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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There not? Not quite sure what you mean and who is mistreating men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"There not? Not quite sure what you mean and who is mistreating men? "

I’d have to disagree sorry women are constantly treated like they are superior to men on here, I just want to know why, seems like men just have a bad reputation on here or something.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why do men blame women for how they treat them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why do men blame women for how they treat them? "

Because men should be treated with the same respect as women? Who else would they blame

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By *om and JennieCouple  over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We’re not treated better. We’re just very picky about who we let poke their penis into our vaginas.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What makes you think they are treated differently?

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Who pissed on your chips op?

Surely everyone should treat everyone with respect.

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Why do men blame women for how they treat them? "

This is a good question.

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle

I treat men how they treat me.. but don’t be moaning about it thats the difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What makes you think they are treated differently? "

See lots of men bashing on here and lots of forums where men literally have asked one question with no answer 10 posts later a woman asks the exact same thing and gets answered within 2 seconds hahaha. It just seems to me they’re treated more like a nuisance than anything

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There not? Not quite sure what you mean and who is mistreating men?

I’d have to disagree sorry women are constantly treated like they are superior to men on here, I just want to know why, seems like men just have a bad reputation on here or something. "

To be fair women for hundreds of years if not thousands where treat very very very badly, nailed to planks of wood and burnt alive, used as sex objects and washing dishes

They had no rights or say what so ever, I guess some of it could be seen as payback

Women love payback

Payback is a bitch

They're able to treat us badly because there are so many of us

Then along walks a guy that can't and won't be treat like a choice and they don't have a clue what to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who pissed on your chips op?

Surely everyone should treat everyone with respect. "

I agree completely

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I treat men how they treat me.. but don’t be moaning about it thats the difference "

Lol the way it should be

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"There not? Not quite sure what you mean and who is mistreating men?

I’d have to disagree sorry women are constantly treated like they are superior to men on here, I just want to know why, seems like men just have a bad reputation on here or something.

To be fair women for hundreds of years if not thousands where treat very very very badly, nailed to planks of wood and burnt alive, used as sex objects and washing dishes

They had no rights or say what so ever, I guess some of it could be seen as payback

Women love payback

Payback is a bitch

They're able to treat us badly because there are so many of us

Then along walks a guy that can't and won't be treat like a choice and they don't have a clue what to do "

A women scorn and all that haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What makes you think they are treated differently?

See lots of men bashing on here and lots of forums where men literally have asked one question with no answer 10 posts later a woman asks the exact same thing and gets answered within 2 seconds hahaha. It just seems to me they’re treated more like a nuisance than anything "

So you mean men treat men differently?

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By *uvhandle20Man  over a year ago

SE London


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site? "

Because we are all gentlemen here (well most of us)

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By *olymalelincsMan  over a year ago

southend

I don't personally think women on this site are treated any better than men at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What makes you think they are treated differently?

See lots of men bashing on here and lots of forums where men literally have asked one question with no answer 10 posts later a woman asks the exact same thing and gets answered within 2 seconds hahaha. It just seems to me they’re treated more like a nuisance than anything

So you mean men treat men differently?

"

No it was women who replied lmfao

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly "

Please see my last quote

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What makes you think they are treated differently?

See lots of men bashing on here and lots of forums where men literally have asked one question with no answer 10 posts later a woman asks the exact same thing and gets answered within 2 seconds hahaha. It just seems to me they’re treated more like a nuisance than anything

So you mean men treat men differently?

"

But you’re definitely right men do treat other men like shit too it’s all a pissing contest

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Probably due to the ratio of women to men on here. And no it's not right but yes it does happen on here quite often BUT in saying that there are plenty of men who don't treat women right either on here.

Personally I just treat each person as they treat me on here the same as I do in real life. If someone is an ass to me I just have nothing to do with them after regardless of their gender.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Majority of blokes op will and do suck pure arse to try get into knickers

That's why they are treat differently

Be no sucking up done by me

I'd rather wank

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Probably due to the ratio of women to men on here. And no it's not right but yes it does happen on here quite often BUT in saying that there are plenty of men who don't treat women right either on here.

Personally I just treat each person as they treat me on here the same as I do in real life. If someone is an ass to me I just have nothing to do with them after regardless of their gender. "

Agreed and my post is not singling out women treating men like shit it’s men just getting treated like shit in general on here compared to women

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Majority of blokes op will and do suck pure arse to try get into knickers

That's why they are treat differently

Be no sucking up done by me

I'd rather wank "

Lmfao same

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site? "

They aren't treated as if they're better, they don't complain half as much though which is a plus

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Hmm. It's not better, it's different

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They aren't treated as if they're better, they don't complain half as much though which is a plus "

Lmfao you think men get treated equally on here ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote "

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hmm. It's not better, it's different"

I suppose that’s true depending on your viewpoint in my opinion it’s better

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle

So because you didn’t get a response too a thread and a woman did.. you think we are treated differently!!!

Or am I missing the point

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do men blame women for how they treat them?

Because men should be treated with the same respect as women? Who else would they blame "

I don't think you understood my comment... Who is it that treats women like they are better than men? Men?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't slam the door on the way out.

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They aren't treated as if they're better, they don't complain half as much though which is a plus

Lmfao you think men get treated equally on here ?? "

I'd say how you get treated is reflected by your attitude and effort but that's my own opinion

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So because you didn’t get a response too a thread and a woman did.. you think we are treated differently!!!

Or am I missing the point "

I think your maybe missing the point

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?"

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They aren't treated as if they're better, they don't complain half as much though which is a plus

Lmfao you think men get treated equally on here ??

I'd say how you get treated is reflected by your attitude and effort but that's my own opinion "

Effort works both ways or I'm simply washing my hair

Not that there's much left to wash

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There not? Not quite sure what you mean and who is mistreating men?

I’d have to disagree sorry women are constantly treated like they are superior to men on here, I just want to know why, seems like men just have a bad reputation on here or something.

