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What if a bisexual or gay dude who's NOT a gym fit adonis sent from god himself wants a chiselled war lord. Is that a double standard or do double standards only apply to swamp donkeys who dent fragile egos?
If the chiselled war lord is partial to a cuddly bear is that his taste and personal preference or does he simply lack standards?
Ohhhhhh, so that's the double standard. Dudes can fancy who they fancy and want what they want but women who do the same get accused of having inflated egos and punching.
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Some people seem to confuse having standards with double standards I think.
Us women aren't supposed to be picky, we should be grateful for whatever attention we get & drop our knickers on demand! |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"Some people seem to confuse having standards with double standards I think.
Us women aren't supposed to be picky, we should be grateful for whatever attention we get & drop our knickers on demand! "
This!! 'but it's a sex site'  |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
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"Following on...
What if a bisexual or gay dude who's NOT a gym fit adonis sent from god himself wants a chiselled war lord. Is that a double standard or do double standards only apply to swamp donkeys who dent fragile egos?
If the chiselled war lord is partial to a cuddly bear is that his taste and personal preference or does he simply lack standards?
Ohhhhhh, so that's the double standard. Dudes can fancy who they fancy and want what they want but women who do the same get accused of having inflated egos and punching.
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"Some people seem to confuse having standards with double standards I think.
Us women aren't supposed to be picky, we should be grateful for whatever attention we get & drop our knickers on demand! "
I'm not sure what they think gives them the right to dictate who they believe other people are allowed to be attracted to.
The mind boggles. |
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"Some people seem to confuse having standards with double standards I think.
Us women aren't supposed to be picky, we should be grateful for whatever attention we get & drop our knickers on demand!
I'm not sure what they think gives them the right to dictate who they believe other people are allowed to be attracted to.
The mind boggles."
I know right!
How dare we have standards |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"Some people seem to confuse having standards with double standards I think.
Us women aren't supposed to be picky, we should be grateful for whatever attention we get & drop our knickers on demand!
I'm not sure what they think gives them the right to dictate who they believe other people are allowed to be attracted to.
The mind boggles."
Some just can't hide their mysogyny |
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"Being with a war lord sounds exhausting. "
My eyes are dim. I thought you wrote that being with a warlord sounded EXCITING! I was about to sign you up to a dating site in Afghanistan or similar.... |
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"Being with a war lord sounds exhausting.
My eyes are dim. I thought you wrote that being with a warlord sounded EXCITING! I was about to sign you up to a dating site in Afghanistan or similar...."
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"Having read the other thread i thought this George would be gawjus, but i saw the profile pic and now hes a hidden profile...
He didn't have a profile pic when I wanted to get a peep at him xx"
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"Anyway, what cunt came up with "opposites attract"? They're a fucking liar according to some.
Bet it was the same numpty that came up with "everyone is different" "
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"Anyway, what cunt came up with "opposites attract"? They're a fucking liar according to some.
Bet it was the same numpty that came up with "everyone is different"
It's true when it comes to magnets "
Used to keep one in my knickers, now I've just got a can of geezer repellent |
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"Anyway, what cunt came up with "opposites attract"? They're a fucking liar according to some.
Bet it was the same numpty that came up with "everyone is different" "
Yep, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is also clearly a lie! |
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"Anyway, what cunt came up with "opposites attract"? They're a fucking liar according to some.
Bet it was the same numpty that came up with "everyone is different"
Yep, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is also clearly a lie! "
Yep! Wankers talking shit. |
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"Anyway, what cunt came up with "opposites attract"? They're a fucking liar according to some.
Bet it was the same numpty that came up with "everyone is different"
It's true when it comes to magnets
Used to keep one in my knickers, now I've just got a can of geezer repellent "
I didn't know Black Sabbath did fragrance |
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"Wouldn't like be boring if we all fitted into the same sized hole "
You're talking sense there, I'm unsure that's allowed. I tried it and was informed it's a SWINGERS SITE!
I can't be certain, but I'm pretty sure that means sense aint allowed and it's all about genitals clanging |
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"Anyway, what cunt came up with "opposites attract"? They're a fucking liar according to some.
