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Does someone’s figure really matter ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There deffo has to be some physical attraction for me but that said there’s no one particular size that I go for. I often find beauty and sexiness in a whole range of sizes and mental attraction and general chemistry also play a big part for me. So in short it’s not the first or only thing I’ll think about x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To a certain extent yes. I know what I’m physically attracted to and what I’m not. "
This but.... Awesome personality and/or very clever naughty mind overcomes any physical preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It only matters to narrow minded people "
I think this is quite rude. It's no difference to liking or not liking anything else in life. If we all liked the same things the world would be a boring place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a sheriff told me once:
go for the curvy women.
great for the shade in the summer.
warm in the winter.
Rude.  "
he also said you can tell that way shes a good cook.
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
Not to me, I have been with a size 12 and a size 22.
To me it's personality physical attraction first and foremost, if there was nothing between the ears I wouldn't be interested in the first place |
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As with most things on here it will matter a lot to some & not so much to others.
Whilst there are undoubtedly other factors to take into account, I do think that an attraction is important & that applies to both personality and looks/physique. It isn't wrong to have preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My figure matters more than anybody else's to me - I'm not confident lately as I'm at my biggest. Need to get control of my life. "
i totally get that. many women feel this way |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
It matters to me to look in decent shape but that's just myself, I like a wide range of women's figures though, physical attraction for me comes from the pose and most certainly the choice of clothing/lingerie rather than body size and shape. That said I don't think skinny ladies with a straight up and down figure have as much appeal as a rounded curvy figure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It only matters to narrow minded people "
In the same way you wouldn't meet anyone over 76, or maybe it just comes down to preference and what you are attracted to. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Not really. I tend to go on their sexual magnetism, y’know when you look at someone and you know they know how to fuck real good? I go by that, whatever size that comes in as that makes someone very sexy to me.
For sex anyway. Romance is more complicated. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I'll probably get lynched for this but, for me, yes it definitely does.
Personality undoubtedly matters as well from the point of view of social interaction, but at the end of the day I'm not looking for a life partner on here, I'm looking for like minded people to have sex with &, for me to want to have sex with someone, there needs to be a physical attraction as well as a mental one.
On the flip side, I'm a curvy girl and I am well aware that some people won't find my figure attractive, and that's absolutely OK.
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Yes. It's what initially attracts me to someone...if I don't find them attractive I'm not usually going to be too interested in finding out what their personality is like. I know, I'm incredibly shallow for only wanting to have sex with people I fancy  |
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"Yes... to a degree.
I don’t find skinny/slim/thin men attractive at all and the same with massively obese men.
Anything in between I’m attracted too. "
So you don't find your own body shape attractive? |
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"Yes. It's what initially attracts me to someone...if I don't find them attractive I'm not usually going to be too interested in finding out what their personality is like. I know, I'm incredibly shallow for only wanting to have sex with people I fancy "
Exactly this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. It's what initially attracts me to someone...if I don't find them attractive I'm not usually going to be too interested in finding out what their personality is like. I know, I'm incredibly shallow for only wanting to have sex with people I fancy "
This ^^^ 100% |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Yes. It's what initially attracts me to someone...if I don't find them attractive I'm not usually going to be too interested in finding out what their personality is like. I know, I'm incredibly shallow for only wanting to have sex with people I fancy "
Not shallow at all. I honestly don't believe anyone that says they do it different to this.
If they did, then there would be a lot less people in the world feeling alone and unattractive. |
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"Yes... to a degree.
I don’t find skinny/slim/thin men attractive at all and the same with massively obese men.
Anything in between I’m attracted too.
So you don't find your own body shape attractive? "
I'm a chubster but seems I have a thing for the slimmer gent. I didn't notice before we joined here and I started paying more attention, but I seem to gravitate towards slimmer guys. I rarely find bigger guys attractive, despite being a fatty. Fuck knows why, but that's just me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes... to a degree.
I don’t find skinny/slim/thin men attractive at all and the same with massively obese men.
Anything in between I’m attracted too.
So you don't find your own body shape attractive? "
I clearly wrote men as that’s who I’m attracted too.
What I find/think is attractive in women is different and not relevant as I don’t go around fucking them.
Nice put down though because I said I don’t like slim/thin men it must mean I’m unattractive too. Bloody shot me for having a preference. If someone doesn’t like my figure then they don’t need to fuck me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It absolutely does as it’s human nature to be physically attracted to someone. They can have the greatest personality in the world but if you don’t ‘fancy’ them physically, then even with the greatest will in the world, it won’t work permanently. |
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