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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t say I’m full of energy but I really don’t think the weather helps. It’s literally been grey, rainy and cold for the last month  .... bring on the sun  |
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I'm shattered.
Being back at work and hitting full steam pre-covid energy levels is taking its toll on me physically. My shoulders ache, my wrists ache, my lower back aches and all I can feel from the hips down is ouch.
Our cleaner was off this morning so last night after we closed we needed to full clean. So 8 hour shift with no break, plus cleaning and we finished cleaning with 3 mins until my hourly bus was due.... so missed that and ended up walking the 3 miles home. I would have got a taxi but only made enough in tips for todays bus.
I'm on the close tonight followed by the open in the morning.
Have a ton of housework to do and bigger all time or energy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m feeling good x the weekends nearly here, but I’m happy to chat with anyone feeling a bit down. There send you be a few people posting today about being flat.
If you can get out and have a walk I’d do that first it’s my first go to to clear my head xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you firing on all cylinders? Full of energy?
Or like me, a bit flat, and feeling a bit bleurgh?"
Didnt the 'cock up your bum' thread revitalise you?  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Today definitely not I just feel tired which is annoying as I'm on a week off work .But will go for a walk with the dogs soon and I'm sure that's will kick start my energy levels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I do when I’m feeling a little flat:
either
a) jump in my car, crank up some music that’s uplifting and go for a drive along some quiet roads.
Or
b) crank up some music that always peps me up. Sometimes, it’s classical and I picture a scene to it or the orchestra performing it. Usually, it’ll be tunes that put a spring in my step,
I’ll sing aloud, loudly, to them and dance. Sometimes, I’m dancing with or singing to someone in my mind and seeing them smile or laugh at me doing it.
It takes my mind away from my current flat space and can help my body build up enough momentum to escape it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mentally,I'm always firing on all cylinders.
Physically,I feel fked,finished.
What I would give for a full 8 hours sleep,6 hours even,an uninterrupted 4. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I feel good today, ready for teaching more dance classes this evening which always lifts my mood
My tips to anyone feeling flat is to get out into the fresh air, stick your earphones in and blast your favourite music and take a stroll somewhere, make a list of small achievable goals, start something new even if it’s a tv show it will take your mind elsewhere or have a call with a friend - everything is temporary don’t let one bad day set you back xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I slept well and full of energy and about to get full on all you can eat sushi. Yum"
What do you mean? The restaurant serves all you can eat sushi?? Where is this please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was pretty flat yesterday but today I'm trying the 'today is a new day' attitude. Hopefully it'll work. But I'm not as flat as I was yesterday so that's a start. |
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"I'm shattered.
Being back at work and hitting full steam pre-covid energy levels is taking its toll on me physically. My shoulders ache, my wrists ache, my lower back aches and all I can feel from the hips down is ouch. "
I can tell we have similar jobs ...
This said going back to work last week as definitely cheered me up, I had been so grumpy and down in the dump of late ....
Work being busy, hectic and somewhat disorganised has given me a purpose I guess.
Bar the physical aches and pains, I'm in a better place . |
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"Are you firing on all cylinders? Full of energy?
Or like me, a bit flat, and feeling a bit bleurgh?"
somewhere between the two,
full of trip away endorphines
full of post trip exhaustion
I'll be good to go shortly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was pretty flat yesterday but today I'm trying the 'today is a new day' attitude. Hopefully it'll work. But I'm not as flat as I was yesterday so that's a start."
Take some pictures and post them to me for inspection please!! 
2 monochrome and 2 colour ones please, with special emphasis on shadows and lighting.
Thank you. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
Got yet another rejection on a job application but I am in good spirits.  I had a really bad health scare earlier this month so I am putting everything into perspective...
Even the weather is (kind of) playing ball today!
Hope everyone not feeling it todays feels better soon xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Life is shit right now. I’m mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted but you know life has these times, it will pass, things will change and I’ll feel the energy once again.
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I’m sorry to hear that. Are you able to remove yourself from it for even a little while? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
I’m doing good, all things considered.
Should be starting my new job next week, so a little mix of excitement and anxiety.
Just waiting for events to start back up again so I can get my beat down on and start to feel my body moving! |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
"Life is shit right now. I’m mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted but you know life has these times, it will pass, things will change and I’ll feel the energy once again.
