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What the feeling about polygamous relationships in the UK
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm interested to know how people feel about polygamous relationships in the UK, this is non religious based polygamy. I know the concept in the UK with marriage is not legal. But either a wife could take more than one husband or a husband could take more than one wife. Are there people in the UK looking to genuinely join a polygamous relationship? |
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We have no problem with people doing it if it's right for them but it's not for us personally.
I wouldn't be in favour of a law change to give multiple wives/husbands the same rights under law for reasons I can explain if necessary. I think it should be an arrangement between those involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only poly relationships I ever see are on Twitter and tend to always be dumpy red or blue haired women in dungarees with two or three youngish gamer blokes with wispy beards.
Are there any other types? |
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I’m a member of a site that is Poly focussed. There is plenty going on in the Uk scene wise.
Watching some of the fallouts over what constitutes a true polygamous relationship is very tiring though. They are always having forum meltdowns over it. |
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I'd be more inclined toward polygyny at my age ........ pretty wise really.. Loads of female company and he'd be fucking knackered.
Plus im sure at least one or two of the women could do the dirties I don't like AND be better housekeepers.
I'd be the lazy arse that watches t.v. and spends the money |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I’m a member of a site that is Poly focussed. There is plenty going on in the Uk scene wise.
Watching some of the fallouts over what constitutes a true polygamous relationship is very tiring though. They are always having forum meltdowns over it. "
The sure the poly police come along to educate everyone what a real poly relationship is like here with D/s. There will be some blue haired person with a manual |
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"I'm interested to know how people feel about polygamous relationships in the UK, this is non religious based polygamy. I know the concept in the UK with marriage is not legal. But either a wife could take more than one husband or a husband could take more than one wife. Are there people in the UK looking to genuinely join a polygamous relationship?"
I know loads of people in poly relationships and they all pity me because I'm straight and monogamous!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m a member of a site that is Poly focussed. There is plenty going on in the Uk scene wise.
Watching some of the fallouts over what constitutes a true polygamous relationship is very tiring though. They are always having forum meltdowns over it.
The sure the poly police come along to educate everyone what a real poly relationship is like here with D/s. There will be some blue haired person with a manual "
 you're making me laugh today  |
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I don't think it's anyone else's business as long as there isn't abuse of some sort happening.
Personally I am poly, no interest in marriage or in raising anymore kids though, 28 yrs of parenting them both just to 18 is quite enough thank you .  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage.
What's your stance on dungarees though?
pain in the ass to go for a piss in, jumpsuits/boilersuits are worse "
Dungaree dresses can be cute though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I worked for a brilliant family ... it was him, his wife (their kids all grown up and had left home), his concubine, their kid and his girlfriend. All lived together in a smallish house, all worked together in the business and totally excepted in a small Cornish village.
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"I worked for a brilliant family ... it was him, his wife (their kids all grown up and had left home), his concubine, their kid and his girlfriend. All lived together in a smallish house, all worked together in the business and totally excepted in a small Cornish village.
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Nice to hear concubine again it’s poly and it’s been around Thousands of years kings and queens used it to breed for the king of the throne |
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People should be able to date and fall in love with other adults as they want to. The law could potentially be changed to allow more than 2 to be married but many people are less interested in polygamy than in open and poly relationships |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage. "
@_acey_red it does not have to result in marriage but if your all living as committed couples then your as good as married. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I worked for a brilliant family ... it was him, his wife (their kids all grown up and had left home), his concubine, their kid and his girlfriend. All lived together in a smallish house, all worked together in the business and totally excepted in a small Cornish village.
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I like my polyamourous set up, he lives with his wife during the week and sees me on weekends,
Maybe in the future I'd consider him staying longer but I like my own space too much and find it hard to live with other people to do it full time |
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"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage.
@_acey_red it does not have to result in marriage but if your all living as committed couples then your as good as married."
I only mentioned marriage because polygamy specifically refers to marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is very interesting as a guy who’s definitely questioning whether i might be poly. I’ve had a number of monogamous relationships that have all ended with me feeling frustrated and trapped and I don’t just mean sexually. Makes me start to think that for whatever reason I’m not geared up to be a one exclusive partner guy and I’m not sure why that is. |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"This is very interesting as a guy who’s definitely questioning whether i might be poly. I’ve had a number of monogamous relationships that have all ended with me feeling frustrated and trapped and I don’t just mean sexually. Makes me start to think that for whatever reason I’m not geared up to be a one exclusive partner guy and I’m not sure why that is."
If You’re an atheist you don’t need any laws you don’t have to marry you only have to love and there is no law in that , Everything is in your hands for living life
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely with you on that. Raised a Christian and someone who still believes in a higher power I think you end up with a lot of constraints on you. That said these days I just think well the one global rule we’d all do well by is to live one another. So I think you have great point  |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"The only poly relationships I ever see are on Twitter and tend to always be dumpy red or blue haired women in dungarees with two or three youngish gamer blokes with wispy beards.
Are there any other types? "
I'm getting shades of that infamous channel 4 documentary Dogging Tales where the three of them are sat on the sofa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My oh is in a poly relationship. That's not fair me, but am ENM. I'm not sure if the general world would accept but we've shared where we are with people we trust. |
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I can see how it could work. But the work required to get it to work..
And working out who would be ideally compatible with this while working out who the cock wombles are(male and female) just looking for casual might be a bit of a frigging nightmare! |
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"We don't believe it is a healthy way to raise a family."
Care to elaborate on this opinion? I don't personaly see why raising a a family in a polyamorous or polygamous relationship is a problem, so long as the child is raised in a stable loving environment it shouldn't make a blind bit of difference that the relationship dynamic doesnt conform to the societal norm, that has been pushed onto us for years basically by the church the same as same sex marriage being considered wrong and banned until fairly recently. |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"I'm interested to know how people feel about polygamous relationships in the UK, this is non religious based polygamy. I know the concept in the UK with marriage is not legal. But either a wife could take more than one husband or a husband could take more than one wife. Are there people in the UK looking to genuinely join a polygamous relationship?"
Sure, more love to go around. I don't think I'd ever want to get married again though. |
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