Bet it was the same numpty that came up with "everyone is different"
It's true when it comes to magnets
Used to keep one in my knickers, now I've just got a can of geezer repellent
I didn't know Black Sabbath did fragrance "
It's great, I open my legs, the tightening of my knickers elastic activates the can and it hisses like a cat |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
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"Anyway, what cunt came up with "opposites attract"? They're a fucking liar according to some.
Bet it was the same numpty that came up with "everyone is different"
It's true when it comes to magnets
Used to keep one in my knickers, now I've just got a can of geezer repellent
I didn't know Black Sabbath did fragrance "
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"Having read the other thread i thought this George would be gawjus, but i saw the profile pic and now hes a hidden profile...
He didn't have a profile pic when I wanted to get a peep at him xx
You didnt miss much, each to their own an all, but ..."
Ahhhh gotcha  thank ya hun xxx |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"Wouldn't like be boring if we all fitted into the same sized hole
You're talking sense there, I'm unsure that's allowed. I tried it and was informed it's a SWINGERS SITE!
I can't be certain, but I'm pretty sure that means sense aint allowed and it's all about genitals clanging "
Yep, the Oxford dictionary definition of 'swinger' clearly states that they have no standards or preferences & must shag whoever so requests! |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person "
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds" |
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"Wouldn't like be boring if we all fitted into the same sized hole
You're talking sense there, I'm unsure that's allowed. I tried it and was informed it's a SWINGERS SITE!
I can't be certain, but I'm pretty sure that means sense aint allowed and it's all about genitals clanging "
Sorry!
I only want mean cunty ones 
Midnight x |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds" "
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"Wouldn't like be boring if we all fitted into the same sized hole
You're talking sense there, I'm unsure that's allowed. I tried it and was informed it's a SWINGERS SITE!
I can't be certain, but I'm pretty sure that means sense aint allowed and it's all about genitals clanging
Sorry!
I only want mean cunty ones
Midnight x"
I got a minge twinge reading the word cunty |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though "
I enjoy custard too. I'm still trying to work out if custurd is brown and that's why it's gross |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though "
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)  |
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"Wouldn't like be boring if we all fitted into the same sized hole
You're talking sense there, I'm unsure that's allowed. I tried it and was informed it's a SWINGERS SITE!
I can't be certain, but I'm pretty sure that means sense aint allowed and it's all about genitals clanging
Sorry!
I only want mean cunty ones
Midnight x
I got a minge twinge reading the word cunty "
It does have that effect you |
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Just like my gusset
Jeeesus "
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
I enjoy custard too. I'm still trying to work out if custurd is brown and that's why it's gross "
Maybe it's the chocolate stuff they used to serve at school dinners? |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
I enjoy custard too. I'm still trying to work out if custurd is brown and that's why it's gross "
Depends on the custard I guess, there's pink also mind |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice) "
Warm is best. Hot burns and cold gives ya the shivers. I am of course referring to spooning it from one owns belly button whilst laying in bed. |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice) "
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
I enjoy custard too. I'm still trying to work out if custurd is brown and that's why it's gross
Maybe it's the chocolate stuff they used to serve at school dinners? "
I'm pretty sure my school just used leftover gravy and spun us a line |
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"Maybe I’m not up to speed but please don’t paint tar on all of us guys. It’s sticky and smelly.
Just like my gusset
Jeeesus
I've been working my arse off for 3 weeks. Been a while since I've induced a heave and was getting withdrawals "
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
Warm is best. Hot burns and cold gives ya the shivers. I am of course referring to spooning it from one owns belly button whilst laying in bed."
Mmm custard belly buttons |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard "
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
Warm is best. Hot burns and cold gives ya the shivers. I am of course referring to spooning it from one owns belly button whilst laying in bed.
Mmm custard belly buttons "
With chocolate button tiddlywinks for the win. |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts "
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver "
Blow the fucker
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver
Blow the fucker
If I can blow a dick, you can blow a pudding!"
