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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Because I’m a nosey cow and love hearing people’s bad experiences... feel free to share yours!!
Maybe they didn’t look like their pictures.... cum too soon... someone got pissed off during a swap...ect I’d love to hear!
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over a year ago
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Agreed to a coffee meet, we had swapped pics abd I had sent a full body pic, as I'm not a skinny gal. He walked into the coffee shop looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Agreed to a coffee meet, we had swapped pics abd I had sent a full body pic, as I'm not a skinny gal. He walked into the coffee shop looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door "
Oh my god your joking!! What a horrible person you look gorgeous x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agreed to a coffee meet, we had swapped pics abd I had sent a full body pic, as I'm not a skinny gal. He walked into the coffee shop looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door
Oh my god your joking!! What a horrible person you look gorgeous x"
Thank you, unfortunately not took a long while to meet anyone again, fairly dented the confidence  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agreed to a coffee meet, we had swapped pics abd I had sent a full body pic, as I'm not a skinny gal. He walked into the coffee shop looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door "
Wow  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A guy turned up with the most smelliest cock you could imagine and couldn’t understand why I turned him a way . Wash it u dirty bugger ??"
Ewwwwwww this made me gip.
Filthy pig |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing too bad from Fab tbh bar a couple of toothy blowjobs
However, my back catalogue is littered with comedic and sometimes potentially dangerous stories
I never knew I could run til I got chased through a woods by a guy whose advances I rebuked
Turns out when ur shitting urself, your legs can move like Linford Christies  |
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He orgasmed far too soon. Actually, in my hand as I was putting the condom on him
Didn't even stay for a cuppa, made his excuses and left. Then had the cheek to ask to meet again a few weeks later. It's a Fab life..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guy went down on me and started crying about his ex. Mortified.
What happened next?
I gots to know??"
I was just a bit lost for words, got up and dressed. And went home  |
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"Guy went down on me and started crying about his ex. Mortified.
What happened next?
I gots to know??
I was just a bit lost for words, got up and dressed. And went home "
Was kind of hoping you gave him a slapping then went home |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agreed to a coffee meet, we had swapped pics abd I had sent a full body pic, as I'm not a skinny gal. He walked into the coffee shop looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door "
Shithouse!!!!
You're gorgeous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guy went down on me and started crying about his ex. Mortified.
What happened next?
I gots to know??
I was just a bit lost for words, got up and dressed. And went home
Was kind of hoping you gave him a slapping then went home "
Needed a lift |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’d been messaging a while and spoke on the phone and all was great so arranged to meet the following week. Then got a message the night before saying no can do, good luck and then I was Blocked and all that after! Strange but each to their own I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my very early meets, with a couple where the bloke just wanted to watch, she’s warming the little fella up with a bit of a hand job and her engagement ring cuts me in a sensitive place and causes a bit of a blood injury .. obviously I don’t want to take any chances with open wounds / blood etc so meeting terminated .. |
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"Guy went down on me and started crying about his ex. Mortified.
What happened next?
I gots to know??
I was just a bit lost for words, got up and dressed. And went home
Was kind of hoping you gave him a slapping then went home
Needed a lift "
Lucky he didn’t start crying about that  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Met a guy for a coffee we decided we would meet again went back to our cars and we kissed goodbye when he suddenly pinned me and started grabbing at me I managed to get a hand free and got him off me when I yelled at him and asked what the hell he thought he was doing his answer was you're on fab I thought you wouldn't mind .Needless to say I didn't meet him again and I almost left fab after that.I am glad I didn't though as I've met some great people since . |
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I've got 2 stories...
1. The guy had played rugby the day before. He went down on me and somehow managed to open a cut he had on his ear. He didn't notice and I looked down to see his face all bloody and had a horrendous moment thinking the blood came from me. He went and washed his face, came back to the bedroom and leapt on the bed and it broke. Was hilarious and not awkward because he was a good sport.
2. (This one is horrible). Had a meet with a guy I had met before for coffees and chatted to for a long time, it just shows you can never be sure about people. Anyway when we started getting it on he kept talking about his mates enormous cock. I thought he was hoping for a threesome at a later date. But we were taking a break after having both cum and he roles over to me on the bed with his mate on video call looking at me lying there. No permission, no warning. Bastard. I did report it because I thought he might do it to someone else. He left the site but could easily be here under another name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guy went down on me and started crying about his ex. Mortified.
What happened next?
I gots to know??
I was just a bit lost for words, got up and dressed. And went home
Was kind of hoping you gave him a slapping then went home
Needed a lift
Lucky he didn’t start crying about that "
Can you imagine hahahah I think I would just open the door and roll out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agreed to a coffee meet, we had swapped pics abd I had sent a full body pic, as I'm not a skinny gal. He walked into the coffee shop looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door "
Omg that's crazy you look gorgeous. I've made it clear I'm not skinny to guys. That's just bloody rude! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Met a guy for a coffee we decided we would meet again went back to our cars and we kissed goodbye when he suddenly pinned me and started grabbing at me I managed to get a hand free and got him off me when I yelled at him and asked what the hell he thought he was doing his answer was you're on fab I thought you wouldn't mind .Needless to say I didn't meet him again and I almost left fab after that.I am glad I didn't though as I've met some great people since ."
