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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though "
I want that t-shirt now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wish I didn’t have a dad bod, but I’m unlikely to have either time or inclination to be ‘gym fit’, I’ve also got plenty to do otherwise, so I can only hope that some ladies appreciate the pics and don’t mind. |
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Having dealt with pains due to sports most of my adult life, and the Gyms being closed here up until last week and being retired from ball nearly 2 years, and loving my red meat and wine, I can Deffo say I'm loving my new pain free Dad bod,I'm enjoying watching my tummy tatt expand lol ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though "
I want that T-shirt!!! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though
I want that t-shirt now lol "
I'm going to make that t shirt lol |
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over a year ago
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"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though "
That's fabulous.
I got to get me one if those |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though
That's fabulous.
I got to get me one if those"
I know where they are available ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though "
Gave me a George Michael earworm ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though
I want that t-shirt now lol
I'm going to make that t shirt lol"
I'll take 1 please XL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think a lot of women love a gym bod but prefer a dad bod because it’s more attainable and makes them feel less self conscious "
Id agree with this for myself. Iv slept with both and I certainly felt less self conscious when I was with the guy that wasn’t gym fit.
I also find either attractive. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though
I want that t-shirt now lol
I'm going to make that t shirt lol
I'll take 1 please XL"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think is best?"
Neither of those. Women like men who used to go to the gym, but haven’t been for several months so they’ve softened up, so they still have definition but also the cuddle factor.
Hope this helps in your research X |
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"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though
I want that t-shirt now lol
I'm going to make that t shirt lol
I'll take 1 please XL
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In my Google search for your T Shirt I found 1 with 2 matchstick men, with the caption I got your back,
Very funny and a baldi in Aldi style logo, I bought them lol |
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"What do you think is best?
Neither of those. Women like men who used to go to the gym, but haven’t been for several months so they’ve softened up, so they still have definition but also the cuddle factor.
Hope this helps in your research X "
This is the ideal in my eyes ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Dad bod definitely!
I was seeing someone briefly with a gym bod, I’ve never met anyone so arrogant and self absorbed with his body ever before and since. Made me feel incredibly uncomfortable, put me off for life |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I saw an awesome t shirt yesterday.
It said "this isn't a dad bod, it's a father figure"
Made me feel all fuzzy inside that did.
Obviously I've been no help at all with the question though
I want that t-shirt now lol
I'm going to make that t shirt lol
I'll take 1 please XL
In my Google search for your T Shirt I found 1 with 2 matchstick men, with the caption I got your back,
Very funny and a baldi in Aldi style logo, I bought them lol"
Love them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eithers good with me as long as they've got the personality to go with it, they could be the fittest buffest bod but if they're a dick then it's a no-no, same goes for dad bod."
I'm nice.. with a dadbod ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well Im definitely bigger then a dad bod.
But I've got alot To cuddle, hold and grab. A chunky monkey but very funky. With a great personality and naughty mind.
If there's any of them tshirts in 4/5xl send one this way. |
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"I think a lot of women love a gym bod but prefer a dad bod because it’s more attainable and makes them feel less self conscious
Or they don't want to hang with a guy obsessed with his body. "
Seems quite judgemental to think that everyone with a decent body only cares about there body.
It seems to be quite common thought in this thread. Judging someone’s personality by their body type?
That wouldn’t fly if we judged a woman for being fat?
Let’s pick the body we like and then figure out who they are instead of being so judgemental |
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Not a female preference but I far prefer to be gym fit as opposed to anything else. Doesn’t mean a 6 pack but still curvy with strength. Bulky, stocky, healthy and broad is how I like to be. Love the gym.
Mr |
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"I think a lot of women love a gym bod but prefer a dad bod because it’s more attainable and makes them feel less self conscious
Or they don't want to hang with a guy obsessed with his body. "
That's a bit mean. A lot of women are obsessed with their body but the guys put up with us . |
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"What about lanky, slim guys. They're hot too
Not that this is me but I love the inclusivity!
Mr
They always get left out of this debate! "
As I’ve stated I much prefer the distinction of a mix anyway. Muscular and stocky. Doesn’t have to be one or the other or Id have no place in this discussion haha.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"God some of the soft answers in here. We get it guys, your all caring thoughtful guys that are worthy of a meet and it’s what’s inside that matters.
But the question is what you prefer "
Donna kebab and a pint would see me happy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think a lot of women love a gym bod but prefer a dad bod because it’s more attainable and makes them feel less self conscious "
Nope. I love a Dad bod, because I find it sexy. |
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"I think a lot of women love a gym bod but prefer a dad bod because it’s more attainable and makes them feel less self conscious
Nope. I love a Dad bod, because I find it sexy."
Yeah you do lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The lies you ladies are telling in this thread, if Adonis was stood next to Dad Bod, you wouldnt think twice u lying minxes. Im a Dad Bod, my brains ok but the rest isnt, whereas Adonis Brains are all over him bar his head hahaha Xxx |
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I do love a nice muscular bod. few awesome tattoos and im a mess. might be biased though since himself looks that way. I hate this assumption that some people have that people who go to the gym are obsessed with themselves, arrogant narcissistic etc. I know plenty of "dad bods" who have those traits also. |
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"I do love a nice muscular bod. few awesome tattoos and im a mess. might be biased though since himself looks that way. I hate this assumption that some people have that people who go to the gym are obsessed with themselves, arrogant narcissistic etc. I know plenty of "dad bods" who have those traits also. "
In my experience most guts with good bodies suffer from terrible body dysmorphia, myself included, and have terrible self esteem issues |
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"I do love a nice muscular bod. few awesome tattoos and im a mess. might be biased though since himself looks that way. I hate this assumption that some people have that people who go to the gym are obsessed with themselves, arrogant narcissistic etc. I know plenty of "dad bods" who have those traits also.