I’m sorry to hear that. Are you able to remove yourself from it for even a little while?"
Unfortunately not, it’s just riding the storm. But you know, I always have faith that life is forever changing. It will improve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Life is shit right now. I’m mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted but you know life has these times, it will pass, things will change and I’ll feel the energy once again.
I’m sorry to hear that. Are you able to remove yourself from it for even a little while?
Unfortunately not, it’s just riding the storm. But you know, I always have faith that life is forever changing. It will improve "
It’s a positive start to think that way. It will pass. Do you have or need help at the moment? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's funny, yesterday, a few people I know were feeling particularly, well, bleur, myself included. I put it down to the weather, light level and maybe even air pressure. Thank fcuk it's passed today. I can hear bird song right now... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's just say I'm glad it's raining as no-one can see you cry in the rain xx"
.. That was Charlie Chaplin said that. But the sun is coming out soon for you sparkle   |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
"Life is shit right now. I’m mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted but you know life has these times, it will pass, things will change and I’ll feel the energy once again.
I’m sorry to hear that. Are you able to remove yourself from it for even a little while?
Unfortunately not, it’s just riding the storm. But you know, I always have faith that life is forever changing. It will improve
It’s a positive start to think that way. It will pass. Do you have or need help at the moment?"
Nah I got this. You have to. Thank you for asking, for thinking and caring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After my initial flush and euphoria of being back on fab, the gloss has come off and it isn't quite how I remember it.
It could also be down to things going on in real life, so my usual interactions on the forums have tailed off somewhat.
Taking a break from here won't do any harm I guess, but like the guy delivering pizza at a house party, I can peer through the window and see everyone else having fun, but can't participate.
Fingers crossed things will look rosier in a few days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is form defined by? Your best or your usual?
In that way I'm on my usual form - up, down, around and around.
Bet that move's a hit with the ladies. "
It's when you've penetrated and they grab hold of your head and spin you - drives them wild |
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I'm feeling....flat! I may have reached my limit but I'm going to go to the gym and do a body tone class followed by spin which should hopefully perk me up a little. I have a couple of weeks off in June to recharge |
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"Who really cares?"
Maybe that's just it, someone may feel like no one cares.
Which is why I think this post is great. At the very least someone knows that they are not the only one feeling crappy.
The kind words of even strangers can be a comfort.
Just off loading can be a positive.
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"It's funny, yesterday, a few people I know were feeling particularly, well, bleur, myself included. I put it down to the weather, light level and maybe even air pressure. Thank fcuk it's passed today. I can hear bird song right now... "
Yesterday I fell asleep crying as I just felt bleurgh but today the sun is out and I'm off to the gym, I still feel flat but not emotional |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Yup, my thread earlier said it all. Even that has made me feel flat and negative!
I’m trying my damndest to keep my spirits up and fight the meh but right now I’m feeling flat, frustrated and low |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am fully caffeinated this morning, firing on all cylinders at and on it ... not sure what I am supposed to be doing but whatever it is I am on it!"
You know perfectly well what (who) you should be on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's funny, yesterday, a few people I know were feeling particularly, well, bleur, myself included. I put it down to the weather, light level and maybe even air pressure. Thank fcuk it's passed today. I can hear bird song right now...
Yesterday I fell asleep crying as I just felt bleurgh but today the sun is out and I'm off to the gym, I still feel flat but not emotional"
That's totally the right attitude. I hope it passes and you feel better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who really cares?
Maybe that's just it, someone may feel like no one cares.
Which is why I think this post is great. At the very least someone knows that they are not the only one feeling crappy.
The kind words of even strangers can be a comfort.
Just off loading can be a positive.
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100% 
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feeling low, hormones, touch of depression kicking in, rough time at work.
Feeling the need to either cry, rip someone's head off or fuck them to oblivion |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"Been a bit bleurgh. Coming back from it.
Turns out hiding indoors for over a year left me without any vitamin D. "
Boots the Chemist ate doing a really good deal on vitamin D; a 3 for 2 deal-270 tablets for the price of 180. £4.60. If there aren't three bottles on display, enabling you to avail of their offer, ask the asst to check the stores!