Oh wow how scary!! Absolute creep |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a guy for a coffee we decided we would meet again went back to our cars and we kissed goodbye when he suddenly pinned me and started grabbing at me I managed to get a hand free and got him off me when I yelled at him and asked what the hell he thought he was doing his answer was you're on fab I thought you wouldn't mind .Needless to say I didn't meet him again and I almost left fab after that.I am glad I didn't though as I've met some great people since ."
that's awful!!!! |
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"I've got 2 stories...
1. The guy had played rugby the day before. He went down on me and somehow managed to open a cut he had on his ear. He didn't notice and I looked down to see his face all bloody and had a horrendous moment thinking the blood came from me. He went and washed his face, came back to the bedroom and leapt on the bed and it broke. Was hilarious and not awkward because he was a good sport.
2. (This one is horrible). Had a meet with a guy I had met before for coffees and chatted to for a long time, it just shows you can never be sure about people. Anyway when we started getting it on he kept talking about his mates enormous cock. I thought he was hoping for a threesome at a later date. But we were taking a break after having both cum and he roles over to me on the bed with his mate on video call looking at me lying there. No permission, no warning. Bastard. I did report it because I thought he might do it to someone else. He left the site but could easily be here under another name."
That second one is horrible  |
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2. (This one is horrible). Had a meet with a guy I had met before for coffees and chatted to for a long time, it just shows you can never be sure about people. Anyway when we started getting it on he kept talking about his mates enormous cock. I thought he was hoping for a threesome at a later date. But we were taking a break after having both cum and he roles over to me on the bed with his mate on video call looking at me lying there. No permission, no warning. Bastard. I did report it because I thought he might do it to someone else. He left the site but could easily be here under another name."
Jesus. That's so bad... |
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Went back to hers, just got started in the bedroom when the doorbell rang.
It was her friend who she was supposed to meet earlier. When she (the friend) saw what was going on she flipped and attacked me with the bedside lamp.
They then proceeded to have a slanging match for several hours.
The friend left about dawn in floods of tears. My meet rolled over and said "You should probably go before my husband gets back."
I didn't even know she was married!
Then the cat jumped on the bed and started sniffing my cock. |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"I've got 2 stories...
1. The guy had played rugby the day before. He went down on me and somehow managed to open a cut he had on his ear. He didn't notice and I looked down to see his face all bloody and had a horrendous moment thinking the blood came from me. He went and washed his face, came back to the bedroom and leapt on the bed and it broke. Was hilarious and not awkward because he was a good sport.
2. (This one is horrible). Had a meet with a guy I had met before for coffees and chatted to for a long time, it just shows you can never be sure about people. Anyway when we started getting it on he kept talking about his mates enormous cock. I thought he was hoping for a threesome at a later date. But we were taking a break after having both cum and he roles over to me on the bed with his mate on video call looking at me lying there. No permission, no warning. Bastard. I did report it because I thought he might do it to someone else. He left the site but could easily be here under another name."
Surely that's a crime |
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By *yron69Man
over a year ago
Fareham |
First woman I met from here was nice. We met in a pub. But she showed me pics of pins in her vagina etc.
Second was into rope fun but kept me waiting in a pub. Then she just turned up and said she had other things to do.
Third were a snotty couple in Farnham. Both from the Home Office. “Oh you’re bi? “ he asked, “into boys then?”.
She wanted flirting in a busy pub which was given but then got snotty at last orders and they both fucked off.
Also later the mystery of the cum collecting woman in Bournemouth which I’ve documented before. |
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"I've got 2 stories...
1. The guy had played rugby the day before. He went down on me and somehow managed to open a cut he had on his ear. He didn't notice and I looked down to see his face all bloody and had a horrendous moment thinking the blood came from me. He went and washed his face, came back to the bedroom and leapt on the bed and it broke. Was hilarious and not awkward because he was a good sport.
2. (This one is horrible). Had a meet with a guy I had met before for coffees and chatted to for a long time, it just shows you can never be sure about people. Anyway when we started getting it on he kept talking about his mates enormous cock. I thought he was hoping for a threesome at a later date. But we were taking a break after having both cum and he roles over to me on the bed with his mate on video call looking at me lying there. No permission, no warning. Bastard. I did report it because I thought he might do it to someone else. He left the site but could easily be here under another name.
Surely that's a crime "
I.posted on here about it and some people said tell the police but I didn't at the time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years 
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agreed to a coffee meet, we had swapped pics abd I had sent a full body pic, as I'm not a skinny gal. He walked into the coffee shop looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door "
What a twat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've got a couple too. I've learnt to always have socials first and to trust my gut feeling. Anyway:
- had a meet at a guy's place. We have a drink and then start kissing, have sex. When I reached down for my bag afterwards, I noticed he had a huge kitchen knife under his bed. Could have ended badly for me! Lol
- agreed to meet a guy outside tesco to get some drinks before going to his. He seemed very hyper, couldn't stand still (realised afterwards he had taken drugs), we go to his and the way we had to go didn't seem the safest way but again, lesson learnt. We go to his and it's ok, we chat and again he doesn't sit down and he keeps drinking. He then tells me about the kids he has but doesn't see anymore and says that we would make beautiful children and starts crying |
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"Agreed to a coffee meet, we had swapped pics abd I had sent a full body pic, as I'm not a skinny gal. He walked into the coffee shop looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door "
What a fool. We'd meet you for a coffee anyday. |
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. "
What an absolute bastard, hope you're ok? Xx |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. "
Really sorry this has happened to you. It's absolutely awful and I hope you can get piece of mind soon.
