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over a year ago
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"Hi this may be controversial is fab a great site for average looking women "
Isnt it just?! Desperados like me would never get a look in if it wasnt for fab.
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Everything always depends on what each individuals' expectations are. Women generally get more choice here, which may make some things easier. Needles in any haystack are still hard to find though |
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over a year ago
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Most people are average looking... Hence the word, average... Are you trying to say us fugly birds do well on here, without actually saying it? If so... Are you trying to say it's our fault? |
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over a year ago
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"Hi this may be controversial is fab a great site for average looking women "
It's a great site for women who have a pulse mate, so average looking women do fantastically.....probably |
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can people stop being self deprecating a average looking man on fab will struggle a lot more than the other way round women are on average are a lot more picky and have higher standards than most men will |
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"can people stop being self deprecating a average looking man on fab will struggle a lot more than the other way round women are on average are a lot more picky and have higher standards than most men will "
No they don't, I have fucked some great, average looking men(I was attracted to them) ... And why do women get the blame when men lower their standards but we won't? |
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"can people stop being self deprecating a average looking man on fab will struggle a lot more than the other way round women are on average are a lot more picky and have higher standards than most men will "
So what you're saying is the picky woman should be grateful that the not so picky fella drop his standards for her? |
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"can people stop being self deprecating a average looking man on fab will struggle a lot more than the other way round women are on average are a lot more picky and have higher standards than most men will
No they don't, I have fucked some great, average looking men(I was attracted to them) ... And why do women get the blame when men lower their standards but we won't? " I am not criticising at all I applaud your high standards believe me x |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"can people stop being self deprecating a average looking man on fab will struggle a lot more than the other way round women are on average are a lot more picky and have higher standards than most men will
No they don't, I have fucked some great, average looking men(I was attracted to them) ... And why do women get the blame when men lower their standards but we won't? I am not criticising at all I applaud your high standards believe me x"
My standards are pretty low where physical is concerned. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder we all now the difference between average and attractive looks "
Yes, us average women have to promise all night cock sucks, and anal to get a decent-looking man to fuck us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's great for ugly women. I get loads of offers from desperate men.
Yeah, but you want a refund after 15 minutes "
I have to pay them danger money and so they can buy cock bleach. |
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My point is if a average looking lady is in a bar or club and there are attractive looking lady’s in as well she would more likely struggle to get the hot man as he is more likely to get the attractive lady on fab it will be easier as there are so many men on fab , conversely most of the time a average looking man will struggle to get the hot lady and she will go with the hot man fab based just on physical attraction this is how it is natural selection I am not criticising it at all |
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"Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder we all now the difference between average and attractive looks
I prefer a personality " you can’t tell a persons true personality through messages you have to meet on physical attraction first then decide x |
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over a year ago
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"My point is if a average looking lady is in a bar or club and there are attractive looking lady’s in as well she would more likely struggle to get the hot man as he is more likely to get the attractive lady on fab it will be easier as there are so many men on fab , conversely most of the time a average looking man will struggle to get the hot lady and she will go with the hot man fab based just on physical attraction this is how it is natural selection I am not criticising it at all "
You may not be criticising OP and yes this is your opinion but it’s certainly coming across as complaining that you aren’t getting any meets and you are actually jealous of the women who choose who they want to meet or not |
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"My point is if a average looking lady is in a bar or club and there are attractive looking lady’s in as well she would more likely struggle to get the hot man as he is more likely to get the attractive lady on fab it will be easier as there are so many men on fab , conversely most of the time a average looking man will struggle to get the hot lady and she will go with the hot man fab based just on physical attraction this is how it is natural selection I am not criticising it at all "
See I've never seen it as some kind of tier system of hotness. It's not like football. I'm attracted to the people I'm attracted to and that's the end of it. I mean I know Brad Pitt is a good looking guy but I don't personally find him attractive.
Most of us are average, so going by your theory there should be a percentage of hot men and women who by rights should choose each other. So where's this excess of hot men us average ladies are hooking up with?
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Wow! What a question! Let's flip that around and ask how we'll average men do on here?! Such an ignorant thing to say!