A full years supply for less than £10. |
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By *elethWoman
over a year ago
Gloucestershire |
"I wouldn’t say I’m full of energy but I really don’t think the weather helps. It’s literally been grey, rainy and cold for the last month .... bring on the sun "
Absolutely, I managed to yoga outside in a window of sunshine this morning and it's made a world of difference! Closing my eyes and feeling the sun in my face was just delicious. More please! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Gosh. So many people feeling a bit bleurgh. I’m so sorry to hear that.
It’s been a really hard year (more than). It’s uncertain, unsettling and just really rubbish.
Just know that we do care, there are people on here who will listen/support/be there if needed.
Reach out |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Are you firing on all cylinders? Full of energy?
Or like me, a bit flat, and feeling a bit bleurgh?"
Somewhere in between. It's been a busy week so far and today is no exception.
That bank holiday weekend can't come soon enough |
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"Gosh. So many people feeling a bit bleurgh. I’m so sorry to hear that.
It’s been a really hard year (more than). It’s uncertain, unsettling and just really rubbish.
Just know that we do care, there are people on here who will listen/support/be there if needed.
Reach out "
Sometimes the reaching out is the hard part xx |
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"Gosh. So many people feeling a bit bleurgh. I’m so sorry to hear that.
It’s been a really hard year (more than). It’s uncertain, unsettling and just really rubbish.
Just know that we do care, there are people on here who will listen/support/be there if needed.
Reach out
Sometimes the reaching out is the hard part xx"
Some 1 will answer x |
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"Gosh. So many people feeling a bit bleurgh. I’m so sorry to hear that.
It’s been a really hard year (more than). It’s uncertain, unsettling and just really rubbish.
Just know that we do care, there are people on here who will listen/support/be there if needed.
Reach out
Sometimes the reaching out is the hard part xx
Some 1 will answer x "
Doubtful x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Life is shit right now. I’m mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted but you know life has these times, it will pass, things will change and I’ll feel the energy once again.
I’m sorry to hear that. Are you able to remove yourself from it for even a little while?
Unfortunately not, it’s just riding the storm. But you know, I always have faith that life is forever changing. It will improve
It’s a positive start to think that way. It will pass. Do you have or need help at the moment?
Nah I got this. You have to. Thank you for asking, for thinking and caring "
I don’t know how to do the hugging icon! |
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"Gosh. So many people feeling a bit bleurgh. I’m so sorry to hear that.
It’s been a really hard year (more than). It’s uncertain, unsettling and just really rubbish.
Just know that we do care, there are people on here who will listen/support/be there if needed.
Reach out
Sometimes the reaching out is the hard part xx
Some 1 will answer x
Doubtful x"
Try me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gosh. So many people feeling a bit bleurgh. I’m so sorry to hear that.
It’s been a really hard year (more than). It’s uncertain, unsettling and just really rubbish.
Just know that we do care, there are people on here who will listen/support/be there if needed.
Reach out
Sometimes the reaching out is the hard part xx"
I hear you, and it can be, but I think we’re quite a supportive bunch on here. It helps to know you’re not the only one too.
Sending hugs and support |
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"Are you firing on all cylinders? Full of energy?
Or like me, a bit flat, and feeling a bit bleurgh?"
Things are in a state of transition for me at the moment. I am positive and doing well.
I have been making an effort to connect to friends on a regular basis and keep busy.
Exercise and socialising with peers is so very important. |
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Nope kinda forgotten what that is this past year. Stupid arse body but I'm in a better place than I was this time last year, so I mustn't grumble.
And OP know you'll get to firing all cylinders soon, because you are kick arse |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope kinda forgotten what that is this past year. Stupid arse body but I'm in a better place than I was this time last year, so I mustn't grumble.
And OP know you'll get to firing all cylinders soon, because you are kick arse "
Thank you, gorgeous . You are kick arse too, an absolute warrior! |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Who really cares?
Maybe that's just it, someone may feel like no one cares.
Which is why I think this post is great. At the very least someone knows that they are not the only one feeling crappy.
The kind words of even strangers can be a comfort.
Just off loading can be a positive.
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I was in a bad mood when I posted. Sorry. x
My dummy is back in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who really cares?
Maybe that's just it, someone may feel like no one cares.