I've had a stealthers before it was made a crime but luckily no ejaculation and no infections.
What gets me is that they were all my age, and, when I confronted them I got the standard stupid reply 'but I'm clean'. None of them had checked if I was using contraception either.
Unbelievable. |
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"Agreed to a coffee meet, we had swapped pics abd I had sent a full body pic, as I'm not a skinny gal. He walked into the coffee shop looked me up and down says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door "
You definitely dodged a bullet with that guy, what a nasty thing to do x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a guy for a coffee we decided we would meet again went back to our cars and we kissed goodbye when he suddenly pinned me and started grabbing at me I managed to get a hand free and got him off me when I yelled at him and asked what the hell he thought he was doing his answer was you're on fab I thought you wouldn't mind .Needless to say I didn't meet him again and I almost left fab after that.I am glad I didn't though as I've met some great people since ."
some men are just animals & don’t know how to treat women & so what women are on here it we still like to be treated with respect have had a couple of right ones myself that don’t know how to treat women absolute toss pots
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything.
What an absolute bastard, hope you're ok? Xx"
I'm OK, he didn't hurt me, it was just a nasty shock. I was pissed off that he was a coward and blocked me when I confronted him about it. Very pathetic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. "
I'm sorry. That happened to me too and it's awful. |
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything.
What an absolute bastard, hope you're ok? Xx
I'm OK, he didn't hurt me, it was just a nasty shock. I was pissed off that he was a coward and blocked me when I confronted him about it. Very pathetic. "
Absolutely! I do think that those people should be barred from rejoining. But not sure how that could be managed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything.
Really sorry this has happened to you. It's absolutely awful and I hope you can get piece of mind soon.
I've had a stealthers before it was made a crime but luckily no ejaculation and no infections.
What gets me is that they were all my age, and, when I confronted them I got the standard stupid reply 'but I'm clean'. None of them had checked if I was using contraception either.
Unbelievable. "
I have the coil so I'm not worried about pregnancy, but the STI thing does concern me. Obviously I'm not going to be meeting until I've had my tests and they've come back clear, but it will take a while to even get in for tests because they're running reduced hours at the clinic due to Covid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything.
I'm sorry. That happened to me too and it's awful."
It's really shitty behaviour. I've had some men be real dicks about it on here too, saying I'm making it up for attention. Like, sure, because THAT'S why I'm here, to bullshit people. |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
" it will take a while to even get in for tests because they're running reduced hours at the clinic due to Covid. "
In Wales we can get them sent by post. I've done it twice, including HIV. Can you get it where you are? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything.
I'm sorry. That happened to me too and it's awful.
It's really shitty behaviour. I've had some men be real dicks about it on here too, saying I'm making it up for attention. Like, sure, because THAT'S why I'm here, to bullshit people. "
That's horrific. I'm so sorry that's happened to you. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"Met a guy for a coffee we decided we would meet again went back to our cars and we kissed goodbye when he suddenly pinned me and started grabbing at me I managed to get a hand free and got him off me when I yelled at him and asked what the hell he thought he was doing his answer was you're on fab I thought you wouldn't mind .Needless to say I didn't meet him again and I almost left fab after that.I am glad I didn't though as I've met some great people since ."
That is really serious. Did you consider reporting the matter to the police! Or did you simply chalk it up as an isolated bad experience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s any help re Sti testing. If you google icash which is the sexual health/ family planning service run by the nhs. You can order sti tests by post. I did one the other week it was quite simple- swabs & then a blood sample done by pricking your little finger & collecting in a vial. Received the results by text less than a week later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. "
Eeeeeee could of been anywhere that ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Omg so sorry that happened to you!! Absolutely disgraceful behaviour
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. "
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Several years ago, I got chatting to a guy about a particular technical issue and agreed to give my opinion on some psprrs , that were at his home.
He somehow assumed we were on a meet, and as I was reading his papers, he stood right in front of me indicating the he wanted a BJ. I managed to divert his attention, bolted for the door, and escaped downstairs as he chased after me. I had checked in advance that the front door could not be deadlocked.
I simply got into my car and left him standing there; bewildered.
I had not led him on or indicated in any way that I was going for a meet; just to give my opinion in what he had written.
An interesting experience! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was once in the middle of sex. Like I literally had his dick inside me when all of a sudden he decided he needed to move his car cos he was parked illegally.
He never came back.
Had the nerve to message me a week later saying how much of a great time he’d had and do I want to meet again |
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. "
That's awful. Fab admin can trace his registered details which I turn the police will be able to trace him if you do go to the police. It's your call of course.
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Was speaking to this girl for about a week or two, agreed to go for a drink. She turned up and looked at me and said “no thank you, cretin cunt” and threw the drink all over me and walked out. Was absolutely mortified and knocked my confidence back |
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I met a guy pretty soon after joining the site, he seemed nice when we went for a social so I arranged a second meet at his house. Anyway, one thing led to another and we had sex. There was no foreplay for me, but that wasn't what bothered me. Literally AS SOON as he came, he walked out of the bedroom (I figured maybe he'd gone to deal with the condom, so I was still laying naked on the bed waiting for a cuddle of some sort) but he returned fully dressed and told me he'd see me in a few minutes by the front door
I'd never felt so cheap and shit, it was horrible |
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"I met a guy pretty soon after joining the site, he seemed nice when we went for a social so I arranged a second meet at his house. Anyway, one thing led to another and we had sex. There was no foreplay for me, but that wasn't what bothered me. Literally AS SOON as he came, he walked out of the bedroom (I figured maybe he'd gone to deal with the condom, so I was still laying naked on the bed waiting for a cuddle of some sort) but he returned fully dressed and told me he'd see me in a few minutes by the front door
I'd never felt so cheap and shit, it was horrible "
Wtf?! I’m sorry you experienced that. It’s why I now state before/aftercare in my profile. Can’t believe we have to spell basic courtesy out! |
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In a car, ready to give a blow job. I don’t like the smell so decide to back away. Next thing I know he’s forcing my head down and sound of all the doors locking. I’m freaking out about who will find me in this empty park. I bite his dick and release enough to sit up and shout furiously at him to unlock the doors.
