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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I have come to accept that I am physically an unattractive man, witnessed by the fact that I can chat to someone, quite normally till they see a face pic then nothing.
Having accepted this, I have come to the decision to stick around for the forums and the socials, but the likelihood of me meeting someone compatible seems slim at the best of times, and locally, none existent |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I have come to accept that I am physically an unattractive man, witnessed by the fact that I can chat to someone, quite normally till they see a face pic then nothing.
Having accepted this, I have come to the decision to stick around for the forums and the socials, but the likelihood of me meeting someone compatible seems slim at the best of times, and locally, none existent"
That's the route I took too! ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"There are over 300 single women in the Great Manchester area and not a single positive response, once the get a look at me"
You've messaged every single woman in the area?!! Maybe try to be more selective and you might connect on something more than looks.
But yah, the face pic silence happens to most guys on here at some point. That's what I tell myself anyway ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are over 300 single women in the Great Manchester area and not a single positive response, once the get a look at me"
You could be George Clooney and not all 300 would respond.
You know the score in here, timing is everything and sadly physical attributes, body and face play a part to.
Just muck about on the forums and attend socials and you never know what might happen. |
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"How ugly are you?
Beauty is on the inside "
That's not nice smudgey babe
Beauty is on the inside but doesn't mean the OP is ugly to everyone maybe he just needs to try other sites as well as go to parties clubs nudist spas or beaches. There's many options than just here.
There is a large amount of men to women on here too xx |
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Don't be so hard on yourself op, there's someone on here that will like you for you.
Don't give up and I can assure you that one day you will be pleasantly surprised the same way I have been.
Keep your chin up and think positively and try not to beat yourself down in the forums.
Good luck buddy
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’ |
Op I've been told I look like a football hooligan (by one of me female friend's friend's!) I'm not by the way - I'm chilled & easy going. Further from the truth. Happy & confident & not up myself.
Women have stopped in bars & told me I look like one of the Mitchel brothers (a lot!) LOL & HA-HA!
Consider going to a club near yourself. Like minded individuals may be up your street.... It may change your perspective/mood/opinion!!!
People above my post have said some good stuff. Hope that helps. Don' t be scared to play & experiment! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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AC its fab. It's shit for men. I would never get anywhere if the numbers were flipped. Stay for the forums as its the best part of fab and date on other sites which have a much better balance of the genders. Then get her into swinging and come back with a couples profiles.
You will soon be inundated with men who want to join you both. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to do my speaking on the forums, get to read peoples characters and personality better.
And regards of looks, if you feel like you’re lacking somewhere mate. Work on it (if possible).
I went from being 26 stone, a drug addict (tramadol) & heavily drinking to focusing on myself, my looks. I cut out the bad stuff in my life, lost 8 stone & feel good about myself.
Hopefully you can find something within yourself to change mate ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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"How ugly are you?
Beauty is on the inside "
Nah, innards are on the inside. All veins and gizzards and bits that go bloop. Mind you, never know when you'll bump into a lovely lady surgeon that does find all that lot beautiful...
Ps. Don't give up OP, somewhere out there is someone for everyone. |
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