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over a year ago
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A very attractive brunette likes me (not on here) she has high sex drive which Is fine. The problem is she is full of drama, everythings an issue which she creates. I'm not interested in having a emotional tie with her but I'm interested in fwb.
how do I go about this, how do I not cause a massive scene in suggesting only sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you sure she is a drama or you give her reasons to be 'dramatic'?
If only we could create a custom fwb. With no flaws. learn to tolerate or sort it together. I bet you have lots of annoying things about you too  |
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"A very attractive brunette likes me (not on here) she has high sex drive which Is fine. The problem is she is full of drama, everythings an issue which she creates. I'm not interested in having a emotional tie with her but I'm interested in fwb.
how do I go about this, how do I not cause a massive scene in suggesting only sex. "
Don't go there unless she's 100%
on the same page it wouldn't be fair on her. Why do you want someone to change, you know what she's like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s pointless telling us what you want but much better for you personally to explain how you feel with her.
When I used to play each and every partner knew it was just for sex and nothing else as I was very upfront and honest.
Three left their husbands but we had no dramas.
Best of luck.
Tony |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It’s pointless telling us what you want but much better for you personally to explain how you feel with her.
When I used to play each and every partner knew it was just for sex and nothing else as I was very upfront and honest.
Three left their husbands but we had no dramas.
Best of luck.
Tony"
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"A very attractive brunette likes me (not on here) she has high sex drive which Is fine. The problem is she is full of drama, everythings an issue which she creates. I'm not interested in having a emotional tie with her but I'm interested in fwb.
how do I go about this, how do I not cause a massive scene in suggesting only sex. "
Yes baffles me why ask us
You will meet her anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was me.
I don't care how hot she is,if she's causing me grief I walk away, no text,no reason,gone.
Let some other poor bastard deal with it as he will likely come to the same conclusion and leave her too.
Plenty of women on this planet so don't be scared to walk away |
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over a year ago
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"Come on! At 39 you must have learnt by now - women are so easy to manipulate. String her along. Fill your boots and enjoy the drama. Every hole is a goal! "
At 39 I've learnt every hole isn't always a goal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am a no drama llama so i avoid these people like the plague. Some people enjoy the second hand drama. She won't change so decide if you are on board for the theatrics or not. "
She does enjoy it, im not sure why it's stressful, we've been close before so I do care for her just not enough to get sucked in |
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"Thanks for the advice, I will talk to her obviously about it just weren't sure how to not hurt her feelings"
I think there's already every chance you will hurt her feelings, because you're rejecting her for her but want to keep her around, at arms length for her hole.
That's likely to sting. |
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"Thanks for the advice, I will talk to her obviously about it just weren't sure how to not hurt her feelings
I think there's already every chance you will hurt her feelings, because you're rejecting her for her but want to keep her around, at arms length for her hole.
That's likely to sting."
100% peachy peach xx |
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"Come on! At 39 you must have learnt by now - women are so easy to manipulate. String her along. Fill your boots and enjoy the drama. Every hole is a goal! "
Loool your looking to wind up the women on here init xx tut tut |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks for the advice, I will talk to her obviously about it just weren't sure how to not hurt her feelings
I think there's already every chance you will hurt her feelings, because you're rejecting her for her but want to keep her around, at arms length for her hole.
That's likely to sting."
We're long time friends and obviously do care, I have others to consider in my life now and I avoid any drama, il be honest with her. I keep her around because we do have a laugh, I've actually refused her "hole" many times to not lead her on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A very attractive brunette likes me (not on here) she has high sex drive which Is fine. The problem is she is full of drama, everythings an issue which she creates. I'm not interested in having a emotional tie with her but I'm interested in fwb.
how do I go about this, how do I not cause a massive scene in suggesting only sex. "
Switch off your hearing system  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a no drama llama so i avoid these people like the plague. Some people enjoy the second hand drama. She won't change so decide if you are on board for the theatrics or not.
She does enjoy it, im not sure why it's stressful, we've been close before so I do care for her just not enough to get sucked in"
Just ask her if she's up for a fuck. I've had a few similar arrangements with friends. It works great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A very attractive brunette likes me (not on here) she has high sex drive which Is fine. The problem is she is full of drama, everythings an issue which she creates. I'm not interested in having a emotional tie with her but I'm interested in fwb.
how do I go about this, how do I not cause a massive scene in suggesting only sex. "
F**king avoid! Tie a knot in it and take a cold bath! Really, don't bother don't go anywhere near!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People who love drama are exhausting. I can imagine no matter how great the sex is, this will counter her personality. If your asking the question, you probably already know the answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ask yourself if getting your willy wet is worth all the drama that comes with it. Only you will know what she’s like and if she’s worth it.
If yes, go for it.
If no, avoid.
How I’ve never made it as an Agony Uncle I’ll never know. |
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"Come on! At 39 you must have learnt by now - women are so easy to manipulate. String her along. Fill your boots and enjoy the drama. Every hole is a goal!
Loool your looking to wind up the women on here init xx tut tut "
Guilty! |
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This reminds me of the Mickey Flanagan routine where he compares the merits of two women, one who isn't interested in sex but makes a nice sandwich and one who loves sex but is full of drama. "I suppose I could always wear a stab best but then again I do like a sandwich"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This reminds me of the Mickey Flanagan routine where he compares the merits of two women, one who isn't interested in sex but makes a nice sandwich and one who loves sex but is full of drama. "I suppose I could always wear a stab best but then again I do like a sandwich" "
Haha love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ask yourself if getting your willy wet is worth all the drama that comes with it. Only you will know what she’s like and if she’s worth it.
If yes, go for it.
If no, avoid.
How I’ve never made it as an Agony Uncle I’ll never know. "
Do a thread! Agony Willy  |
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"This reminds me of the Mickey Flanagan routine where he compares the merits of two women, one who isn't interested in sex but makes a nice sandwich and one who loves sex but is full of drama. "I suppose I could always wear a stab best but then again I do like a sandwich" "
I too was reminded of it |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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My advice would be to avoid them it's not worth the agro.
I stopped meeting a FB I had on here because of background drama from one of his other fbs .Even though he was nice enough the crap that I was getting was not worth the hassle and drama that was followed and seemingly is still going on.
So my best advice is to avoid getting into anything especially if you know already that drama follows the person. |
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