Major lessons learned and never to be repeated.
And run in to him at a party a year later and he asks to play again- totally oblivious! |
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I met a guy and we had sex, it was all about him, not bothered in the slightest about my pleasure. Anyway he came, then conveniently he had a text and a friend was locked out  So he left.
Funny actually because he recently came back on a different profile and messaged me wanting to meet. He didn’t remember the first time
I politely informed him we had met before and why would I want to meet and be disappointed again? |
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. "
That's a really disrespectful thing to do.
Hope you're ok and you've got supportive people around you if you need them. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I met a guy for a social, went well, arranged to go to his a few days later. Had sex, he took my hold ups off (massive no, no) laying there after, spoony he's holding me really tight, I mean really tight. He starts saying things like I want you to be my girlfriend, I think I could love you, why haven't I met you before, I'm never going to let you go. I was thinking holy fuck this is weird, I think he might str*ngle me with my hold ups. Anyway I tell him to get off as I needed to get my kids. I got dressed and went downstairs, my purse had been taken out of my bag and was open on the sofa. So now I'm thinking omg he seen my address on my driving licence!
As I looked back on the way out he's put my bloody hold ups on and tells me he'll send me a photo after he's wanted over them and he'll put them in a carrier bag for when I next go round!!
Obviously I didn't go and get them, I was pissed off as they were an expensive pair of Victoria Secrets
I can laugh about it now but it was creepy at the time. It put me off meeting for ages. |
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"I met a guy for a social, went well, arranged to go to his a few days later. Had sex, he took my hold ups off (massive no, no) laying there after, spoony he's holding me really tight, I mean really tight. He starts saying things like I want you to be my girlfriend, I think I could love you, why haven't I met you before, I'm never going to let you go. I was thinking holy fuck this is weird, I think he might str*ngle me with my hold ups. Anyway I tell him to get off as I needed to get my kids. I got dressed and went downstairs, my purse had been taken out of my bag and was open on the sofa. So now I'm thinking omg he seen my address on my driving licence!
As I looked back on the way out he's put my bloody hold ups on and tells me he'll send me a photo after he's wanted over them and he'll put them in a carrier bag for when I next go round!!
Obviously I didn't go and get them, I was pissed off as they were an expensive pair of Victoria Secrets
I can laugh about it now but it was creepy at the time. It put me off meeting for ages."
Holy shit that's some buffalo bill type stuff that is. Glad you're ok. |
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"Well...my wifes just stated never meeting a bloke solo after reading these stories. "
You become hard as nails playing single on here. I take no nonsense from anyone anymore. It has taught me to be crystal clear when boundaries are crossed and walk away at the first hint of wrong behaviour. But I had to make a few mistakes to learn those lessons. |
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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago
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I've gotta say I'm speechless reading these. Not only that but I feel guilty and dirty and embarrassed that these events have even happened, and I've never done anything like this.
I feel so sorry for you all.
I hope, at the very least, things are better for you all now. X
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over a year ago
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"If it’s any help re Sti testing. If you google icash which is the sexual health/ family planning service run by the nhs. You can order sti tests by post. I did one the other week it was quite simple- swabs & then a blood sample done by pricking your little finger & collecting in a vial. Received the results by text less than a week later. "
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything.
Eeeeeee could of been anywhere that ..."
How does that help? |
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over a year ago
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It is really worrying the number of guys on here that push for bare back when it's been clear from the start that you only want protected sex.
I forgot to mention my first meet. I was giving him a tit wank with quite a lot of oil and then we had sex. Obviously the oil and condom wasn't a good combination and when we were changing positions I realised the condom had gone. Looked everywhere to realise it was inside me. I felt so embarrassed and stupid. Thankfully my husband managed to retrieve it. Another lesson learnt  |
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I was chatting to a divorced woman on here, then had a few telephone conversations with her before we met for a coffee in a busy coffee shop in Manchester city centre. Not long after sitting down with our drinks, an agent man walks in. When I tell her to check out this guy, the collie drained from her face. Turned out she was still married and he was her husband and had followed her. Thankfully he didn’t blame me because she had done it before and frogmarched her out.
I sat there for a about a minute with a lot of eyes on me and hearing the words ‘home wrecker’ in my head before I walked out under the glare of what felt like the whole of Manchester.
