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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When in a relationship, if the woman goes out with her friends, the man is happy she's having a nice time. However, if the man goes out with his friends, God help him if he comes home smiling. Saying you had a great time with your friends can lose you a lot of your relationship privileges. "Had a great time at the England match did you? Well next time ask your boyfriend Harry Kane to give you your 'time to wake up' blowjob".
Why do you think this is? Are women naturally jealous? Is trying to control a man's happiness a positive thing? Thoughts and opinions.
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"When in a relationship, if the woman goes out with her friends, the man is happy she's having a nice time. However, if the man goes out with his friends, God help him if he comes home smiling. Saying you had a great time with your friends can lose you a lot of your relationship privileges. "Had a great time at the England match did you? Well next time ask your boyfriend Harry Kane to give you your 'time to wake up' blowjob".
Why do you think this is? Are women naturally jealous? Is trying to control a man's happiness a positive thing? Thoughts and opinions.
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Not me, when I was married I was thankful for the peace and quiet when he went out, and not have to listen to his moaning bullshit  when he came home I asked if he had a good night and whatever he replied was enough for me  |
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"When in a relationship, if the woman goes out with her friends, the man is happy she's having a nice time. However, if the man goes out with his friends, God help him if he comes home smiling. Saying you had a great time with your friends can lose you a lot of your relationship privileges. "Had a great time at the England match did you? Well next time ask your boyfriend Harry Kane to give you your 'time to wake up' blowjob".
Why do you think this is? Are women naturally jealous? Is trying to control a man's happiness a positive thing? Thoughts and opinions.
Not me, when I was married I was thankful for the peace and quiet when he went out, and not have to listen to his moaning bullshit when he came home I asked if he had a good night and whatever he replied was enough for me "
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"When in a relationship, if the woman goes out with her friends, the man is happy she's having a nice time. However, if the man goes out with his friends, God help him if he comes home smiling. Saying you had a great time with your friends can lose you a lot of your relationship privileges. "Had a great time at the England match did you? Well next time ask your boyfriend Harry Kane to give you your 'time to wake up' blowjob".
Why do you think this is? Are women naturally jealous? Is trying to control a man's happiness a positive thing? Thoughts and opinions.
Not me, when I was married I was thankful for the peace and quiet when he went out, and not have to listen to his moaning bullshit when he came home I asked if he had a good night and whatever he replied was enough for me
Happy marriage was it... "
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"When in a relationship, if the woman goes out with her friends, the man is happy she's having a nice time. However, if the man goes out with his friends, God help him if he comes home smiling. Saying you had a great time with your friends can lose you a lot of your relationship privileges. "Had a great time at the England match did you? Well next time ask your boyfriend Harry Kane to give you your 'time to wake up' blowjob".
Why do you think this is? Are women naturally jealous? Is trying to control a man's happiness a positive thing? Thoughts and opinions.
Not me, when I was married I was thankful for the peace and quiet when he went out, and not have to listen to his moaning bullshit when he came home I asked if he had a good night and whatever he replied was enough for me
Happy marriage was it...
Was at the beginning "
Aren’t they always!  |
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over a year ago
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Lol I definitely don't think that's most women. Some people are jealous, no matter what their gender is. I trust people and it's important to do things separately and not to have to worry about whether the other person will imagine something etc.
Some men are very controlling and don't allow their gfs to go out with friends or control what they wear or who they talk to. That's not love obviously. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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Communication is the cornerstone of any good relationship, that means from both sides.
If one partner is angry or upset about something then expressing it is important. Punishing each other for actions or feelings undermines trust in the relationship and builds resentment.
That means saying if you’re unhappy about them going out or unhappy about their reaction to going out.
Don’t talk about each other behind their backs, express your feelings to them.
It never fails to amaze me how partners treat the other like the enemy, then get surprised when they become the enemy |
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Not all women are like this. My ex certainly was, if I was ever allowed out in the first place. In the relationship I'm in now, going out is certainly not a problem and there are no issues when I get back. Luke |
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Mine always encourages me to see my friends. I go on regular holidays with my friends as well.