To be fair women for hundreds of years if not thousands where treat very very very badly, nailed to planks of wood and burnt alive, used as sex objects and washing dishes

They had no rights or say what so ever, I guess some of it could be seen as payback

Women love payback

Payback is a bitch

They're able to treat us badly because there are so many of us

Then along walks a guy that can't and won't be treat like a choice and they don't have a clue what to do "

But we are all a choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male "

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid? "

System is still very much fucked op

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why do men blame women for how they treat them?

Because men should be treated with the same respect as women? Who else would they blame

I don't think you understood my comment... Who is it that treats women like they are better than men? Men? "

Yeah you’re right I didn’t. Mainly men but women are culprits too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid? "

I’m not treated like shit, everybody has been lovely, wonder why that is.

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women. "

Lots of threads? I see lots of men threads moaning

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women. "

Women complain about the messages they receive, men complain that they don't get messages/replies. Every group on here complains about another, it's just about different things.

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By *ictoriaathomeTV/TS  over a year ago

Huddersfield

Supply and demand, simple as that.

Take your point about man asking a question and no replies, woman asking same question lots of replies within minutes.

Men will bend over backwards to try and impress a woman, less women than men, hence more power to women. Supply and demand.

Plus and this is important, some men are just so out of touch with what respect means, look at some of the status that are posted. You think they work????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There not? Not quite sure what you mean and who is mistreating men?

I’d have to disagree sorry women are constantly treated like they are superior to men on here, I just want to know why, seems like men just have a bad reputation on here or something.

To be fair women for hundreds of years if not thousands where treat very very very badly, nailed to planks of wood and burnt alive, used as sex objects and washing dishes

They had no rights or say what so ever, I guess some of it could be seen as payback

Women love payback

Payback is a bitch

They're able to treat us badly because there are so many of us

Then along walks a guy that can't and won't be treat like a choice and they don't have a clue what to do

But we are all a choice "

Of course we are but to treat someone badly whilst knowing that is my point

It is rife not only on here but out in the big bad world

Like I say, id rather wank that suck anyone's arse for a hole to be the goal

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They aren't treated as if they're better, they don't complain half as much though which is a plus

Lmfao you think men get treated equally on here ??

I'd say how you get treated is reflected by your attitude and effort but that's my own opinion

Effort works both ways or I'm simply washing my hair

Not that there's much left to wash "

Don't put too much effort into washing it and it will hopefully last longer

Yes but effort goes with interest, if you have 2 things to get done and you're only interested in 1 then you will put more effort into the 1 you're interested in and quickly brush off the other

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women.

Women complain about the messages they receive, men complain that they don't get messages/replies. Every group on here complains about another, it's just about different things. "

Yes agreed I see a lot of the men who post that though get ridiculed unlike the women abit like what is happening now with a few childish people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Supply and demand, simple as that.

Take your point about man asking a question and no replies, woman asking same question lots of replies within minutes.

Men will bend over backwards to try and impress a woman, less women than men, hence more power to women. Supply and demand.

Plus and this is important, some men are just so out of touch with what respect means, look at some of the status that are posted. You think they work???? "

Women are also put of touch with respect

Open the door for fucking self

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women. "

I disagree whole heartedly... The majoriny of threads I see complaining about a group of people are usually made by men complaining that not enough women want to sleep with then, they don't get as many reply to messages as they want, think it's unfair women are more choosy who they sleep with than men and consequently 'ugly women end up pulling people way out of there league' (yes that was actually written by a man about women not that long ago) there are always people moaning about somone, somone always has something to say about someone but it's not men are treated badly and women are put on pedistals at all... I think just about all groups of people have been singled out by someone to have a moan at at some point or another

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid?

I’m not treated like shit, everybody has been lovely, wonder why that is. "

Ok so because you’re treated well all men are glad to know that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women.

I disagree whole heartedly... The majoriny of threads I see complaining about a group of people are usually made by men complaining that not enough women want to sleep with then, they don't get as many reply to messages as they want, think it's unfair women are more choosy who they sleep with than men and consequently 'ugly women end up pulling people way out of there league' (yes that was actually written by a man about women not that long ago) there are always people moaning about somone, somone always has something to say about someone but it's not men are treated badly and women are put on pedistals at all... I think just about all groups of people have been singled out by someone to have a moan at at some point or another "

Yes I defo agree that both genders bitch, I just don’t see women getting bashed and ridiculed on threads like men do that’s my point, majority of the abuse is men.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They aren't treated as if they're better, they don't complain half as much though which is a plus

Lmfao you think men get treated equally on here ??

I'd say how you get treated is reflected by your attitude and effort but that's my own opinion

Effort works both ways or I'm simply washing my hair

Not that there's much left to wash

Don't put too much effort into washing it and it will hopefully last longer

Yes but effort goes with interest, if you have 2 things to get done and you're only interested in 1 then you will put more effort into the 1 you're interested in and quickly brush off the other "

Could look at it this way, if iv to put stupid amounts of effort in is it really worth my time ?

If iv to force a fart it's likely going to be shit

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle

Well hopefully now you have had a few replies on this thread you feel valued more in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women.

I disagree whole heartedly... The majoriny of threads I see complaining about a group of people are usually made by men complaining that not enough women want to sleep with then, they don't get as many reply to messages as they want, think it's unfair women are more choosy who they sleep with than men and consequently 'ugly women end up pulling people way out of there league' (yes that was actually written by a man about women not that long ago) there are always people moaning about somone, somone always has something to say about someone but it's not men are treated badly and women are put on pedistals at all... I think just about all groups of people have been singled out by someone to have a moan at at some point or another "

See me, iv slept with enough women for 10 men and I couldn't care less how many if any wanted to sleep with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Well hopefully now you have had a few replies on this thread you feel valued more in the forum "

Nothing to do with me I get plenty of action thanks but thank you for your constant negative boring input into the convo it’s really hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s definitely not that way

But I think the reason men get a bad rep is the message they send out

People don’t want a cock pic thrust on them in a open message

People don’t want to be called a slut or a whore or what ever in a opening message yes there’s a time and place ie in the bed room or if we meet couples off times but not just a first message

Some men expect people just to be sitting around all dolled up just waiting on a message to get fucked

Like I am in you area I have 10 minutes to spare

Takes me more than that just to shower never mind make up and the rest

Some can’t handle being turned down

Then there’s the lieing factor

Ie marred fab straight

Not looking for tv/ts on profile but wanting to meet one

Always say be truthful on your profile be respectful and patient and you have a blast

Ie looking for tv/ts bi not marred and give a couple off days notice pre covid oooo joy let’s have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women.

