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They don't read the profile.
Profile pics of cocks.
They msg with stupid requests.
They think we're free sex workers.
They get shitty when you don't reply.
They get shitty if you say no thanks
They're entitled.
(Not all Fab men) before anyone starts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many things.
Those that say they’re 30 but show a pic and they don’t look a day under 55.
Those that say they’re straight on their profile but constantly putting up a status looking for cock.
Those that say they don’t smoke when they do. I smoke but if I’m meeting a non smoker then I shower, brush teeth, eat a packet of extra strong mints and then don’t smoke til I’ve left him. This is a waste when really they smoke.
Those that message and just want a bj.
I could go on and on but I’ll leave it at that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing really as I only have met with the great guys in all the years I've been on here ... the rest are just, well being themselves, not interesting!
I have the ultimate (& easily done) control of my profile and my experiences on here so all is a win win
Just let the dicks be the dicks and what's left shine through |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That some of them think you are just something to fuck and are not deserving of respect. Just because I am a perv doesn't mean I am not a good person.
There are good guys on here though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They don't read the profile.
Profile pics of cocks.
They msg with stupid requests.
They think we're free sex workers.
They get shitty when you don't reply.
They get shitty if you say no thanks
They're entitled.
(Not all Fab men) before anyone starts. "
 this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When they do jot read our profile and ask the questions again or want things you said are not of interest ie; chat types, kik ect.  other than that just be honest  "
What would you like to get from men in exchange for those things? What mental tick boxes do you have? |
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I wish they would read my profile...and not ask the things I have all ready answered on there..
Not to get arsey when the answer is a No..
I know not all guys are like this...some are very, very polite and a pleasure to chat too.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They don't read the profile.
Profile pics of cocks.
They msg with stupid requests.
They think we're free sex workers.
They get shitty when you don't reply.
They get shitty if you say no thanks
They're entitled.
(Not all Fab men) before anyone starts. "
Yeah, I gathered those to be honest.
If you could — and would — add a feature to fab, what would it be? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Going off a few of the messages above, it is nice to see some women do notice there are anomalies on here, in contrast to quite a general consensus I've gotten from reading profiles that men are basically pests. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They don't read the profile.
Profile pics of cocks.
They msg with stupid requests.
They think we're free sex workers.
They get shitty when you don't reply.
They get shitty if you say no thanks
They're entitled.
(Not all Fab men) before anyone starts.
Yeah, I gathered those to be honest.
If you could — and would — add a feature to fab, what would it be? "
I wish you could stop guys messaging that live over a certain distance away.
Would cut out a lot of pointless messages from people that live 100 miles away |
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All of what's been listed but also those that have an age of intrest for 18 to 99 that gives me the ick.
The self given labels BBC WBC another ick.
Must be discreet guys gives me another ick
Loads of pics of their dick and bare back play gives me another ick
Lastly pics of their dick next to objects ick ick ick xxx |
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"They don't read the profile.
Profile pics of cocks.
They msg with stupid requests.
They think we're free sex workers.
They get shitty when you don't reply.
They get shitty if you say no thanks
They're entitled.
(Not all Fab men) before anyone starts. "
100% this everything I was about to right ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What bothers you most about men on fab?"
Being judged for something I've supposedly done and Being judged for somethings I've not done 
Random message from a stranger saying in your area later wanna hook up . Like as if anyone would answer yes ok
Asking where exactly do I live. As if I'd share that info .
A photo of their cock without even a message. Like as if thats all that it takes to make me weak at knees and drool.
A lot of crude and disgusting suggestions as to what they would like to do to me .
I could go on but I'm sure the other ladies will cover all the rest.
Its lucky that there are some fabulous men here and that makes it worth staying.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What bothers you most about men on fab?
Being judged for something I've supposedly done and Being judged for somethings I've not done
Random message from a stranger saying in your area later wanna hook up . Like as if anyone would answer yes ok
Asking where exactly do I live. As if I'd share that info .
A photo of their cock without even a message. Like as if thats all that it takes to make me weak at knees and drool.
A lot of crude and disgusting suggestions as to what they would like to do to me .
I could go on but I'm sure the other ladies will cover all the rest.
Its lucky that there are some fabulous men here and that makes it worth staying. "
You sound like a logical, reasonable woman. Nothing there I'd even dispute. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most men think its about their pleasure, erm no, im here for purely my pleasure, couldnt give a fuck about yours tbh"
I mean, as long as you can find a simp who'll do that for you, you're good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What bothers you most about men on fab?
Being judged for something I've supposedly done and Being judged for somethings I've not done
Random message from a stranger saying in your area later wanna hook up . Like as if anyone would answer yes ok
Asking where exactly do I live. As if I'd share that info .
