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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

Oh golly before you read on , this isnt one of those oh look at me sob story sort of threads , not one bit at all.

Now where was i ?

Oh yes

I am not feeling particularly frisky , sexy or what people call horny.

Its rather liberating, i am in no way looking to meet at the moment, well maybe for a cuppa and cake , who doesnt like them

So the question i am asking is do you you feel a frisson of naughtiness or are you quite happy just being just well not sexy

Taff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It comes and goes.

Last night I was horny with a particular fantasy spinning around in my mind that I couldn't sleep.

At the moment it could go either way but I'm not the 'horny,horny' all the time type.

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By *gent CoulsonMan over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Taking the decision to give up on looking for a play partner is quite liberating

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's my time of the month atm so user frisky are my feelings for this week x

Will you still be posting your delicious pics Taff x

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Haven’t been horny in ages, nobody tempting me either right now. It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's my time of the month atm so user frisky are my feelings for this week x

Will you still be posting your delicious pics Taff x"
oh golly i dont know about delish , but i am going to see if i can sneek some landscape pictures in under the fab radar

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Not even in the slightest bit sexy at the moment.

I’ve lost all interest in pursuing people or being pursued and anything beyond friendly chat is beyond me.

I’m not sure if it’s something that I miss or whether I’m ok with it either. I’m thinking that it’s a symptom of something bigger

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not even in the slightest bit sexy at the moment.

I’ve lost all interest in pursuing people or being pursued and anything beyond friendly chat is beyond me.

I’m not sure if it’s something that I miss or whether I’m ok with it either. I’m thinking that it’s a symptom of something bigger "
who knows it could be buddy , but a jolly chat with chums always goes well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good afternoon taff, sorry to see this although dont despair many of us are in the same boat. The horn hoover which is Lockdown has taken its toll. Enjoy the social ride and dont stress buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Haven’t been horny in ages, nobody tempting me either right now. It is what it is."
indeed it is .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Good afternoon taff, sorry to see this although dont despair many of us are in the same boat. The horn hoover which is Lockdown has taken its toll. Enjoy the social ride and dont stress buddy

Hello dear chap oh golly i am mpre happy these days up my hill or on my bike . You know me always far to jolly positive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haven’t been horny in ages, nobody tempting me either right now. It is what it is."

Don’t give up just yet he’s yet to come online,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So many knock backs and a couple of bad experiences. No body's interested in me they just want the boobs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My boyfriend asks me every day what's going on in my little corner of fab. He is hoping for juicy info, updates of sexy chats, excitement of potential meets in the future.

But really there's nothing much to report back. I am not making any great effort and that's totally fine.

I am happy for now to chat and be silly on the forums making friends. Opportunities will make themselves known to me in time and when they do I will enjoy them but for now I am happy plodding along.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hear you

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

Sorry to hear that Taff...but I'd definitely like to share tea and cake with you one day

I'm incredibly horny, but only for one person...I currently have zero interest in getting jiggy with anyone else!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think what iam trying to say its ok not to feel frisky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've not been feeling sexy this past few weeks. Just stressed, so I'm sure I'll bounce back soon enough. Been stress-eating too so my body shape currently looks like a potato. I'm also very sunburned at the moment. Baked potato.

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Hello lovely Taff,

My libido disappeared for the best part of 18m - I wouldn’t initiate anything.

Just lately it seems to have returned & having made a new friend it appears to be off the scale. But it can disappear in a flash too.

It’s all very confusing.

J x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've not been feeling sexy this past few weeks. Just stressed, so I'm sure I'll bounce back soon enough. Been stress-eating too so my body shape currently looks like a potato. I'm also very sunburned at the moment. Baked potato. "
i am sure you dont at all, sending hapoy positive thoughts but please use the suncream

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So many knock backs and a couple of bad experiences. No body's interested in me they just want the boobs."
chaps can be awful , just be your lovely self please

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My boyfriend asks me every day what's going on in my little corner of fab. He is hoping for juicy info, updates of sexy chats, excitement of potential meets in the future.

But really there's nothing much to report back. I am not making any great effort and that's totally fine.

I am happy for now to chat and be silly on the forums making friends. Opportunities will make themselves known to me in time and when they do I will enjoy them but for now I am happy plodding along.

NBVN x "
you have a wonderful fulm axtive life ans your rather splendidly lovley too

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Hello Taff. I have a permanent horniness. I do wish I liked cake. I feel it could take the edge off somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry to hear that Taff...but I'd definitely like to share tea and cake with you one day

I'm incredibly horny, but only for one person...I currently have zero interest in getting jiggy with anyone else!

Oh thats a good thing though it makes the jiggy times more jolly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My boyfriend asks me every day what's going on in my little corner of fab. He is hoping for juicy info, updates of sexy chats, excitement of potential meets in the future.

But really there's nothing much to report back. I am not making any great effort and that's totally fine.