She’s away for the next six days.
Space and understanding is important.
I simply wouldn’t be compatible with someone if that’s how they behave. I have had my fair share of crazy in this life that I soon extricated myself from. |
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"When in a relationship, if the woman goes out with her friends, the man is happy she's having a nice time. However, if the man goes out with his friends, God help him if he comes home smiling. Saying you had a great time with your friends can lose you a lot of your relationship privileges. "Had a great time at the England match did you? Well next time ask your boyfriend Harry Kane to give you your 'time to wake up' blowjob".
Why do you think this is? Are women naturally jealous? Is trying to control a man's happiness a positive thing? Thoughts and opinions.
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‘time to wake up’ blowjob.........
Pass me that box of tissues so I can go have a weep.......  |
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"When in a relationship, if the woman goes out with her friends, the man is happy she's having a nice time. However, if the man goes out with his friends, God help him if he comes home smiling. Saying you had a great time with your friends can lose you a lot of your relationship privileges. "Had a great time at the England match did you? Well next time ask your boyfriend Harry Kane to give you your 'time to wake up' blowjob".
Why do you think this is? Are women naturally jealous? Is trying to control a man's happiness a positive thing? Thoughts and opinions.
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think she is just trying to get out of the time to wake up blow job |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like you have a cunt of a partner. Even my ex who was an absolute cunt, didn’t care if I had fun with the lads.
It’s give and take, if you are out every night then yeah, they have a right to be pissed but if it’s once every few week or something then what’s the problem.
I think sometimes it’s just the partner wanting some drama, my advice bin them off, who the fuck has time for that shite. |
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Surely the nature of a good relationship is where both parties are supportive of each other being themselves, happy and free? Why would you be unhappy with your partner living their best life? Why would you be unhappy of their enjoyment of a good time with others when they are coming home to you? Not only of their own free choice but because whatever a good time they've had nothing beats coming home to you (and vice versa). Surely their having great experiences is not only good for their mental wellbeing but it's also great for the wellbeing of the relationship? |
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If your happy for your wife to leave and she’s unhappy to go with your friends it sounds like an issue with the marriage itself.
My last serious relationship I hated going out coz it meant I’d miss a night in with my amazing gf. Whenever I did go out as soon as I got home I’d cuddle up next to her and think “why do I even bother when I’ve got this right here”.
And she would encourage me to go out and have fun.
She really was amazing. That’s the issue here. People are settling for “they’re ok” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God I can't get my hubby to go out enough lol "
Same
I actually encouge my partner to go out without me.
I think its healthy so to individuals who have their own lives but come together as a team. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If my partner goes out and comes home the only thing I'm sometimes jealous of is the food he has ate.
I think jealousy is a very normal emotion, but you need to find ways to keep it under control and ways to not take it out on the other person, especially when they've done nothing wrong.
I definitely get jealous sometimes hearing about women my partner spends time with but I know I'm being unreasonable so I deal with it myself and rarely ever make him feel bad because of it, sometimes I might have a little wobble but I'm not ashamed of that.
It's not a woman thing though. I've personally encountered more men who are jealous and possessive rather than women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If my partner goes out and comes home the only thing I'm sometimes jealous of is the food he has ate.
I think jealousy is a very normal emotion, but you need to find ways to keep it under control and ways to not take it out on the other person, especially when they've done nothing wrong.
I definitely get jealous sometimes hearing about women my partner spends time with but I know I'm being unreasonable so I deal with it myself and rarely ever make him feel bad because of it, sometimes I might have a little wobble but I'm not ashamed of that.
It's not a woman thing though. I've personally encountered more men who are jealous and possessive rather than women. "
I like your funny posts, but also I like your serious posts too, it’s a nice juxtaposition, one off sets the other, ebb and flow, one enhances the other.
(In no way have I said this to shoe horn the word ‘juxtaposition’ in to a comment today) |
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