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Clothes don't make a man/woman?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Satisfy my curiosity born on the basis of few threads I read today...
Ladies if you fancy a man, he’s on your hotlist etc. and you would like to meet, one day he posts a photo of himself wearing knickers and a dress would that be something to put you off? Similarly, men how would you feel if a woman you fancied post a photo wearing clothes that are traditionally worn by men, would that put you off? Or would you embrace that need/want of theirs?
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I think I would be put off by a man in a woman's underwear and clothes its not for me.
I can be friends with a tv/ts but a man claiming straight and dresses up not for me as well as what the previous comment said about cum coming out the bum hole xx |
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By *P994Man
over a year ago
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It wouldn’t really make a difference for me the clothes a lady was wearing. I wouldn’t assume they were super masculine if they wore males clothing. If they said they wore males clothing and then wanted to peg me at that point I’d have to dip out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I would be put off by a man in a woman's underwear and clothes its not for me.
I can be friends with a tv/ts but a man claiming straight and dresses up not for me as well as what the previous comment said about cum coming out the bum hole xx"
Maybe it would be their "reveal moment". Not necessary a lie. Just when they are ready? |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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What is the definition of mens clothes? Given that men steriotypically have a very limited types of clothes to wear and women have their own clothing styles which include pretty much all the clothing styles type available to guys.
Just posing a question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is the definition of mens clothes? Given that men steriotypically have a very limited types of clothes to wear and women have their own clothing styles which include pretty much all the clothing styles type available to guys.
Just posing a question"
I'm going to use suit and tie example or even workers clothes. Something stereotypically assigned to one gender. I don't think it should be for the record. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I would be put off by a man in a woman's underwear and clothes its not for me.
I can be friends with a tv/ts but a man claiming straight and dresses up not for me as well as what the previous comment said about cum coming out the bum hole xx"
Could they be wearing clothes and not feel gay or bi? Just because they enjoy the feel? Not changing their orientation as result. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It wouldn’t really make a difference for me the clothes a lady was wearing. I wouldn’t assume they were super masculine if they wore males clothing. If they said they wore males clothing and then wanted to peg me at that point I’d have to dip out "
It's good to be honest about your own boundaries too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we talking Harry Styles wearing more feminine clothes kind of thing? Because I think he really rocks it.
Women in androgenous clothing are  "
One step further I would say but inclusive of that too I guess
Yes. Some women can pull of such a sexy short hair style too. Not me sadly heh. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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My other half is often wearing steelies, Hi Viz Cargo Trousers and a Hard hat cos she has to and yes she looks hot, wears them well - traditional male work clothes, ladies wear suits and sometime ties. OH wears my shirts well - usually has a reason.
The point was - is there such a thing as male clothes anymore - how many women have worn their partners boxers/trunks before now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My other half is often wearing steelies, Hi Viz Cargo Trousers and a Hard hat cos she has to and yes she looks hot, wears them well - traditional male work clothes, ladies wear suits and sometime ties. OH wears my shirts well - usually has a reason.
The point was - is there such a thing as male clothes anymore - how many women have worn their partners boxers/trunks before now "
Give me a man's shirt or t-shirt first thing in the morning to run to the bathroom and I'm a happy gal. I might hold onto it for a day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would love the idea of a woman dressing in men's clothes, it would complete the pair with me in a dress and lingerie."
There is your vision for tonight bedtime |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Couldn't give a toss, the clothing someone puts on has no bearing on what they're like as a person, I find a person likeable or attractive, not the material they're currently adorned In"
Not the material they are adorned in.. thats so nicely put. Thanks. |
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"I think I would be put off by a man in a woman's underwear and clothes its not for me.
I can be friends with a tv/ts but a man claiming straight and dresses up not for me as well as what the previous comment said about cum coming out the bum hole xx"
FYI, the vast majority of crossdressers are straight, fab may skew how it looks but in the real world its something like 80% are straight |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"I think I would be put off by a man in a woman's underwear and clothes its not for me.
I can be friends with a tv/ts but a man claiming straight and dresses up not for me as well as what the previous comment said about cum coming out the bum hole xx
FYI, the vast majority of crossdressers are straight, fab may skew how it looks but in the real world its something like 80% are straight "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Satisfy my curiosity born on the basis of few threads I read today...
Ladies if you fancy a man, he’s on your hotlist etc. and you would like to meet, one day he posts a photo of himself wearing knickers and a dress would that be something to put you off? Similarly, men how would you feel if a woman you fancied post a photo wearing clothes that are traditionally worn by men, would that put you off? Or would you embrace that need/want of theirs?