A photo of their cock without even a message. Like as if thats all that it takes to make me weak at knees and drool.
A lot of crude and disgusting suggestions as to what they would like to do to me .
I could go on but I'm sure the other ladies will cover all the rest.
Its lucky that there are some fabulous men here and that makes it worth staying.
You sound like a logical, reasonable woman. Nothing there I'd even dispute. "
I'm feisty too... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What bothers you most about men on fab?
Being judged for something I've supposedly done and Being judged for somethings I've not done
Random message from a stranger saying in your area later wanna hook up . Like as if anyone would answer yes ok
Asking where exactly do I live. As if I'd share that info .
A photo of their cock without even a message. Like as if thats all that it takes to make me weak at knees and drool.
A lot of crude and disgusting suggestions as to what they would like to do to me .
I could go on but I'm sure the other ladies will cover all the rest.
Its lucky that there are some fabulous men here and that makes it worth staying.
You sound like a logical, reasonable woman. Nothing there I'd even dispute.
I'm feisty too... "
By the definition of feisty it never stopped a man like me, haha – need some fire in the name of sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men here are ten a penny"
It's a "numbers game" as they say; all down to ratio. I wouldn't say women would have no standards if thirsty men ceased to exist, but I believe standards would drop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They don't read the profile.
Profile pics of cocks.
They msg with stupid requests.
They think we're free sex workers.
They get shitty when you don't reply.
They get shitty if you say no thanks
They're entitled.
(Not all Fab men) before anyone starts. "
pretty much this. Arrogance too xx |
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"They don't read the profile.
Profile pics of cocks.
They msg with stupid requests.
They think we're free sex workers.
They get shitty when you don't reply.
They get shitty if you say no thanks
They're entitled.
(Not all Fab men) before anyone starts. "
Got it in one! (Or seven) |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
There are some who are cockwombles and think it is dial a ride but a lot more are not like that. I guess the biggest bug bear is white knighting and putting other guys down trying to big themselves up.
The cockwombles are easy to deal with just block and ignore them and move on. |
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Apart from the setting distance thing, to avoid people from too far away, not sure what other features you could put in to avoid most of the issues.
Don't think people will want to provide id etc.
Lying about age/marital status is another one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Assuming that being online means you're in some alleyway with your knickers knickersround your ankles waiting for a fuck.
Messages like "I come to your house where you're blindfolded, and you've left the door unlocked, fuck you, then leave without saying a word. That might work with someone I trust, maybe but I don't fancy being robbed blind whilst naked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Assuming that being online means you're in some alleyway with your knickers knickersround your ankles waiting for a fuck.
Messages like "I come to your house where you're blindfolded, and you've left the door unlocked, fuck you, then leave without saying a word. That might work with someone I trust, maybe but I don't fancy being robbed blind whilst naked. "
too many chancers think women are all into 50 shades and after a mr grey character it’s a cut and paste that everyone gets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys who suck up to every woman in the forums with the hope of things developing to a meet. Some have me cringing as its always the same men."
good point and great profile xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What bothers you most about men on fab?"
Lying about their marital status and disrespecting clear boundaries. makes me blow my top with those timewasters.
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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago
Near Bath / Bristol |
I was discussing with someone earlier; the fact that I have my face in my profile picture suggests that is gets mixed in with a lot of cock when I message someone with the thousands of other men.
I don't want my face in a sausagefest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was discussing with someone earlier; the fact that I have my face in my profile picture suggests that is gets mixed in with a lot of cock when I message someone with the thousands of other men.
I don't want my face in a sausagefest."
why not as surely you’ll stand out more amongst all the other men that way? |
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"When i hold their nose and pinch their mouth shut they get weird. Thought you could breathe through your ears HornyTruckerDaveHeavyCummerRepeater?! Was that a fib?! "
I hope you laughed as you wrote that Jamie  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"When i hold their nose and pinch their mouth shut they get weird. Thought you could breathe through your ears HornyTruckerDaveHeavyCummerRepeater?! Was that a fib?! "
It was, that is why I changed my name. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"Oh, and if that works out then happy days!
On the other hand, I don't want a plethora of penis packed around my profile. Not the look I'm going for "
I can't help it that I look like a giant penis! |
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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago
Near Bath / Bristol |
"I was discussing with someone earlier; the fact that I have my face in my profile picture suggests that is gets mixed in with a lot of cock when I message someone with the thousands of other men.
I don't want my face in a sausagefest.
why not as surely you’ll stand out more amongst all the other men that way?"
