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By *rMrs322 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Have come here as i imagine that some people have been there in some way shape or form.
If you met someone on a dating app who told you they were single and you ended up in sexual relations with them turns out to have a partner what would you do?
Do you tell the persons partner and why?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d leave an odd sock in her vagina.
Husband finds my sock and realises.
Unless we have the same taste in socks.
Then I’d have another lost sock and he’d probably have a pair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would telling the partner make YOU feel better? What would you be trying to achieve by telling them? Revenge or help? "
Live and let the cheaters live with their own guilt, it's not my business unless they make it my business  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have come here as i imagine that some people have been there in some way shape or form.
If you met someone on a dating app who told you they were single and you ended up in sexual relations with them turns out to have a partner what would you do?
Do you tell the persons partner and why?
Thanks for your help in this debate"
I wouldn’t tell the partner. I’d just leave it alone.
Not my business and they can live with their own guilt. |
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"I wouldn't tell the partner but I wouldn't see that person again either.
This, unless their partner was a good friend of mine."
If it was a good friend of mine I doubt I would have had sex with their partner after meeting on a dating all  |
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I found myself in almost this situation, although it was here on these very forums rather than a dating app.
I knew he was married but had been told it was no more than a technicality and he was very much single.
Lockdown part 1 hit and that's when I learned I wasn't the girlfriend of almost 2 years, I was the mistress of almost 2 years.
I still have pangs where I suffer incredible guilt and disgust with myself for not contacting his wife and giving her the information to make a knowledge based decision on what she wanted to do. To allow her an informed choice.
I hate that she is unaware because I do think she has every right to know, but at the same time I know I'll feel like scum of the earth if I tell her. I'm clinging and praying he has learnt and doesn't cheat again.
One of the worst things for me when my previous ex cheated on me was that people knew and didn't tell me and yeah, I'm just as fucking bad as them coz I've not got the balls to tell my most recent ex's wife that he's a liar and a cheat. Part of me is desperate for her to find out and have her contact me and I'll tell her everything. It's been a year since I learned the truth and we spilt, and I don't wanna be responsible for wrecking a family when he *could* have had the wake up call I tried to give him when it all came out. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I’d leave an odd sock in her vagina.
Husband finds my sock and realises.
Unless we have the same taste in socks.
Then I’d have another lost sock and he’d probably have a pair."
Now I’ve solved the problem of why I have so many odd socks..... you’ve been doing my wife  |
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"*app.
This darn autocorrect
The armadillo autocorrect was classic
. It would all be so straightforward if I would just proofread "
I mean who could mix up the word armadillo and woodlice
You are usually so articulate, I kept reading it thinking it was me being thick |
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"*app.
This darn autocorrect
The armadillo autocorrect was classic
. It would all be so straightforward if I would just proofread
I mean who could mix up the word armadillo and woodlice
You are usually so articulate, I kept reading it thinking it was me being thick "
No, was definitely me . |
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"End it, walk away. I’m not going to hunt for a partner to tell, it’s none of my business "
I'm with you on that.
If you're going to throw a grenade into a situation you'd better be sure you know what the consequences will be. |
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