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What would you think?

By *exki11en OP Woman over a year ago

Bristol

So, hypothetically - you have a single profile even though it clearly states you're part of a couple as well.

You receive a message something along the lines of "we'd like to meet your other half but they have newbies blocked so can you ask they take a look at our profile"

Said person who has messaged has also blocked groups of people from messaging them but think it's OK for them to try and get round it.

What's your reaction/thoughts?

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By *abloBackMan over a year ago

London

Ingenious

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Someone else has said this already tonight

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

ah, it was your other half that put it up

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

would think....cheeky buggars, have a chuckle about it then block and move on

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By *exki11en OP Woman over a year ago

Bristol

"ah, it was your other half that put it up"

Not much gets past you eh?

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

On the one hand it is quiet impressive they went to so much effort.

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By *aucy3Couple over a year ago

glasgow

i'm thinking,they must really want to meet your other half,he must be hot.

in fact,we're thinking of messaging you,about a meet with him ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont see a problem if I'm understanding u's play alone too?-they wanna select the guys they want, which also happens to be ur partner.I think the bit where u recommend him out as good at sex..essentially is selling him is it not?-so why not ask U....

or is this because they bypassed asking u for the meet? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm agreeing with the poster above. You are advertising him on your profile. Ok he may have certain groups of people blocked but they must be impressed and think its worth a try.

I wouldn't be bothered by it if its just an odd occasion. After all what an ego boost for your fella. Pass the details, tell him they went to a bit of effort and let him make his own mind up. After all you've decided to play separately so he is allowed to choose his own meets isn't he.

If he's not interested then just let it be and again let him feel good that someone went to so much trouble.

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By *arambarMan over a year ago

swindon

Not enough of an issue that I'd start a thread (or two!) about it.

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By *exki11en OP Woman over a year ago

Bristol

Ok, so they actually asked him to meet me but that's not the issue. The issue is, if you've blocked certain groups of people (like many block single men for instance) would you be a bit narked at someone trying to get round your preferences like this?

I guess it's a bit like blocking someone and them using the forum to contact you (against site rules, no?)

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By *exki11en OP Woman over a year ago

Bristol

And its not so much an issue, just a topic to discuss. Obviously not a topic anyone else wants to discuss. Back in my box.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, so they actually asked him to meet me but that's not the issue. The issue is, if you've blocked certain groups of people (like many block single men for instance) would you be a bit narked at someone trying to get round your preferences like this?

I guess it's a bit like blocking someone and them using the forum to contact you (against site rules, no?)

I think....... If he has certain groups of people blocked... But your couples profile has them allowed.... They might be thinking well sometimes he meets such people. So they are just asking to see if they stand a chance. Otherwise the same group of people would be blocked on both profiles.

Maybe? Otherwise I'd agree that it's just rude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess it's a bit like blocking someone and them using the forum to contact you (against site rules, no?)

well to be honest, while playing single as a man..most of us know getting new meets isnt that easy..Ur OH, is almost getting a meet on a plate..why not serve it to him..I'd imagine he'd do the same for u..(not that u need it, being a tasty hot individual...with a fanny attached)-

anyway hope yas have fun, regard this just as good opportunisticness..

in fact off to mail ur OH...gonna ask him if i can try getting shag from ya

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess it's a bit like blocking someone and them using the forum to contact you (against site rules, no?)

Yep! Just plain rude! Creative - but rude!

A bit like the profile that lopped a dozen years to get round my filters, messaged me confessing what they'd done and said they'd understand if I didn't reply!!!

And shock - they were right!!