That university has got me working again.
So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.
Am
I right or wrong? |
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"That university has got me working again.
So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.
Am
I right or wrong? "
I think the university have invested in group mind control because I was considering the same today.
I'm not particularly submissive but the forum ladies appear more submissive to me than the forum men.
I see and get messages from more submissive men than the forum stats would suggest though. It's been mentioned before that the forum isn't really representative of fab as a whole though. |
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"That university has got me working again.
So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.
Am
I right or wrong?
I think the university have invested in group mind control because I was considering the same today.
I'm not particularly submissive but the forum ladies appear more submissive to me than the forum men.
I see and get messages from more submissive men than the forum stats would suggest though. It's been mentioned before that the forum isn't really representative of fab as a whole though."
Yes I guess so. I was just having a conversation with someone and it just made me think so I thought I’d do a thread  |
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person  "
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Depends on the dynamic, I’m likely to submit more over time, the more I get to know someone and trust them the more likely I am to submit to them
I like a balance, an ability to be able to take control and completely let go is where the magic happens xx |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!"
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though  |
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"Depends on the dynamic, I’m likely to submit more over time, the more I get to know someone and trust them the more likely I am to submit to them
I like a balance, an ability to be able to take control and completely let go is where the magic happens xx"
Yes. I get this  |
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though "
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
The follow up questions for me would be:
How do you view (define?) your submission and how do you exhibit/show your submission?
E.g.: letting your partner take control in the bedroom, ensuring your partner’s satisfaction comes before your own etc. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!"
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am  |
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"The follow up questions for me would be:
How do you view (define?) your submission and how do you exhibit/show your submission?
E.g.: letting your partner take control in the bedroom, ensuring your partner’s satisfaction comes before your own etc."
Like most things though. I would imagine it’s very subjective. |
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am "
Hmmmm OK  |
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK "
Trying to make out she’s shy! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK
Trying to make out she’s shy! "
I don't like you two any more  |
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK
Trying to make out she’s shy!
I don't like you two any more "
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK
Trying to make out she’s shy!
I don't like you two any more "
Did you expect to ease back in to the forums  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK
Trying to make out she’s shy!
I don't like you two any more
Did you expect to ease back in to the forums "
I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness! |
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over a year ago
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK
Trying to make out she’s shy!
I don't like you two any more
Did you expect to ease back in to the forums
I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!"
Loving the t-shirt  |
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK
Trying to make out she’s shy!
I don't like you two any more
Did you expect to ease back in to the forums
I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!"
don’t be silly! |
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"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK
Trying to make out she’s shy!
I don't like you two any more
Did you expect to ease back in to the forums
I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!"
Oh you actually did haha .. This is me we are talking about |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK
Trying to make out she’s shy!
I don't like you two any more
Did you expect to ease back in to the forums
I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!
Loving the t-shirt "
Thanks lovely |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.
But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person
Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!
I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though
You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!
But.....
But.....
But.....
I so am
Hmmmm OK
Trying to make out she’s shy!
I don't like you two any more
Did you expect to ease back in to the forums
I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!don’t be silly! "
So mean to me. I expect boobie hugs to make up for it |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think that in the Lounge, definitely. In Swinger's Chat lots of submissive men post comments, possibly more so than women.
I don't know if I am. I'm not sure if I'm submissive. I'm both and neither at the same time. I'm still exploring my sexuality and working it out, maybe it's the case of I've not met the right one yet and I actually am? Who knows. |
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"I think that in the Lounge, definitely. In Swinger's Chat lots of submissive men post comments, possibly more so than women.
I don't know if I am. I'm not sure if I'm submissive. I'm both and neither at the same time. I'm still exploring my sexuality and working it out, maybe it's the case of I've not met the right one yet and I actually am? Who knows. "
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I think that in the Lounge, definitely. In Swinger's Chat lots of submissive men post comments, possibly more so than women.
I don't know if I am. I'm not sure if I'm submissive. I'm both and neither at the same time. I'm still exploring my sexuality and working it out, maybe it's the case of I've not met the right one yet and I actually am? Who knows.
