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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?"
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it? car fun, local hotels. "
I feel a bit silly now, maybe I need a good night's kip |
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha "
I took the 'Will fuck right now' and the 'Pleeeeease, just please someone shag me, anyone?' lines out of my profile. Thought it came across as desperate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it? car fun, local hotels.
I feel a bit silly now, maybe I need a good night's kip "
Don’t be daft, you asked a reasonable question. If you don’t get reasonable answers then that’s not your doing |
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha
I took the 'Will fuck right now' and the 'Pleeeeease, just please someone shag me, anyone?' lines out of my profile. Thought it came across as desperate "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the car, on the car bonnet, alleyway, woods, country lane, hotel, farmers field, public toilets, clubs....
All sound dodgy really, but if that’s what you are into? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha
I took the 'Will fuck right now' and the 'Pleeeeease, just please someone shag me, anyone?' lines out of my profile. Thought it came across as desperate "
I'll add that and see what happens.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha
I took the 'Will fuck right now' and the 'Pleeeeease, just please someone shag me, anyone?' lines out of my profile. Thought it came across as desperate
I'll add that and see what happens. "
It’s been a while....how is it going? I actually looked at your profile before I came across this thread. I was shocked, then utterly baffled by it, I must admit. 
Now it all makes sense.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The garden shed? Might be a bit cobwebby."
Is this your garden shed, you’re talking about?
I bet it’s dusted and has a little stove in the corner, with a pot of coffee always steaming |
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?"
I'd assume they can't travel far.... For me travelling would mean over half an hour away maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You put can accommodate, people assume you will accommodate at their convenience.
Put you can travel and people assume you'll journey from John O'Groats to Lands End for a social.
By saying you can't do either, it means you have to actually chat with the person and negotiate what will work for them. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha
I took the 'Will fuck right now' and the 'Pleeeeease, just please someone shag me, anyone?' lines out of my profile. Thought it came across as desperate "
Those lines always work for me... |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"You put can accommodate, people assume you will accommodate at their convenience.
Put you can travel and people assume you'll journey from John O'Groats to Lands End for a social.
By saying you can't do either, it means you have to actually chat with the person and negotiate what will work for them."
Pretty much this. For my own reasons I never accommodate & never will. I do arrange to meet in clubs though or occasionally hotels. I also attend parties hosted by good friends and have made other connections in this way. Once I know people well enough I will go to meets at their homes.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I used to have that. I couldn’t accommodate as I was in a house share and I didn’t drive at the time.
I could travel given notice and I could book a hotel but it was easier to simply say not to remove the issue.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha
I took the 'Will fuck right now' and the 'Pleeeeease, just please someone shag me, anyone?' lines out of my profile. Thought it came across as desperate
I'll add that and see what happens.
It’s been a while....how is it going? I actually looked at your profile before I came across this thread. I was shocked, then utterly baffled by it, I must admit.
Now it all makes sense. "
105 in 3 hours. I'm knackered!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You put can accommodate, people assume you will accommodate at their convenience.
Put you can travel and people assume you'll journey from John O'Groats to Lands End for a social.
By saying you can't do either, it means you have to actually chat with the person and negotiate what will work for them."
Yep this!!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha
I took the 'Will fuck right now' and the 'Pleeeeease, just please someone shag me, anyone?' lines out of my profile. Thought it came across as desperate
I'll add that and see what happens.
It’s been a while....how is it going? I actually looked at your profile before I came across this thread. I was shocked, then utterly baffled by it, I must admit.
Now it all makes sense. "
Yeah not too bad dude! Hows you?
How do you mean? I've not had nearly enough coffee yet so easily bamboozled |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha
I took the 'Will fuck right now' and the 'Pleeeeease, just please someone shag me, anyone?' lines out of my profile. Thought it came across as desperate
I'll add that and see what happens. "
HAHA! ANy luck? |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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I have a friend who cannot accomodate as she lives in a shared house, She cannot drive and public transport is crap.
I happily drive the 15 miles to collect her and at the end of the evening or even better in the morning take her home.
No big deal. |
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?
A lot of people put that to try and stop the “fuck now” messages. Rarely works haha
I took the 'Will fuck right now' and the 'Pleeeeease, just please someone shag me, anyone?' lines out of my profile. Thought it came across as desperate
I'll add that and see what happens.
HAHA! ANy luck?"
194 so far. I'm knackered! |
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"and I'm not being mean to anyone,
But I've wondered since joining, if you can't accommodate and can't travel, where do you do it?"
It a social media not a dating service..
Also may ways to play like meeting on a cam or there local club or car park so many way to enjoy the lifestyle without try to fuck everything so just chill block them if you want or just move on which would be even better. |
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