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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Iv noticed and I'm not sure if I'm alone here
Slot of forum users dontcreally like the social interruption they experience caused by new comers to the forums
They try there best to belittle them and make them appear small
Your sex must be boring as fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe some do see it as a 'closed' club and may be 'protective' of their 'community'.
But people come and go and if it was just the same people all the time then it would become quite stale.
I for one enjoy seeing new regular posters doing their own thing.
In time if you post and create threads you will find those that enjoy them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed shallot of forum users don’t really notice when you put a small bulb that resembles an onion into a sentence.
Must be cause their sex life is really boring. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wait, you can judge sexual performance by the way a person posts on the forum? I need to learn this! "
Your not the only 1 that could do with learning a thing or 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That might be your experience, but not necessary true across the board. Some people do incredibly well from the start and fit straight in. Some need more time. Finding their corner of the dance floor. |
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"That might be your experience, but not necessary true across the board. Some people do incredibly well from the start and fit straight in. Some need more time. Finding their corner of the dance floor."
I'm not stepping into the middle, that boogie night fever might take over  |
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I don't agree OP.
The forum users are generally a friendly if rather sarcastic bunch.
If you stay away from politics and virus forums, it's generally fairly safe.
You have to remember that some people have been on here many years and have met in person. It can seem a bit cliquey at times as a result. |
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"Wait, you can judge sexual performance by the way a person posts on the forum? I need to learn this!
Really? That's a new one
It's new to me too. "
I really need to find out from the experts if their assumptions are correct or not so they can adjust the data accordingly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose it's natural to be a bit skeptical of new people, until you get to know them. I was once new to the forums and I'm sure people held back a bit from me, but since then I've been accepted (by most lol) and everyone is very nice. It takes time to earn trust and build connections. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose it's natural to be a bit skeptical of new people, until you get to know them. I was once new to the forums and I'm sure people held back a bit from me, but since then I've been accepted (by most lol) and everyone is very nice. It takes time to earn trust and build connections. "
this!   Px |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never thought of the regular forumites as bullying or standoffish towards new people to be honest... Obviously some people join the forum with the mindset of causing ripples and purposely try to get a rise out of people and sometimes they do get a bit torn to shreads bit I think they like it and the attention it gives them because they tend to go on a stampede of creating similar threads seemingly reveling in the bounce back they get |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I suppose it's natural to be a bit skeptical of new people, until you get to know them. I was once new to the forums and I'm sure people held back a bit from me, but since then I've been accepted (by most lol) and everyone is very nice. It takes time to earn trust and build connections. "
In sceptical of folk iv known my entire life
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It took me over 4 months of hard graft and a lot of work behind the scenes to get my first reply and quote from a woman on the forums, since then I haven’t looked back and now over two womens have spoke to me. |
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over a year ago
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"It took me over 4 months of hard graft and a lot of work behind the scenes to get my first reply and quote from a woman on the forums, since then I haven’t looked back and now over two womens have spoke to me. "
Iv no idea when it happened for me or even if it has  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That might be your experience, but not necessary true across the board. Some people do incredibly well from the start and fit straight in. Some need more time. Finding their corner of the dance floor.
I'm not stepping into the middle, that boogie night fever might take over "
Celebrate good times, come on! It's a celebration.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It took me over 4 months of hard graft and a lot of work behind the scenes to get my first reply and quote from a woman on the forums, since then I haven’t looked back and now over two womens have spoke to me. "
And you're welcome x |
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"That might be your experience, but not necessary true across the board. Some people do incredibly well from the start and fit straight in. Some need more time. Finding their corner of the dance floor.
I'm not stepping into the middle, that boogie night fever might take over
Celebrate good times, come on! It's a celebration.. "
We don't have to take our clothes off, to have a good time oh no |
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"Wait, you can judge sexual performance by the way a person posts on the forum? I need to learn this!
Really? That's a new one
It's new to me too.
I really need to find out from the experts if their assumptions are correct or not so they can adjust the data accordingly "
You should carry out a peer reviewed, placebo controlled, double-blind trial |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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While some may seem unwelcoming or standoffish, most (99.9%) are very inclusive. The key part is how present yourself initially.
Not saying don't be yourself but if you rub people the wrong way from the start, you are going to have difficulty of them accepting you. That happens in all walks of life, and is pretty much human nature. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"While some may seem unwelcoming or standoffish, most (99.9%) are very inclusive. The key part is how present yourself initially.
