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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey saw a forum where someone was asking the same questions and looked like everyone was really helpful so thought I’d try the same 
I don’t know how to improve my profile to get more attention where I don’t have to send the first message all the time 
I never know what to put in the bio as I really struggle with what to say and I’m terrible at talking about myself, some people have said it’s my age but I can’t help that lol
So help would be greatly appreciated x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good selection of photos, bio just needs a bit more work.
Your likes, what you're looking for, I wouldn't say you have "no limits" everyone has limits."
Ok I’ll make a adjustment now, thank you for your help much appreciated |
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Good selection of photos but virtually no text.
Sell yourself... what can you offer and what are you looking for.
Get rid of the "no limits" thing, everyone has limits, even if they haven't found it yet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good selection of photos but virtually no text.
Sell yourself... what can you offer and what are you looking for.
Get rid of the "no limits" thing, everyone has limits, even if they haven't found it yet. "
Ok I’ll try my best, not good at selling myself lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good selection of photos, bio just needs a bit more work.
Your likes, what you're looking for, I wouldn't say you have "no limits" everyone has limits."
Well I gave it a go, hope it’s ok |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good selection of photos but virtually no text.
Sell yourself... what can you offer and what are you looking for.
Get rid of the "no limits" thing, everyone has limits, even if they haven't found it yet. "
Tried to sell myself as much as I can
Hope it’s ok
Thanks for the help xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Imagine you're in a pub with a woman. You know you fancy each other. What are you chatting about? Maybe you're telling her the story of your profile pics.
Write down what you're telling her. It might work as profile text. Like a virtual 'social'.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Imagine you're in a pub with a woman. You know you fancy each other. What are you chatting about? Maybe you're telling her the story of your profile pics.
Write down what you're telling her. It might work as profile text. Like a virtual 'social'.
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Yeah that makes sense thank you I’ve tried and see what people think
Hopefully it’s ok
Thank you for this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Great pics and good blah blah bit. Can't see you having much trouble here  "
glad it’s better !!
Hope I get some messages rather than me messaging first lol
Thank you so much for writing on the forum really appreciate it
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think your pics and bio are really good. You are missing back and bum pics though  "
Ohh ok I’ll see what I can do !! Thank you for the message I’ll add them ASAP x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you mate
Worried if its too long lol
That's loads better.
Personally, I would loose the put *** in the message thing...
Women do read profiles and it's not that long."
Brilliant I’ll do that now
Thanks for all your help xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you mate
Worried if its too long lol
Worried if it's too long?.. now thats an entirely different thread 
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Wish I could comment on that thread 
Just above average here lol |
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All the interests are selected…are you really in to every one of them?
The comment about anal and squirting makes you sound a little immature. If you’ve got anal as an interest then you don’t need to say it too. Some woman can squirt, others can’t or don’t want to, you mentioning it makes it sound like you’re going to keep trying until they do.
Be respectful in messages and you’ll be alright |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All the interests are selected…are you really in to every one of them?
The comment about anal and squirting makes you sound a little immature. If you’ve got anal as an interest then you don’t need to say it too. Some woman can squirt, others can’t or don’t want to, you mentioning it makes it sound like you’re going to keep trying until they do.
Be respectful in messages and you’ll be alright "
I totally get what you’re saying, didn’t see it like that thank you so much for the advice really appreciate it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just my advice but I would get rid of the cliches too
Ok thank you! Like what exactly sorry I’m thick as shit
Wine and dine etc"
I get you ok I’ll change that now x |
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It's looks ok to me buddy, you've joined at a weird time and it takes a lot of time usually to build a good rep but stick to the forums because that's where you're most likely to get seen and meet new people.
Good luck to you |
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"Thank you mate
Yeah forums are all new to me and get confused and trying to understand them but I’m sure I’ll get there "
Ps always click on reply and quote so people know who you're replying to as it gets confusing otherwise.