Blowing is not Covid secure *nods* |
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"Right, I'm off to bed to dream about lukewarm custard, chocolate coins and other confectionery, to be consumed off men's torsos, possibly in Wales. Or has my brain conflated a few things?! Night!"
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver
Blow the fucker
If I can blow a dick, you can blow a pudding!"
Screw that my belly ain't waiting for me to blow nothing |
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"Right, I'm off to bed to dream about lukewarm custard, chocolate coins and other confectionery, to be consumed off men's torsos, possibly in Wales. Or has my brain conflated a few things?! Night!
Enjoy, I hope I'm in there somewhere, floating about like the cherub I am "
Ahhhhh! That's what the lumps are in the custard! Peachy bits |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
Warm is best. Hot burns and cold gives ya the shivers. I am of course referring to spooning it from one owns belly button whilst laying in bed.
Mmm custard belly buttons
With chocolate button tiddlywinks for the win."
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"Right, I'm off to bed to dream about lukewarm custard, chocolate coins and other confectionery, to be consumed off men's torsos, possibly in Wales. Or has my brain conflated a few things?! Night!
Enjoy, I hope I'm in there somewhere, floating about like the cherub I am
Ahhhhh! That's what the lumps are in the custard! Peachy bits "
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver
Blow the fucker
If I can blow a dick, you can blow a pudding!
Screw that my belly ain't waiting for me to blow nothing "
I ain't popping your roof of the mouth food gobbling burn blisters. I got a dodgy side to me but that's all yours. Those fuckers spray when they burst |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver
Blow the fucker
If I can blow a dick, you can blow a pudding!
Screw that my belly ain't waiting for me to blow nothing
I ain't popping your roof of the mouth food gobbling burn blisters. I got a dodgy side to me but that's all yours. Those fuckers spray when they burst "
I'm good I have cold custard for protection purposes |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver
Blow the fucker
If I can blow a dick, you can blow a pudding!
Screw that my belly ain't waiting for me to blow nothing
I ain't popping your roof of the mouth food gobbling burn blisters. I got a dodgy side to me but that's all yours. Those fuckers spray when they burst
I'm good I have cold custard for protection purposes "
I actually can't argue with that. Your logic makes sense.
However.... sensitive teethies worst nightmare, hot n cold fighting in yer gob 
Electric shock teeth from hell |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver
Blow the fucker
If I can blow a dick, you can blow a pudding!
Screw that my belly ain't waiting for me to blow nothing
I ain't popping your roof of the mouth food gobbling burn blisters. I got a dodgy side to me but that's all yours. Those fuckers spray when they burst
I'm good I have cold custard for protection purposes
I actually can't argue with that. Your logic makes sense.
However.... sensitive teethies worst nightmare, hot n cold fighting in yer gob
Electric shock teeth from hell "
It's temporary sensitivity or blisters |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver
Blow the fucker
If I can blow a dick, you can blow a pudding!
Screw that my belly ain't waiting for me to blow nothing
I ain't popping your roof of the mouth food gobbling burn blisters. I got a dodgy side to me but that's all yours. Those fuckers spray when they burst
I'm good I have cold custard for protection purposes
I actually can't argue with that. Your logic makes sense.
However.... sensitive teethies worst nightmare, hot n cold fighting in yer gob
Electric shock teeth from hell
It's temporary sensitivity or blisters "
I'd get falsies if I could, then take a big bite out of a lemon sorbet whilst watching everyone else's eyes widen and grab their own teeth |
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"We all just like what we like, I don't have a type I'm just either attracted or I'm not and it's not for anyone to say what someone finds attractive is wrong because they aren't that person
You'd have thought, but apparently that's not the case. I think Devon is to blame.... Something to do with "custurds"
I bloody love custard, got to be cold with warm pud though
Oh no. Cold custard (other than in a vanilla slice)
How is it different being in a vanilla slice, still cold custard
Then it's got pastry and icing and nothing hot with it. Hot pud needs hot custard. These are basic culinary facts
No you get a nice contrast and if the puds too hot the custard is a life saver
Blow the fucker
If I can blow a dick, you can blow a pudding!
