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Failed love due to sex drive!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Soooo I have a high sex drive, but I do want to be with someone in a proper relationship.. Trouble is the girls I get with can’t handle that I love sex so much and so I was hoping I could fine someone on this site… Anyone on here made a relationship work from meeting on fab? I want a girlfriend that is filthy in the bedroom and is fun out of it … harder to find than I thought !!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nope they happy with me as a person just struggle to keep up and an imbalance is sex drives can really effect things.. we got on well… just couldn’t in the bedroom!! |
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"Soooo I have a high sex drive, but I do want to be with someone in a proper relationship.. Trouble is the girls I get with can’t handle that I love sex so much and so I was hoping I could fine someone on this site… Anyone on here made a relationship work from meeting on fab? I want a girlfriend that is filthy in the bedroom and is fun out of it … harder to find than I thought !!!
Kind replies only please …x"
Finding a partner on Fab can and does happen.
However, relationships are about give and take and working together.
My sex drive is random but that doesn't mean that my relationship with my husband is on rocky ground.
A successful relationship is about much more than the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes that’s true but mine has been far away from the last couple of girls and you have to be somewhere close… or it won’t work … there is comprise but can only go so far |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not just the guys that struggle with this.... Some of us women find it it hard to find someone with a sex drive to match ours too!
Don't give up I'm sure you'll find someone x
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Good too know !! ThAnks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It does happen, me and my partner stared out doing this together when we first met, we both love sex and girls and we also met alone if we want but have a normal happy heathy relationship too xx"
Awesome i won’t give up just yet then haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel your pain mate. I have the same issue. It’s really difficult finding someone that matches the sex drive and is also a genuinely nice person "
Exactly!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel your pain mate. I have the same issue. It’s really difficult finding someone that matches the sex drive and is also a genuinely nice person
Exactly!!"
I have found I’m having even more of a struggle being that I’m a single father with full custody also.
I’m sure it will happen when it’s meant to so keep the positivity mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it really about who lasts longer or is it just about having someone who becomes a part of your life. This site is where people go to find a meaning, it’s not found on here but it’s a good start |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It most definitely can happen. I met gerry on here over 2 years ago and have now lived together for well over a year. We match each other in every way thing's honestly couldn't be better. We had our 1st meet at a club and have hardly been apart since. All together awwww  "
Ah nice …. Thanks I’ll keep the faith |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not found anyone that matched my drive tbh. A ex from here I used to feel unwanted because he didn’t want as much sex as me and would rather sit in the hotel bar drinking  |
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"Nope they happy with me as a person just struggle to keep up and an imbalance is sex drives can really effect things.. we got on well… just couldn’t in the bedroom!!"
Outsider is right. I agree you need someone that wants sex as much as you but if that's what you want just state it honestly .... you are not so much looking for a person as something that shags on demand.
Nothing wrong with that but telling women you are looking for a 'girlfriend' will mean something a bit different.
You are looking for a F.B. |
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"Nope they happy with me as a person just struggle to keep up and an imbalance is sex drives can really effect things.. we got on well… just couldn’t in the bedroom!!"
Perhaps you suffer from hyper sexuality? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope they happy with me as a person just struggle to keep up and an imbalance is sex drives can really effect things.. we got on well… just couldn’t in the bedroom!!
Perhaps you suffer from hyper sexuality?"
Nope not that extreme |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe the problem is that you are looking for a "proper" relationship.
By proper I am assuming you mean traditional. Maybe am open relationship would suit you better. You have your traditional relationship and you put your extra sex drive into sex with others.
You don't need to just put it all on one person.
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"Nope they happy with me as a person just struggle to keep up and an imbalance is sex drives can really effect things.. we got on well… just couldn’t in the bedroom!!
Perhaps you suffer from hyper sexuality?
Nope not that extreme"
Relationships are more than just sex mate...there's also understanding, compromising and making efforts to balance a relationship out. There will be days where your partner is tired, or too stressed or just not in the mood for sex, are you willing to understand them on those days and show some discipline and self control? Or are you going to be upset with them and leave them in a state of confusion where they think " will I ever be able to meet his expectations?" , "is he now just going to get what he wants from another woman?". There are no such thing as perfect relationships, and you can't just have your cake and eat it. You need to have empathy and put yourself in your partner's position at times, to be able to offer understanding.
But maybe this shows that you are not made for a monogamous relationship, maybe your sex drive is that high, that one woman is not enough |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nope they happy with me as a person just struggle to keep up and an imbalance is sex drives can really effect things.. we got on well… just couldn’t in the bedroom!!
Perhaps you suffer from hyper sexuality?
Nope not that extreme
Relationships are more than just sex mate...there's also understanding, compromising and making efforts to balance a relationship out. There will be days where your partner is tired, or too stressed or just not in the mood for sex, are you willing to understand them on those days and show some discipline and self control? Or are you going to be upset with them and leave them in a state of confusion where they think " will I ever be able to meet his expectations?" , "is he now just going to get what he wants from another woman?". There are no such thing as perfect relationships, and you can't just have your cake and eat it. You need to have empathy and put yourself in your partner's position at times, to be able to offer understanding.
But maybe this shows that you are not made for a monogamous relationship, maybe your sex drive is that high, that one woman is not enough"
Your way over thinking it yes I understand all that but it’s about that core sex drive some girls are not very sexually interested …. That’s what I mean not that I’d make someone do it all the time that’s crazy |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Swingers can lose their mojo as well. WhT will you do then?
Remember as well that it’s not all about your sexual pleasure. Your partner needs to be pleasured as well.