Not saying don't be yourself but if you rub people the wrong way from the start, you are going to have difficulty of them accepting you. That happens in all walks of life, and is pretty much human nature. "
It's like a play ground at times
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"Wait, you can judge sexual performance by the way a person posts on the forum? I need to learn this!
Really? That's a new one
It's new to me too.
I really need to find out from the experts if their assumptions are correct or not so they can adjust the data accordingly
You should carry out a peer reviewed, placebo controlled, double-blind trial "
Yes, that sounds like a great idea |
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"Wait, you can judge sexual performance by the way a person posts on the forum? I need to learn this!
Really? That's a new one
It's new to me too.
I really need to find out from the experts if their assumptions are correct or not so they can adjust the data accordingly
You should carry out a peer reviewed, placebo controlled, double-blind trial
Yes, that sounds like a great idea "
So, you'll need an audience, blindfolds and a few other bits 'n' bats...  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"While some may seem unwelcoming or standoffish, most (99.9%) are very inclusive. The key part is how present yourself initially.
Not saying don't be yourself but if you rub people the wrong way from the start, you are going to have difficulty of them accepting you. That happens in all walks of life, and is pretty much human nature.
It's like a play ground at times
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That's not even remotely what I was getting at.
Some people will be bullies and cruel for the sake of it it is just in their nature. It is a very small amount.
For most, if you do things that they dislike, or irritate them constantly then they will get frustrated, or just call somebody out on their bullshit. The vast majority of people react this way, it is understandable and acceptable.
Don't want to be shunned? Then don't act consistently like a prick.
Wise words to live by.
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"Wait, you can judge sexual performance by the way a person posts on the forum? I need to learn this!
Really? That's a new one
It's new to me too.
I really need to find out from the experts if their assumptions are correct or not so they can adjust the data accordingly
You should carry out a peer reviewed, placebo controlled, double-blind trial
Yes, that sounds like a great idea
So, you'll need an audience, blindfolds and a few other bits 'n' bats... "
How will the audience judge if they have blindfolds on |
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"Wait, you can judge sexual performance by the way a person posts on the forum? I need to learn this!
Really? That's a new one
It's new to me too.
I really need to find out from the experts if their assumptions are correct or not so they can adjust the data accordingly
You should carry out a peer reviewed, placebo controlled, double-blind trial
Yes, that sounds like a great idea
So, you'll need an audience, blindfolds and a few other bits 'n' bats...
How will the audience judge if they have blindfolds on "
The experimental subjects will wear the blindfolds while the peers review |
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"Wait, you can judge sexual performance by the way a person posts on the forum? I need to learn this!
Really? That's a new one
It's new to me too.
I really need to find out from the experts if their assumptions are correct or not so they can adjust the data accordingly
You should carry out a peer reviewed, placebo controlled, double-blind trial
Yes, that sounds like a great idea
So, you'll need an audience, blindfolds and a few other bits 'n' bats...
How will the audience judge if they have blindfolds on
The experimental subjects will wear the blindfolds while the peers review "
Just checking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"While some may seem unwelcoming or standoffish, most (99.9%) are very inclusive. The key part is how present yourself initially.
Not saying don't be yourself but if you rub people the wrong way from the start, you are going to have difficulty of them accepting you. That happens in all walks of life, and is pretty much human nature.
It's like a play ground at times
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Like a pub at kicking out time. People staggering around tipsy, desperate to fuck someone. Talking utter unintelligible shite but thinking it's hilarious. Someone puking in the corner. Women fighting over some bloke who looked in Sharon's direction. Men eyeing up the women grappling on the floor. Then they all stagger off for a kebab and are friends again. |
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"It took me over 4 months of hard graft and a lot of work behind the scenes to get my first reply and quote from a woman on the forums, since then I haven’t looked back and now over two womens have spoke to me. "
Steady on. We can't have you Turing into a reply amd quote floozy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"While some may seem unwelcoming or standoffish, most (99.9%) are very inclusive. The key part is how present yourself initially.
Not saying don't be yourself but if you rub people the wrong way from the start, you are going to have difficulty of them accepting you. That happens in all walks of life, and is pretty much human nature.
It's like a play ground at times
That's not even remotely what I was getting at.
Some people will be bullies and cruel for the sake of it it is just in their nature. It is a very small amount.
For most, if you do things that they dislike, or irritate them constantly then they will get frustrated, or just call somebody out on their bullshit. The vast majority of people react this way, it is understandable and acceptable.
Don't want to be shunned? Then don't act consistently like a prick.
Wise words to live by.
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Is someone constantly acting like a prick ? |
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