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Hypothetical Bumble-esque experiment
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What if there was a month on fab where men took the backseat for a week and women had to make the first move?
Would women on here complain less and be happier about the state of no bombardment and harassment?
I'd love to see if tables were turned.
Of course, after the first message, I'm sure the dynamic would change back in some cases, but just to think what that little spanner could do. |
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Every month is like this for me 
Message filters 
I spend less time searching and reading profiles than I ever did attempting to keep up with my inbox. Plus I never dread going in there now.
I suspect exhibitionists wouldn't be so keen though. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Men would start complaining about the lack of women messaging and calling them all uppity bitches, saying it's unfair that they have to wait because they'll never get noticed amongst all the other men.
(I'm just playing along with the idea of women complaining all the time ) |
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The women I know on Bumble love being in control... but they also hate having to send those first messages as apparently it's hard to come up with something interesting, unique and targeted towards someone who only had a 20 word profile. Who'd have known? 
It would definitely be an interesting experiment. |
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It wouldn’t change anything much for me, I don’t get many messages, and I’m not really looking all that much for men anymore. I have plenty of male friends already, so I’d only contact very, very occasional men who really stood out. I’d concentrate on women and couples.
Maybe all us bi women would have a nicer time, because we could just talk to each other. |
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And guys? Just so you know - lots of us are more interested in women and couples, so “lol, they’d hate not getting messages and they’d have to message us” wouldn’t necessarily work out like that for you. We’d all be too busy having lovely lady-sex instead.
And the women who do want men still wouldn’t message the ones with rubbish profiles, so if anything the majority of men on here would get even less out of the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if there was a month on fab where men took the backseat for a week and women had to make the first move?
Would women on here complain less and be happier about the state of no bombardment and harassment?
I'd love to see if tables were turned.
Of course, after the first message, I'm sure the dynamic would change back in some cases, but just to think what that little spanner could do."
Feel a lot of very good men are being missed out on these websites
And more than you as a female may feel there are a lot of single men who would honour good women if given opportunity
This is not a chat up line btw but an honest answer representing a male side of modern agenda
Go for it
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"Men would start complaining about the lack of women messaging and calling them all uppity bitches, saying it's unfair that they have to wait because they'll never get noticed amongst all the other men.
(I'm just playing along with the idea of women complaining all the time )"
The number of single men maybe dwindle giving us other blokes a chance finally haha |
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"Men would start complaining about the lack of women messaging and calling them all uppity bitches, saying it's unfair that they have to wait because they'll never get noticed amongst all the other men.
(I'm just playing along with the idea of women complaining all the time )"
I think we should be able to give some men our profiles for a day/week/month and see how much they complain with the crap we get in messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men would start complaining about the lack of women messaging and calling them all uppity bitches, saying it's unfair that they have to wait because they'll never get noticed amongst all the other men.
(I'm just playing along with the idea of women complaining all the time )
I think we should be able to give some men our profiles for a day/week/month and see how much they complain with the crap we get in messages. "
Fab gender swap – I like it |
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"Men would start complaining about the lack of women messaging and calling them all uppity bitches, saying it's unfair that they have to wait because they'll never get noticed amongst all the other men.
(I'm just playing along with the idea of women complaining all the time )
I think we should be able to give some men our profiles for a day/week/month and see how much they complain with the crap we get in messages. "
I'm told they'd be grateful.
I don't think they really get it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also depends on what women want and perahaps of fearing that men are all out to dominate and run away...
Men are human and everyone is case specific
In this modern world men should appreciate feminist ideals and be humble and respectful...
And sometimes a bit of role play is extremely sexy
I like this post and support it...
This is not a chat up line but could be a good opportunity for more love tot appear in this world |
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"Men would start complaining about the lack of women messaging and calling them all uppity bitches, saying it's unfair that they have to wait because they'll never get noticed amongst all the other men.
(I'm just playing along with the idea of women complaining all the time )
I think we should be able to give some men our profiles for a day/week/month and see how much they complain with the crap we get in messages. "
I’ve helped a few friends with their inboxes in the past. I’ve seen it first hand lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can we have face pics as profile pics, as that makes fabbing a whole lot easier "
Face pic as well? I think I’d just log off that month and go trekking where there is no chance of any internet at all. Then come back when the experiment is over to check my empty mail box. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
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"And guys? Just so you know - lots of us are more interested in women and couples, so “lol, they’d hate not getting messages and they’d have to message us” wouldn’t necessarily work out like that for you. We’d all be too busy having lovely lady-sex instead.
And the women who do want men still wouldn’t message the ones with rubbish profiles, so if anything the majority of men on here would get even less out of the site."
100% this |
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"Where does Bumble come into this? The only Bumbles I know are bees and Mr Bumble from Oliver Twist.
Don't forget the transformer! You must know him? "
No, I'm afraid I'm almost completely ignorant when it comes to Transformers. |
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"Where does Bumble come into this? The only Bumbles I know are bees and Mr Bumble from Oliver Twist.
Don't forget the transformer! You must know him?
No, I'm afraid I'm almost completely ignorant when it comes to Transformers. "
Well, he's the best one and all the modern films are trash.
That's all you need to know. |
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"I think it would only work if there weren't so many men on here because you have no hope even appearing in searches unless you've just logged in.
Who says we log out? 
LvM"
But the longer you've been online the further you slip down the search results until you fall off the bottom of page 10  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it would only work if there weren't so many men on here because you have no hope even appearing in searches unless you've just logged in.
Who says we log out?
LvM
But the longer you've been online the further you slip down the search results until you fall off the bottom of page 10 "
I didn't know that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women! Make first contact?! Give your head a wobble eh lol It will never happen. Nice idea tho "
I've made first contact with guys this week. It happens. |
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"I think it would only work if there weren't so many men on here because you have no hope even appearing in searches unless you've just logged in.
Who says we log out?
LvM
But the longer you've been online the further you slip down the search results until you fall off the bottom of page 10
I didn't know that "
Me either, fuck Best write a rapid login cycle script else I'll never get laid 
LvM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it would only work if there weren't so many men on here because you have no hope even appearing in searches unless you've just logged in.
Who says we log out?
LvM
But the longer you've been online the further you slip down the search results until you fall off the bottom of page 10
I didn't know that
Me either, fuck Best write a rapid login cycle script else I'll never get laid
LvM"
Cheating!!  |
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"I think it would only work if there weren't so many men on here because you have no hope even appearing in searches unless you've just logged in.
Who says we log out?
LvM
But the longer you've been online the further you slip down the search results until you fall off the bottom of page 10
I didn't know that
Me either, fuck Best write a rapid login cycle script else I'll never get laid
LvM"
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