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over a year ago
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"Who still has pictures of the Ex and likes to still 'use them' for pleasure? "
Seems a bit wrong OP. Surely its nicer to delete and start afresh with a new person? |
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I was tempted to delete every picture of my ex wife off my phone but decided not to. It’s my own personal history and unlike Stalin I’m not going to remove all images of anyone who has had an affect on my life.
Now that I’m in a better place emotionally I see those pictures as what they are, a different time and place.
Never had any fun with them as I don’t see her in that way anymore. |
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over a year ago
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I had a few pics with one ex where I looked good in them, tried cropping him out as much as possible but can still see him a bit. I just keep it cos I like myself in the pic not for him! |
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"No.
To be honest I've kept some photos but can't look at them. It makes me sad.
I miss the person he pretended to be x"
I haven't deleted mine, but don't look at them. They're there for if the wife comes knocking and I won't be hiding a damn thing |
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I don’t have any I can get access to easily.. I do have some on a memory stick I can’t find though which is probably in the attic.
I know the last bloke I seen for a year still has videos and pictures. Haven’t seen him in 18 months and we don’t speak but he messaged a month or so ago to say he had a wank over me. When I asked what did he use he then told me he had some material stored away   |
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I had a very amicable break up with my ex and we remain friends to this day, so yes I still have photos of her on my phone. I have not had reason to delete them, but we have both moved on as the saying goes. |
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over a year ago
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Nah, deleted most, still an odd one pops up but all I think when I see him is... Wtf was I thinking. He looks like Jimmy from Emerdale!
It's funny how the love bug skews your view of a person's looks or maybe its their behaviours that make them ugly who knows but hey, he's prob doing the exact same n wondering what he was attracted to in me, such is life  |
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"Nah, deleted most, still an odd one pops up but all I think when I see him is... Wtf was I thinking. He looks like Jimmy from Emerdale!
It's funny how the love bug skews your view of a person's looks or maybe its their behaviours that make them ugly who knows but hey, he's prob doing the exact same n wondering what he was attracted to in me, such is life "
If he looked like Jimmy from Emmerdale he was well punching  |
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"I had a very amicable break up with my ex and we remain friends to this day, so yes I still have photos of her on my phone. I have not had reason to delete them, but we have both moved on as the saying goes. "
But do you still crack one off looking at them - that's the question at hand here |
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"No.
To be honest I've kept some photos but can't look at them. It makes me sad.
I miss the person he pretended to be x"
*gulps  … I understand you on that xx |
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"I have pics of a few ex's I don't know why I keep them .. maybe when I'm old and my dick resembles a shar pei being pulled through a letterbox by its tail I'll look back I used to smash that "
“… when I'm old and my dick resembles a shar pei being pulled through a letterbox “  omg I actually snort-laughed at that |
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"Nah, deleted most, still an odd one pops up but all I think when I see him is... Wtf was I thinking. He looks like Jimmy from Emerdale!
It's funny how the love bug skews your view of a person's looks or maybe its their behaviours that make them ugly who knows but hey, he's prob doing the exact same n wondering what he was attracted to in me, such is life
If he looked like Jimmy from Emmerdale he was well punching "
Lol funny I never noticed it before, I thought he was the dogs bollocks.... Now I just think he looks like them haha that's terrible I'm joking obvs lol |
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I'm still good friends with both my ex husband and ex partner and have photos of both. They were family and we had lovely times together.
Any intimate photos got deleted as soon as the relationships ended. I hope they deleted any they had of ne. |
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"Who still has pictures of the Ex and likes to still 'use them' for pleasure? "
Not me. After she did the dirty on me and the divorce, I deleted every single picture on my phone that had her mug in it. Plus chucked away every printed picture that had her in it. Just wish there was some way of deleting from my brain memory bank
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After we’d split I put a load of pics in the bin … later I noticed my dressing table was a bit rocky so I folded one into quarters and tucked it under the leg at the back. It was years later when I found it again. I’d been squashing his face in with a table leg all that time - now thaaaat amused me no end 
that’s lovely.
I’m sorry you lost him xx