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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems "
well you could put some effort into your profile  |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
" [....] but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go. "
You have an interesting profile with attractive pictures. I bet you're just the right sort of cuppa for quite a few people.
I wonder if this is the right site for relationships as opposed to fuck and go? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" [....] but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
You have an interesting profile with attractive pictures. I bet you're just the right sort of cuppa for quite a few people.
I wonder if this is the right site for relationships as opposed to fuck and go? "
I think plenty of people have found relationships on here. It is what you make of it that counts |
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The fab shop windows vs the back room details are very different aren't they? We certainly get "accused" of being really popular, when we aren't.
So much effort and positivity to keep up, it gets tiring, even if you're not the ones sending 500 messages a day. |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems "
you can be the cream in my coffee anytime, don't drink tea |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems
well you could put some effort into your profile "
Hadn't thought of that....thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are a cup of tea for some people but they also need to be yours. It's tricky to find your beverage for all of us at some point.
Don't lose hope QuimQuim. x"
QuimQuim |
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Do you have any theories as to why?
I have this theory in my head that some peoples profiles are too good, and don't reflect them accurately enough. So those people they'd be a good match for maybe feel they're out of their league?
I certainly think I don't talk to people I imagine are "too" attractive to want to meet us, whatever the truth is. As a result, I am very confident that our profile and gallery is very representative of us, rather than being some inaccurate sales pitch. Naturally though, that's more a reflection on me than anyone else. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
I had this chat with someone earlier, if all I was interested in was a fuck and go I could fill my boots so to speak, but I don't, I actually want to meet the person because they want to/are interested in meeting me not because they see me as an easy lay  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are a cup of tea for some people but they also need to be yours. It's tricky to find your beverage for all of us at some point.
Don't lose hope QuimQuim. x"
On a serious note Meli is quite right.
We all have someone where we think they are going to be the best things since Fab's first sliced loaf. Unfortunately they don't think the same as us. Conversely it is the same for others with us.
You just have to cross paths at the right nano second in time when you are logged on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think my flirting and compliments are frequently counterproductive for me, but that's just me! People think I'm a tart but I'm relatively monogamous in my shagging and ideally just want one person for giggles, connection and sexy times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile name suggests ‘fuck & go’ is good?"
Not to me  I think it's a rather elegant name which brings to mind spring meadows in full bloom. A lazy sunny afternoon watching a woman in a floaty white dress walking barefoot with butterflies fluttering in her wake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree OP we can't all be everyone's cuppa
And to be honest the majority of 'single' men here are looking for a fuck and go.
Have you been to any organised social events maybe that would be different? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree OP we can't all be everyone's cuppa
And to be honest the majority of 'single' men here are looking for a fuck and go.
Have you been to any organised social events maybe that would be different?"
I am booked into one and went to a couple pre-covid.
I kind of get lost in amongst everyone and find it very overwhelming, in a good way though 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems "
Me too xx |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"Your profile name suggests ‘fuck & go’ is good?
Not to me I think it's a rather elegant name which brings to mind spring meadows in full bloom. A lazy sunny afternoon watching a woman in a floaty white dress walking barefoot with butterflies fluttering in her wake."
I find it rather poetic, gotta say. |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems
Me too xx"
We sure do, sometimes those issues are internal too   |
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"There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems "
I mean. I would.
The issues guys have are being 10 to 1 men to women and genuine messages get buried in a sea of “hey how’s u” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem on here is that a guy’s mentality is the fab version of a Mac Donald’s drive thru. Ladies fab mentality is a nice 3 course meal at a lovely restaraunt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems "
Yeah we do but we just move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem on here is that a guy’s mentality is the fab version of a Mac Donald’s drive thru. Ladies fab mentality is a nice 3 course meal at a lovely restaraunt."
Oh I don’t think you can break that down so neatly into the two sexes  |
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"There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems "
If my phone could type your name properly, then I’m sure we’d be able to find out if you’re my cup of tea lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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At the moment I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea but I'm also not going to try to 'appear' to be someone's cup of tea as they'd soon find out I was really a cup of coffee.
If I am myself on here and that attracts someone in then it's a bonus and if not c'est la vie. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"There are often threads from men saying they can't seem to get anywhere on here. I thought it may be reassuring for them to know it is the same for the ladies too.
I have met a couple of guys in my years here and get messages but I don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea... unless I am willing to fuck and go.
So chin up, we all have the same problems
If my phone could type your name properly, then I’m sure we’d be able to find out if you’re my cup of tea lol"
There you go QuimQuim, dilemma solved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A very horny profile imho
Love the smudged lipstick pic which attracts a certain level of mmmmmm
Great pics but yes this is a sex site rather than dating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem on here is that a guy’s mentality is the fab version of a Mac Donald’s drive thru. Ladies fab mentality is a nice 3 course meal at a lovely restaraunt.
Oh I don’t think you can break that down so neatly into the two sexes "
Can I take your order pleas Inca? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cup of tea? Where where??!!
It's true though. We all have different likes & dislikes. Some personality types attract, others grate.