Screw that my belly ain't waiting for me to blow nothing
I ain't popping your roof of the mouth food gobbling burn blisters. I got a dodgy side to me but that's all yours. Those fuckers spray when they burst
I'm good I have cold custard for protection purposes
I actually can't argue with that. Your logic makes sense.
However.... sensitive teethies worst nightmare, hot n cold fighting in yer gob
Electric shock teeth from hell
It's temporary sensitivity or blisters
I'd get falsies if I could, then take a big bite out of a lemon sorbet whilst watching everyone else's eyes widen and grab their own teeth "
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I don't know what I missed, but I had a very fit partner when I was in full on weeble mode
He was my thing
I was his
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"I don't know what I missed, but I had a very fit partner when I was in full on weeble mode
He was my thing
I was his
We had our fair share of naysayers, but ya know what, fuck 'em "
We had people come up and say to him' what are you doing with that? ' ('that' being me)
I had countless people come up and tell me how 'lucky' I was (I wasn't really, cos he was a bit on the toxic side when it took his fancy)
One woman he worked with was cool with him being gay, but not with him fancying fat blokes, remarking 'so, even if you were straight, you wouldn't fancy me?'
She then made his life a misery
There are a lot of people out there who turn toxic when they see someone they fancy that they can't be with because they aren't that persons 'type'
It's, quite often, just an exaggerated toys out of pram situation
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People seem to confuse personal preferences with like for like. You don't need to be a gym bunny to desire one.
I like tall and athletic/muscular men but am not one myself. Do I need to up my gym game in order to be worthy of a gym fit man? Past experience says no...
Submissives like dominants and dominants like submissives - it need not be matchy matchy.
Opposites often attract and the only equality should be that of mutual respect. |
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I asked a guy why I should change my preferences just cos he wasted me too, to be told Im not got enough to be picky
Okay then Brad Pitt, cheers for that |
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"People seem to confuse personal preferences with like for like. You don't need to be a gym bunny to desire one.
I like tall and athletic/muscular men but am not one myself. Do I need to up my gym game in order to be worthy of a gym fit man? Past experience says no...
Submissives like dominants and dominants like submissives - it need not be matchy matchy.
Opposites often attract and the only equality should be that of mutual respect."
I’m really glad you’re not a tall athletic/muscular man, you’d be straight off my hotlist!  |
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"People seem to confuse personal preferences with like for like. You don't need to be a gym bunny to desire one.
I like tall and athletic/muscular men but am not one myself. Do I need to up my gym game in order to be worthy of a gym fit man? Past experience says no...
Submissives like dominants and dominants like submissives - it need not be matchy matchy.
Opposites often attract and the only equality should be that of mutual respect.
I’m really glad you’re not a tall athletic/muscular man, you’d be straight off my hotlist! "
you're so picky! |
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I think double standards don’t really exist when it comes to attraction because you like what you like, but they do sure exist when it comes to other stuff.
My experience of dating sees lots of double standards. It doesn’t seem fair, but all is fair in love and war and complaining won’t change it so I get on with it.
Expectations in dating these days are sky high, but personal delivery is at an all time low. Everyone wants their perfect Prince Charming and expect to get it while only offering the bare minimum. It’s not great, but it’s life, so get over it and get on with it |
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"Following on...
What if a bisexual or gay dude who's NOT a gym fit adonis sent from god himself wants a chiselled war lord. Is that a double standard or do double standards only apply to swamp donkeys who dent fragile egos?
If the chiselled war lord is partial to a cuddly bear is that his taste and personal preference or does he simply lack standards?
Ohhhhhh, so that's the double standard. Dudes can fancy who they fancy and want what they want but women who do the same get accused of having inflated egos and punching.