I disagree whole heartedly... The majoriny of threads I see complaining about a group of people are usually made by men complaining that not enough women want to sleep with then, they don't get as many reply to messages as they want, think it's unfair women are more choosy who they sleep with than men and consequently 'ugly women end up pulling people way out of there league' (yes that was actually written by a man about women not that long ago) there are always people moaning about somone, somone always has something to say about someone but it's not men are treated badly and women are put on pedistals at all... I think just about all groups of people have been singled out by someone to have a moan at at some point or another

Yes I defo agree that both genders bitch, I just don’t see women getting bashed and ridiculed on threads like men do that’s my point, majority of the abuse is men. "

Then your not looking very hard at all I've seen women getting dragged just as hard as men... I got dragged the other day...

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle


"Well hopefully now you have had a few replies on this thread you feel valued more in the forum

Nothing to do with me I get plenty of action thanks but thank you for your constant negative boring input into the convo it’s really hilarious "

More than welcome

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Hmm. It's not better, it's different

I suppose that’s true depending on your viewpoint in my opinion it’s better "

You're entitled to your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It’s definitely not that way

But I think the reason men get a bad rep is the message they send out

People don’t want a cock pic thrust on them in a open message

People don’t want to be called a slut or a whore or what ever in a opening message yes there’s a time and place ie in the bed room or if we meet couples off times but not just a first message

Some men expect people just to be sitting around all dolled up just waiting on a message to get fucked

Like I am in you area I have 10 minutes to spare

Takes me more than that just to shower never mind make up and the rest

Some can’t handle being turned down

Then there’s the lieing factor

Ie marred fab straight

Not looking for tv/ts on profile but wanting to meet one

Always say be truthful on your profile be respectful and patient and you have a blast

Ie looking for tv/ts bi not marred and give a couple off days notice pre covid oooo joy let’s have some fun "

I’m sorry but the argument that some random men has sent someone a fancy a shag/vile abusive message, that gives that person a right to be disrespectful/abusive to a completely different bloke

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site? "

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women.

I disagree whole heartedly... The majoriny of threads I see complaining about a group of people are usually made by men complaining that not enough women want to sleep with then, they don't get as many reply to messages as they want, think it's unfair women are more choosy who they sleep with than men and consequently 'ugly women end up pulling people way out of there league' (yes that was actually written by a man about women not that long ago) there are always people moaning about somone, somone always has something to say about someone but it's not men are treated badly and women are put on pedistals at all... I think just about all groups of people have been singled out by someone to have a moan at at some point or another

Yes I defo agree that both genders bitch, I just don’t see women getting bashed and ridiculed on threads like men do that’s my point, majority of the abuse is men.

Then your not looking very hard at all I've seen women getting dragged just as hard as men... I got dragged the other day... "

I’m not saying it never happens just happens a lot more with men.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyway op

That's life and then we die

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!"

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Anyway op

That's life and then we die "

Lmfao

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38

Be you make or female I treat you with the same respect.

Treat others how you want to treated, is what works for me

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By *om and JennieCouple  over a year ago

Chams or Socials

OP, you’re getting boring now. Women can afford to be picky. There are so many more men than women & couples. You’ve been on here for 4 months during very strange times. Your profile is very basic & makes me want to poke you in the eye (ours is blank because we’re not meeting at the moment).

“Best looking man and biggest dick in Swansea. Well not far off. If you ain't up for a laugh I will not meet you. If you wear ankle socks I wont meet you. If you dont kiss I won't meet you and if your arrogant I won't meet you. Please wear sexy lingerie for me. Cheers x”

Erm no, we’ll wear what we want to thanks. Biggest cock? Is that your behaviour? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder & all that. Maybe you need to grow up a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid?

I’m not treated like shit, everybody has been lovely, wonder why that is.

Ok so because you’re treated well all men are glad to know that "

And you still haven’t figured it out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Be you make or female I treat you with the same respect.

Treat others how you want to treated, is what works for me "

Wish more people were like you unfortunately not

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They aren't treated as if they're better, they don't complain half as much though which is a plus

Lmfao you think men get treated equally on here ??

I'd say how you get treated is reflected by your attitude and effort but that's my own opinion

Effort works both ways or I'm simply washing my hair

Not that there's much left to wash

Don't put too much effort into washing it and it will hopefully last longer

Yes but effort goes with interest, if you have 2 things to get done and you're only interested in 1 then you will put more effort into the 1 you're interested in and quickly brush off the other

Could look at it this way, if iv to put stupid amounts of effort in is it really worth my time ?

If iv to force a fart it's likely going to be shit "

Exactly, you should never try to force anything or piss into the wind

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP, you’re getting boring now. Women can afford to be picky. There are so many more men than women & couples. You’ve been on here for 4 months during very strange times. Your profile is very basic & makes me want to poke you in the eye (ours is blank because we’re not meeting at the moment).

“Best looking man and biggest dick in Swansea. Well not far off. If you ain't up for a laugh I will not meet you. If you wear ankle socks I wont meet you. If you dont kiss I won't meet you and if your arrogant I won't meet you. Please wear sexy lingerie for me. Cheers x”

Erm no, we’ll wear what we want to thanks. Biggest cock? Is that your behaviour? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder & all that. Maybe you need to grow up a bit? "

I’m talking about why men get treated worse than women on here nothing to do with me x

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Better than me??

Surely not. I'm treated like a God.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid?

I’m not treated like shit, everybody has been lovely, wonder why that is.

Ok so because you’re treated well all men are glad to know that

And you still haven’t figured it out. "

maybe you should be clearer because I still don’t have a scooby

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women.

