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Only once, cos she kept accusing me of doing it, which I never had. this was back in 1989, we split up the next year basically through her jealousy and possessiveness, she's 5 years and 2 days older than me and we still remain good friends  |
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"No. I actually turned down sex when with a partner. Gives you mixed feelings when the relationship ends but I still have my sense of honour to keep me warm at night "
To clarify, the sex I turned down would have been with an illicit 3rd party. |
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Yes but only after he sexually assaulted me. Was my way of reclaiming by own body back. In hindsight I should have just picked my things up and walked out the door without a second thought.
But we had kids and at the time I wanted to move past the assault, but I couldn't and eventually left. |
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When I was 19 after being cheated on repeatedly by my then boyfriend. The guilt was horrible. It was a messed up relationship, I should have just dumped him after the first time he cheated. |
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I met him just as I left school in 1992.
He cheated on me 7 months later & we split for 6 weeks. Then a year later I cheated on him & again we split for 6 weeks. Got back together, house, kids, married. Then he cheated on me again in 2011/12 & I made him leave when I found out. It nearly destroyed me but our kids kept me going.
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"I met him just as I left school in 1992.
He cheated on me 7 months later & we split for 6 weeks. Then a year later I cheated on him & again we split for 6 weeks. Got back together, house, kids, married. Then he cheated on me again in 2011/12 & I made him leave when I found out. It nearly destroyed me but our kids kept me going.
J x"
Why did you keep going back after the continuing cheating?
Was the one second chance not enough? |
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"Have you ever cheated on a partner? "
I think a lot of people who say they haven't both men and women must be telling porkies ok not everyone on this tread but in general no one get their knickers pants in a twist 
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"I met him just as I left school in 1992.
He cheated on me 7 months later & we split for 6 weeks. Then a year later I cheated on him & again we split for 6 weeks. Got back together, house, kids, married. Then he cheated on me again in 2011/12 & I made him leave when I found out. It nearly destroyed me but our kids kept me going.
J x"
You're right the kids give me strength |
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No. Faithfull for 23 years. The ex denies cheating on me but I damn well know she did. I'm still in recovery mode really. Lonely at times but proud of myself for getting a grip & keeping fighting. But I miss somebody to love & hug. |
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Nope. But that’s not to say I’m a very good partner, I’ve never really been in love with someone I have been a partner of, I care about them, in my way, but never really fall for them and in a way, I guess that is cheating.
I tend to disassociate myself and grow distant so they end up cheating on me and I can say “well that’s that then”. Bit of a coward really. Sorry |
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over a year ago
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Yes before I grew up. I was married for 13 years and I didn’t cheat despite being regularly accused of it.
Nowadays though I wouldn’t consider being in a totally monotonous, oh sorry monogamous, relationship. |
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"Nope. But that’s not to say I’m a very good partner, I’ve never really been in love with someone I have been a partner of, I care about them, in my way, but never really fall for them and in a way, I guess that is cheating.
I tend to disassociate myself and grow distant so they end up cheating on me and I can say “well that’s that then”. Bit of a coward really. Sorry "
You sound like me..lol
I would say I’m a good partner initally but then my independence creeps in and I tend to distance myself, which then leads my partner to cheat on me
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Yes once
It was with my first partner when we were 18 and we both did, once we sat down and had the conversation and realised we were happy to share each other, we embarked on our poly relationship and stayed together for 13 years in that dynamic |
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"I met him just as I left school in 1992.
He cheated on me 7 months later & we split for 6 weeks. Then a year later I cheated on him & again we split for 6 weeks. Got back together, house, kids, married. Then he cheated on me again in 2011/12 & I made him leave when I found out. It nearly destroyed me but our kids kept me going.
J x
Why did you keep going back after the continuing cheating?
Was the one second chance not enough?"
I was 16 the 1st time & 35 the 2nd time. I was 17 when I did it to him. We were just kids with lots to learn |
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