Hope you find what you’re looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes that’s true but mine has been far away from the last couple of girls and you have to be somewhere close… or it won’t work … there is comprise but can only go so far "
Especially if you are a very sexual person and you regard sex important (I do too, and always somehow it was a cause of problems because I wanted it all the time) … some people put it as not so important, so if you end up with one of them girls then it just won’t work in the long run. U kinda need to be selective and pick one that can match or at least, half match your sexual drive and keep up x I’m sure u won’t have too much trouble and maybe be upfront on what u are looking for in a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes that’s true but mine has been far away from the last couple of girls and you have to be somewhere close… or it won’t work … there is comprise but can only go so far
Especially if you are a very sexual person and you regard sex important (I do too, and always somehow it was a cause of problems because I wanted it all the time) … some people put it as not so important, so if you end up with one of them girls then it just won’t work in the long run. U kinda need to be selective and pick one that can match or at least, half match your sexual drive and keep up x I’m sure u won’t have too much trouble and maybe be upfront on what u are looking for in a woman. "
Sound advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes that’s true but mine has been far away from the last couple of girls and you have to be somewhere close… or it won’t work … there is comprise but can only go so far
Especially if you are a very sexual person and you regard sex important (I do too, and always somehow it was a cause of problems because I wanted it all the time) … some people put it as not so important, so if you end up with one of them girls then it just won’t work in the long run. U kinda need to be selective and pick one that can match or at least, half match your sexual drive and keep up x I’m sure u won’t have too much trouble and maybe be upfront on what u are looking for in a woman.
Sound advice"
Yay! Tell us how ur search goes  |
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"Soooo I have a high sex drive, but I do want to be with someone in a proper relationship.. Trouble is the girls I get with can’t handle that I love sex so much and so I was hoping I could fine someone on this site… Anyone on here made a relationship work from meeting on fab? I want a girlfriend that is filthy in the bedroom and is fun out of it … harder to find than I thought !!!
Kind replies only please …x"
I have a sex drive that no man will match..... yet without making my fella feel inadequate we make it work.. or have so far. I accept that the amount I want sex is unreasonable and unmanageable for any guy.. so I work around it.
For the time being I've even kerbed my extra plays.... but it takes communication and compromise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I meant more what we do in the bedroom and how adventurous rather than the drive itself "
If you found someone on here and made her your girlfriend would that be monogamous or would you want to have sex with others?
Also when you say adventurous what sort of things would you like? One persons adventurous is another persons boring.
I’d consider myself quite boring in bed because my favourite position is missionary but then a past lover could say I was cuckoo because as soon as his head hits the pillow and he’s asleep I’d be up his arse like a rat up a drain pipe and all up in his grill doing snail trails on his chin and rubbing my arse hole on his nose. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think I meant more what we do in the bedroom and how adventurous rather than the drive itself
If you found someone on here and made her your girlfriend would that be monogamous or would you want to have sex with others?
Also when you say adventurous what sort of things would you like? One persons adventurous is another persons boring.
I’d consider myself quite boring in bed because my favourite position is missionary but then a past lover could say I was cuckoo because as soon as his head hits the pillow and he’s asleep I’d be up his arse like a rat up a drain pipe and all up in his grill doing snail trails on his chin and rubbing my arse hole on his nose. "
It depends on how the relationship is and how much trust you have in regards to Sex with others … missionary is great looking into her eyes talking dirty but of throat grabbing and all that .. like all positions … just a girl that likes a bit of everything and likes it often … not crazy amounts.. and yea sitting on my face to wake me up sounds fun !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would it have to be full sex everyday or would a blowjob/rimjob suffice?"
No that’s my perfect !! I like not having sex every day blow or rim sounds like heaven ..
Just like to cum every day don’t mind how .. it’s nice just to be pleasured sometimes .. I obviously return the favour haah |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would it have to be full sex everyday or would a blowjob/rimjob suffice?
No that’s my perfect !! I like not having sex every day blow or rim sounds like heaven ..
Just like to cum every day don’t mind how .. it’s nice just to be pleasured sometimes .. I obviously return the favour haah"
Love a good hand job |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would it have to be full sex everyday or would a blowjob/rimjob suffice?
No that’s my perfect !! I like not having sex every day blow or rim sounds like heaven ..
Just like to cum every day don’t mind how .. it’s nice just to be pleasured sometimes .. I obviously return the favour haah
Love a good hand job "
See now that’s different to your original post.
I could handle doing a sex act every day but not sex every day. Some days I just can’t be arsed to wash myself in the bath or shower. Some days I want to just sit in my own filth and not be sex ready preened.
But I could suck someone off every day and rim. I love to rim.
That sort of set up would probably be more obtainable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would it have to be full sex everyday or would a blowjob/rimjob suffice?
No that’s my perfect !! I like not having sex every day blow or rim sounds like heaven ..
Just like to cum every day don’t mind how .. it’s nice just to be pleasured sometimes .. I obviously return the favour haah
Love a good hand job
See now that’s different to your original post.
I could handle doing a sex act every day but not sex every day. Some days I just can’t be arsed to wash myself in the bath or shower. Some days I want to just sit in my own filth and not be sex ready preened.
But I could suck someone off every day and rim. I love to rim.
That sort of set up would probably be more obtainable. "
I won’t mind your own filth any days  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would it have to be full sex everyday or would a blowjob/rimjob suffice?
No that’s my perfect !! I like not having sex every day blow or rim sounds like heaven ..
Just like to cum every day don’t mind how .. it’s nice just to be pleasured sometimes .. I obviously return the favour haah
Love a good hand job
See now that’s different to your original post.
I could handle doing a sex act every day but not sex every day. Some days I just can’t be arsed to wash myself in the bath or shower. Some days I want to just sit in my own filth and not be sex ready preened.
But I could suck someone off every day and rim. I love to rim.
That sort of set up would probably be more obtainable. "
Perfect !!! |
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