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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very vague, depends on your definition and what you’re looking for as it can be quite a broad spectrum, for example..
Do you want to be humiliated, belittled, hog tied, whipped or do you want to be shat on?  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Yes and that point is difficult to get across....
Broad scale of D/s play  "
Which is where communication is key as is the importance of both dominants and submissives being able to define what D/s means to them if they are ever to hope to find someone whose definition matches their own.
Unfortunately many (mainly men) still have the stereotyped whips and chains and the submissive doing as they're told view of D/s which at best is deluding themselves and at worst incredibly dangerous.
I wouldn't even contemplate entering into my submissive mode without a lot of communication and mutual trust/respect having been built beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes and that point is difficult to get across....
Broad scale of D/s play
Which is where communication is key as is the importance of both dominants and submissives being able to define what D/s means to them if they are ever to hope to find someone whose definition matches their own.
Unfortunately many (mainly men) still have the stereotyped whips and chains and the submissive doing as they're told view of D/s which at best is deluding themselves and at worst incredibly dangerous.
I wouldn't even contemplate entering into my submissive mode without a lot of communication and mutual trust/respect having been built beforehand."
May I add, newbies wanting to experiment, need to do some reading research, before they contemplate if this scene is for them...
When they have, they'll be able to communicate on any D/s level.
"I'll do whatever you want Mistress" isn't cutting it for me  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Yes and that point is difficult to get across....
Broad scale of D/s play
Which is where communication is key as is the importance of both dominants and submissives being able to define what D/s means to them if they are ever to hope to find someone whose definition matches their own.
Unfortunately many (mainly men) still have the stereotyped whips and chains and the submissive doing as they're told view of D/s which at best is deluding themselves and at worst incredibly dangerous.
I wouldn't even contemplate entering into my submissive mode without a lot of communication and mutual trust/respect having been built beforehand.
May I add, newbies wanting to experiment, need to do some reading research, before they contemplate if this scene is for them...
When they have, they'll be able to communicate on any D/s level.
"I'll do whatever you want Mistress" isn't cutting it for me "
Absolutely - the first advice I usually offer to anyone with an interest in exploring is to read, read and read some more, and when they think they've done enough reading to read some more 
Too often you see things like "I'll do anything" or "No limits" being put forth - funny how that changes when you ask if they'd get something tattoo'd on their forehead or similar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes and that point is difficult to get across....
Broad scale of D/s play
Which is where communication is key as is the importance of both dominants and submissives being able to define what D/s means to them if they are ever to hope to find someone whose definition matches their own.
Unfortunately many (mainly men) still have the stereotyped whips and chains and the submissive doing as they're told view of D/s which at best is deluding themselves and at worst incredibly dangerous.
I wouldn't even contemplate entering into my submissive mode without a lot of communication and mutual trust/respect having been built beforehand.
May I add, newbies wanting to experiment, need to do some reading research, before they contemplate if this scene is for them...
When they have, they'll be able to communicate on any D/s level.
"I'll do whatever you want Mistress" isn't cutting it for me
Absolutely - the first advice I usually offer to anyone with an interest in exploring is to read, read and read some more, and when they think they've done enough reading to read some more
Too often you see things like "I'll do anything" or "No limits" being put forth - funny how that changes when you ask if they'd get something tattoo'd on their forehead or similar "
Ohhh haha
I'm going to remember that line!  |
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