It's mostly a good bunch here but a few not so good but you will work out who is who before you know it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you mate
Yeah forums are all new to me and get confused and trying to understand them but I’m sure I’ll get there
Ps always click on reply and quote so people know who you're replying to as it gets confusing otherwise.
It's mostly a good bunch here but a few not so good but you will work out who is who before you know it "
Ok mate !! Well thanks a lot for all the help really appreciate it |
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"Thank you mate
Yeah forums are all new to me and get confused and trying to understand them but I’m sure I’ll get there
Ps always click on reply and quote so people know who you're replying to as it gets confusing otherwise.
It's mostly a good bunch here but a few not so good but you will work out who is who before you know it
Ok mate !! Well thanks a lot for all the help really appreciate it "
It's good to help, we were all newbies at some point so know what it's like and you soon find yourself feeling at home here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you mate
Yeah forums are all new to me and get confused and trying to understand them but I’m sure I’ll get there
Ps always click on reply and quote so people know who you're replying to as it gets confusing otherwise.
It's mostly a good bunch here but a few not so good but you will work out who is who before you know it
Ok mate !! Well thanks a lot for all the help really appreciate it
It's good to help, we were all newbies at some point so know what it's like and you soon find yourself feeling at home here"
Well I’m glad to be here
Any forums you’d advise at all that are good |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
You've got a great avatar pic (Splash mat). Fun and sporty always looks good.
Your tattoos could be a deal grabber, so get someone to do them justice as they are part of who you are and what floats her boat too, hopefully. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like what you have done and that you took on board people’s advice
p.s. I have a roof tile that needs replacing "
Well I’m sure I can help with that where abouts are you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've got a great avatar pic (Splash mat). Fun and sporty always looks good.
Your tattoos could be a deal grabber, so get someone to do them justice as they are part of who you are and what floats her boat too, hopefully."
Yeah brilliant I’ll get some close ups of them thanks a lot mate |
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"Thank you mate
Yeah forums are all new to me and get confused and trying to understand them but I’m sure I’ll get there
Ps always click on reply and quote so people know who you're replying to as it gets confusing otherwise.
It's mostly a good bunch here but a few not so good but you will work out who is who before you know it
Ok mate !! Well thanks a lot for all the help really appreciate it
It's good to help, we were all newbies at some point so know what it's like and you soon find yourself feeling at home here
Well I’m glad to be here
Any forums you’d advise at all that are good"
They chop and change daily but the offt threads and hotlist ones would be a good place to start as they let you know who likes you |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"I like what you have done and that you took on board people’s advice
p.s. I have a roof tile that needs replacing
Well I’m sure I can help with that where abouts are you "
Hahaha I’m in Hampshire is that payment in kind |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like what you have done and that you took on board people’s advice
p.s. I have a roof tile that needs replacing
Well I’m sure I can help with that where abouts are you
Hahaha I’m in Hampshire is that payment in kind "
Well PM me and I’ll come have a look and can talk payment later x |
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"Brilliant I’ll have a look thank you
Good luck buddy, I see you took the plunge
Yeah why not !! Got 1 so not too bad lol"
1 is better than none buddy and don't forget the hotlist threads because the oofffttt one you joined is different to normal as it's a case of waiting to be offted by the ladies. Usually it's everyone doing it |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"You've got a great avatar pic (Splash mat). Fun and sporty always looks good.
Your tattoos could be a deal grabber, so get someone to do them justice as they are part of who you are and what floats her boat too, hopefully.
Yeah brilliant I’ll get some close ups of them thanks a lot mate "
You're welcome.
Go easy on the budgie smugglers (Very Marmite!), the mirror pictures can give off a vanity impression and concentrate more on snazzy suits and smile!
Be warned that, no matter how cute the doggy is, animals are banned on the forums, so if the mods block and reject those pictures, then that's why.