Whats average in your opinion may well be beautiful in someone else's! On the other hand I'm not really into white haired old guys no matter how big their cock is! I certainly wouldn't let someone like you anywhere near me! |
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"My point is if a average looking lady is in a bar or club and there are attractive looking lady’s in as well she would more likely struggle to get the hot man as he is more likely to get the attractive lady on fab it will be easier as there are so many men on fab , conversely most of the time a average looking man will struggle to get the hot lady and she will go with the hot man fab based just on physical attraction this is how it is natural selection I am not criticising it at all "
You've been in a bar ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My point is if a average looking lady is in a bar or club and there are attractive looking lady’s in as well she would more likely struggle to get the hot man as he is more likely to get the attractive lady on fab it will be easier as there are so many men on fab , conversely most of the time a average looking man will struggle to get the hot lady and she will go with the hot man fab based just on physical attraction this is how it is natural selection I am not criticising it at all
You may not be criticising OP and yes this is your opinion but it’s certainly coming across as complaining that you aren’t getting any meets and you are actually jealous of the women who choose who they want to meet or not"
There’s always one who instigates the ‘feel sorry for themselves’ label. I swear it’s only posted to gain more attention for yourself.
I don’t think this thread comes across as complaining about not getting meets, the guy is just asking |
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"I’ve a stack of brown paper bags to hand out here. They fit men and women. I can even print a picture of your favourite celebrity on it. "
Just put a great big cock on mine please. I fancy meeting a FAB straight guy |
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"My point is if a average looking lady is in a bar or club and there are attractive looking lady’s in as well she would more likely struggle to get the hot man as he is more likely to get the attractive lady on fab it will be easier as there are so many men on fab , conversely most of the time a average looking man will struggle to get the hot lady and she will go with the hot man fab based just on physical attraction this is how it is natural selection I am not criticising it at all
See I've never seen it as some kind of tier system of hotness. It's not like football. I'm attracted to the people I'm attracted to and that's the end of it. I mean I know Brad Pitt is a good looking guy but I don't personally find him attractive.
Most of us are average, so going by your theory there should be a percentage of hot men and women who by rights should choose each other. So where's this excess of hot men us average ladies are hooking up with?
" i understand where you are coming from to a degree the fact that you don’t find brad Pitt attractive does not alter the fact that he is still a very attractive to most women throught the world there is a scientific formula for assessing attractiveness x |
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"My point is if a average looking lady is in a bar or club and there are attractive looking lady’s in as well she would more likely struggle to get the hot man as he is more likely to get the attractive lady on fab it will be easier as there are so many men on fab , conversely most of the time a average looking man will struggle to get the hot lady and she will go with the hot man fab based just on physical attraction this is how it is natural selection I am not criticising it at all
See I've never seen it as some kind of tier system of hotness. It's not like football. I'm attracted to the people I'm attracted to and that's the end of it. I mean I know Brad Pitt is a good looking guy but I don't personally find him attractive.
Most of us are average, so going by your theory there should be a percentage of hot men and women who by rights should choose each other. So where's this excess of hot men us average ladies are hooking up with?
i understand where you are coming from to a degree the fact that you don’t find brad Pitt attractive does not alter the fact that he is still a very attractive to most women throught the world there is a scientific formula for assessing attractiveness x"
Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder we all now the difference between average and attractive looks "
You do know that attractive and stunningly good looking are not the same thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My point is if a average looking lady is in a bar or club and there are attractive looking lady’s in as well she would more likely struggle to get the hot man as he is more likely to get the attractive lady on fab it will be easier as there are so many men on fab , conversely most of the time a average looking man will struggle to get the hot lady and she will go with the hot man fab based just on physical attraction this is how it is natural selection I am not criticising it at all
See I've never seen it as some kind of tier system of hotness. It's not like football. I'm attracted to the people I'm attracted to and that's the end of it. I mean I know Brad Pitt is a good looking guy but I don't personally find him attractive.
Most of us are average, so going by your theory there should be a percentage of hot men and women who by rights should choose each other. So where's this excess of hot men us average ladies are hooking up with?
i understand where you are coming from to a degree the fact that you don’t find brad Pitt attractive does not alter the fact that he is still a very attractive to most women throught the world there is a scientific formula for assessing attractiveness x
Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please"
OP speaks true, there is some scientific formula that can be applied to the measure the face and apparently all the beautiful people in the world fall into the same mathematical ratios of facial feature distribution. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you measure the 'greatness' of this site? How do you measure how it varies with respect to the perceived attractiveness of a woman?
Generally speaking there must be huge bias in this, because anyone (male or female) who thought Fabs was anything less than good wouldn't be here for very long.
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand."
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it. |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it. "
Damn. Now you will never know. |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it.
Damn. Now you will never know."
I'll go with ugly to be on the safe side lol |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it.
Damn. Now you will never know.
I'll go with ugly to be on the safe side lol "
Noooo! Go crazy! Stunning! X |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it.
Damn. Now you will never know.
I'll go with ugly to be on the safe side lol "
You’re far from ugly young lady!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres a few articles in the economic times about it, the golden ratio of beauty its called. Apparently bella hadid and scarlet johansson scored quite high. |
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Depends what you mean by "great for average women" really.
