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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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From what I can gather, they are primarily females, however, male versions are known to exist.
All the ones I am aware of, that display Bunny Boiler tendencies are female.
How many peeps have come across the male version please, as I am curious to see if what I believe is true?
TVMIA.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are male ones as there are female ones. I prefer the term stalker for both bale and female. Personally I have come across 2 one of whom had a history of violence the other just obsessive. I do know people f people who have accused others and have really been one themselves. The fact is some people are obsessive on life and there are legal ways and means of dealing with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have yet to be bothered by a bunny boiler telling me to back off.
Mind you, I hide my veris from Day 1, and those I have met tend not to display theirs either.
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I once met someone in a nightclub, and a few more times after - but purely for sex. I made it clear it was just fun, and I wasn't after anything serious (was dumped a week or so prior to this one).
About a few weeks later from these one-nighters, a mutal friend of hers and mine was overwhelmed that I was now her boyfriend, and was moving in...
A polite call later to set the record straight to this friend, and then to the girl then led to this girl turnin up at mine (and my workplace once) bawling her eyes out wanting me to be with her "forever"... I ende up getting work to say I'd quit, changed my number, and I just made the house look as empty as possible!
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I think it can be a male and female trait, although I think there is a difference in the way they act. Somebody mentioned something about hiding verifications and that too is a good point as I only show what I consider "safe"  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Hiding face pics is too - nothing worse than someone you don't want to recognise you suddenly picking you out across the room...!"
Good point! I think it pays to be cautious with face pics anyway and on any site.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Obviously being female I don't know whether they are worse than males on this site, but I have had men get 'attached' and want me to stop meetign other men. I delete and block and move on,b ut it is a shame that they feel they have to start dictating who I meet and don't meet. That's not what I am here for.
Although bunny boiler is an excellent phrase, we have to remember that stalkers can get very personal, and I have 2 female friends who were stalked. One of them got her car keyed and tyres let down by her ex, and he assaulted her twice before anything was done. And unfortunately they can kill. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Within swinging I think men are the worst until there is an attachment formed from the heart.
Until then, he wants an exclusive female and becomes territorial....
Once the heart is involved, the female becomes like a schoolgirl with her first boyfriend and everyone needs to know he is hers. |
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