That pissed me off at first but then wrote it off because I was innocent in it all. I am bit more careful these days. |
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. "
This makes me so mad, it almost happened to me as well, but luckily my husband notice just in time. Why any man would think this is ok is beyond me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow! I started this thread to hear some lighthearted funny stories but I’m actually disgusted at some of the stuff you lovely people have had to endure!! Vile behaviour! Stay safe everyone xx |
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Luckily I've never had a bad meet, most of my bad experiences on fab have been from messages I've recieved. Mostly just insults, told to die, told I need mental help, etc. The highlight was one that said 'I hope you're arsehole rots you cunt'. |
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1. Met a couple for some 'cuckold' fun but it quickly became clear that she was taking part under 'sufferance'! I didn't know what to do? In my mind, to go ahead and fuck her like he was urging would have been 'rape'... I got out of it by feigning severe stomach cramps and made my apologies and left!
2. The fate of many single guys on here, sat in a pub (Wakefield) for two hours for a no show!
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything. "
Now that shocks me, the very fact that any human being would do that makes me mad, it’s certainly not big, not clever and not fair
Really hope everything works out for you, being honest I am surprised you haven’t involved the police or in fact that he left with his bits intact
Good luck and reach out to the community if you need help and support, or even just to chat there are so many good folk on this site and a small proportion of assholes ruin it all round and your experience just goes to show that. |
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Spontaneous meet with a single guy, late one night after a few drinks. Guy turned up, dick pics definitely weren't his as it was a lot smaller than expected. Body pics didn't match up either. Came before he'd even put it in me. Then while my husband was out the room as we were trying to get hard again he asked if I'd have an affair with him. Absolutely mortifying. |
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over a year ago
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"I've got 2 stories...
1. The guy had played rugby the day before. He went down on me and somehow managed to open a cut he had on his ear. He didn't notice and I looked down to see his face all bloody and had a horrendous moment thinking the blood came from me. He went and washed his face, came back to the bedroom and leapt on the bed and it broke. Was hilarious and not awkward because he was a good sport.
2. (This one is horrible). Had a meet with a guy I had met before for coffees and chatted to for a long time, it just shows you can never be sure about people. Anyway when we started getting it on he kept talking about his mates enormous cock. I thought he was hoping for a threesome at a later date. But we were taking a break after having both cum and he roles over to me on the bed with his mate on video call looking at me lying there. No permission, no warning. Bastard. I did report it because I thought he might do it to someone else. He left the site but could easily be here under another name.
Surely that's a crime
I.posted on here about it and some people said tell the police but I didn't at the time x"
I think you still should. That's assault. There must be a way of tracing the messages and old username on here by the fab admin. That's simppy not on. Sorry you had to go through that. |
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over a year ago
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"Wow! I started this thread to hear some lighthearted funny stories but I’m actually disgusted at some of the stuff you lovely people have had to endure!! Vile behaviour! Stay safe everyone xx"
Was just thinking that. Some real horror stories on here. Some that should be reported to the police |
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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago
Portsmouth |
"It is really worrying the number of guys on here that push for bare back when it's been clear from the start that you only want protected sex.
I forgot to mention my first meet. I was giving him a tit wank with quite a lot of oil and then we had sex. Obviously the oil and condom wasn't a good combination and when we were changing positions I realised the condom had gone. Looked everywhere to realise it was inside me. I felt so embarrassed and stupid. Thankfully my husband managed to retrieve it. Another lesson learnt "
That happened to me, it got so bad, I had to have my colon removed, this is a true story, and now you know why I prefer bareback. He didn't even warn me it had come off. |
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over a year ago
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My actual worst experience was meeting for a social in Scotland with a 'x' well known forumite, i was in the area working and put 'anyone fancy tea and cake'she replied and we met up, i have never been so embarrassed in all my life, id put that it was lanch/social.... she actually kicked off in the cafe because i wouldnt go for a play (she wasnt my type at all) everyone was looking i was mortified. I payed apologised to the cafe owner and left she continued outside where her boyfriend appeared and tried to calm her down.... i left fabaccount after that situation and the barrage of abuse that followed via pm. |
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"My actual worst experience was meeting for a social in Scotland with a 'x' well known forumite, i was in the area working and put 'anyone fancy tea and cake'she replied and we met up, i have never been so embarrassed in all my life, id put that it was lanch/social.... she actually kicked off in the cafe because i wouldnt go for a play (she wasnt my type at all) everyone was looking i was mortified. I payed apologised to the cafe owner and left she continued outside where her boyfriend appeared and tried to calm her down.... i left fabaccount after that situation and the barrage of abuse that followed via pm. "
Real shame we can’t name and shame on here  |
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over a year ago
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It wasn't fab but here goes this is a long one.
A man approached me about entertaining his wife while he was aboard working.
We met over tea and all was good. He said the hotels cars everything he would pay for.
So we started seeing each other and this grew into a really close loving arrangement. Car would collect me, go to hotel and have a great time.
Anyway this went on for a few years and then he told me that he and his wife were moving to South Africa so things would end.
He payed for the Dorchester hotel in London for me and her to have a wild week together.
Fantastic room which was more like a house, food was being brought up, bottle of champagne etc and we would be in bed carrying on as the corks were being popped.
Then for some reason I collapsed. When I woke I was tied up to the glass door in the bathroom. She was now dressed in a pvc type catsuit thing and was stunning. She had a whip in her hand and gave me a couple of light cracks to get my attention she said if I get a hard on I get the whip.
Well Jesus I was done for.
I had cuts like Rambo's chest and I went out again after a while this teasing and whipping and the glass door smashed.
Next thing I remember she her crying saying sorry and pulling bits of glass out of my back and legs.
We left the hotel and when I got home I staggered about still fucked. The police knocked on the door and I was asked to join them down the station. Wtfs going on here!