I disagree whole heartedly... The majoriny of threads I see complaining about a group of people are usually made by men complaining that not enough women want to sleep with then, they don't get as many reply to messages as they want, think it's unfair women are more choosy who they sleep with than men and consequently 'ugly women end up pulling people way out of there league' (yes that was actually written by a man about women not that long ago) there are always people moaning about somone, somone always has something to say about someone but it's not men are treated badly and women are put on pedistals at all... I think just about all groups of people have been singled out by someone to have a moan at at some point or another

Yes I defo agree that both genders bitch, I just don’t see women getting bashed and ridiculed on threads like men do that’s my point, majority of the abuse is men.

Then your not looking very hard at all I've seen women getting dragged just as hard as men... I got dragged the other day...

I’m not saying it never happens just happens a lot more with men. "

I think because it's men who tend to start the threads that people take most offence to... It is offencive to assume just because a message is sent your owed a response, it's offecive to presume if women had less choose they would suddenly want to sleep with someone who they wouldent as thing are at the minute and I don't believe the men who post these threads are oblivious to the fact either... They post them spacific ally to get a rise out of people.... There are also a few forumites who are renowned for popping up with barbed threads or making comments to try to incer reactions... They feed off the drama bit as a general rule I see no differance in the way a fair and friendly male is treated in comparison to a fair and friendly female

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its an easy answer, there are 100 men to every 1 woman on here so women or couples can be very choosy. We get several hundred messages a week and cant possibly ever reply to most of them. This might come across as arrogant or nasty but its really not. Yes there are some women on here who think the shines out of their arse and think they are special because they get lots of offers but i think they are easy to suss out. Anyway im kinda losing track of what the question was lol. Jx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women."

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

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By *elshsunsWoman  over a year ago

Flintshire


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid?

I’m not treated like shit, everybody has been lovely, wonder why that is.

Ok so because you’re treated well all men are glad to know that

And you still haven’t figured it out. "

Don’t think he will

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Its an easy answer, there are 100 men to every 1 woman on here so women or couples can be very choosy. We get several hundred messages a week and cant possibly ever reply to most of them. This might come across as arrogant or nasty but its really not. Yes there are some women on here who think the shines out of their arse and think they are special because they get lots of offers but i think they are easy to suss out. Anyway im kinda losing track of what the question was lol. Jx"

Lol this is the perfect answer at least someone has answered the question

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By *ittycenMan  over a year ago

south west


"What makes you think they are treated differently?

See lots of men bashing on here and lots of forums where men literally have asked one question with no answer 10 posts later a woman asks the exact same thing and gets answered within 2 seconds hahaha. It just seems to me they’re treated more like a nuisance than anything "

The woman’s question get answered a LOT quicker cos there are so many more men, and men want to chat up the women!

That is also why women can be so much more choosy on this site, they have much much more freedom of choice.

Not exactly equality but that’s life.

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid?

I’m not treated like shit, everybody has been lovely, wonder why that is.

Ok so because you’re treated well all men are glad to know that

And you still haven’t figured it out. "

He's not going to either

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Better than me??

Surely not. I'm treated like a God.

"

Thats because you are lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women.

I disagree whole heartedly... The majoriny of threads I see complaining about a group of people are usually made by men complaining that not enough women want to sleep with then, they don't get as many reply to messages as they want, think it's unfair women are more choosy who they sleep with than men and consequently 'ugly women end up pulling people way out of there league' (yes that was actually written by a man about women not that long ago) there are always people moaning about somone, somone always has something to say about someone but it's not men are treated badly and women are put on pedistals at all... I think just about all groups of people have been singled out by someone to have a moan at at some point or another

Yes I defo agree that both genders bitch, I just don’t see women getting bashed and ridiculed on threads like men do that’s my point, majority of the abuse is men.

Then your not looking very hard at all I've seen women getting dragged just as hard as men... I got dragged the other day...

I’m not saying it never happens just happens a lot more with men.

I think because it's men who tend to start the threads that people take most offence to... It is offencive to assume just because a message is sent your owed a response, it's offecive to presume if women had less choose they would suddenly want to sleep with someone who they wouldent as thing are at the minute and I don't believe the men who post these threads are oblivious to the fact either... They post them spacific ally to get a rise out of people.... There are also a few forumites who are renowned for popping up with barbed threads or making comments to try to incer reactions... They feed off the drama bit as a general rule I see no differance in the way a fair and friendly male is treated in comparison to a fair and friendly female "

I disagree I see a lot of men on here who are completely nice and respectful like me who get ridiculed/taken the piss out of for no reason whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason. "

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid?

I’m not treated like shit, everybody has been lovely, wonder why that is.

Ok so because you’re treated well all men are glad to know that

And you still haven’t figured it out.

He's not going to either "

Care to explain ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now"

No I haven’t to hand. My point is men get disrespected and ridiculed for no reason a lot more than women do. Why do you think that is ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What makes you think they are treated differently?

See lots of men bashing on here and lots of forums where men literally have asked one question with no answer 10 posts later a woman asks the exact same thing and gets answered within 2 seconds hahaha. It just seems to me they’re treated more like a nuisance than anything

The woman’s question get answered a LOT quicker cos there are so many more men, and men want to chat up the women!

That is also why women can be so much more choosy on this site, they have much much more freedom of choice.

Not exactly equality but that’s life."

Yes this thread is nothing to do with a man not getting a response to a message I couldn’t care less about that it’s more the man bashing

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now"

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Probably due to the ratio of women to men on here "

Hang on, this gets blamed for everything? The real reason is Women look, smell and taste better than men

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The worst thing is words and sentences being twisted to make a person appear something they are not

Grow the fuck up ya potatoes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

No I haven’t to hand. My point is men get disrespected and ridiculed for no reason a lot more than women do. Why do you think that is ?"

I don't think they do and without solid examples of what you mean its hard to comment... Maybe more men get dragged than women because there are so many more men than wowen... Like if 10% of men on the site and 10% of women On the site get dragged then that would be many more men than women but statistically that's to be expected because there are more of you... As for your comment about making an innocent come t and being dragged for no reason without the comment, context and response it's hard to say if your right or wrong because maybe you did deserve whatever response you got... How would we know without the full story?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful. "

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worst thing is words and sentences being twisted to make a person appear something they are not

Grow the fuck up ya potatoes "

Not aimed at any specific person or persons

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

No I haven’t to hand. My point is men get disrespected and ridiculed for no reason a lot more than women do. Why do you think that is ?"