Which is why I think this post is great. At the very least someone knows that they are not the only one feeling crappy.
The kind words of even strangers can be a comfort.
Just off loading can be a positive.
I was in a bad mood when I posted. Sorry. x
My dummy is back in. "
Are you ok? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who really cares?
Maybe that's just it, someone may feel like no one cares.
Which is why I think this post is great. At the very least someone knows that they are not the only one feeling crappy.
The kind words of even strangers can be a comfort.
Just off loading can be a positive.
I was in a bad mood when I posted. Sorry. x
My dummy is back in. "
Hey - we all have days like that |
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"Nope kinda forgotten what that is this past year. Stupid arse body but I'm in a better place than I was this time last year, so I mustn't grumble.
And OP know you'll get to firing all cylinders soon, because you are kick arse
Thank you, gorgeous . You are kick arse too, an absolute warrior! "
Cwtches Fallen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope kinda forgotten what that is this past year. Stupid arse body but I'm in a better place than I was this time last year, so I mustn't grumble.
And OP know you'll get to firing all cylinders soon, because you are kick arse
Thank you, gorgeous . You are kick arse too, an absolute warrior!
Cwtches Fallen "
Loves cwtches |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope.
I’m getting there though. Every day I feel a bit better. Less in pain. A little less swollen. "
You’re amazing! You’ve been through is much recently, and you’re smashing it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you firing on all cylinders? Full of energy?
Or like me, a bit flat, and feeling a bit bleurgh?"
Totally bleurgh 
Maybe I just need some flirts to recharge the battery  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feeling low, hormones, touch of depression kicking in, rough time at work.
Feeling the need to either cry, rip someone's head off or fuck them to oblivion"
ah you took the words out of my mouth. thats me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im feeling pretty good. My boss is away so I dont have to listen to him telling me how great he is or how far he can ride his bike
Ive basically got two days of work left this week.
Then it's half term which Ive taken off work so 9 days off with the skids |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Who really cares?
Maybe that's just it, someone may feel like no one cares.
Which is why I think this post is great. At the very least someone knows that they are not the only one feeling crappy.
The kind words of even strangers can be a comfort.
Just off loading can be a positive.
I was in a bad mood when I posted. Sorry. x
My dummy is back in.
Are you ok? "
I am now thanks. Your Bilbo update made me chuckle so thanks for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you firing on all cylinders? Full of energy?
Or like me, a bit flat, and feeling a bit bleurgh?"
I wouldn’t say I’m full of energy but I’m also not flat I’m very middle ground, I’m someone who’s tries to be positive about everything, so when I finish work I get home I relax and chill out and don’t overthink about my day |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I've had a dark 4 months messing around with hormonal contraception. I came out of that foggy cloud at the beginning of this month and feel back to my normal awesome self. It's good to feel myself again.
I hope your bleurghness passes soon x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who really cares?
Maybe that's just it, someone may feel like no one cares.
Which is why I think this post is great. At the very least someone knows that they are not the only one feeling crappy.
The kind words of even strangers can be a comfort.
Just off loading can be a positive.
I was in a bad mood when I posted. Sorry. x
My dummy is back in.
Are you ok?
I am now thanks. Your Bilbo update made me chuckle so thanks for that "
Have you checked the latest one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you firing on all cylinders? Full of energy?
Or like me, a bit flat, and feeling a bit bleurgh?
I wouldn’t say I’m full of energy but I’m also not flat I’m very middle ground, I’m someone who’s tries to be positive about everything, so when I finish work I get home I relax and chill out and don’t overthink about my day "
That’s great |
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"No not all, my mind feels very dislocated from my body, ive not felt myself for a very long time "
Are you getting some support, Gatsby?
I've felt very meh this week but mainly due to a stressful weekend, constantly worrying about my son and my dad and work being really busy.
The least meh thing was I did an ace presentation today to a bunch of uni researchers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No not all, my mind feels very dislocated from my body, ive not felt myself for a very long time
Are you getting some support, Gatsby?
I've felt very meh this week but mainly due to a stressful weekend, constantly worrying about my son and my dad and work being really busy.
