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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you have a friend either fab or otherwise who you would trust to set you up with someone?
Or, do you ever see someone on fab you think would be a perfect match with another fabber? Would you tell them?
Are there any couples who were set up by others?
I am being nosey and also feeling unloved if you hadn't guessed. Feel free to set me up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't trust anyone to set me up and wouldn't want to be set-up.
Could be good for a forum game thread though - 'Which two forumites would you set-up?' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't trust anyone to set me up and wouldn't want to be set-up.
Could be good for a forum game thread though - 'Which two forumites would you set-up?'"
What if a friend told you they knew the person for you.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d trust my friend to set me up! He knows me very well and come to think of it I may ask him to get on this!!
Now I’m going to find someone for you.  "
Has he ever set you up? I hope he does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't trust anyone to set me up and wouldn't want to be set-up.
Could be good for a forum game thread though - 'Which two forumites would you set-up?'
What if a friend told you they knew the person for you...."
Curiosity would get the better of me and I'd meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't trust anyone to set me up and wouldn't want to be set-up.
Could be good for a forum game thread though - 'Which two forumites would you set-up?'"
Would definitely be interesting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't trust anyone to set me up and wouldn't want to be set-up.
Could be good for a forum game thread though - 'Which two forumites would you set-up?'
Would definitely be interesting"
It would! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm quite good at guessing who someone would be interested in (if I'm friends with them) and sometimes I have thought about suggesting someone messages so and so. But I'm also aware that the quim wants what the quim wants and my idea of a good match might be an utter disaster.
A friend did once suggest I started talking to someone. And I did. A thread could be interesting! |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm quite good at guessing who someone would be interested in (if I'm friends with them) and sometimes I have thought about suggesting someone messages so and so. But I'm also aware that the quim wants what the quim wants and my idea of a good match might be an utter disaster.
A friend did once suggest I started talking to someone. And I did. A thread could be interesting! "
Actually I reckon you’d be able to set me up! |
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I would trust Fab or vanilla friends to find a goodun, if I believed they could be serious for 5 minutes But they wouldn't and I'd end up with the complete opposite of what I would like!
On the flip side I love matchmaking! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm quite good at guessing who someone would be interested in (if I'm friends with them) and sometimes I have thought about suggesting someone messages so and so. But I'm also aware that the quim wants what the quim wants and my idea of a good match might be an utter disaster.
A friend did once suggest I started talking to someone. And I did. A thread could be interesting!
Actually I reckon you’d be able to set me up! "
Yes! I would love to do that so much, it would be really fun!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm quite good at guessing who someone would be interested in (if I'm friends with them) and sometimes I have thought about suggesting someone messages so and so. But I'm also aware that the quim wants what the quim wants and my idea of a good match might be an utter disaster.
A friend did once suggest I started talking to someone. And I did. A thread could be interesting! "
I reckon I would trust you...even if it didn't go anywhere it would be nice chatting to someone new
I am crap at matching people unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm quite good at guessing who someone would be interested in (if I'm friends with them) and sometimes I have thought about suggesting someone messages so and so. But I'm also aware that the quim wants what the quim wants and my idea of a good match might be an utter disaster.
A friend did once suggest I started talking to someone. And I did. A thread could be interesting! "
Ok, I'll slightly alter my original answer. I might trust Meli. It would be interesting who she'd match me with. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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" I reckon I would trust you...even if it didn't go anywhere it would be nice chatting to someone new
I am crap at matching people unfortunately "
Of course you can trust me! I'd do one joke one because it would tickle me but also one decent one.
Also, that's fine, I'm not wanting to be matched with anyone, no one needs that inflicted on them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a couple of fab friends I would trust with that. Who knows, it would be interesting to hear who they have in mind.  "
I know a lobster who would have liked to get to know you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we have a friend, we had our first experience with who we trust 100% if he set us up with someone.
As for on fab, if the person we have had a meet with (and that meet went well) recommended someone to us, yeah maybe if that said person/s tickled our fancy as when we meet people on here it's not just a quick fuck and go, we get to know the people/s very well and consider them friends even, so.. would trust their judgement, that's our view on it anyway.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I’m not sure about this as I can be quite contrary and find those types of situations to be quite painful at times.
I have had people make recommendations before and they worked out but not in a ‘here you go’, place us in the same room together, sense |
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"I have a couple of fab friends I would trust with that. Who knows, it would be interesting to hear who they have in mind.
I know a lobster who would have liked to get to know you "
Lawrence has gone on to a better place .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m not sure about this as I can be quite contrary and find those types of situations to be quite painful at times.
I have had people make recommendations before and they worked out but not in a ‘here you go’, place us in the same room together, sense "
Oooh no, nothing that blatant for me. It would have to be a suggestion and two people chatting to see if they have anything in common for me |
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"I’m not sure about this as I can be quite contrary and find those types of situations to be quite painful at times.
