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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!
Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages
Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Evening OP,
I can only speak for myself but personally I'm not in to guys younger than me so, yes for me, it's a dealbreaker. Everyone likes different things though and age won't always be a factor to people so don't give up   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Evening OP,
I can only speak for myself but personally I'm not in to guys younger than me so, yes for me, it's a dealbreaker. Everyone likes different things though and age won't always be a factor to people so don't give up "
I completely understand what you mean !!
It’s just not a lot of women my age on here so it’s hard to find a woman my age let alone if the are interested in me lol |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
My youngest lover is 27 and he seems very young. He's lovely and a good shag, but I don’t connect with him emotionally and we have little in common. Thats partly due to age and partly due to lifestyles. Age IS a factor for me, but there's often a lot more to it than just that.
You look like you could add a few years to your age if you wanted to appeal to more women. That wouldn't bode well for a relationship, but you'd potentially be fine for just sexy times. |
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I prefer younger guys. Youngest I met was last year. He was 23 I was 40. You find lots do and lots don't. Same with everyone though. A wakner will always be a wanker no matter the age, I just find I have a better time and properly laugh with a younger guy, they much less lightly to suggest " enjoying wine" too which is a bonus 
So don't worry. You will definitely float a few boats  |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
If I'm really honest I would find it hard to believe a 23 year old genuinely finding me attractive and I don't want to be associated with any of the awful words used to describe older women involved with younger men. |
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"My youngest lover is 27 and he seems very young. He's lovely and a good shag, but I don’t connect with him emotionally and we have little in common. Thats partly due to age and partly due to lifestyles. Age IS a factor for me, but there's often a lot more to it than just that.
You look like you could add a few years to your age if you wanted to appeal to more women. That wouldn't bode well for a relationship, but you'd potentially be fine for just sexy times. "
I really wouldn't encourage anyone to lie on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer younger men as I find them attractive, more often but if I do find someone attractive then their age is irrelevant... Unless I am actually, actively looking then age restrictions are applied to my message filters |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer younger men as I find them attractive, more often but if I do find someone attractive then their age is irrelevant... Unless I am actually, actively looking then age restrictions are applied to my message filters"
Ok yeah I know what you mean and get that it depends on the person, their preferences -‘d life style
Thank you x |
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"My youngest lover is 27 and he seems very young. He's lovely and a good shag, but I don’t connect with him emotionally and we have little in common. Thats partly due to age and partly due to lifestyles. Age IS a factor for me, but there's often a lot more to it than just that.
You look like you could add a few years to your age if you wanted to appeal to more women. That wouldn't bode well for a relationship, but you'd potentially be fine for just sexy times. "
I'd go fucking Billy Batshit if someone did that and I found myself fucking someone the same age as my son. I have age filters in place for that reason. It's a hard line of mine. The wrath of Peach would be mammoth if it got crossed coz of a lie to appeal to more women. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!
Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages
Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x"
I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun
I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"DO NOT add years to your age to get meets, I'd fucking rage if I found out someone had lied about it. "
Well I never lie as I find it pointless and disgusting so would never do that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!
Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages
Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x
I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun
I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him."
Well maybe you can introduce me to clubs |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
It's been said a few times that women won't meet really young guys as they have kids around the same age.
That said though some do, you just need to find them. Have you tried doing an advanced search? I'm sure it must be someone's birthday soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...well I’m glad your inbox is empty too. Looking at your profile & pics, if I were a straight young lady then I’d snap you up. I’m NOT. 47 yo bloke & straight!!!!!
I’m no expert but think you just have to be patient, polite & considerate. Focus on targeting profiles that match. Kill time on the forums contributing constructive funny stuff & hope a unicorn crosses your path that fancies you.
....or just go on Tinder & fib a bit! 
Good luck dude!!!
PS. I’m 47, not ugly & bar some gay guys, my inbox is empty too! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!
Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages
Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x
I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun
I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him.
Well maybe you can introduce me to clubs"
Get your arse up to the Midlands when the clubs reopen and I will   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it helps I’ll fab the pictures of yours that I feel show you in the best way, that’s not to say the others are bad pictures though. "
That would be great thanks a lot |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!
Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages
Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x
I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun
I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him.
Well maybe you can introduce me to clubs
Get your arse up to the Midlands when the clubs reopen and I will "
I think that’s a offer I can’t refuse |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!
Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages
Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x
I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun
I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him.
Well maybe you can introduce me to clubs
Get your arse up to the Midlands when the clubs reopen and I will
I think that’s a offer I can’t refuse "
You better not, I won't offer again |
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This isn't really an answer to your question, but you do seem to have one of the better single men's profiles on here. You stand a better chance of finding somebody you click with than most men. Hopefully you will find what you are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This isn't really an answer to your question, but you do seem to have one of the better single men's profiles on here. You stand a better chance of finding somebody you click with than most men. Hopefully you will find what you are looking for. "
Why thank you for that it means a lot |
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