I am happy for now to chat and be silly on the forums making friends. Opportunities will make themselves known to me in time and when they do I will enjoy them but for now I am happy plodding along.

NBVN x you have a wonderful fulm axtive life ans your rather splendidly lovley too

Exactly, and thank you lovely man. We will have to have a cuppa and cake when we visit North Wales

NBVN x

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

"Hello Taff. I have a permanent horniness. I do wish I liked cake. I feel it could take the edge off somewhat. "

It doesn't...it just makes you fat and horny

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Hello Taff. I have a permanent horniness. I do wish I liked cake. I feel it could take the edge off somewhat.

It doesn't...it just makes you fat and horny

Hahahaha.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

No. Me neither. I'm a bit in lockdown weight at the minute.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Do I have horniness... Yes

Do I have sexiness ... No

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

Mine..it kinda ebbs and flows.

If I'm excited by somebody and my mind stimulates then that increases my horniness.

But lately I'm not even mastubaying. I don't worry about it, it's been that way for a while.

But, when the time is right and with the right company it's a different story

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hello Taff. I have a permanent horniness. I do wish I liked cake. I feel it could take the edge off somewhat. "
oh you know me i adore cake and we have a wonderful new cake shop here Ridiculously Rich , it is run by Alana who won the apprentice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My boyfriend asks me every day what's going on in my little corner of fab. He is hoping for juicy info, updates of sexy chats, excitement of potential meets in the future.

But really there's nothing much to report back. I am not making any great effort and that's totally fine.

I am happy for now to chat and be silly on the forums making friends. Opportunities will make themselves known to me in time and when they do I will enjoy them but for now I am happy plodding along.

NBVN x you have a wonderful fulm axtive life ans your rather splendidly lovley too

Exactly, and thank you lovely man. We will have to have a cuppa and cake when we visit North Wales

NBVN x "
ardderchog

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Mine..it kinda ebbs and flows.

If I'm excited by somebody and my mind stimulates then that increases my horniness.

But lately I'm not even mastubaying. I don't worry about it, it's been that way for a while.

But, when the time is right and with the right company it's a different story

"
that seems to be how a lot of people are feeling at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do I have horniness... Yes

Do I have sexiness ... No

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

Oh golly before you read on , this isnt one of those oh look at me sob story sort of threads , not one bit at all.

Now where was i ?

Oh yes

I am not feeling particularly frisky , sexy or what people call horny.

Its rather liberating, i am in no way looking to meet at the moment, well maybe for a cuppa and cake , who doesnt like them

So the question i am asking is do you you feel a frisson of naughtiness or are you quite happy just being just well not sexy

Taff

I can relate, sex is not a priority at the moment. Stepping back and concentrating on me and my headspace....Happy to hear from people, but like you it won't lead to anything other than cake and coffee

I hope you are taking care of yourself

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

My urge is that department has left the building.

Combination of lockdown, putting on weight and being on crutches for months.

I'm sending out an SOS for my mojo, please send it home if you see it Taff xx

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By *ornyhappyCouple over a year ago

perth

I am currently finding that for me feeling horny and feeling sexy are very separate things. I quite often feel horny, but, partly due to lockdown/life stresses and subsequent weight gain, I dont often feel sexy. I'm hoping that it's a temporary thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

Oh golly before you read on , this isnt one of those oh look at me sob story sort of threads , not one bit at all.

Now where was i ?

Oh yes

I am not feeling particularly frisky , sexy or what people call horny.

Its rather liberating, i am in no way looking to meet at the moment, well maybe for a cuppa and cake , who doesnt like them

So the question i am asking is do you you feel a frisson of naughtiness or are you quite happy just being just well not sexy

Taff

I hope you are taking care of yourself "

I am glad you are taking time for.you Cariad .

I am good ive just started two much needed weeks off

x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My urge is that department has left the building.

Combination of lockdown, putting on weight and being on crutches for months.

I'm sending out an SOS for my mojo, please send it home if you see it Taff xx"

If i see it on my travels i shall send it home to you with a cwtch

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am currently finding that for me feeling horny and feeling sexy are very separate things. I quite often feel horny, but, partly due to lockdown/life stresses and subsequent weight gain, I dont often feel sexy. I'm hoping that it's a temporary thing.

I think we have all been through so much in the last year . I am sure it will change

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm happy chatting and baking for people at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm happy chatting and baking for people at the moment. "
oh now that sounds dash jolly fantastic

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By *anae21Woman over a year ago

Nearer than you think

I don't think the friskiness has waned in the slightest, but I am feeling very disillusioned (ghosting, let downs, fakes and liars) so I'm content to just hang around on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think the friskiness has waned in the slightest, but I am feeling very disillusioned (ghosting, let downs, fakes and liars) so I'm content to just hang around on the forums. "
again quite a few people feel like this . I am more content wandering over the hills here in search of a sunset . Or whizzing about on my splendid bicycle

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