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I dont see a double standard there I see opposite attractions. Now if the bi messenger sent from "god" preached peace and pacifism while in a relationship with the warlord that would be a double standard |
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The thing that always confuses me about this debate whenever it comes up is that it relies on the idea that there's a strict, set ranking of attractiveness among people which simply isn't true. Me and my best friend have always been attracted to very different men. It was kind of a blessing really . |
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I'm not entirely sure double standards quire exist on here - you have your own boundaries and interests in who you want to meet, and someone will falls into that or doesn't.
Even if someone were in a relationship and their partner didn't know, but they didn't want to be with someone who was in a relationship- that's just their choice!
Ultimately though, have standards. Whoever you are on here, just have standards - if I don't meet them I can't complain, and if I do it feels much more attractive than "will fuck anyone". |
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When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I’m so glad that I was sleeping. Clearly I was doing something so much better than dealing with pouty man children who have no grasp of what things are or aren’t and are just throwing toys because people won’t choose them |
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"People seem to confuse personal preferences with like for like. You don't need to be a gym bunny to desire one.
I like tall and athletic/muscular men but am not one myself. Do I need to up my gym game in order to be worthy of a gym fit man? Past experience says no...
Submissives like dominants and dominants like submissives - it need not be matchy matchy.
Opposites often attract and the only equality should be that of mutual respect.
I’m really glad you’re not a tall athletic/muscular man, you’d be straight off my hotlist!
you're so picky!"
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"When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x"
I disagree ref looks, you can be good looking but if your vacuous and have a bad attitude or vibe about you...
I think it's maybe a boundaries v barriers problem, the whole point one finger and 3 is pointing back, it's the emotional intelligence to self questions the 3 that speaks volumes |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x"
It’s not only about looks, it’s about many things.
You’re taking it as a personal slight when all the person is doing is expressing what they want for themselves.
Perhaps the terminology is clunky and carries other connotations but when you’re dealing with subtleties, the English language is very clunky and unwieldy.
People are expressing what they want for themselves, not attacking you |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"The thing that always confuses me about this debate whenever it comes up is that it relies on the idea that there's a strict, set ranking of attractiveness among people which simply isn't true. Me and my best friend have always been attracted to very different men. It was kind of a blessing really . "
Exactly right.
Often this debate is started by guys who are upset that people they consider to be their ‘match’, are getting lots of attention, yet they’re not.
It’s entitled attitudes and expectations creating frustration and anger at others; ‘how dare they want attractive people? They should want me and be glad of it!’, ‘it’s double standards when I consider them ugly and they’re meeting people but I’m not’.
It’s always the one that are being excluded by a choice or preference that are the ones that call foul |
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"The thing that always confuses me about this debate whenever it comes up is that it relies on the idea that there's a strict, set ranking of attractiveness among people which simply isn't true. Me and my best friend have always been attracted to very different men. It was kind of a blessing really .
Exactly right.
Often this debate is started by guys who are upset that people they consider to be their ‘match’, are getting lots of attention, yet they’re not.
It’s entitled attitudes and expectations creating frustration and anger at others; ‘how dare they want attractive people? They should want me and be glad of it!’, ‘it’s double standards when I consider them ugly and they’re meeting people but I’m not’.
It’s always the one that are being excluded by a choice or preference that are the ones that call foul "
I wouldn't even say its people they consider their match, it's people they consider "beneath" them which is pretty gross. |
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"When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x
It’s not only about looks, it’s about many things.
You’re taking it as a personal slight when all the person is doing is expressing what they want for themselves.
Perhaps the terminology is clunky and carries other connotations but when you’re dealing with subtleties, the English language is very clunky and unwieldy.
People are expressing what they want for themselves, not attacking you"
I thought the op was talking about being on here? Where looks are first because we base things mainly on someone's picture |
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"When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x
It’s not only about looks, it’s about many things.
You’re taking it as a personal slight when all the person is doing is expressing what they want for themselves.
Perhaps the terminology is clunky and carries other connotations but when you’re dealing with subtleties, the English language is very clunky and unwieldy.
People are expressing what they want for themselves, not attacking you
I thought the op was talking about being on here? Where looks are first because we base things mainly on someone's picture "
Do we? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x
It’s not only about looks, it’s about many things.