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I’ve seen some hot guys kinda daring in styling something considered feminine and they were so handsome and masculine they rocked it. Think rock bands/punk
But that’s the only rare case, otherwise I don’t particularly like my guys to wear women’s things as I see them to be feminine and I guess I like my guys to be dirty and out of the gym
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Men wearing "mens" clothes that I don't like can put me off them...like "I actually fancied you until I realised that you're wearing THOSE shoes with THOSE trousers". So unless he was really rocking the dress then it would put me off.
That sounds so shallow, but for me it's how someone presents themselves as a whole, and how they dress, grooming, etiquette etc is all part of that. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I have a thing for men who wear ladies underwear anyway. As for the dress I would prefer it if it was tight and showed the outline of their bulge rather than a long floaty number, but that’s just me being picky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that clothes make a person. Those that dress in a style to my liking become more attractive to me and vice-versa. I've worn ladies clothes to please a partner, it all depends on what turns you on. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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It would depend how good he looked in them, there certain clothes that do put me off someone, but they aren't gender-specific
For example, sliders unless we are around a pool, and sliders with socks is a no go anywhere for me.
I have no idea why I dislike that looks so much, but I really do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Back in the year AD.... Or looking at the old roman movies... Men and women dressed the same... A robe tied at the middle with a rope...
Crossdressing and gender fluidity was not like it is now |
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It doesn't put me off nor does it arouse me so I wouldn't sexualise it, same as jogging bottoms, ripped t shirts and any other clothes that make him look like a sack of spuds, yes I am shallow and fussy in what type of clothes arouse me |
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"I think I would be put off by a man in a woman's underwear and clothes its not for me.
I can be friends with a tv/ts but a man claiming straight and dresses up not for me as well as what the previous comment said about cum coming out the bum hole xx
Maybe it would be their "reveal moment". Not necessary a lie. Just when they are ready? "
I haven't come across it personally myself xx |
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"I think I would be put off by a man in a woman's underwear and clothes its not for me.
I can be friends with a tv/ts but a man claiming straight and dresses up not for me as well as what the previous comment said about cum coming out the bum hole xx
FYI, the vast majority of crossdressers are straight, fab may skew how it looks but in the real world its something like 80% are straight "
 oh thats interesting information thanks lilly xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A man being a cross dresser does not denote he is bi sexual or homosexual.
I have come across 2 men in the past who liked to cross dress and were switches - they liked to be dominant sexually part of the time and then be submissive when I dressed them in a wig and women’s clothes and underwear.
It’s not particularly a turn on for me - it’s the person inside the clothes that matters. Accommodating sexual kinks is always a decision to be made between you.
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"I think I would be put off by a man in a woman's underwear and clothes its not for me.
I can be friends with a tv/ts but a man claiming straight and dresses up not for me as well as what the previous comment said about cum coming out the bum hole xx
Could they be wearing clothes and not feel gay or bi? Just because they enjoy the feel? Not changing their orientation as result. "
I've not experienced it personally as in coming across a guy like that so I wouldn't know hun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn’t put me off seeing her in whatever clothes. It’s her sensuality beneath that’s arousing.
Rather erotic, especially watching her peel off those layers to reveal what was hidden. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Back in the year AD.... Or looking at the old roman movies... Men and women dressed the same... A robe tied at the middle with a rope...
Crossdressing and gender fluidity was not like it is now"
Wouldn't that be brilliant actually. But I would miss my prints. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me one bit, but Mrs. CC does despair at my fashion 'sense'.
Personally I don't see a problem with orange courdoroy but whatever."
Trousers or jacket ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think that clothes make a person. Those that dress in a style to my liking become more attractive to me and vice-versa. I've worn ladies clothes to please a partner, it all depends on what turns you on."
Question. Was it pleasing for yourself too? |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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I have an androgynous style, I adore people with individuality and the confidence to rock whatever they chose - clothes should be an expression of your personality or mood be it fun/sexy/quirky or what not at the end of the day it’s the person underneath that counts not the clothes the adorn xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that clothes make a person. Those that dress in a style to my liking become more attractive to me and vice-versa. I've worn ladies clothes to please a partner, it all depends on what turns you on.
Question. Was it pleasing for yourself too? "
The greatest pleasure was in being able to please someone else. I also enjoyed the feel of the fabric and the fact I was breaking a kind of taboo, as in the fact that I was denying convention and doing what I wanted in defiance of social norms. |
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"I have an androgynous style, I adore people with individuality and the confidence to rock whatever they chose - clothes should be an expression of your personality or mood be it fun/sexy/quirky or what not at the end of the day it’s the person underneath that counts not the clothes the adorn xx"
I love what Harry Styles is doing currently, using clothes to make a point. That they’re are actually unisex if you decide them to be, own your individuality if you like it wear it.