Oh I see I’ve never ventured out of the lounge. Too scary for me "
It is good to see what things are out there. But also stay close to the safety of the lounge. |
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"I think that in the Lounge, definitely. In Swinger's Chat lots of submissive men post comments, possibly more so than women.
I don't know if I am. I'm not sure if I'm submissive. I'm both and neither at the same time. I'm still exploring my sexuality and working it out, maybe it's the case of I've not met the right one yet and I actually am? Who knows.
Oh I see I’ve never ventured out of the lounge. Too scary for me
It is good to see what things are out there. But also stay close to the safety of the lounge. "
I ventured into the virus one once. That was quite enough  |
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"That university has got me working again.
So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.
Am
I right or wrong? "
I'm not sub. I want and appreciate equal say and dynamic with a play mate.
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"That university has got me working again.
So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.
Am
I right or wrong? "
It depends what mood I am in. Sometimes I just love being submissive...many different ways too...
a favourite is being on my knees, hands tied behind my back & whatever else...just being controlled in general.
Other times I like being submissive in life too out in the big wild world too..
Other times I am as Dom as they come.. Lol and I've got a couple guys who just LOVE that side of me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not remotely submissive.
Except for with one person.
However I find on here stating you enjoy taking control, fills your inbox full of men who just don't get what that means |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"too right.
back to the kitchen girls!
iron my shirt! "
More like bend over, hand me spatula and count to 20 whilst mopping up my kitchen floor and your tears.
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"too right.
back to the kitchen girls!
iron my shirt!
More like bend over, hand me spatula and count to 20 whilst mopping up my kitchen floor and your tears.
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you must be mistaken. your talking to a Man! |
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over a year ago
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"That university has got me working again.
So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.
Am
I right or wrong?
I'm not sub. I want and appreciate equal say and dynamic with a play mate.
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"too right.
back to the kitchen girls!
iron my shirt!
More like bend over, hand me spatula and count to 20 whilst mopping up my kitchen floor and your tears.
you must be mistaken. your talking to a Man!"
Respect is earned not ordered.  |
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"too right.
back to the kitchen girls!
iron my shirt!
More like bend over, hand me spatula and count to 20 whilst mopping up my kitchen floor and your tears.
you must be mistaken. your talking to a Man!
Respect is earned not ordered. "
get us a cuppa while your up |
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Generally no. Once upon a time, the idea of me ever submitting to anyone was laughable but things and people change over time and I'm currently exploring a side of me I never knew existed. It's fun  Don't think I could be that way with anyone else though. |
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Not at all.
I would hope that most people are their authentic selves, howeverN societal expectationss do influence gender norms.
Women have been socialised to be accommodating and our place in the world is nor as strong as men's. Also, women have also been taught to seek validation from men and appeal to what men find attractive.
It's quite alarming to see a generation of very young girls making light of being ch0ked and slapped via TikTok but that's what happens when the likes of 50 Shades influences popular culture. |
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So all in all it mostly tends to depend on the person and also the trust element. I tend to agree on both of those.
Thanks for joining in. It’s interesting getting people’s different views on things |
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"Not at all.
I would hope that most people are their authentic selves, howeverN societal expectationss do influence gender norms.
Women have been socialised to be accommodating and our place in the world is nor as strong as men's. Also, women have also been taught to seek validation from men and appeal to what men find attractive.
It's quite alarming to see a generation of very young girls making light of being ch0ked and slapped via TikTok but that's what happens when the likes of 50 Shades influences popular culture. "
As for the first part of your comment I think that’s a very different subject to what we’re talking about here. Can’t comment on the second part really as I don’t have tik tok |
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"Depends on the dynamic, I’m likely to submit more over time, the more I get to know someone and trust them the more likely I am to submit to them
I like a balance, an ability to be able to take control and completely let go is where the magic happens xx"
Me too.. and oh when that dynamic happens, esp with a great kisser, it is pure magic. |
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over a year ago
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I’m very submissive with Mr, he’s earnt my submission and I’ll do anything for him (with discussion and consents), but I’m also sometimes cheeky, a bit bratty and at times a sulky, pouty little
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