You’re taking it as a personal slight when all the person is doing is expressing what they want for themselves.
Perhaps the terminology is clunky and carries other connotations but when you’re dealing with subtleties, the English language is very clunky and unwieldy.
People are expressing what they want for themselves, not attacking you
I thought the op was talking about being on here? Where looks are first because we base things mainly on someone's picture "
Do we?
The picture might be the start but that’s just the beginning of a long process that involves the person as well.
I know that I vet on many things, not just looks.
Standards covers who they are, the whole package. If we use the term preferences, does that change things for you? |
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"Psssst....wanna buy a bag of custard?
It’s two for one Tuesday
Have you got any cartons? I’m running low on milk
Only bags, hence 241
Dammit.
Have you got any milk?"
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"When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x
It’s not only about looks, it’s about many things.
You’re taking it as a personal slight when all the person is doing is expressing what they want for themselves.
Perhaps the terminology is clunky and carries other connotations but when you’re dealing with subtleties, the English language is very clunky and unwieldy.
People are expressing what they want for themselves, not attacking you
I thought the op was talking about being on here? Where looks are first because we base things mainly on someone's picture
Do we?
The picture might be the start but that’s just the beginning of a long process that involves the person as well.
I know that I vet on many things, not just looks.
Standards covers who they are, the whole package. If we use the term preferences, does that change things for you? "
Thats what I said....the picture is first |
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"Psssst....wanna buy a bag of custard?
It’s two for one Tuesday
Is it vanilla?
Avocado I think
Isn’t that guacamole? "
A few years ago I was at work and a family ordered nachos.
They called me over and started screaming at me to take their nachos away coz some idiot put mushy peas on them when they didn't ask for mushy peas, and we ruined their meal and weren't prepared to pay for any of it.
Erm.... that's guacamole, and you will be paying, in fact you can pay for all of it now or you can go before they cook the rest. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x
It’s not only about looks, it’s about many things.
You’re taking it as a personal slight when all the person is doing is expressing what they want for themselves.
Perhaps the terminology is clunky and carries other connotations but when you’re dealing with subtleties, the English language is very clunky and unwieldy.
People are expressing what they want for themselves, not attacking you
I thought the op was talking about being on here? Where looks are first because we base things mainly on someone's picture
Do we?
The picture might be the start but that’s just the beginning of a long process that involves the person as well.
I know that I vet on many things, not just looks.
Standards covers who they are, the whole package. If we use the term preferences, does that change things for you?
Thats what I said....the picture is first"
It’s the same in life though. A person is attracted to another and then things progress.
If attraction isn’t present, then what’s the point?
I don’t know what you’re trying to say here. That your feelings are hurt because people aren’t attracted to you? |
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"When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x
It’s not only about looks, it’s about many things.
You’re taking it as a personal slight when all the person is doing is expressing what they want for themselves.
Perhaps the terminology is clunky and carries other connotations but when you’re dealing with subtleties, the English language is very clunky and unwieldy.
People are expressing what they want for themselves, not attacking you
I thought the op was talking about being on here? Where looks are first because we base things mainly on someone's picture
Do we?
The picture might be the start but that’s just the beginning of a long process that involves the person as well.
I know that I vet on many things, not just looks.
Standards covers who they are, the whole package. If we use the term preferences, does that change things for you?
Thats what I said....the picture is first"
Pictures don't do anything for me until I already fancy someone. |
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"seems like a post purely written to have a little dig at men
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Yeah, that's exactly what it was. All men. Every last man and not at all at 2 particular guys on a different thread stating women have inflated egos coz some gross women want to meet non gross men. |
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"When you use the term standards it implies people can be below your standard...which is just based on looks...your entitled to have these but don't cry when other people use theirs to say your below there's x
It’s not only about looks, it’s about many things.
You’re taking it as a personal slight when all the person is doing is expressing what they want for themselves.
Perhaps the terminology is clunky and carries other connotations but when you’re dealing with subtleties, the English language is very clunky and unwieldy.