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"Are we talking Harry Styles wearing more feminine clothes kind of thing? Because I think he really rocks it.
Women in androgenous clothing are
One step further I would say but inclusive of that too I guess
Yes. Some women can pull of such a sexy short hair style too. Not me sadly heh. "
I thought about this, and to me it's whether or not the person looks confident in the clothing. To me it's the person who should be wearing the clothes not the other way around. Sometimes when people wear clothing made for the other gender it sometimes doesn't fit well and to me that sometimes really sticks out. But this is the same of any ill fitting clothes.
Oh and any women who have short hair and can wear a man's blazer with nothing underneath I envy you. |
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Clothes can make a man/woman, similar to language, attitude, etc.
In the "material world" signify market value somewhat. clothing and style will not create value but will magnify it. Value is whatever you dim to be, can be sexuality, power, youth, maturity, etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are we talking Harry Styles wearing more feminine clothes kind of thing? Because I think he really rocks it.
Women in androgenous clothing are
One step further I would say but inclusive of that too I guess
Yes. Some women can pull of such a sexy short hair style too. Not me sadly heh.
I thought about this, and to me it's whether or not the person looks confident in the clothing. To me it's the person who should be wearing the clothes not the other way around. Sometimes when people wear clothing made for the other gender it sometimes doesn't fit well and to me that sometimes really sticks out. But this is the same of any ill fitting clothes.
Oh and any women who have short hair and can wear a man's blazer with nothing underneath I envy you. "
Is short hair on a woman androgynous? |
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"Are we talking Harry Styles wearing more feminine clothes kind of thing? Because I think he really rocks it.
Women in androgenous clothing are
One step further I would say but inclusive of that too I guess
Yes. Some women can pull of such a sexy short hair style too. Not me sadly heh.
I thought about this, and to me it's whether or not the person looks confident in the clothing. To me it's the person who should be wearing the clothes not the other way around. Sometimes when people wear clothing made for the other gender it sometimes doesn't fit well and to me that sometimes really sticks out. But this is the same of any ill fitting clothes.
Oh and any women who have short hair and can wear a man's blazer with nothing underneath I envy you.
Is short hair on a woman androgynous? "
You know full well what was meant, by our conversation please don't try and stir the pot, thank you have a nice day |
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"Couldn't give a toss, the clothing someone puts on has no bearing on what they're like as a person, I find a person likeable or attractive, not the material they're currently adorned In
Not the material they are adorned in.. thats so nicely put. Thanks. "
Just call me lilly wordsmith  |
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By *aura4ukTV/TS
over a year ago
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Maybe I am slightly biased
It should be about the person but how you dress and/or present yourself will affect how people see you and will make a judgement. Only once you get past that and speak to someone will you have some idea about them. You might like them or not but that's life.
Makes things interesting xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe I am slightly biased
It should be about the person but how you dress and/or present yourself will affect how people see you and will make a judgement. Only once you get past that and speak to someone will you have some idea about them. You might like them or not but that's life.
Makes things interesting xx"
That's ok about the potential bias. I want to hear from all of people. Good to learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like wearing men’s underwear sometimes, jockstraps especially because they’re just insanely hot (I wish more men wore them!)
The more I see men in women’s underwear the more I enjoy it, although tbh I’m attracted to men’s things (hence enjoying a bit of cross dressing) so I’d always choose a guy wearing a jock over a thong! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I completely get why men would want to wear womens lingerie- it is awesome
But I don't find it sexy.
Maybe when I already know them and it's a laugh - but I find it funny not hot
So yes I'd probably be put off. |
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I love seeing a woman in men's clothes, albeit the more stereotypical suit and tie. Have worked with loads of women in engineering where we all wore the same coveralls so that doesn't quite so the same thing.
And thank you all for sticking up for TGirls who aren't bi! There's more of us around who dress for other reasons than for sex, the two can be independent of one another! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my younger years I was with a girl who enjoyed me dressing up in her stockings, suspenders and knickers. Ive got to admit it was arousing and yeah, I enjoyed it. The material was nice to the feel/touch. I haven't done it since but wouldn't rule it out.
I also find it highly arousing to see a girl in a t-shirt in the morning or a shirt after a bath. Football tops and power dressers do it for me too when worn by a girl (I don't even like football |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love seeing a woman in men's clothes, albeit the more stereotypical suit and tie. Have worked with loads of women in engineering where we all wore the same coveralls so that doesn't quite so the same thing.
And thank you all for sticking up for TGirls who aren't bi! There's more of us around who dress for other reasons than for sex, the two can be independent of one another! "
I never knew the stats which were shared above. So I'm grateful for some learning. Thanks |
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