I don't believe they are ridiculed or disrespected unless they have said something ridiculous or disrespectful... Just because you're on here for a shag doesn't mean it's ok to behave like an arse... Male or Female! Avoid the arses or behaving like one and you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling."

To be fair we all came from caves

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle

I wasn’t taking the piss..your attitude changed.. so I responded in the same attitude!!

So yeah treat people how you want to be treated!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Probably due to the ratio of women to men on here

Hang on, this gets blamed for everything? The real reason is Women look, smell and taste better than men "

Maybe, but I prefer men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling."

You were disrespectful to me so yes I was disrespectful to you find me mine being disrespectful to someone first ........ I’ll be waiting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful. "

You have bitten at anyone that gave you an answer you didn't like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling.

To be fair we all came from caves "

Pretty sure it wasnt meant as a compliment, or even helpful directions!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s definitely not that way

But I think the reason men get a bad rep is the message they send out

People don’t want a cock pic thrust on them in a open message

People don’t want to be called a slut or a whore or what ever in a opening message yes there’s a time and place ie in the bed room or if we meet couples off times but not just a first message

Some men expect people just to be sitting around all dolled up just waiting on a message to get fucked

Like I am in you area I have 10 minutes to spare

Takes me more than that just to shower never mind make up and the rest

Some can’t handle being turned down

Then there’s the lieing factor

Ie marred fab straight

Not looking for tv/ts on profile but wanting to meet one

Always say be truthful on your profile be respectful and patient and you have a blast

Ie looking for tv/ts bi not marred and give a couple off days notice pre covid oooo joy let’s have some fun "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

No I haven’t to hand. My point is men get disrespected and ridiculed for no reason a lot more than women do. Why do you think that is ? I don't think they do and without solid examples of what you mean its hard to comment... Maybe more men get dragged than women because there are so many more men than wowen... Like if 10% of men on the site and 10% of women On the site get dragged then that would be many more men than women but statistically that's to be expected because there are more of you... As for your comment about making an innocent come t and being dragged for no reason without the comment, context and response it's hard to say if your right or wrong because maybe you did deserve whatever response you got... How would we know without the full story? "

Fair enough good point regarding more men that may be the reason why it seems to happen to more men. But look at this thread and the people taking the piss out of me when I haven’t said anything wrong I simply asked a question this is an example

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling.

You were disrespectful to me so yes I was disrespectful to you find me mine being disrespectful to someone first ........ I’ll be waiting "

How was I disrespectful, please explain?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

No I haven’t to hand. My point is men get disrespected and ridiculed for no reason a lot more than women do. Why do you think that is ?

I don't believe they are ridiculed or disrespected unless they have said something ridiculous or disrespectful... Just because you're on here for a shag doesn't mean it's ok to behave like an arse... Male or Female! Avoid the arses or behaving like one and you'll be fine"

That’s not my point, my point is look at this thread and the abuse I’m getting and I haven’t been disrespectful to anyone haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

You have bitten at anyone that gave you an answer you didn't like"

Where have I been disrespectful to one person? Before they started with me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling.

You were disrespectful to me so yes I was disrespectful to you find me mine being disrespectful to someone first ........ I’ll be waiting

How was I disrespectful, please explain?"

Calling me a misogynist sympathiser or is that supposed to be a compliment aswell as basically telling me to piss off to tinder

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wasn’t taking the piss..your attitude changed.. so I responded in the same attitude!!

So yeah treat people how you want to be treated!!"

Sorry please show me where my attitude changed to you I haven’t even replied to any of your comments taking the piss out of me until after about 3 now please stop speaking to me

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site? "

By whom?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling.

You were disrespectful to me so yes I was disrespectful to you find me mine being disrespectful to someone first ........ I’ll be waiting

How was I disrespectful, please explain?

Calling me a misogynist sympathiser or is that supposed to be a compliment aswell as basically telling me to piss off to tinder "

I wasnt actually referring to you as the misogynistic sympathiser, that was Cheap Thrills.

I did not tell you to piss off either, I suggested a retreat, way more dignified!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

You have bitten at anyone that gave you an answer you didn't like

Where have I been disrespectful to one person? Before they started with me?"

Actually being respectful is not the same as only doing it when it suits you... Saying stupid shit as a reaction to, what you consider disrespectful makes you just as disrespectful... If you have respect, save a little for yourself and ignore, instead of insulting

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Bexley


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site? "

Because they're in the minority and can pick and choose who they want. Supply and demand.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

Wait... Am I not a man?

I've not been bashed or ridiculed... Well I have but those are a whole weird little world upon themselves.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman  over a year ago

Southampton


"Probably due to the ratio of women to men on here

Hang on, this gets blamed for everything? The real reason is Women look, smell and taste better than men "

Some men smell amazing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think there is some truth in it, there are some threads that are very similar but the responses differ widely depending on the gender of the poster.

I saw a guy being rounded on by a couple of women and called a liar and basically made a fool of because he said he didn't wank off to pics on here. It was disgusting.

Is it fair? No but due to the ratios, a lot of men seem willing to take it. Its great women are standing their ground but that shouldn't excuse bad behaviour on either part. Dissing women for dissing men will just perpetuate it. Respect should be a given both ways.

Some men are dicks and some women are fannys, ignore them and just get on with who treats you right n don't waste energy on those who don't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because on the whole they are

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling.

You were disrespectful to me so yes I was disrespectful to you find me mine being disrespectful to someone first ........ I’ll be waiting

How was I disrespectful, please explain?

Calling me a misogynist sympathiser or is that supposed to be a compliment aswell as basically telling me to piss off to tinder "

And that lady’s and gentlemen.. says it all.. i rest my case.. good luck on you fab journal op

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site? "

Because they've got tits!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling.