People are expressing what they want for themselves, not attacking you
I thought the op was talking about being on here? Where looks are first because we base things mainly on someone's picture
Do we?
The picture might be the start but that’s just the beginning of a long process that involves the person as well.
I know that I vet on many things, not just looks.
Standards covers who they are, the whole package. If we use the term preferences, does that change things for you?
Thats what I said....the picture is first
It’s the same in life though. A person is attracted to another and then things progress.
If attraction isn’t present, then what’s the point?
I don’t know what you’re trying to say here. That your feelings are hurt because people aren’t attracted to you? "
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Yeah, that's exactly what it was. All men. Every last man and not at all at 2 particular guys on a different thread stating women have inflated egos coz some gross women want to meet non gross men."
Men! |
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"seems like a post purely written to have a little dig at men
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Yeah, that's exactly what it was. All men. Every last man and not at all at 2 particular guys on a different thread stating women have inflated egos coz some gross women want to meet non gross men.
Men! "
Don't you eye roll at men young lady, it's the gross women's fault for not staying in their ball park. Or was it the chiseled warlords fault for entertaining said gross women meaning the gross men can't get a look in?
I still haven't learned who is the keeper of leagues and who we need to contact to find out who we are allowed to desire or be desired by to follow the rules. |
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"seems like a post purely written to have a little dig at men
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Yeah, that's exactly what it was. All men. Every last man and not at all at 2 particular guys on a different thread stating women have inflated egos coz some gross women want to meet non gross men.
Men!
Don't you eye roll at men young lady, it's the gross women's fault for not staying in their ball park. Or was it the chiseled warlords fault for entertaining said gross women meaning the gross men can't get a look in?
I still haven't learned who is the keeper of leagues and who we need to contact to find out who we are allowed to desire or be desired by to follow the rules."
Let people be people |
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No one likes being rejected. It's humiliating. It doesn't feel nice.
That humiliation is the root of the anger that leads to the "but its a sex site" comments and all the nasty comments that the rejected throw at the ladies. Those comments are a way to make the rejected to get back on an even footing so they can feel better about themselves.
And we all know there is hypocrisy at work here. A dude fancies you, you have to fuck him but if he didnt fancy you there is really no way he would have to fuck you. If that was the case then all the straight men would be letting the bi guys fuck them. And the gay guys would be fucking women blah blah blah.
No one is standardless. No one would fuck anyone randomly. But if a woman was fucking just about everyone randomly she would be shamed for it. Another hypocrisy
Here are a few things I find to be truths:
A large portion of the rejected people probably wouldn't actually turn up for a meet.
A large portion of the rejected are not even looking for a meet really. They just want to be attractive to attractive people. That makes them feel good about themselves.
It's not a woman's job (or anyones) to make me feel good about myself. That's my responsibility.
It's not a sex site. It's a website for people who like sex. You don't have to actually have sex if you join up. There is no obligation on anyone to do anything.
There are many really attractive women on here I would not have sex with. I find them attractive and pleasant on the eye. I enjoy looking at their photos. But I wouldn't want to have sex with them.
I am allowed to not want to have sex with them. And for sure they are allowed not to want to have sex with me. And so is everyone else
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"That and thingys boyfriend kicking off the other night it's been a right laugh on here
I didn't see that one. I barely been on coz of work "
Yeah was a shame what he did naming them an all. Once he realised his mistake he fell on his sword and left.
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"That and thingys boyfriend kicking off the other night it's been a right laugh on here
I didn't see that one. I barely been on coz of work
Yeah was a shame what he did naming them an all. Once he realised his mistake he fell on his sword and left.
Sad way for it all to end"
I'm still none the wiser. Probably safer that way! |
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over a year ago
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"That and thingys boyfriend kicking off the other night it's been a right laugh on here
I didn't see that one. I barely been on coz of work
Yeah was a shame what he did naming them an all. Once he realised his mistake he fell on his sword and left.
Sad way for it all to end
I'm still none the wiser. Probably safer that way!"
Same.
Not being on in the evenings means that all of the bun fights get missed.
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"Some people seem to confuse having standards with double standards I think.