It's great for making friends.
Not so great for meeting people you may find attractive and wanna bang.... who aren't liars and are respectful. |
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"On average most beautifull people have great jaw lines cheekbones full lips a good nose and a ayssmetricall face "
Oh right, but what about their inner beauty or in some cases lack of. That shit can really shine through |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On average most beautifull people have great jaw lines cheekbones full lips a good nose and a ayssmetricall face "
Still doesn't make them attractive just nice to look at |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it.
Damn. Now you will never know.
I'll go with ugly to be on the safe side lol
You’re far from ugly young lady!! "
Got a squint eyes my face isn't symmetrical, ugly as now. Need to do cry |
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"Theres a few articles in the economic times about it, the golden ratio of beauty its called. Apparently bella hadid and scarlet johansson scored quite high. "
They are truly stunning women and I'm being a bit silly. But I also know I'm no Hollywood beauty. The vast majority of us mere mortals aren't and that's alright. There's nothing wrong with being average as that's what the vast majority of us are. |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it.
Damn. Now you will never know.
I'll go with ugly to be on the safe side lol
You’re far from ugly young lady!!
Got a squint eyes my face isn't symmetrical, ugly as now. Need to do cry "
Well I think you look great f |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it.
Damn. Now you will never know.
I'll go with ugly to be on the safe side lol
You’re far from ugly young lady!!
Got a squint eyes my face isn't symmetrical, ugly as now. Need to do cry
Well I think you look great f "
Not so bad yourself mind |
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A lot of attractive men on fab who do not have high standards like most women do and are feeling horny that evening will go with a average looking lady but would probally not entertain her on a night out when there are better looking women to maybe meet which is why this site is great for average looking women , my point is contentious but it is true and it is great that this is the case for them |
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"A lot of attractive men on fab who do not have high standards like most women do and are feeling horny that evening will go with a average looking lady but would probally not entertain her on a night out when there are better looking women to maybe meet which is why this site is great for average looking women , my point is contentious but it is true and it is great that this is the case for them "
Are you making this point because you’re annoyed that the women you believe wouldn’t get a second glance in a bar aren’t choosing you because they can get very good looking guys, who you feel they normally wouldn’t have access to? |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it.
Damn. Now you will never know.
I'll go with ugly to be on the safe side lol
You’re far from ugly young lady!!
Got a squint eyes my face isn't symmetrical, ugly as now. Need to do cry
Well I think you look great f
Not so bad yourself mind "
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"The guys I’m attracted to here are the same guys I’d be attracted to (and could pull) if I was in a bar. " exactlly Annie you have high standards more don’t and will go will average looking women on fab but if you were in a club or bar they would choose you because you are highly attractive by beauty standards x
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Thing is OP you are using the word "average" as if it's some kind of bad thing, when truth of the matter is by it's very definition "average" is pretty normal and most people are.
You're then trying to shoehorn attraction into it somehow, and attraction is a very subjective thing, unique to each of us, so attraction and average don't really sit together in the context you're trying to fit them.
And that's before you even get onto the debate you're inferring about women having it easier here than men, which actually I disagree with completely - both men and women have an equal opportunity to get a positive experience from the site, they may face problems in doing so, and those problems may be different, but the opportunity is equal. |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it.
Damn. Now you will never know.
I'll go with ugly to be on the safe side lol
You’re far from ugly young lady!!
Got a squint eyes my face isn't symmetrical, ugly as now. Need to do cry
Well I think you look great f
Not so bad yourself mind
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So you going to lower your standards to meet with me? As you'd clearly never even notice me in a bar. But because I've got my boobs out and you know us women are in a minority here, are you willing to pitty shag me? Because that's all us average looking women want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve a stack of brown paper bags to hand out here. They fit men and women. I can even print a picture of your favourite celebrity on it. "
Can I have a paper bag please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is the purpose of this thread OP? It reads like you're trying to tell women they're getting too big for their boots and bring them down a peg or two. It seems quite bitter. |
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Oh my god there is no bitterness or agenda i am pleased for everyone who does well on this site I am not jealous I do okay myself I was making a observation to set up a intelligent debate which we have had let’s not take it personally |
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"Oh my god there is no bitterness or agenda i am pleased for everyone who does well on this site I am not jealous I do okay myself I was making a observation to set up a intelligent debate which we have had let’s not take it personally "
Intelligent debate?
It reads to me that you're saying "ain't it great for the not quite mingers that men lack standards when they're horny and would fuck a swamp donkey if it got its fanny out" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are nice to look then they are attractive it is just semantics "
That is untrue... They will only be attracted to some people, the same as all of us... Famous people are often not that attractive but the characters they play are... It's not about being good looking overall... It's about being good looking to who is attracted to you |
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Well it’s entrainment on this thread but can I interject with this little penneth worth
We ve all got ugly sex faces!