You were disrespectful to me so yes I was disrespectful to you find me mine being disrespectful to someone first ........ I’ll be waiting

How was I disrespectful, please explain?

Calling me a misogynist sympathiser or is that supposed to be a compliment aswell as basically telling me to piss off to tinder

I wasnt actually referring to you as the misogynistic sympathiser, that was Cheap Thrills.

I did not tell you to piss off either, I suggested a retreat, way more dignified!"

Oh I thought you were talking to me. Apologies

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By *hris 62Man  over a year ago

HEREFORD


"There not? Not quite sure what you mean and who is mistreating men?

I’d have to disagree sorry women are constantly treated like they are superior to men on here, I just want to know why, seems like men just have a bad reputation on here or something. "

It's because men out number the woman and couples, plus lots of couples only looking for couples or ladly ,it's the same as trying to get in to the clubs man pay more

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

You have bitten at anyone that gave you an answer you didn't like

Where have I been disrespectful to one person? Before they started with me?

Actually being respectful is not the same as only doing it when it suits you... Saying stupid shit as a reaction to, what you consider disrespectful makes you just as disrespectful... If you have respect, save a little for yourself and ignore, instead of insulting "

So you just insulted me saying I’ve said stupid shit and proved my point.... I’m not surprised I will keep my respect and not reply to you again

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think there is some truth in it, there are some threads that are very similar but the responses differ widely depending on the gender of the poster.

I saw a guy being rounded on by a couple of women and called a liar and basically made a fool of because he said he didn't wank off to pics on here. It was disgusting.

Is it fair? No but due to the ratios, a lot of men seem willing to take it. Its great women are standing their ground but that shouldn't excuse bad behaviour on either part. Dissing women for dissing men will just perpetuate it. Respect should be a given both ways.

Some men are dicks and some women are fannys, ignore them and just get on with who treats you right n don't waste energy on those who don't. "

Amen sister

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By *arol321Woman  over a year ago

Poole


"Do you think it balances out the hundreds of years of patriarchy OP ?

So it’s ok for men to be Treated like shit because women were for hundred of years before when the whole system was just stupid?

I’m not treated like shit, everybody has been lovely, wonder why that is. "

Probably because your profile text is amusing and you don’t rant about all the things you expect people to do/not do. Your photos are also really nice and tasteful. I’m guessing you appeal to a lot of people on here with good reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

Because they've got tits! "

Genuinely think this is the most accurate answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"There not? Not quite sure what you mean and who is mistreating men?

I’d have to disagree sorry women are constantly treated like they are superior to men on here, I just want to know why, seems like men just have a bad reputation on here or something.

It's because men out number the woman and couples, plus lots of couples only looking for couples or ladly ,it's the same as trying to get in to the clubs man pay more"

I know you don’t see the feminists calling for equality in swinging clubs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

You have bitten at anyone that gave you an answer you didn't like

Where have I been disrespectful to one person? Before they started with me?

Actually being respectful is not the same as only doing it when it suits you... Saying stupid shit as a reaction to, what you consider disrespectful makes you just as disrespectful... If you have respect, save a little for yourself and ignore, instead of insulting

So you just insulted me saying I’ve said stupid shit and proved my point.... I’m not surprised I will keep my respect and not reply to you again "

Insulting people for having an opinion you dislike is doing stupid shit, no?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

You have bitten at anyone that gave you an answer you didn't like

Where have I been disrespectful to one person? Before they started with me?

Actually being respectful is not the same as only doing it when it suits you... Saying stupid shit as a reaction to, what you consider disrespectful makes you just as disrespectful... If you have respect, save a little for yourself and ignore, instead of insulting

So you just insulted me saying I’ve said stupid shit and proved my point.... I’m not surprised I will keep my respect and not reply to you again

Insulting people for having an opinion you dislike is doing stupid shit, no? "

Not insulting you, just your actions

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There not? Not quite sure what you mean and who is mistreating men?

I’d have to disagree sorry women are constantly treated like they are superior to men on here, I just want to know why, seems like men just have a bad reputation on here or something.

It's because men out number the woman and couples, plus lots of couples only looking for couples or ladly ,it's the same as trying to get in to the clubs man pay more

I know you don’t see the feminists calling for equality in swinging clubs "

I dislike the single men being charged so much as I like single men over anyone but if so many men weren't desperate to get their dick wet then clubs wouldn't need to do this to encourage single ladies to attend and limit the number of dudes, no? I think you are blaming the wrong gender for that

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

.


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful. "

You've said a few disrespectful things, like someone said maybe some men just don't realise what being respectful actually is.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

I'm an equal opportunities piss taker outer.

Maybe the women respond to other women because they know they're not gonna get a PM off the back of a forum comment saying "thanks for responding to my post, wanna meet?"

Sometimes the same question can get asked but in a different way, making it more appealing to respond to.

Sometimes people respond to those they know instead of those they don't.

I don't think men are treated like shit. I think men with chips on their shoulders/a sense of entitlement/ an aggressive aura or whatnot aren't pandered to. That's not the same as being treated like shit.

Being treated like shit is having someone sending you abuse, having someone lie to you to get in your undies etc.

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By *elle xWoman  over a year ago

Doire Theas

I treat everyone the same until they give me a reason not to

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"I treat everyone the same until they give me a reason not to "

So do I

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Are you referring to the forum OP? It's a minority of users who come to the forum, so not representative of the site.

Otherwise, the high volume behaviour from probably a majority of men, shows an awful lot of clueless knobs.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's not that women get treated better on here.

It's just the fact that the number of men outweigh women on this site, which causes competition etc.

It's basic economics of supply and demand if you can apply that to this scenario lol

The more men there, the more competition amongst them and more choice for women to pick from.

And women are like gold dust.

Just the way it is

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By *all me FlikWoman  over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

After politely declining to meet someone who is the total opposite of who I'm looking for I then became a "silly whore"....dont think that's great treatment.

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By *nked_kittenWoman  over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"See me, iv slept with enough women for 10 men and I couldn't care less how many if any wanted to sleep with me "

Well now you have outed yourself as a rapist....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site? "

I think the ratio of men to women, makes the men worthless to a point, dont take it so personal pal

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By *rMojoRisinMan  over a year ago

Sheffield

Regardless of ratio’s, if I approach a woman to engage in consensual sex with me and she turns me down. My actions towards that rejection will determine how I am treated.