(dogs are better than cats any day and are good friend makers to boot) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Brilliant I’ll have a look thank you
Good luck buddy, I see you took the plunge
Yeah why not !! Got 1 so not too bad lol
1 is better than none buddy and don't forget the hotlist threads because the oofffttt one you joined is different to normal as it's a case of waiting to be offted by the ladies. Usually it's everyone doing it "
Where do I find the hotlist forum ?? Sorry if I’m being thick |
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"Brilliant I’ll have a look thank you
Good luck buddy, I see you took the plunge
Yeah why not !! Got 1 so not too bad lol
1 is better than none buddy and don't forget the hotlist threads because the oofffttt one you joined is different to normal as it's a case of waiting to be offted by the ladies. Usually it's everyone doing it
Where do I find the hotlist forum ?? Sorry if I’m being thick "
Go on the forum list and then it will be in there |
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"Brilliant I’ll have a look thank you
Good luck buddy, I see you took the plunge
Yeah why not !! Got 1 so not too bad lol
1 is better than none buddy and don't forget the hotlist threads because the oofffttt one you joined is different to normal as it's a case of waiting to be offted by the ladies. Usually it's everyone doing it
Where do I find the hotlist forum ?? Sorry if I’m being thick
Go on the forum list and then it will be in there"
In the lounge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually isn't one active at the moment but someone will start one at some point
Ohh ok brilliant thank you mate
You're welcome buddy, no worries "
Cmon your up !
Rock one out shits got boring |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually isn't one active at the moment but someone will start one at some point
Ohh ok brilliant thank you mate
You're welcome buddy, no worries
Cmon your up !
Rock one out shits got boring "
Sorry I’m confused lol ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually isn't one active at the moment but someone will start one at some point
Ohh ok brilliant thank you mate
You're welcome buddy, no worries
Cmon your up !
Rock one out shits got boring
Sorry I’m confused lol ?? "
Mate nothing to do with your thread it’s a long story !
I’m not jumping on here trying to be tick |
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My only point here would be to try to get verified by another user then people will get a better idea that you are real and not some hobbit using someone elses pics, given the current state of affairs I appreciate that that is easier said than done but you could get yourself onto the cams and chat to people a bit face to face and then ask if anyone would verify you.
Some say it doesn't really help and others swear by it so I guess it's a matter of opinion but it cant hurt to have a verification from someone telling others what nice guy you are
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"My only point here would be to try to get verified by another user then people will get a better idea that you are real and not some hobbit using someone elses pics, given the current state of affairs I appreciate that that is easier said than done but you could get yourself onto the cams and chat to people a bit face to face and then ask if anyone would verify you.
Some say it doesn't really help and others swear by it so I guess it's a matter of opinion but it cant hurt to have a verification from someone telling others what nice guy you are
Mr H."
Scrap that just seen that you are verified, if they are suitable verifications then it wouldnt hurts to show them on your profile at least until you get a bit of momentum going.
Mr H. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My only point here would be to try to get verified by another user then people will get a better idea that you are real and not some hobbit using someone elses pics, given the current state of affairs I appreciate that that is easier said than done but you could get yourself onto the cams and chat to people a bit face to face and then ask if anyone would verify you.
Some say it doesn't really help and others swear by it so I guess it's a matter of opinion but it cant hurt to have a verification from someone telling others what nice guy you are
Mr H."
Yeah perfect thank you so much for the advice I will do that for sure x |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"You've got a great avatar pic (Splash mat). Fun and sporty always looks good.
Your tattoos could be a deal grabber, so get someone to do them justice as they are part of who you are and what floats her boat too, hopefully.
Yeah brilliant I’ll get some close ups of them thanks a lot mate "
Did you get round to doing those close-ups yet?
Just as an ego boost, have you checked out the profile of a women called Aquarii? She has put something in her text that might make you smile..."Love beards and tattoos. They do strange things to me And kissing!! Bloody love kissing."
I'm not cupid, but 'beards, tattoos and a bit of grrr' are on quite a few profiles. So, sell yourself on these features. It should do the trick. |
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