I mean have you caught site of yourself mid pash and thought holy fuck is that really me ?!
Lol |
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Reference for this magical formula please, would like to find out if I'm average or ugly please
Serious mathematics involved. Mere mortals would never understand.
I'm screwed then my maths is rubbish darn it.
Damn. Now you will never know.
I'll go with ugly to be on the safe side lol
You’re far from ugly young lady!!
Got a squint eyes my face isn't symmetrical, ugly as now. Need to do cry
Well I think you look great f
Not so bad yourself mind
So you going to lower your standards to meet with me? As you'd clearly never even notice me in a bar. But because I've got my boobs out and you know us women are in a minority here, are you willing to pitty shag me? Because that's all us average looking women want "
I’ll check my diary |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh my god there is no bitterness or agenda i am pleased for everyone who does well on this site I am not jealous I do okay myself I was making a observation to set up a intelligent debate which we have had let’s not take it personally
Intelligent debate?
It reads to me that you're saying "ain't it great for the not quite mingers that men lack standards when they're horny and would fuck a swamp donkey if it got its fanny out" "
Thats kinda the point he is making....I think its more of a dig at the men who will fuck anything.... |
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"Princess it is true most men would I am not most men I like you have standards also are the average looking lady’s complaining they are having a great time good luck to them I say "
You're making us average peeps out to be sub-human or something
Is it taboo or something that those who aren't catwalk models get laid? |
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"Oh my god there is no bitterness or agenda i am pleased for everyone who does well on this site I am not jealous I do okay myself I was making a observation to set up a intelligent debate which we have had let’s not take it personally
Intelligent debate?
It reads to me that you're saying "ain't it great for the not quite mingers that men lack standards when they're horny and would fuck a swamp donkey if it got its fanny out"
Thats kinda the point he is making....I think its more of a dig at the men who will fuck anything...."
Well no, it's not great at all in my opinion. Being seen as a hole to smash ain't something most people aspire to be, and being someone's cock dock for the sake of having no other attributes other than a vag is pretty fucking humiliating |
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Princess you are not average looking by beauty standards I am not having a dig at all i am pleased that average looking people do well on here with people who are better looking than them ,the fact that most men have lower standards is a fact a controversial fact I may add |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kinda see where he is coming from. A woman could set up a profile on here with no pics and no write up and would still have a full inbox requesting sex within an hour....
Men chase everything, it’s always been that way long before internet so let’s not read more into this or get on high horses just for the sake of it |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Kinda see where he is coming from. A woman could set up a profile on here with no pics and no write up and would still have a full inbox requesting sex within an hour....
Men chase everything, it’s always been that way long before internet so let’s not read more into this or get on high horses just for the sake of it "
Whilst your opening statement is true - the question is how many of those messages are going to be of interest?
Just because ladies are bombarded with messages doesn't mean they immediately find what they are looking for - it's the old quantity vs quality thing really.
Contrast that experience with a guy who truly understands the site and knows how to make it work for him, he may only send a handful of messages to those he truly sees a connection and attraction to, and get responses to some of them that then develop into meets etc.
New result is the same, just different ways of getting there and hurdles to overcome to do so. |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
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If the OP is saying an average looking woman has more chance, on sites like this, of meeting a guy who is of above average looks then he is correct. Purely because of the ratio of guys to girls. I think that's obvious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thing is OP you are using the word "average" as if it's some kind of bad thing, when truth of the matter is by it's very definition "average" is pretty normal and most people are.
You're then trying to shoehorn attraction into it somehow, and attraction is a very subjective thing, unique to each of us, so attraction and average don't really sit together in the context you're trying to fit them.
And that's before you even get onto the debate you're inferring about women having it easier here than men, which actually I disagree with completely - both men and women have an equal opportunity to get a positive experience from the site, they may face problems in doing so, and those problems may be different, but the opportunity is equal."
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By (user no longer on site)
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But I might think an attractive lady is average and an average lady is attactive while everyone else thinks the attractive lady is not average and the average lady is not attractive while the attractice lady thinks she is average and the average lady thinks she is attractive but the attractive lady might think the average lady is attractive and the average lady might think the attractive lady is average or vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh my god there is no bitterness or agenda i am pleased for everyone who does well on this site I am not jealous I do okay myself I was making a observation to set up a intelligent debate which we have had let’s not take it personally
Intelligent debate?
It reads to me that you're saying "ain't it great for the not quite mingers that men lack standards when they're horny and would fuck a swamp donkey if it got its fanny out" "
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