Easier and beautiful are both very subjective terms.
I'm blonde, have big boobs, and I don't think I was hit too hard with the ugly stick. Yes, I can generally get served quickly in a busy bar if I flash cleavage and a smile...but I've had a lifetime of people assuming that I'm not very intelligent because of the way I look.
Everyone has their own unique experience of life that nobody else can ever fully understand, and we all have both good and bad experiences...but they will differ from person to person. |
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"I think being naturally confident and friendly makes your life easier than being beautiful. "
Absolutely. Otherwise, chaps like me would stand no chance.  |
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"Depends what your definition of "beauty" is."
What is your definition?
I find a genuine smile that beams from within gets plenty of attention as well. Not a fake smile. I think people can tell the difference usually. |
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"Is life easier when you are beautiful "
I have done excessive research into this matter, cos i wanted to see if me being beautiful Means my life is easier, afterwards i have come to the undesired outcome or conclusion that life is hard…
& “i am not beautiful”…. Thats what the people kept telling me that i had asked that Q? That was a tough hypothesised synopsis to take  hahahaha |
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"Easier and beautiful are both very subjective terms.
I'm blonde, have big boobs, and I don't think I was hit too hard with the ugly stick. Yes, I can generally get served quickly in a busy bar if I flash cleavage and a smile...but I've had a lifetime of people assuming that I'm not very intelligent because of the way I look.
Everyone has their own unique experience of life that nobody else can ever fully understand, and we all have both good and bad experiences...but they will differ from person to person. "
I agree with this. Professionally I've found it hard to be taken seriously at times, with people who don't know me. Once they get to know me I think they are shocked that I'm smart, and that annoys me even more! |
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"Easier and beautiful are both very subjective terms.
I'm blonde, have big boobs, and I don't think I was hit too hard with the ugly stick. Yes, I can generally get served quickly in a busy bar if I flash cleavage and a smile...but I've had a lifetime of people assuming that I'm not very intelligent because of the way I look.
Everyone has their own unique experience of life that nobody else can ever fully understand, and we all have both good and bad experiences...but they will differ from person to person.
I agree with this. Professionally I've found it hard to be taken seriously at times, with people who don't know me. Once they get to know me I think they are shocked that I'm smart, and that annoys me even more! "
Yep! I've learnt to use it to my advantage though...play along and let them underestimate me, they rarely see it coming when it backfires on them, especially if they're trying to do something underhand  |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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An easier life...what is your definition of an easier life?
We all suffer from the same things, loss, grief, disappointment, heartache etc how we look can’t make any of those any easier to process.
If you class an easy life as being able to pull and get served at a bar quicker then yeah it helps.
Looks don’t land you an immunity to pain so I totally don’t think that having a great figure/face makes it easier xx |
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not sure if life is beautiful but you can certainly do things to make it look beautiful, travel, bucket list, anything you set your mind to what you want to do |
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