There's always someone out there though.
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I am just friends with you for the Lego |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had this chat with someone earlier, if all I was interested in was a fuck and go I could fill my boots so to speak, but I don't, I actually want to meet the person because they want to/are interested in meeting me not because they see me as an easy lay "
Never go with anyone that wants “easy”.
#knowyourworth (as I know you do) x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem on here is that a guy’s mentality is the fab version of a Mac Donald’s drive thru. Ladies fab mentality is a nice 3 course meal at a lovely restaraunt.
Oh I don’t think you can break that down so neatly into the two sexes "
Definitely not! But actually probably mostly accurate for 90% of people in each genders case lol x |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"I had this chat with someone earlier, if all I was interested in was a fuck and go I could fill my boots so to speak, but I don't, I actually want to meet the person because they want to/are interested in meeting me not because they see me as an easy lay
Never go with anyone that wants “easy”.
#knowyourworth (as I know you do) x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem on here is that a guy’s mentality is the fab version of a Mac Donald’s drive thru. Ladies fab mentality is a nice 3 course meal at a lovely restaraunt.
Oh I don’t think you can break that down so neatly into the two sexes
Can I take your order pleas Inca? "
Can I be Lego friends too  |
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"Cup of tea? Where where??!!
It's true though. We all have different likes & dislikes. Some personality types attract, others grate.
There's always someone out there though.
I am just friends with you for the Lego "
You should see my Space shuttle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cup of tea? Where where??!!
It's true though. We all have different likes & dislikes. Some personality types attract, others grate.
There's always someone out there though.
Haha. Oddly. I have a Lego NASA rocket in my home office
I am just friends with you for the Lego
You should see my Space shuttle "
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"Cup of tea? Where where??!!
It's true though. We all have different likes & dislikes. Some personality types attract, others grate.
There's always someone out there though.
I am just friends with you for the Lego
You should see my Space shuttle "
I've got a huge lego saturn 5 personally. Just saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is someone for everyone. Just finding them is the tricky part. "
Finding the real and genuine ones is the hard part right...down to earth and clever, should be easy right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is someone for everyone. Just finding them is the tricky part. "
Agree totally ... it's like swimming against the current, awesome when you find someone that swims with you |
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"Cup of tea? Where where??!!
It's true though. We all have different likes & dislikes. Some personality types attract, others grate.
There's always someone out there though.
I am just friends with you for the Lego
You should see my Space shuttle
I've got a huge lego saturn 5 personally. Just saying. "
Same. Currently on top of my book shelves in my office. The new Discovery is looking good so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cup of tea? Where where??!!
It's true though. We all have different likes & dislikes. Some personality types attract, others grate.
There's always someone out there though.
I am just friends with you for the Lego
You should see my Space shuttle
I've got a huge lego saturn 5 personally. Just saying.
Same. Currently on top of my book shelves in my office. The new Discovery is looking good so far"
Whoever thought we would have a pissing contest over Lego on Fab? |
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"Cup of tea? Where where??!!
It's true though. We all have different likes & dislikes. Some personality types attract, others grate.
There's always someone out there though.
I am just friends with you for the Lego
You should see my Space shuttle
I've got a huge lego saturn 5 personally. Just saying.
Same. Currently on top of my book shelves in my office. The new Discovery is looking good so far
Whoever thought we would have a pissing contest over Lego on Fab? "
Is that a niche Danish porn site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a few really nice cups of tea. Problem is, they often come with an undisclosed jug or sugar bowl that they didn't tell you about.
Leaves a bad taste...  "
Oh dear |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had this chat with someone earlier, if all I was interested in was a fuck and go I could fill my boots so to speak, but I don't, I actually want to meet the person because they want to/are interested in meeting me not because they see me as an easy lay "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem on here is that a guy’s mentality is the fab version of a Mac Donald’s drive thru. Ladies fab mentality is a nice 3 course meal at a lovely restaraunt."
Exactly! It’s not just the mentality it’s the sex on offer too.
Hate McD’s - I’m more a 3 * Michelin Restaurant girl myself. |
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Me and my wife are on here. Were in an open relationship.
She gets hundreds of messages. Im lucky if i get someone look at my profile.
Its so disheartening. Keep thinking what does it take to actually find a regular friend who u can chat to and have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and my wife are on here. Were in an open relationship.
She gets hundreds of messages. Im lucky if i get someone look at my profile.
Its so disheartening. Keep thinking what does it take to actually find a regular friend who u can chat to and have fun"
If they did look at your profile; what do you think their assessment would be? Most women look on ninja mode, so you wouldn’t know.
But I do know this - your profile is weak and I don’t think it’ll court much attention. Sorry to be blunt, but please believe me when I say I am trying to help. Look at the profiles of a few other guys in the forums and take some inspiration.
Spend one hour - just one hour - and re do your profile. describe who you are, what you’re about, what interests you, what makes you laugh. Imagine it’s a job interview. Because it is really. It’ll be an hour well spent.
Based on your profile, I wouldn’t employ you, and I’m not even looking!
Sorry chap, but best of luck. |
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