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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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if you are in a couple and meet another couple and know your other half really wants to fuck one of them but youre not keen on the one youre with, will you go ahead and take one for the team because you love your other half and know how much they want to fuck, or is it always a case that you both need to fancy them before you go ahead?
Thats a long way of saying will you take one for the team to make your partner happy? |
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I have done.
I was foolish and should have spotted the red flag waving in front of my face but I didn't. I guess I was trying to prove to myself and to him that I could be everything he wanted and needed.
I couldn't have been further from the truth, no matter how it looked on the surface. |
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"I have done.
I was foolish and should have spotted the red flag waving in front of my face but I didn't. I guess I was trying to prove to myself and to him that I could be everything he wanted and needed.
I couldn't have been further from the truth, no matter how it looked on the surface."
To add, I didn't want to disappoint him. You see, most of my life I've been exactly that, a disappointment, a failure. In trying to prove I wasn't, I failed and disappointed myself. |
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over a year ago
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Nope. Never and I've never expected my partner at the time to take one for the team either. In fact, I make a point of vocalising the fact from the outset. It's just not fair. |
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Not a chance - we’ve both had times where we’ve fancied one and not the other.
Knowing they were taking one for the team would put me completely off. We feed off each other’s excitement so it would not work for us.
Plus I don’t want some ugly guy having sex with C anyway 
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When I was single I basically took a few for the team, all by myself... big mistake, although helped clarify how negative bad experiences are.
As a couple, obviously not. That said, it's understandable that some situations will be more enticing than others. No is always no though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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its one I might do possibly say they had a chance to fuck that celeb theyve always fancied and idolised as a one off but I had to go with someone I wasnt fussed about then I might to let her have her fantasy fuck as a one off. If it kept on happening then maybe not haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Play doesn't go ahead unless we are both equally happy.
In all fairness I have probably slightly disappointed my other half on many an occasion when he likes the look of the woman but I am not attracted to the man. But he just moves on and accepts that its a joint decision.
when I play solo my boyfriend has a say in whether he is happy for the meet to happen. If its a person who displays characteristics that he doesn't agree with then I will not go ahead with the meet even though I may be really interested in it.
It's about respecting each other, valuing each others opinions, open and clear communication and trust with one another. My relationship comes first before playing.
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