrating now, and not just sexually haha
Peace and love y’all
Watch _rincess peaches vids
Doing that now, brilliant
There are videos???"
Aye, I was a stone n half lighter then mind. Atine n half on a normal sized human is fuck all more than a decent shit. Stone n half on a borrower is 2 chins, a pair of back boobs and chub rub of the thighs. |
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"I was here for 2 years before I got my first reply and quote, my threads would disappear off page one within minutes, but then I googled some big words and then shoe horned them into thread’s, then I’d get the sapiosexual women message me impressed with my prowess with the English language, it was all very embourgeoisement.
Fancy a quick fuck?
My knickers just went damp "
That’s very discombobulating! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I doing something completely wrong?
I enjoy forums and often join in on many threads however my comments/posts go unnoticed the majority of times, apart from one or two forumites, so what am I doing wrong?
Am I on some sort of “ignore this man at all costs whether in forums or if he messages”
Rant over but gradually getting frustrating now, and not just sexually haha
Peace and love y’all
Watch _rincess peaches vids
Doing that now, brilliant
There are videos???
Aye, I was a stone n half lighter then mind. Atine n half on a normal sized human is fuck all more than a decent shit. Stone n half on a borrower is 2 chins, a pair of back boobs and chub rub of the thighs."
Now there's something I missed!
Superb!! 'Just been watching and having a good old chuckle; thanks PP |
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"Am I doing something completely wrong?
I enjoy forums and often join in on many threads however my comments/posts go unnoticed the majority of times, apart from one or two forumites, so what am I doing wrong?
Am I on some sort of “ignore this man at all costs whether in forums or if he messages”
Rant over but gradually getting frustrating now, and not just sexually haha
Peace and love y’all
Watch _rincess peaches vids
Doing that now, brilliant
There are videos???
Aye, I was a stone n half lighter then mind. Atine n half on a normal sized human is fuck all more than a decent shit. Stone n half on a borrower is 2 chins, a pair of back boobs and chub rub of the thighs.
Now there's something I missed!
Superb!! 'Just been watching and having a good old chuckle; thanks PP "
That's why I made em, to give people an observational chuckle |
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"I was here for 2 years before I got my first reply and quote, my threads would disappear off page one within minutes, but then I googled some big words and then shoe horned them into thread’s, then I’d get the sapiosexual women message me impressed with my prowess with the English language, it was all very embourgeoisement.
Fancy a quick fuck?
My knickers just went damp
That’s very discombobulating! "
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99% of my posts don't provoke a response OP, it happens to everyone.
Thankfully I'm a gobby enough cow that I'll keep adding my two penn'orth whether anyone wants it or not.
Just keep being you OP, keep adding to any conversations that interest you. |
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