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The biggest advice I’d give newbies on here would ultimately come into the Forums instead of sending messages to everyone you find interesting.
Build your confidence up, have a laugh with people on here.
Fab can be a hard place, especially for those who do try and contact everyone and get rejected.
But be calm, don’t take things too seriously.. And most importantly, have a laugh ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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If they’re reading this then they’re already here and I get what you’re saying to break the ice and start conversations etc but some people can’t be arsed the with social media side of things like with football some people use the forums or Twitter but some prefer to talk about it down the pub.
I bet there are thousands on here that are actually out fucking and not doing shit like discussing their favourite dessert or chocolate bar and never meeting anyone. |
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I bet there are thousands on here that are actually out fucking and not doing shit like discussing their favourite dessert or chocolate bar and never meeting anyone. "
But I bet they're not having as much fun ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"The biggest advice I’d give newbies on here would ultimately come into the Forums instead of sending messages to everyone you find interesting.
Build your confidence up, have a laugh with people on here.
Fab can be a hard place, especially for those who do try and contact everyone and get rejected.
But be calm, don’t take things too seriously.. And most importantly, have a laugh "
Good advise OP |
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I bet there are thousands on here that are actually out fucking and not doing shit like discussing their favourite dessert or chocolate bar and never meeting anyone.
But I bet they're not having as much fun "
What is everyones favourite chocolate bar anyway.
Personally I like a Galaxy. |
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I think a lot of new folk come to the forums and get a bit addicted to the fantasy and anonymity tbh and often get ahead of themselves. I did, many moons ago! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"The biggest advice I’d give newbies on here would ultimately come into the Forums instead of sending messages to everyone you find interesting.
Build your confidence up, have a laugh with people on here.
Fab can be a hard place, especially for those who do try and contact everyone and get rejected.
But be calm, don’t take things too seriously.. And most importantly, have a laugh "
OK thanks. |
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"I think a lot of new folk come to the forums and get a bit addicted to the fantasy and anonymity tbh and often get ahead of themselves. I did, many moons ago! "
Not as far ahead as Wookiedad. |
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"I think a lot of new folk come to the forums and get a bit addicted to the fantasy and anonymity tbh and often get ahead of themselves. I did, many moons ago!
Not as far ahead as Wookiedad."
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