Making a forum post about how badly men get treat isn’t a good look. But, hey, that’s just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh you be surprised the amount of men who give me abuse because I say no to meeting them bearing in mind their profiles are empty & not even a profile pic I mean c-mon what woman would don’t know what some think you are

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

So you think that this comment is respectful? "How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile."

This might explain why you are struggling.

To be fair we all came from caves

Pretty sure it wasnt meant as a compliment, or even helpful directions! "

Maybe not but it is the truth

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh you be surprised the amount of men who give me abuse because I say no to meeting them bearing in mind their profiles are empty & not even a profile pic I mean c-mon what woman would don’t know what some think you are "

I just don't understand the abuse. There's no need for it. Why can't people just accept it and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

They are rarer, not better, or worse.

Attitude is everything here.

Misogynistic sympathising won't get you laid either, so probably best you retreat to whatever swipy site you are used to!

So you don’t sympathise with men getting abused you sympathise with the abuser ? How about you crawl back to whatever cave you come from those views are vile.

And that delighful comment just reveals the kind of person you are.

I dont sympathise with men that can't understand that a pleasant attitude will get them further than being disrespectful towards women.

If a man has been disrespectful to women be as disrespectful as you want to him I’m on about men who have done nothing wrong and get ridiculed on threads for no reason.

Do you have an example? It's getting very confusing now

Actually look up this thread and see how many people are taking the piss out of me and I haven’t said one thing disrespectful.

You've said a few disrespectful things, like someone said maybe some men just don't realise what being respectful actually is. "

Any examples of me being disrespectful to someone before they were to me ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm an equal opportunities piss taker outer.

Maybe the women respond to other women because they know they're not gonna get a PM off the back of a forum comment saying "thanks for responding to my post, wanna meet?"

Sometimes the same question can get asked but in a different way, making it more appealing to respond to.

Sometimes people respond to those they know instead of those they don't.

I don't think men are treated like shit. I think men with chips on their shoulders/a sense of entitlement/ an aggressive aura or whatnot aren't pandered to. That's not the same as being treated like shit.

Being treated like shit is having someone sending you abuse, having someone lie to you to get in your undies etc.

"

No my main point is just that men seem to get abused in the forums a lot more than women, but tbf some women up there said that could be just down to the fact the ratio is so much higher so it just looks that way which could be that case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I treat everyone the same until they give me a reason not to "

Love that BB

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Are you referring to the forum OP? It's a minority of users who come to the forum, so not representative of the site.

Otherwise, the high volume behaviour from probably a majority of men, shows an awful lot of clueless knobs. "

Yeah I am and I definitely agree with your second statement

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's not that women get treated better on here.

It's just the fact that the number of men outweigh women on this site, which causes competition etc.

It's basic economics of supply and demand if you can apply that to this scenario lol

The more men there, the more competition amongst them and more choice for women to pick from.

And women are like gold dust.

Just the way it is

"

Yeah I think this is the most likely reason mate.

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By *oxy lady40Woman  over a year ago

bridgwater


"It's not that women get treated better on here.

It's just the fact that the number of men outweigh women on this site, which causes competition etc.

It's basic economics of supply and demand if you can apply that to this scenario lol

The more men there, the more competition amongst them and more choice for women to pick from.

And women are like gold dust.

Just the way it is

"

exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The biggest mistreatment is this

Don't put pics of your vagina on your profile then complain coz a blokes got a pic of his cock on his

Let's be equals

Fellas

Don't call women slags if your fucking alsorts yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"After politely declining to meet someone who is the total opposite of who I'm looking for I then became a "silly whore"....dont think that's great treatment."

Some men are complete fannies

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By *ollydoesWoman  over a year ago

Shangri-La

Cool story bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are women treated as if they are better than men on this site?

I think the ratio of men to women, makes the men worthless to a point, dont take it so personal pal"

Agreed mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Regardless of ratio’s, if I approach a woman to engage in consensual sex with me and she turns me down. My actions towards that rejection will determine how I am treated.

Making a forum post about how badly men get treat isn’t a good look. But, hey, that’s just my opinion. "

I couldn’t care less what people think of me tbh I’m just trying to call out the people who keep abusing men in forums for no reason really, also I’m gay and it seems more women are getting annoyed anyway they seem to think this was aimed at them but it’s the complete opposite

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Cool story bro "

Gr8 input thanks for being here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What makes you think they are treated differently?

See lots of men bashing on here and lots of forums where men literally have asked one question with no answer 10 posts later a woman asks the exact same thing and gets answered within 2 seconds hahaha. It just seems to me they’re treated more like a nuisance than anything "

so following your example - who replied to the women? presumably mostly men - men that want to sleep with the woman? ... so therefore wont reply to the thread by the man as it wont help get them laid?

ergo , the answer to your question is women are treated differently to men in this example because the people doing the different treatment are men , and men are not the target audience for their penis action

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What makes you think they are treated differently?

See lots of men bashing on here and lots of forums where men literally have asked one question with no answer 10 posts later a woman asks the exact same thing and gets answered within 2 seconds hahaha. It just seems to me they’re treated more like a nuisance than anything

so following your example - who replied to the women? presumably mostly men - men that want to sleep with the woman? ... so therefore wont reply to the thread by the man as it wont help get them laid?

ergo , the answer to your question is women are treated differently to men in this example because the people doing the different treatment are men , and men are not the target audience for their penis action "

No it was women who replied

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You're here sticking up for the men that get treated badly. Did any of them ask you to do this for them. Has any man thanked you for doing this. Has any man agreed with you. You've basically stuck your nose in where it wasn't needed and just arguing with people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're here sticking up for the men that get treated badly. Did any of them ask you to do this for them. Has any man thanked you for doing this. Has any man agreed with you. You've basically stuck your nose in where it wasn't needed and just arguing with people."