Us women aren't supposed to be picky, we should be grateful for whatever attention we get & drop our knickers on demand! "
Whilst I totally understand the thoughts behind this post I personally dislike the use of words like "standard" and "picky". Everyone is of course welcome to their personal preferences and tastes but to say you're not interested in someone because you have standards suggests that they are below standard - a judgement of them rather than an expression of your own taste. Similarly being picky suggests that in your opinion those you don't choose are not good enough for you as opposed to not being to your taste.
Maybe it's just me but they're two words/expressions that I dislike.
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over a year ago
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"Some people seem to confuse having standards with double standards I think.
Us women aren't supposed to be picky, we should be grateful for whatever attention we get & drop our knickers on demand!
Whilst I totally understand the thoughts behind this post I personally dislike the use of words like "standard" and "picky". Everyone is of course welcome to their personal preferences and tastes but to say you're not interested in someone because you have standards suggests that they are below standard - a judgement of them rather than an expression of your own taste. Similarly being picky suggests that in your opinion those you don't choose are not good enough for you as opposed to not being to your taste.
Maybe it's just me but they're two words/expressions that I dislike.
Mr"
I stand by what I said & the words I used. Yes I have standards, I think everyone should have. I am also undoubtedly extremely picky about who I choose to share my body with. If that's a bad thing then so be it. I don't think I am in any way better than anyone else, but I do value myself & will not compromise on that. |
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"That and thingys boyfriend kicking off the other night it's been a right laugh on here
I didn't see that one. I barely been on coz of work
Yeah was a shame what he did naming them an all. Once he realised his mistake he fell on his sword and left.
Sad way for it all to end
I'm still none the wiser. Probably safer that way!"
Yeah. Life eh |
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"That and thingys boyfriend kicking off the other night it's been a right laugh on here
I didn't see that one. I barely been on coz of work
Yeah was a shame what he did naming them an all. Once he realised his mistake he fell on his sword and left.
Sad way for it all to end"
He probably didn’t leave. That’s a kicking off offence. |
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"That and thingys boyfriend kicking off the other night it's been a right laugh on here
I didn't see that one. I barely been on coz of work
Yeah was a shame what he did naming them an all. Once he realised his mistake he fell on his sword and left.
Sad way for it all to end
He probably didn’t leave. That’s a kicking off offence. "
Oh ok.
Well I had a go at him for his poor conduct.
Haven't seen the lady in question back on here since so maybe she's hurt by it.
All I'd say lady is don't be.
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"Some people seem to confuse having standards with double standards I think.
Us women aren't supposed to be picky, we should be grateful for whatever attention we get & drop our knickers on demand!
Whilst I totally understand the thoughts behind this post I personally dislike the use of words like "standard" and "picky". Everyone is of course welcome to their personal preferences and tastes but to say you're not interested in someone because you have standards suggests that they are below standard - a judgement of them rather than an expression of your own taste. Similarly being picky suggests that in your opinion those you don't choose are not good enough for you as opposed to not being to your taste.
Maybe it's just me but they're two words/expressions that I dislike.
Mr
I stand by what I said & the words I used. Yes I have standards, I think everyone should have. I am also undoubtedly extremely picky about who I choose to share my body with. If that's a bad thing then so be it. I don't think I am in any way better than anyone else, but I do value myself & will not compromise on that. "
As is your perogative. I stand by my belief that "I don't think I'm better than anyone else" and "I won't meet/interact with X because I have standards" are mutually exclusive statements.
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Wow. Very strong opinions today.
Life's to short.
But everyone has the right to pick what they desire.
But you can't always have what you want.
Big hug for you all.
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I don't think standards apply in that context.
It's just preference. Guys have just as much right to their preferences as women do.
It's only when we let go of our preferences and take whatever is given to us is when we loose ourselves.
In essence we haven't tried looking hard enough for what we want without acknowledging that fact.
Guys who do not have standards are lying to themselves. They are just lazy in putting the work in. And if they are lazy in the pursuit of what they want, they are most likely going to be lazy in the art of sex. |
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