Should you ask if a verification is wanted before leaving one?
If you've met, is it a given that you should leave a verification (if wanted)
Do you do the verification hunt?
Look at who verified them and then who verified them, and so on.
How do you feel about verifications? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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—Should you ask if a verification is wanted before leaving one?
Probably, I don’t like to be left verifications unless I ask so I wouldn’t want someone in the past verifying me.
—If you've met, is it a given that you should leave a verification (if wanted)
No. I don’t verify people I meet and if I do it’s because I decided I wanted a new verification.
—Do you do the verification hunt?
Look at who verified them and then who verified them, and so on.
Yes and I won’t sleep with certain men if they have slept with certain members.
—How do you feel about verifications?
Not bothered overall as they can be faked but they can come in useful. |
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I don’t display my verifications, I’m not a kiss and tell and don’t ask for them. I will write one if asked following a meet. I do look at other’s verifications, more because they’re there and help to build a picture of that person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few verifications can give confidence someone is genuine. Too many is off putting to me.
Would always ask if someone wanted one before doing it.
Wouldn't publish any of meeting in person without permission.
I like to read about someone's character rather than their sexual athletics ! |
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"Should you ask if a verification is wanted before leaving one?"
I've never seen a reason to not do it. You can always just hide it if you don't like the content. Certainly happened with various ones we've received!
"If you've met, is it a given that you should leave a verification (if wanted)"
I suppose so, but they can be so clunky at times. Especially ones I write. At least mine never start with "Well, what can we say about CumDumpster6969...?"
"Do you do the verification hunt?
Look at who verified them and then who verified them, and so on."
Oh yes. Some really nice people we've met have some questionable veris in our opinion, yet I dare say we are the same to others....
"How do you feel about verifications?"
I suppose you should want a middle ground. Enough good ones to prove you're real and leave it mostly at that. I want us to do our talking, not others. I think I generally feel as positive towards them as the person / people leaving it. |
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I’m not a fan. I’ll leave social ones if they really want one but I’ll never leave sexual ones. I show a couple of social ones but I’ve never shown sexual ones. I don’t want people to know who I’m meeting.
As for other people’s veris. Hell yes I’m a nosey cow. I read them and follow the trail. In fact it annoys me when others don’t show theirs  |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"I’m not a fan. I’ll leave social ones if they really want one but I’ll never leave sexual ones. I show a couple of social ones but I’ve never shown sexual ones. I don’t want people to know who I’m meeting.
As for other people’s veris. Hell yes I’m a nosey cow. I read them and follow the trail. In fact it annoys me when others don’t show theirs "
Do I detect a double standard!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would generally leave a verification.
It just seems like a nice thing to do to say something nice about someone.
That being said, I wouldn't post details of a what happened on a meeting in a verification.
If someone doesn't show their verifications then its just a nice personal message to them. If they do show their verifications then I don't suppose it matters. |
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If it's a one to one meet, where the Lady has stayed at my gaff for a couple of nights, then we usually leave a non sexually descript veri for each other, but at a social, I've written veris for people who haven't left one for me, and vice versa. It matters little to me in that respect |
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"I’m not a fan. I’ll leave social ones if they really want one but I’ll never leave sexual ones. I show a couple of social ones but I’ve never shown sexual ones. I don’t want people to know who I’m meeting.
As for other people’s veris. Hell yes I’m a nosey cow. I read them and follow the trail. In fact it annoys me when others don’t show theirs
Do I detect a double standard!! "
Absofuckinglutely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tend to just leave them for people I meet, whether socially or sexually. If they tell me specifically that they don't want one, of course I won't.
I always appreciate receiving them too.
And yes I read other peoples, if I'm interested in meeting them, it gives me a better picture of them as a person =) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should you ask if a verification is wanted before leaving one?
If you've met, is it a given that you should leave a verification (if wanted)
Do you do the verification hunt?
Look at who verified them and then who verified them, and so on.
How do you feel about verifications?"
Veri good questions. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Should you ask if a verification is wanted before leaving one?
If you've met, is it a given that you should leave a verification (if wanted)
Do you do the verification hunt?
Look at who verified them and then who verified them, and so on.
How do you feel about verifications?"
They're a double edged sword. I ask if they want one and it's usually reciprocated. I don't really post them anymore as it often attracted the green eye of jealousy in the past. When I give a veri I normally request it be kept private as well. No one needs to know my business and i'm certainly not enquiring what other people have been up to either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely leave a veri unless they really want me to.
And I don't ask for any - I especially don't display them for you nosey fuckers to read 
Let's be honest - it's all a bit cringey! |
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"Should you ask if a verification is wanted before leaving one?
If you've met, is it a given that you should leave a verification (if wanted)
Do you do the verification hunt?
Look at who verified them and then who verified them, and so on.
How do you feel about verifications?
Veri good questions."
Cheers Jim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only display the ones that I haven’t put my penis into.
The general rule of thumb is... if we fuck then I like you very much and don’t want to let anyone else know you’re so fucking fantastic in case you then become busy and won’t have time to fuck me again.
I’m selfish like that.
Find your own hotties you freeloaders. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I only display the ones that I haven’t put my penis into.
The general rule of thumb is... if we fuck then I like you very much and don’t want to let anyone else know you’re so fucking fantastic in case you then become busy and won’t have time to fuck me again.
I’m selfish like that.
Find your own hotties you freeloaders."
Makes sense! |
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I'll usually write a veri unless asked not to, but I certainly won't give gynecologic details! I prefer to recall some amusing detail ("the pickled onions went everywhere!") and to say that they are a lovely person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should you ask if a verification is wanted before leaving one?
If you've met, is it a given that you should leave a verification (if wanted)
Do you do the verification hunt?
Look at who verified them and then who verified them, and so on.
How do you feel about verifications?"
I don't ask
I have met people here, but asking for veris now seems to just be going over old ground
I'm not massively interested in meeting for sex, so not having any on my profile isn't too much of a hinderance to me
I would verify for a meet, but not multiple meets with the same person - that is like a weird mix of keeping a diary and pissing up someone's leg
I check veris if I'm interested in someone, mainly to see the the type of people they meet and if there is any indication of how they meet
They aren't a massive interest to me and I would meet people without them
It may sound cold, but I don't care enough about anyone here to worry about them wasting my time
If it's a meet and a no show, I can go have a wank
If it's a social, I am more than happy having a coffee and fucking about on my phone for an hour on my own |
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