So you’re ok with nice normal getting taken the piss out of for no reason on here because people don’t like what they said ? Have these people not heard if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're here sticking up for the men that get treated badly. Did any of them ask you to do this for them. Has any man thanked you for doing this. Has any man agreed with you. You've basically stuck your nose in where it wasn't needed and just arguing with people.

So you’re ok with nice normal getting taken the piss out of for no reason on here because people don’t like what they said ? Have these people not heard if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it "

Everyone has a right to an opinion. That's what the furom is all about. The men in here have been around long enough to stick up for them selves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're here sticking up for the men that get treated badly. Did any of them ask you to do this for them. Has any man thanked you for doing this. Has any man agreed with you. You've basically stuck your nose in where it wasn't needed and just arguing with people.

So you’re ok with nice normal getting taken the piss out of for no reason on here because people don’t like what they said ? Have these people not heard if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it

Everyone has a right to an opinion. That's what the furom is all about. The men in here have been around long enough to stick up for them selves."

Agreed but people don’t have the right to be abused. Do you think you should be abused because you have a different opinion on something

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one should be abused. That's a given.

We have had an account on here for 5 years now and we have gotten abusive messages but rarely from women.

Sometimes messages we sent didn't get replies but that's hardly abuse.

Everyone is entitled to personal choice. That is also not abusive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No one should be abused. That's a given.

We have had an account on here for 5 years now and we have gotten abusive messages but rarely from women.

Sometimes messages we sent didn't get replies but that's hardly abuse.

Everyone is entitled to personal choice. That is also not abusive.

"

Agreed it’s men who do the abusing 90% the time although there are a couple of women on here who seemed to think it was ok to abuse me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're here sticking up for the men that get treated badly. Did any of them ask you to do this for them. Has any man thanked you for doing this. Has any man agreed with you. You've basically stuck your nose in where it wasn't needed and just arguing with people."

Why shouldn't he stick up for other people?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

op ive read a couple of threads where youve been far from respectful

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"op ive read a couple of threads where youve been far from respectful"

Please point me to a comment I’ve been disrespectful to someone

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"op ive read a couple of threads where youve been far from respectful

Please point me to a comment I’ve been disrespectful to someone "

for example the period thread you went barrelling in saying how vile it was when you could of simply said it wasnt for you. Also the trainer sock thread you started was rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"op ive read a couple of threads where youve been far from respectful

Please point me to a comment I’ve been disrespectful to someone for example the period thread you went barrelling in saying how vile it was when you could of simply said it wasnt for you. Also the trainer sock thread you started was rude."

Who’s feelings are getting hurt by saying I wouldn’t have sex with a women on their period and I don’t like ankle socks ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You seem very down on this site op. Makes me wonder why you’re here?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"op ive read a couple of threads where youve been far from respectful

Please point me to a comment I’ve been disrespectful to someone for example the period thread you went barrelling in saying how vile it was when you could of simply said it wasnt for you. Also the trainer sock thread you started was rude.

Who’s feelings are getting hurt by saying I wouldn’t have sex with a women on their period and I don’t like ankle socks ? "

those threads just dont paint you in a very good light alsi all this abuse of men you talk about if there was abuse the mods would step in. If you feel someone is being abusive just report the thread

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

There's no decorum

In the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You seem very down on this site op. Makes me wonder why you’re here? "

Don’t you worry about me sweetheart I’m doing great

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"op ive read a couple of threads where youve been far from respectful

Please point me to a comment I’ve been disrespectful to someone for example the period thread you went barrelling in saying how vile it was when you could of simply said it wasnt for you. Also the trainer sock thread you started was rude.

Who’s feelings are getting hurt by saying I wouldn’t have sex with a women on their period and I don’t like ankle socks ? those threads just dont paint you in a very good light alsi all this abuse of men you talk about if there was abuse the mods would step in. If you feel someone is being abusive just report the thread"

I will in future

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"Who is treating women as supperiour? Can you please give an example of what you mean as I have never come across women and men being treated differantly

Please see my last quote

I don't see how that is man bashing and is a very thin argument... Maybe it could be that a woman posted instead of a man, maybe it was the time of day it was posted as people are more active later in the day, possibly a regular v new comer who posted it as familiar names tend to draw more attention... Nothing at all really to indicate that the male got no responses due to the fact he was male

That isn’t I just see lots of threads complaining about men do you not agree ? I also see a lot of men getting taken the piss out of on threads but not with women.

I disagree whole heartedly... The majoriny of threads I see complaining about a group of people are usually made by men complaining that not enough women want to sleep with then, they don't get as many reply to messages as they want, think it's unfair women are more choosy who they sleep with than men and consequently 'ugly women end up pulling people way out of there league' (yes that was actually written by a man about women not that long ago) there are always people moaning about somone, somone always has something to say about someone but it's not men are treated badly and women are put on pedistals at all... I think just about all groups of people have been singled out by someone to have a moan at at some point or another

See me, iv slept with enough women for 10 men and I couldn't care less how many if any wanted to sleep with me "

you couldn't care if any wanted to sleep with you??

Soooo what you do, force yourself on them ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You seem very down on this site op. Makes me wonder why you’re here?

Don’t you worry about me sweetheart I’m doing great "

That’s lovely to hear. Enjoy your day, sweetheart

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"OP, you’re getting boring now. Women can afford to be picky. There are so many more men than women & couples. You’ve been on here for 4 months during very strange times. Your profile is very basic & makes me want to poke you in the eye (ours is blank because we’re not meeting at the moment).

“Best looking man and biggest dick in Swansea. Well not far off. If you ain't up for a laugh I will not meet you. If you wear ankle socks I wont meet you. If you dont kiss I won't meet you and if your arrogant I won't meet you. Please wear sexy lingerie for me. Cheers x”

Erm no, we’ll wear what we want to thanks. Biggest cock? Is that your behaviour? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder & all that. Maybe you need to grow up a bit? "

I sadly have to agree OP, your being arrogant yourself by stating on your profile you have the biggest dick in your area and then being a hypocrite saying you won't meet arrogant people when your being cocky yourself.

You can say its not about you but it is as your profile is meant to attract towards you not make them run a mile

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