I was arrested on suspicion of murder. The hotel staff discovered the blood covered sheets, broken glass, TV damaged, drinks cabinet broken and a leather chair with legs broken. I suddenly had to explain to the police what I was doing there under a different name, and where is your wife!
I was held for a day and they got a doctor to check my many cuts, black eye and missing finger nails etc. The doc said he's done something and they put up a huge fight!
Now I didn't want to name her because her husband worked for a respectable company and he was a director.
But in the end I got sick of the questioning and told what happened. They didn't believe me until I gave them a number to ring and thankfully her husband confirmed my story. The hotel put the damage into 5 figures and I had to pay some of it.
The police photos of the damage look like a cars run through the room.
Thankfully it all got sorted and we still talk on Skype.
She bloody nearly killed me, but it was great
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"It wasn't fab but here goes this is a long one.
A man approached me about entertaining his wife while he was aboard working.
We met over tea and all was good. He said the hotels cars everything he would pay for.
So we started seeing each other and this grew into a really close loving arrangement. Car would collect me, go to hotel and have a great time.
Anyway this went on for a few years and then he told me that he and his wife were moving to South Africa so things would end.
He payed for the Dorchester hotel in London for me and her to have a wild week together.
Fantastic room which was more like a house, food was being brought up, bottle of champagne etc and we would be in bed carrying on as the corks were being popped.
Then for some reason I collapsed. When I woke I was tied up to the glass door in the bathroom. She was now dressed in a pvc type catsuit thing and was stunning. She had a whip in her hand and gave me a couple of light cracks to get my attention she said if I get a hard on I get the whip.
Well Jesus I was done for.
I had cuts like Rambo's chest and I went out again after a while this teasing and whipping and the glass door smashed.
Next thing I remember she her crying saying sorry and pulling bits of glass out of my back and legs.
We left the hotel and when I got home I staggered about still fucked. The police knocked on the door and I was asked to join them down the station. Wtfs going on here!
I was arrested on suspicion of murder. The hotel staff discovered the blood covered sheets, broken glass, TV damaged, drinks cabinet broken and a leather chair with legs broken. I suddenly had to explain to the police what I was doing there under a different name, and where is your wife!
I was held for a day and they got a doctor to check my many cuts, black eye and missing finger nails etc. The doc said he's done something and they put up a huge fight!
Now I didn't want to name her because her husband worked for a respectable company and he was a director.
But in the end I got sick of the questioning and told what happened. They didn't believe me until I gave them a number to ring and thankfully her husband confirmed my story. The hotel put the damage into 5 figures and I had to pay some of it.
The police photos of the damage look like a cars run through the room.
Thankfully it all got sorted and we still talk on Skype.
She bloody nearly killed me, but it was great
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What.the.fuck?
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
There are some real eye openers in here!
Can’t say we’ve ever had a bad meet...the worst that has happened to us is we were once in the middle of entertaining our guest, everyone was very involved and suddenly there was the strong smell of burning in the room. We looked round and the duvet had caught light on a candle that was next to the bed, with a foot high flame! We beat it out and of course the room was then filled with scorched feathers...well, we opened the window for a bit, then carried on.
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I once got two profiles mixed up and agreed to meet the wrong guy.
He turned up with the biggest cock I'd ever had but he didn't know how to use it, and he came too quickly for me to actually feel anything.
Then the next day, I saw him at my kids school dropping off his child with his wife, who I happened to work with at the time!
Safe to say, I'm always really careful who I meet now |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Bloody hell, some of these would put you off meeting for life!.Hope you're all OK!
My worst one was probably when Id agreed to meet for a social, I arrived at the bar and waited and waited....
Text him he said he'd decided I wasn't for him, so wasn't coming.
He then went unos, fast forward a couple of months and he rejoins and messages me asking to meet.
He was suprised that I pointed out I wasn't for him and that he'd left me standing for a meet. He claimed he'd just got cold feet, but would make it up to me.
Errr no, you don't get another chance to make a fool of me. |
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"It wasn't fab but here goes this is a long one.
A man approached me about entertaining his wife while he was aboard working.
We met over tea and all was good. He said the hotels cars everything he would pay for.
So we started seeing each other and this grew into a really close loving arrangement. Car would collect me, go to hotel and have a great time.
Anyway this went on for a few years and then he told me that he and his wife were moving to South Africa so things would end.
He payed for the Dorchester hotel in London for me and her to have a wild week together.
Fantastic room which was more like a house, food was being brought up, bottle of champagne etc and we would be in bed carrying on as the corks were being popped.
Then for some reason I collapsed. When I woke I was tied up to the glass door in the bathroom. She was now dressed in a pvc type catsuit thing and was stunning. She had a whip in her hand and gave me a couple of light cracks to get my attention she said if I get a hard on I get the whip.
Well Jesus I was done for.
I had cuts like Rambo's chest and I went out again after a while this teasing and whipping and the glass door smashed.
Next thing I remember she her crying saying sorry and pulling bits of glass out of my back and legs.
We left the hotel and when I got home I staggered about still fucked. The police knocked on the door and I was asked to join them down the station. Wtfs going on here!
I was arrested on suspicion of murder. The hotel staff discovered the blood covered sheets, broken glass, TV damaged, drinks cabinet broken and a leather chair with legs broken. I suddenly had to explain to the police what I was doing there under a different name, and where is your wife!