In my experience most guts with good bodies suffer from terrible body dysmorphia, myself included, and have terrible self esteem issues "
in some cases yes, I will agree there and I would also apply that to women also (I have body issues) my husband however does not, he just enjoys working out and lifting weights. |
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"The lies you ladies are telling in this thread, if Adonis was stood next to Dad Bod, you wouldnt think twice u lying minxes. Im a Dad Bod, my brains ok but the rest isnt, whereas Adonis Brains are all over him bar his head hahaha Xxx"
Why do you think we’re lying? It’s about the head/personality/connection above everything else, but when I’m snuggling up afterwards, I love a hairy cuddly dad bod ![](/icons/s/2/lovestruck.gif) |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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Reasons I go to the gym :
Helps against anxiety
Helps combat depression
Good stress relief
Allows me to stay disciplined and self controlled
Makes me feel strong and healthy
Build up confidence- I have low self esteem
Under no circumstances do I go to the gym to cater to any woman's preferences.
The prejudgmental opinions of some of you, combined with your ignorance sickens me. |
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"Reasons I go to the gym :
Helps against anxiety
Helps combat depression
Good stress relief
Allows me to stay disciplined and self controlled
Makes me feel strong and healthy
Build up confidence- I have low self esteem
Under no circumstances do I go to the gym to cater to any woman's preferences.
The prejudgmental opinions of some of you, combined with your ignorance sickens me."
Well said ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think is best?
Neither of those. Women like men who used to go to the gym, but haven’t been for several months so they’ve softened up, so they still have definition but also the cuddle factor.
Hope this helps in your research X "
That's actually very true haha |
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"Reasons I go to the gym :
Helps against anxiety
Helps combat depression
Good stress relief
Allows me to stay disciplined and self controlled
Makes me feel strong and healthy
Build up confidence- I have low self esteem
Under no circumstances do I go to the gym to cater to any woman's preferences.
The prejudgmental opinions of some of you, combined with your ignorance sickens me."
Love this. Good on you ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Reasons I go to the gym :
Helps against anxiety
Helps combat depression
Good stress relief
Allows me to stay disciplined and self controlled
Makes me feel strong and healthy
Build up confidence- I have low self esteem
Under no circumstances do I go to the gym to cater to any woman's preferences.
The prejudgmental opinions of some of you, combined with your ignorance sickens me."
anxiety & depression are a killer and I respect you for going for them reasons alone |
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"The lies you ladies are telling in this thread, if Adonis was stood next to Dad Bod, you wouldnt think twice u lying minxes. Im a Dad Bod, my brains ok but the rest isnt, whereas Adonis Brains are all over him bar his head hahaha Xxx
Why do you think we’re lying? It’s about the head/personality/connection above everything else, but when I’m snuggling up afterwards, I love a hairy cuddly dad bod "
Well maybe im wrong then i apologise, but i do think im generally right. No different for Men, if presented with a sexy siren or a Mum bod 99% will chose sexy siren. |
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"The lies you ladies are telling in this thread, if Adonis was stood next to Dad Bod, you wouldnt think twice u lying minxes. Im a Dad Bod, my brains ok but the rest isnt, whereas Adonis Brains are all over him bar his head hahaha Xxx
Why do you think we’re lying? It’s about the head/personality/connection above everything else, but when I’m snuggling up afterwards, I love a hairy cuddly dad bod
Well maybe im wrong then i apologise, but i do think im generally right. No different for Men, if presented with a sexy siren or a Mum bod 99% will chose sexy siren."
Start a thread. I bet you’ll be surprised ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reasons I go to the gym :
Helps against anxiety
Helps combat depression
Good stress relief
Allows me to stay disciplined and self controlled
Makes me feel strong and healthy
Build up confidence- I have low self esteem
Under no circumstances do I go to the gym to cater to any woman's preferences.
The prejudgmental opinions of some of you, combined with your ignorance sickens me."
It was a sweeping statement by me i apologise. However i do think its most mens idea, to do it to attract, its human and animal nature ! |
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"The lies you ladies are telling in this thread, if Adonis was stood next to Dad Bod, you wouldnt think twice u lying minxes. Im a Dad Bod, my brains ok but the rest isnt, whereas Adonis Brains are all over him bar his head hahaha Xxx
Why do you think we’re lying? It’s about the head/personality/connection above everything else, but when I’m snuggling up afterwards, I love a hairy cuddly dad bod
Well maybe im wrong then i apologise, but i do think im generally right. No different for Men, if presented with a sexy siren or a Mum bod 99% will chose sexy siren.
Start a thread. I bet you’ll be surprised "
Whats embarrassing for me is ive agreed to support a guy bigger than me n im big, to join a Gym when were allowed, as he wants to lose weight n went years ago n enjoyed it. Im not a Gym guy ever but if it helps him then i'll do it with him as his Community MH support worker ! Dreading it hahaha |
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I’ve never been ripped, I’ve been stacked and built well. But since being hone I’d slacked. But I’m heading back out to work soon. So I’m in the garage in my own gym sorting out my phys. And I’m loving it again
Running every night, eating a lot cleaner and doing some weights again
It’s helping with a better sheep pattern and I feel better too.
That and meeting someone amazing as focused me again.
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"Not a female preference but I far prefer to be gym fit as opposed to anything else. Doesn’t mean a 6 pack but still curvy with strength. Bulky, stocky, healthy and broad is how I like to be. Love the gym.
Mr"
This is what I fancy the most
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