The least meh thing was I did an ace presentation today to a bunch of uni researchers "
Today sounds fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not all, my mind feels very dislocated from my body, ive not felt myself for a very long time
I’m sorry to hear that  . Do you have support "
I do but i dont wabt to bother people now. Ive just had enough |
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"No not all, my mind feels very dislocated from my body, ive not felt myself for a very long time
I’m sorry to hear that . Do you have support
I do but i dont wabt to bother people now. Ive just had enough"
I know this feeling well buddy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No not all, my mind feels very dislocated from my body, ive not felt myself for a very long time
I’m sorry to hear that . Do you have support
I do but i dont wabt to bother people now. Ive just had enough
I know this feeling well buddy"
People do want to help, and they want to be there for you .
Most people would rather be there for you then not |
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"No not all, my mind feels very dislocated from my body, ive not felt myself for a very long time
I’m sorry to hear that . Do you have support
I do but i dont wabt to bother people now. Ive just had enough"
It would never be a bother to friends, and there are always people to talk to here. Sometimes I find it easier talking to a stranger as I don’t worry what they will think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not all, my mind feels very dislocated from my body, ive not felt myself for a very long time
I’m sorry to hear that . Do you have support
I do but i dont wabt to bother people now. Ive just had enough
It would never be a bother to friends, and there are always people to talk to here. Sometimes I find it easier talking to a stranger as I don’t worry what they will think "
This is very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm up and down in different days, some days are boss then others are boring and slow. Can't be arsed watching the news anymore as it's all politicians/news reporters having a go at each other over this and that and all trying to get one up over each other. Need some positivity and fun around the place! Head feels full of fog and want it gone. But on the other hand I'm healthy and still working. So shouldn't really moan |
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over a year ago
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"No not all, my mind feels very dislocated from my body, ive not felt myself for a very long time
I’m sorry to hear that . Do you have support
I do but i dont wabt to bother people now. Ive just had enough"
... Its an awful feeling but if nothing else is working for you then do reach out to someone.. They will understand and listen... Its not easy but even a 5min conversation about it with someone will make a world of difference... Whatever you do don't let it fester. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm up and down in different days, some days are boss then others are boring and slow. Can't be arsed watching the news anymore as it's all politicians/news reporters having a go at each other over this and that and all trying to get one up over each other. Need some positivity and fun around the place! Head feels full of fog and want it gone. But on the other hand I'm healthy and still working. So shouldn't really moan "
You are allowed to have stuff going on that you’re not happy with, even if you have good things too.
I hear you on the news, watch Fab instead |
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Sailed through the last year without any major issues despite losing my job.
Stayed fairly upbeat and positive.
The last few weeks though have been different and I've been very flat and struggling to motivate myself. |
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"Sailed through the last year without any major issues despite losing my job.
Stayed fairly upbeat and positive.
The last few weeks though have been different and I've been very flat and struggling to motivate myself. "
I think for a lot of people, these last few weeks have been tricky, we are emerging from the depths of a pandemic, but maybe not, but hopefully.
We don’t know what’s going on, there’s no certainty, and it’s hard.
In addition, we’re grieving for the life we’ve lost, the things we knew.
Be gentle with yourself. |
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"Nope.
I’m getting there though. Every day I feel a bit better. Less in pain. A little less swollen.
You’re amazing! You’ve been through is much recently, and you’re smashing it!"
Aw. Thank you xx
I’ve had another big op since my last update |
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"Nope.
I’m getting there though. Every day I feel a bit better. Less in pain. A little less swollen.
You’re amazing! You’ve been through is much recently, and you’re smashing it!
Aw. Thank you xx
I’ve had another big op since my last update "
Ooh, are you going to post another update? I love reading your story. |
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"Nope.
I’m getting there though. Every day I feel a bit better. Less in pain. A little less swollen.
You’re amazing! You’ve been through is much recently, and you’re smashing it!
Aw. Thank you xx
I’ve had another big op since my last update
Ooh, are you going to post another update? I love reading your story. "
Probably. Kinda waiting for the swelling to recede. I feel like a whale still: thighs and tummy. I know everyone looks to see the results and I’d like to look better! It’s early days yet. |
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"Very flat, everything seems to be happening right now. Hoping that an 8th day of the week turns up so that I can actually get stuff done. "
Sorry to hear that, I hear you, it’s weird having so much to do again! |
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