I was held for a day and they got a doctor to check my many cuts, black eye and missing finger nails etc. The doc said he's done something and they put up a huge fight!
Now I didn't want to name her because her husband worked for a respectable company and he was a director.
But in the end I got sick of the questioning and told what happened. They didn't believe me until I gave them a number to ring and thankfully her husband confirmed my story. The hotel put the damage into 5 figures and I had to pay some of it.
The police photos of the damage look like a cars run through the room.
Thankfully it all got sorted and we still talk on Skype.
She bloody nearly killed me, but it was great
What.the.fuck?
You win. "
She was mad. Elegant dressed impeccable manners but once she locked that door you were fucked.
I always remember her riding my cock hard,dragging her nails down my side, me blowing out my cheeks gasping for air and her mad laughing.
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over a year ago
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything.
I'm sorry. That happened to me too and it's awful.
It's really shitty behaviour. I've had some men be real dicks about it on here too, saying I'm making it up for attention. Like, sure, because THAT'S why I'm here, to bullshit people. "
That is bloody awful!
What I recommend is a postal testing service. I am not sure if it available in your area. I use SH.UK really quite, discreet and easy to do. |
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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago
Near Bath / Bristol |
"Spontaneous meet with a single guy, late one night after a few drinks. Guy turned up, dick pics definitely weren't his as it was a lot smaller than expected. Body pics didn't match up either. Came before he'd even put it in me. Then while my husband was out the room as we were trying to get hard again he asked if I'd have an affair with him. Absolutely mortifying."
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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago
Portsmouth |
"There are some real eye openers in here!
Can’t say we’ve ever had a bad meet...the worst that has happened to us is we were once in the middle of entertaining our guest, everyone was very involved and suddenly there was the strong smell of burning in the room. We looked round and the duvet had caught light on a candle that was next to the bed, with a foot high flame! We beat it out and of course the room was then filled with scorched feathers...well, we opened the window for a bit, then carried on.
Lesson learned though - no naked flames! "
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My worst Fab experience has been paying for back-to-back site supporter memberships and not getting any meets.
(Please note that this is a joke *about* entitled whining, and not *actual* entitled whining.) |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
There have been a few.
Got invited to a party and we were the only ones to turn up. There more to that story but it is better not told.
Then there was time we a social, nothing more because it was that time of the month. At the end of the night the male from the couple kept trying to get us to go back to there house. We refused at which point the male got up and walked out of the bar leaving his wife who just kept apologising. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"It wasn't fab but here goes this is a long one.
A man approached me about entertaining his wife while he was aboard working.
We met over tea and all was good. He said the hotels cars everything he would pay for.
So we started seeing each other and this grew into a really close loving arrangement. Car would collect me, go to hotel and have a great time.
Anyway this went on for a few years and then he told me that he and his wife were moving to South Africa so things would end.
He payed for the Dorchester hotel in London for me and her to have a wild week together.
Fantastic room which was more like a house, food was being brought up, bottle of champagne etc and we would be in bed carrying on as the corks were being popped.
Then for some reason I collapsed. When I woke I was tied up to the glass door in the bathroom. She was now dressed in a pvc type catsuit thing and was stunning. She had a whip in her hand and gave me a couple of light cracks to get my attention she said if I get a hard on I get the whip.
Well Jesus I was done for.
I had cuts like Rambo's chest and I went out again after a while this teasing and whipping and the glass door smashed.
Next thing I remember she her crying saying sorry and pulling bits of glass out of my back and legs.
We left the hotel and when I got home I staggered about still fucked. The police knocked on the door and I was asked to join them down the station. Wtfs going on here!
I was arrested on suspicion of murder. The hotel staff discovered the blood covered sheets, broken glass, TV damaged, drinks cabinet broken and a leather chair with legs broken. I suddenly had to explain to the police what I was doing there under a different name, and where is your wife!
I was held for a day and they got a doctor to check my many cuts, black eye and missing finger nails etc. The doc said he's done something and they put up a huge fight!
Now I didn't want to name her because her husband worked for a respectable company and he was a director.
But in the end I got sick of the questioning and told what happened. They didn't believe me until I gave them a number to ring and thankfully her husband confirmed my story. The hotel put the damage into 5 figures and I had to pay some of it.
The police photos of the damage look like a cars run through the room.
Thankfully it all got sorted and we still talk on Skype.
She bloody nearly killed me, but it was great
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I can't understand why you'd still speak to someone who put you through all that tbh! |
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"So, this happened on Tuesday, during my first time having sex in four years
We were in bed, having a good time, he asked me if I wanted to do doggy, I agreed and got into position and we resumed, not realising that he had taken the condom off when I wasn't looking and proceeded to fuck me bareback.
Yes, he came, yes I know it's assault as I didn't consent to bareback, no I'm not going to the police, his profile here has already gone and I don't know enough about him to report him. Just focussing on my health and making sure he hasn't given me an STI or anything.
I'm sorry. That happened to me too and it's awful.
It's really shitty behaviour. I've had some men be real dicks about it on here too, saying I'm making it up for attention. Like, sure, because THAT'S why I'm here, to bullshit people.
That is bloody awful!