Oh, and if that works out then happy days!
On the other hand, I don't want a plethora of penis packed around my profile. Not the look I'm going for |
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I got over the reading profile years ago so I don't care about that now.
I don't let anyone new message me now but what would go for messages and in chat room would be the minority that get the arse when they're not replied to immediately so give abuse or continue to message.
Guess that's why the block button is there. |
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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago
Near Bath / Bristol |
"I got over the reading profile years ago so I don't care about that now.
I don't let anyone new message me now but what would go for messages and in chat room would be the minority that get the arse when they're not replied to immediately so give abuse or continue to message.
Guess that's why the block button is there. "
Personally, I like to read a good profile. Gives me an insight into the person and I'm interested in a bit more than just pictures... |
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"I got over the reading profile years ago so I don't care about that now.
I don't let anyone new message me now but what would go for messages and in chat room would be the minority that get the arse when they're not replied to immediately so give abuse or continue to message.
Guess that's why the block button is there.
Personally, I like to read a good profile. Gives me an insight into the person and I'm interested in a bit more than just pictures..."
I used to have a decent profile but thought there was no point and it can be left to messages. If someone has a profile and I'm interested, I'll read it but I also like to read veris to see what others have thought of someone. I'm not a massive fan of photos, I'd rather talk to someone to decide if I want to meet them than look at some pics. |
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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago
Near Bath / Bristol |
"I got over the reading profile years ago so I don't care about that now.
I don't let anyone new message me now but what would go for messages and in chat room would be the minority that get the arse when they're not replied to immediately so give abuse or continue to message.
Guess that's why the block button is there.
Personally, I like to read a good profile. Gives me an insight into the person and I'm interested in a bit more than just pictures...
I used to have a decent profile but thought there was no point and it can be left to messages. If someone has a profile and I'm interested, I'll read it but I also like to read veris to see what others have thought of someone. I'm not a massive fan of photos, I'd rather talk to someone to decide if I want to meet them than look at some pics. "
Yes! It's all about the profile. And I'm saying that knowing I need to update mine, but pictures can only go so far. The conversation, the rapport, the commonalities, the build... there's so much more to be said for that.
The photos do have their place, obviously, but I grew out of picture books when I was really young and for many years now have enjoyed the text too. |
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That if you agree to a social only meeting..they still expect something..
When you read a message that doesn't require a response, or they ask you a personal question, they get arsey because you haven't replied..
When they are wanking over your photos and setting your inbox on fire... then they ghost you after they have shot their load 
(I've got loads more I've been here too long)
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By (user no longer on site)
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When thay send a message like 'upfor meeting me n my m8 we won a spit roast ya' from an almost blank profile and with no prior communication.... Like, why yes my good stranger I would love to invite you and all of your invisible friends around to have a go on me... The more the merrier... Like this isn't tesco and the women here are not like loavs of bread sitting in the shelf, just pick the one you want and drag it off home to demolish it, we are actual people |
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"When thay send a message like 'upfor meeting me n my m8 we won a spit roast ya' from an almost blank profile and with no prior communication.... Like, why yes my good stranger I would love to invite you and all of your invisible friends around to have a go on me... The more the merrier... Like this isn't tesco and the women here are not like loavs of bread sitting in the shelf, just pick the one you want and drag it off home to demolish it, we are actual people "
One guy messaged me asking if I wanted to meet him and his mate for a threesome…. In his van.
I said yeah that sounds safe |
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"When thay send a message like 'upfor meeting me n my m8 we won a spit roast ya' from an almost blank profile and with no prior communication.... Like, why yes my good stranger I would love to invite you and all of your invisible friends around to have a go on me... The more the merrier... Like this isn't tesco and the women here are not like loavs of bread sitting in the shelf, just pick the one you want and drag it off home to demolish it, we are actual people
One guy messaged me asking if I wanted to meet him and his mate for a threesome…. In his van.
I said yeah that sounds safe "
It's wierd to me that they think it comes across as a normal request... I wonder does it ever work for them lol |
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"When thay send a message like 'upfor meeting me n my m8 we won a spit roast ya' from an almost blank profile and with no prior communication.... Like, why yes my good stranger I would love to invite you and all of your invisible friends around to have a go on me... The more the merrier... Like this isn't tesco and the women here are not like loavs of bread sitting in the shelf, just pick the one you want and drag it off home to demolish it, we are actual people
One guy messaged me asking if I wanted to meet him and his mate for a threesome…. In his van.
I said yeah that sounds safe
It's wierd to me that they think it comes across as a normal request... I wonder does it ever work for them lol "
That's definitely not a normal request, I've had some weird ones myself |
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