I have had people make recommendations before and they worked out but not in a ‘here you go’, place us in the same room together, sense "
Me and you! That’s a match made in heaven |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have a friend either fab or otherwise who you would trust to set you up with someone?
Or, do you ever see someone on fab you think would be a perfect match with another fabber? Would you tell them?
Are there any couples who were set up by others?
I am being nosey and also feeling unloved if you hadn't guessed. Feel free to set me up "
I’d absolutely not trust my friends to set me up.... however I would trust my friends gf/wives to. May just be a guy thing but I know my mates would go all out to pair me with a complete opposite. Although they do say opposites attract so maybe that’s where I need to look |
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Nope, I wouldn't trust anybody to pair me up...my friends would definitely find it hilarious to pair me with someone they know I'd dislike  also, they know I'm not the shy retiring type and am always proactive if I'm looking to meet new people
I'd never even consider matching anyone else unless I knew them really well, and even then people can be just too unpredictable in who they find attractive...I've seen plenty of matches where I've thought they were an unlikely pairing. Plus the temptation of joke matches would be too great |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No. People think they know you, but they don’t know you enough to get it right.
I agree. "
There is always a small chance though...or maybe I am being too optimistic |
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"I would trust Fab or vanilla friends to find a goodun, if I believed they could be serious for 5 minutes But they wouldn't and I'd end up with the complete opposite of what I would like!
On the flip side I love matchmaking! "
Please sexy lady make me a match.
Or please be my match.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. People think they know you, but they don’t know you enough to get it right.
I agree.
There is always a small chance though...or maybe I am being too optimistic "
No. I'm too sceptic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. People think they know you, but they don’t know you enough to get it right.
I agree.
There is always a small chance though...or maybe I am being too optimistic "
I'm a curious sort and I'd find it interesting. Whether anything would come of it is a different matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set me up plz familiar Quim lady?
Oh I will set you up young man!"
Please do! You can even set me up naked beneath your squatting self - I love it when you call me young  |
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"Do you have a friend either fab or otherwise who you would trust to set you up with someone?
Or, do you ever see someone on fab you think would be a perfect match with another fabber? Would you tell them?
Are there any couples who were set up by others?
I am being nosey and also feeling unloved if you hadn't guessed. Feel free to set me up "
I’m going to regret this, I think Lexi would be a great wingwoman, but wouldn’t know cause she never tries!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve met someone who then put me in touch with their friend and I ended up meeting her too, wasn’t at all weird, possibly a little strange to hear someone say ‘my mate would definitely fuck you’ while having sex! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure about this as I can be quite contrary and find those types of situations to be quite painful at times.
I have had people make recommendations before and they worked out but not in a ‘here you go’, place us in the same room together, sense
Me and you! That’s a match made in heaven "
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"I’m not sure about this as I can be quite contrary and find those types of situations to be quite painful at times.
I have had people make recommendations before and they worked out but not in a ‘here you go’, place us in the same room together, sense
Me and you! That’s a match made in heaven
Denied"
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I’m not sure about this as I can be quite contrary and find those types of situations to be quite painful at times.
I have had people make recommendations before and they worked out but not in a ‘here you go’, place us in the same room together, sense
Oooh no, nothing that blatant for me. It would have to be a suggestion and two people chatting to see if they have anything in common for me"
Yes, that’s about the limit for me too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone did once suggest I message a fellow fabber, took the bull by the horns and did, we ended up together in a relationship for 2 years  "
So it does work sometimes |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you have a friend either fab or otherwise who you would trust to set you up with someone?
Or, do you ever see someone on fab you think would be a perfect match with another fabber? Would you tell them?
Are there any couples who were set up by others?
I am being nosey and also feeling unloved if you hadn't guessed. Feel free to set me up
I’m going to regret this, I think Lexi would be a great wingwoman, but wouldn’t know cause she never tries!!!"
Ha!! I’d love too! I don’t like most of the women you choose!!
One in particular I adore! |
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"Do you have a friend either fab or otherwise who you would trust to set you up with someone?
Or, do you ever see someone on fab you think would be a perfect match with another fabber? Would you tell them?
Are there any couples who were set up by others?
I am being nosey and also feeling unloved if you hadn't guessed. Feel free to set me up
I’m going to regret this, I think Lexi would be a great wingwoman, but wouldn’t know cause she never tries!!!
Ha!! I’d love too! I don’t like most of the women you choose!!
One in particular I adore! "
So there’s one you adore and you haven’t done anything about it?
Great wingwoman haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nope, been on a few real life blind dates set up by good friends over the years ... everytime left thinking wtf!!! I think, especially when we have two good friends, it's easy to think would be great to see them together. Plus how each person sees us will differ to how the next person sees us so who knows what fits? And attraction is purely chemical and with that individual at the time ... so don't think anyone can plan that in!
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