What I recommend is a postal testing service. I am not sure if it available in your area. I use SH.UK really quite, discreet and easy to do. "
I've ordered a postal kit, so hopefully it will arrive in the next couple of days and I can get it sent back for some peace of mind. Thanks to anyone that has been supportive about this, I'm OK but I will be a heck of a lot more careful about who I choose to meet in the future. |
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I've ordered a postal kit, so hopefully it will arrive in the next couple of days and I can get it sent back for some peace of mind. Thanks to anyone that has been supportive about this, I'm OK but I will be a heck of a lot more careful about who I choose to meet in the future. "
What happened to you was clearly very sad and horrific, and nobody should have been subjected to that. But make sure you do not blame yourself as it was in any way your fault! |
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Once a meet ended in sexual assault. Despite pre agreed boundaries he ignored it.
My fwb at the time was a Police Officer, I reported it through him and he dealt with it, not sure what happened. He wouldn't tell me but I know he was paid a visit. |
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"Once a meet ended in sexual assault. Despite pre agreed boundaries he ignored it.
My fwb at the time was a Police Officer, I reported it through him and he dealt with it, not sure what happened. He wouldn't tell me but I know he was paid a visit. "
Handy!!! |
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I got my STI results by text this afternoon and I have the all clear, thank goodness. Amazingly fast service! I went through SH:24, would recommend them.
Not sure if I will be meeting for a little while though- it really knocked my confidence |
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"I got my STI results by text this afternoon and I have the all clear, thank goodness. Amazingly fast service! I went through SH:24, would recommend them.
Not sure if I will be meeting for a little while though- it really knocked my confidence "
Glad it came back all clear |
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One guy couldn’t get hard... at all.
Until he started putting his hands around my throat with a lot more pressure then I wanted from someone on a first meet.
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Not sure if I will be meeting for a little while though- it really knocked my confidence "
Glad to hear you are ok, I’m sure you will know when you are ready, don’t let anyone rush you. |
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"Met a guy for a coffee we decided we would meet again went back to our cars and we kissed goodbye when he suddenly pinned me and started grabbing at me I managed to get a hand free and got him off me when I yelled at him and asked what the hell he thought he was doing his answer was you're on fab I thought you wouldn't mind .Needless to say I didn't meet him again and I almost left fab after that.I am glad I didn't though as I've met some great people since ."
This has happened to me. Still not good with meeting new men off fab. Stick to friends. |
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Not sure if I will be meeting for a little while though- it really knocked my confidence "
That’s great news! Take you time coming back, enjoy your time in the forums. You’ll be back to your best in no time x |
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Worst meet ...invited to a flat to meet a guy and his Mrs..place stank ..his Mrs clearly very d*unk and stoned ..and about 20 years older than her pic ..made my excuses and left |
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"I got my STI results by text this afternoon and I have the all clear, thank goodness. Amazingly fast service! I went through SH:24, would recommend them.
Not sure if I will be meeting for a little while though- it really knocked my confidence "
Really pleased you got the all clear! |
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over a year ago
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Met a woman from here in a bar, everything was going well, she's groping me and she suggested that we go back to hers. Get into the house and she says that she's going up to the bedroom, giver her 5 minutes and then follow.
I go up after 5 mins and enter the bedroom. She's standing there, still dressed, but her husband is waiting to beat me up - the pair of them liked to get guys ready for sex, then would get off on the husband assaulting them. |
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"Met a woman from here in a bar, everything was going well, she's groping me and she suggested that we go back to hers. Get into the house and she says that she's going up to the bedroom, giver her 5 minutes and then follow.
I go up after 5 mins and enter the bedroom. She's standing there, still dressed, but her husband is waiting to beat me up - the pair of them liked to get guys ready for sex, then would get off on the husband assaulting them."
That's horrifying! What happened? |
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"Met a woman from here in a bar, everything was going well, she's groping me and she suggested that we go back to hers. Get into the house and she says that she's going up to the bedroom, giver her 5 minutes and then follow.
I go up after 5 mins and enter the bedroom. She's standing there, still dressed, but her husband is waiting to beat me up - the pair of them liked to get guys ready for sex, then would get off on the husband assaulting them.
That's horrifying! What happened?"
I managed to defend myself and get out of the house, but when I reported it to the Police, nothing came of it. |
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Went to a woman’s house and ended up doing the deed. Afterwards she ended up trying to lock the door to keep me in and then explained how I couldn’t leave because she was about to be evicted for having so many visitors during unsocial hours and excessive noise complaints |
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"Met a woman from here in a bar, everything was going well, she's groping me and she suggested that we go back to hers. Get into the house and she says that she's going up to the bedroom, giver her 5 minutes and then follow.
I go up after 5 mins and enter the bedroom. She's standing there, still dressed, but her husband is waiting to beat me up - the pair of them liked to get guys ready for sex, then would get off on the husband assaulting them.
That's horrifying! What happened?
I managed to defend myself and get out of the house, but when I reported it to the Police, nothing came of it."
If that happened to me I would be paying them a visit again. This time a few of my friends would be with me. |
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"Met a woman from here in a bar, everything was going well, she's groping me and she suggested that we go back to hers. Get into the house and she says that she's going up to the bedroom, giver her 5 minutes and then follow.
I go up after 5 mins and enter the bedroom. She's standing there, still dressed, but her husband is waiting to beat me up - the pair of them liked to get guys ready for sex, then would get off on the husband assaulting them.
That's horrifying! What happened?
I managed to defend myself and get out of the house, but when I reported it to the Police, nothing came of it.
If that happened to me I would be paying them a visit again. This time a few of my friends would be with me. "
In retrospect, I should have, but I didn't have either the friends or the confidence to do anything. These days are different, but I still think of how things could have gone. |
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