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By *el_123 OP Woman
over a year ago
portsmouth |
A couple of times now people have spotted me on Facebook, via mutual non fab groups etc and sent Messenger messages and directly referring to Fab (I.e did I see you on fab swingers?)
Am I within my rights to be really annoyed about this? Or is it fair game once you’ve shared your pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was it a face pick that got you spotted
If not then it should be Fb them selfs you should be mad at and the other person
Fb for snooping you browser history and then useing they agrochemical to pair people who have got friends in common and vitse the same websites
Also the other person for contacting you off platform without your consent definitely a big no no
Best way to avoid this is use two phones one that you never use Fb on
Or just unstall Fb apps and use Fb though your phones web browsers
To get around the mobile block out down load a user agent browsers and spoof your browser to look like a window 10 pc |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I'd find it very creepy if I'm honest. It's why I don't have any face pics up here and when I do share they can't be found anywhere else.
My fab and private life are kept separate and that is how I like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to disconnect bloody fb.. I don't have my phone no. loaded and my WhatsApp is for work, friends + family only
I'd be really annoyed to get a surprise fab message  |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
I had someone I've said no to on here somehow find me on Facebook and Instagram, some bloody sleuthing was done there as I don't have my name on here and none of my face pics at the time were public.
Needless to say I wasn't best please, if I said no on here don't go seeking me out elsewhere and think it will change the situation, if anything it comes across as quote creepy |
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By *el_123 OP Woman
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"But why be embarrassed or ashamed to on here? "
It’s not about being embarrassed, for me it’s about respect for someone’s life outside of fab. I like to keep my personal life and fab life separate. |
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exactly this, a lot of the times people on here are like if you have no face pics/profile pic dont bother messaging me without realising that fab life and real life are two separate things, i am more than happy to send a face pic in private so i know exactly who has them rather than displaying it publicly where it can be found by anyone, it is super creepy tho someone going through the effort of finding your socials through fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But why be embarrassed or ashamed to on here?
It’s not about being embarrassed, for me it’s about respect for someone’s life outside of fab. I like to keep my personal life and fab life separate. "
Fair play |
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If you feel annoyed by it of course it's your right. If someone contacted me on Facebook I'd be pretty miffed. If you want to contact a person do it on fab, if you can't because you're blocked or filters won't let you what on God's green earth makes you think they'd welcome contact elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But why be embarrassed or ashamed to on here?
It’s not about being embarrassed, for me it’s about respect for someone’s life outside of fab. I like to keep my personal life and fab life separate. "
Im not on face book but it would not impress me to be contacted on there by some one from fab.
#emotionalmintelligence
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's really bad form. I'd block and unfriend anyone who did that, here and there. People can be really twatty about bringing fab into the regular world - I think what goes on here should stay here  |
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